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Is Germany being unreasonable? Childfree adults paying more for elder care

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Fauxlein · 27/05/2026 10:44

"Childfree adults to pay more in elder care contributions — report
According to a report from German media group RND, federal Health Minister Nina Warken has prepared a draft bill that would have adults without children pay a higher percentage of taxes towards publicly-funded elder care.
The bill would have contributions from childfree adults increase by 0.7% over a period of years, meaning they would pay 2.5% of their income each month. Their employer will be expected to pay 1.8%. For adults with children the rates will remain the same: 1.8% for people with one child, 1.55% for people with two children, and 1.3% for people with three or more children.
Under the proposal, all adults over the age of 23 who are working full-time would be affected.
It is unclear when Warken, a member of Chancellor Friedrich Merz's center-right Christian Democrats (CDU), will submit the draft to the cabinet. Her ministry had originally said it would present a proposal for elder care reform in mid-May. With a long-stagnating birthrate mildly buoyed by immigration, Germany needs to act fast to make sure older generations can be taken care of without placing an undue burden on young people."

YABU - German Health Minister is being unreasonable, it's not kids responsibility to look after elderly parents and is unfair to penalise child free people
YANBU - this seems like a fair counterbalance to increasing costs to the state of elder care

Friedrich Merz

Friedrich Merz is the 10th chancellor of the Federal Republic of Germany. He is also the chairman of Germany's center-right Christian Democratic Union (CDU).

https://www.dw.com/en/friedrich-merz/t-60575802

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babyproblems · 27/05/2026 12:12

It’s not unfair imo.

I suspect employers will do everything possible to not pay though.. so possibly discriminate against people when hiring.
What about if you couldn’t have children because of a medical issue? I think that should be an exemption.

Fifthtimelucky · 27/05/2026 12:12

I think I share the view of those who made the point that childfree adults are paying through their taxes for the education and health care for other people’s children, as well as for maternity and paternity benefits that they do not benefit from themselves, so this seems a bit unfair.

I suspect it is also the case that childfree women tend to have earned more over their lifetimes than women with children, so are more likely to have savings and have to pay their own care home fees. They are also likely to have paid more tax and NI contributions than women with children.

My husband and I each had an unmarried aunt born in the early 1920s. They both worked full time for over 40 years and they both ended their days in care homes fully funded by themselves.

Grammarninja · 27/05/2026 12:11

JHound · 27/05/2026 12:10

My state pensions is not a consideration. My actual pension is private.

That's not the case for many.

JHound · 27/05/2026 12:10

Grammarninja · 27/05/2026 11:54

Not your state pension. The younger generations pay for the older ones. That's how it works. If there's no one to pay it, it won't exist to give it to you. You pay taxes to pay for the elderly. When you are elderly, someone needs to be there to pay for you.

My state pensions is not a consideration. My actual pension is private.

Ophy83 · 27/05/2026 12:10

I don't like the idea of penalising people for not having kids when that may be completely out of their control. If governments want/need people to have kids then by all means incentivise that with childcare, food vouchers, affordable housing etc as well as assistance getting mums back to work

Focacciaisyum · 27/05/2026 12:09

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 27/05/2026 11:21

Conversely those without children have not consumed education, early-years medical care etc and other state supported elements such as childcare.

And there is no obligation on children to look after their parents ... many don't (so do those unsupported parents get a late tax bill?)

I'm not a great fan of using tax systems to encourage people to change their life choices.

A little like I'm not keen on low emission zones taxing people for polluting. If it's wrong ban it, don't just set a tax raising measure that means nothing to rich people and set just low enough to avoid a revolt from others.

Conversely those without children have not consumed education, early-years medical care etc and other state supported elements such as childcare.

Yes they have. When they wwre children. They would have had their education and healthcare costs paid for just as todays children do.

Mumsntfan1 · 27/05/2026 12:09

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 27/05/2026 11:59

Ridiculous proposal. How do you prove someone doesnt have children? Do you have to submit a form, what if you have kids but don't see them? Why not tax families with children for polluting, they use more resources and take up housing. Such a nonsense proposal.

It's very easy to check with our tax system. You don't prove that somebody does not have a child. The person proves that they do by applying for tax credits/medical insurance etc.

ruethewhirl · 27/05/2026 12:08

ToffeeCrabApple · 27/05/2026 10:52

I don't see why its unfair?

Every single person I know has done years of free caring for their elderly parents & saved the state a fortune, whereas the childfree older relatives have had to go into state funded care earlier. There has to be a way to incentivise people to have enough children to provide the workforce (including careworkers) of the future.

Every single person? That feels anomalous to me. I'm currently involved in caring for my DM, but not many of my peers have done the same.

GardenTable · 27/05/2026 12:08

Mumsntfan1 · 27/05/2026 11:49

It's already the case that childless people pay extra tax to cover care needs here in Germany. I pay 32,12€ a month extra on a good salery so it's not going to persuade people to have children. Although we have very generous incentives in other ways.The system is totally different to the UK. The state funds most of the care home fees. If you still can't afford it your aldult children can be made to contibute.

Edited

Thanks @Mumsntfan1 , that's really relevant and throws the whole thread into a new light.

igelkott2026 · 27/05/2026 12:08

anniegun · 27/05/2026 11:16

I mean who are going to be the cleaners , carers and health workers for our old age if people do not have children?

I wouldn't worry about that. AI or climate change or both will take out the human race before today's babies reach old age.

And if it doesn't we'll have robots.

wishingonastar101 · 27/05/2026 12:08

InOverMyHead84 · 27/05/2026 10:48

As people have less children, placing the onus of caring for the elderly onto the state, the money to pay for it needs to come from somewhere.

fewer

Focacciaisyum · 27/05/2026 12:07

Faroutin · 27/05/2026 11:18

This, I pay for others chuff monkeys,so I should get care later on ,just yet another way of stigmatising me , I would imagine the percentage of childfree is quite low anyway I don't know many people without children, even though I actively seek them out. The societal pressure to have children is still very high.

You dont pay for 'other people's chuff monkeys' because children aren't possessions that belong to their parents! This is a ridiculous view that a lot of people seem to hold. Your contributions pay for the children WHO ARE PEOPLE IN THEIR OWN RIGHT just as others paid for you as a child. HTH.

Grammarninja · 27/05/2026 12:07

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 27/05/2026 11:59

Ridiculous proposal. How do you prove someone doesnt have children? Do you have to submit a form, what if you have kids but don't see them? Why not tax families with children for polluting, they use more resources and take up housing. Such a nonsense proposal.

I'd say it's more about raising kids than having them.

JustAnotherWhinger · 27/05/2026 12:07

It seems a very blunt tool.

My ex has 7 children (that I know of) - 2 with me and 5 with later partners - and he sees none of them. He had to be forced into paying by CMS. My two girls with him are working and paying tax, but through no help from him. They’ve not seen him for many years.

If it’s purely to reward him for having children then it works in his case, however if it’s in expectation that someone with children will need less state care then it’ll not work at all in his case. His children won’t care for him, and he won’t fund care from inheritance because his parents have disowned him because of his behaviour.

JHound · 27/05/2026 12:07

Monty36 · 27/05/2026 12:03

I dare say the next stage would be as suggested by JD Vance that childless women ( women only mind) are not allowed to vote. As apparently the thinking is they have no part to play in the future of the country.
That is where such policies travel.

Edited

They are definitely going to ramp up the state targetting of childless people and it will only get worse as birth rates continue to fall.

And as they cannot possibly distinguish childfree from childless a lot of people will face a double punishment: the sadness of childlessness, and then financial penalties for being unable to have children.

BoredZelda · 27/05/2026 12:06

Jellyjellyonaplate · 27/05/2026 10:57

How about when all those children grow up and need care? Seems like in the long term it will be more expensive for the state

Then they will be subject to the same rule. Have kids to help give you care in your dotage or pay more so the state provides it. Makes sense to me.

Procrastinatingpenny · 27/05/2026 12:06

Well I don’t have children and because of the available time I have I provide tonnes of care for my elderly parents, neighbour and godparents, all of whom are only still at home because I and a few others are able to help them out. On the face of it, being effectively penalised for not having children to care for me when my time comes seems grossly unfair!

gruntley123 · 27/05/2026 12:06

It's hard to comment reasonably in isolation without understanding the rest of the German social care framework, law and taxes.

As someone with a passing knowledge I'd throw in Elternunerhault, a provision in the German system that passes on some of the financial costs of supporting an elderly parent in care back to the children. It applies to children with incomes over €100k and, unusually for Germany, excludes the spouse's income.

What you highlight is a proposed increase in the cost childless couples already pay. The original legislation came in just as our third round of ICSI had failed, oh how I laughed.

Although the timing was unfortunate for us I don't disagree with the levy.

igelkott2026 · 27/05/2026 12:05

I think this idea is outrageous. Having children is bad for the environment and no country should be encouraging people to have more - or worse, punishing them for not having any.

Quite apart from the fact that some people can't have children. And what happens if your child dies before you do?

JHound · 27/05/2026 12:04

Mumsntfan1 · 27/05/2026 12:03

They don't pay the extra tax. Not paying for your children isn't easy unless you don't work in which case you don't pay tax!

Loads of men skip out on maintenance.

Monty36 · 27/05/2026 12:03

I dare say the next stage would be as suggested by JD Vance that childless women ( women only mind) are not allowed to vote. As apparently the thinking is they have no part to play in the future of the country.
That is where such policies travel.

WearyAuldWumman · 27/05/2026 12:03

I'll add that such a rule penalises women more than men. I was in my 30s when I married, so I'll concede that my age might have contributed towards my childless state. What are women supposed to do? Grab a man from the streets?

A man can avoid penalties by becoming a father later in life...

FinchiePink · 27/05/2026 12:03

It's hard to comment as I have little knowledge of the German tax system, its approach to elder care, or the nuances of their economy.

In principle I don't disagree that families should care for each other as much as possible and not rely on the govt to pay for them, but it's clearly not a one-size-fits-all and comes with problems.

So I suppose I'm not theoretically averse to it given that those who don't have children are more likely to need govt funds to pay for them in old age. Whether or not it's actually fair though is impossible to say without having a more detailed knowledge of Germany and their social system.

Mumsntfan1 · 27/05/2026 12:03

Credittocress · 27/05/2026 11:21

How does this work for parents who are named on a birth certificate but don’t live with the child and pay maintenance for example?

They don't pay the extra tax. Not paying for your children isn't easy unless you don't work in which case you don't pay tax!

JHound · 27/05/2026 12:02

Mumsntfan1 · 27/05/2026 12:00

You are except from paying as soon as you have a child. It dosen't matter where the child lives or even if they are alive.

Many will never be able to have a child.