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AIBU to question recovering divers’ bodies

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SP2024 · 26/05/2026 21:55

The case of the divers who have perished underwater is very sad. The company clearly didn’t have the right equipment. Went too deep and couldn’t get back. However I can’t understand why they risked other lives - and someone did die - trying to recover the bodies. Why not leave them to nature like ship wrecks and those who fall overboard from the small boats? It surely cost loads as well. What am I not understanding?

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Brank · 28/05/2026 08:01

I’m not sure why you think bodies from ship wrecks and small boats are just “left to nature”. There’s usually a proportionate search for any bodies. If anything in this situation it makes more sense to go and get them because they know where they are.

Restlessdreams1994 · 28/05/2026 07:56

This New York Times article about the retrieval of bodies from Everest is fascinating (it is also very graphic so don’t click if you might find it too upsetting):

Deliverance from 27,000 feet

Restlessdreams1994 · 28/05/2026 07:53

For the families it gives them a body for burial and also to try and answers as to what happened by post mortem examinations, inspection of dive computers and equipment etc. This might help to prevent future similar accidents, which in turn may help the family feel something positive has come out of it.

Most bodies are retrieved by volunteers or by people being paid to do so. Similarly on Everest, some families will pay specialist teams to retrieve bodies of loved ones if it is possible to do so.

My brother travels remotely a lot and has always said not to pay to retrieve/repatriate his body if he dies abroad because he doesn’t want us to have the stress and what he feels is unnecessary expense.

Keepoffmyartichokes · 28/05/2026 07:47

My husband and son are divers so we've been watching this story and it appears they wanted to recover the bodies and the equipments which includes cameras to determine what happened. There was a theory that a current may have dragged them into the caves and if that's the case then knowing this they can warn other divers of the dangers of that area. I also second what others have said because in diving you have to have a buddy who could save your life if it went wrong there is a strong mentality of no one left behind. It does seem like the group who were experienced made a lot of wrong decisions and sealed their fate.

Arlanymor · 27/05/2026 17:53

GasPanic · 27/05/2026 17:45

I think they will be cleaned up probably within the decade.

They are already starting to use drones to take supplies up Everest, and on the way down they carry rubbish etc.

This is a really interesting article and fairly contemporary: https://www.outsideonline.com/outdoor-adventure/everest/mount-everest-dead-bodies-2024/

The use of industrial/commercial drones is really important for Everest and the transportation of equipment and removal of waste - but you still need people to load/offload. Even though drones can fly in the death zone - you'd still require humans to go up there and risk their own lives. It's not a fully automated process. Not that most people who perish are in the death zone, but there is a significant percentage and it would require human intervention to retrieve them.

Crews remove a body from Mount Everest following a deadly avalanche in 2015.

Removing Dead Bodies from Mount Everest Is Dangerous and Expensive. Here’s Why.

Recovery missions on the world's highest peak aren't easy. Here's why they come with a soaring price tag and a heightened potential for disaster.

https://www.outsideonline.com/outdoor-adventure/everest/mount-everest-dead-bodies-2024?scope=anon

GasPanic · 27/05/2026 17:45

Arlanymor · 27/05/2026 17:32

My mum and I regularly have this conversation about the bodies on Everest - there are circa 200 bodies up there, the world's highest graveyard.

I think they will be cleaned up probably within the decade.

They are already starting to use drones to take supplies up Everest, and on the way down they carry rubbish etc.

Arlanymor · 27/05/2026 17:32

My mum and I regularly have this conversation about the bodies on Everest - there are circa 200 bodies up there, the world's highest graveyard.

Notsosweetcaroline · 27/05/2026 17:29

SP2024 · 27/05/2026 17:28

I’m not focused on the money alone. The other aspects of my questions have been addressed and I’ve learned some things. But no one had addressed this aspect. Whilst I agree families will want their loved ones back I assume they are not the ones paying for the recovery mission. I wonder if there is some kind of insurance that covers this or a government fund etc. It must be very expensive. But just because I’m asking the question doesn’t mean I don’t have empathy for the families. They are not mutually exclusive.

I would assume the Maldivian government is paying for it. Does it really matter, the money isn’t important.

SP2024 · 27/05/2026 17:28

Notsosweetcaroline · 27/05/2026 07:53

I’m struggling to comprehend your focus on money here, you’re repeatedly asking.

if it was your child or spouse would you leave them down there, or would you want to give them a proper send off and understand what happened.

try to have some empathy and not focus on money.

I’m not focused on the money alone. The other aspects of my questions have been addressed and I’ve learned some things. But no one had addressed this aspect. Whilst I agree families will want their loved ones back I assume they are not the ones paying for the recovery mission. I wonder if there is some kind of insurance that covers this or a government fund etc. It must be very expensive. But just because I’m asking the question doesn’t mean I don’t have empathy for the families. They are not mutually exclusive.

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Lostsadandconfused · 27/05/2026 11:48

Tigerbalmshark · 27/05/2026 09:43

But did anyone know they had even gone into the cave until they recovered the bodies?

Up until the bodies were found, presumably they had just failed to return, and could have been anywhere? (Including surfaced away from the boat alive but lost)

I assume someone knew that was their plan. Either a member of the boat crew or the 6th diver who pulled out at the last minute.

GasPanic · 27/05/2026 09:54

I don't think it is something that rescue divers are forced into. It's something they do as part of their job, and as part of being a community, and maybe also what they would like to happen if an accident befell them. They are aware of the risks they undertake and the choice is their own.

HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear · 27/05/2026 09:47

GrumpyInsomniac · 26/05/2026 22:27

@Backedoffhackedoff ODFOD.

Clearly he wouldn’t want someone to die, but try asking anyone in that situation whether they wouldn’t want every reasonable effort to be made and you’ll get the same answer.

It comes down to whether the risk is reasonable, and the diver has to make that call. In the meantime, I’m trying to work out a computer vision algorithm to identify human remains in deep water. Because that’s how much pain it has caused and there is currently no solution but divers.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I admire your determination to do something so constructive.

Tigerbalmshark · 27/05/2026 09:43

EmeraldShamrock000 · 27/05/2026 08:03

They were all experienced divers who were highly educated. I’m sure they would have known how to check the equipment.
An investigation is crucial, to avoid further death but I don’t feel a body recovery mission is worth risking lives for under dangerous circumstances.
It’s not about money, it’s the secondary tragedy, a rescuer died trying to recover them.
If it was me, I’d rather be left there, in a place that I loved.

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But did anyone know they had even gone into the cave until they recovered the bodies?

Up until the bodies were found, presumably they had just failed to return, and could have been anywhere? (Including surfaced away from the boat alive but lost)

Tigerbalmshark · 27/05/2026 09:38

SemperIdem · 27/05/2026 07:37

@Tigerbalmshark

That is very interesting to read. I’ve learned something there. I’ve wondered a little since this diving accident why there seems to be such a difference between climbers and divers and now I know.

I do wonder if it is because recreational diving originated from WW2 Italian navy “frogmen” - there’s the whole armed forces “no man left behind” brothers-in-arms stuff. You wouldn’t be a very effective marine commando squad if you dumped your team-mates at the first sign of trouble! And then that has carried over into recreational diving.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 27/05/2026 08:03

Notsosweetcaroline · 27/05/2026 07:53

I’m struggling to comprehend your focus on money here, you’re repeatedly asking.

if it was your child or spouse would you leave them down there, or would you want to give them a proper send off and understand what happened.

try to have some empathy and not focus on money.

They were all experienced divers who were highly educated. I’m sure they would have known how to check the equipment.
An investigation is crucial, to avoid further death but I don’t feel a body recovery mission is worth risking lives for under dangerous circumstances.
It’s not about money, it’s the secondary tragedy, a rescuer died trying to recover them.
If it was me, I’d rather be left there, in a place that I loved.

Lostsadandconfused · 27/05/2026 08:00

Notsosweetcaroline · 27/05/2026 07:53

I’m struggling to comprehend your focus on money here, you’re repeatedly asking.

if it was your child or spouse would you leave them down there, or would you want to give them a proper send off and understand what happened.

try to have some empathy and not focus on money.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to wonder who funds this sort of rescue operation.

I read that they left in such a hurry they had to stop at a supermarket to buy shorts.

Lostsadandconfused · 27/05/2026 07:57

MayaLui · 26/05/2026 22:24

Lots of reasons. Partly for the comfort of the family. It's hugely important for families to have a body to bury and to say goodbye to. It's also legally extremely complicated to have anyone declared dead without a body.

But probably the main reason is so we know what happened. We now have a pretty likely theory on what happened to the five divers who died, which is actually not what you said - they didn't have the right equipment and they did go too deep, but they died because they took a wrong turn in the cave because their correct path back was obscured by a sandbank. This is useful information that can serve as a warning to divers in future and helps us understand dangers, as well as fulfilling legal requirements in determining a cause of death at inquest. It also means we know it wasn't simple equipment failure which would have myriad safety implications.

I don’t really agree with you, they were dead the minute they decided to enter that cave. Even if they’d not gotten lost in the dead end (this is the prevailing current theory) they would have run out of air before they could make it out and back to the surface.

Notsosweetcaroline · 27/05/2026 07:53

I’m struggling to comprehend your focus on money here, you’re repeatedly asking.

if it was your child or spouse would you leave them down there, or would you want to give them a proper send off and understand what happened.

try to have some empathy and not focus on money.

Lostsadandconfused · 27/05/2026 07:49

The Finnish team volunteered to do it but it was not an overly difficult recovery with the right skills and equipment and planning.

They will always attempt to recover bodies in shipwrecks etc if it is possible. The MV St Thomas Aquinas ferry disaster in the Phillipines. Teams of divers worked under very difficult conditions to recover the bodies of the victims, many of them children. There are videos of the recovery dives on YouTube, it’s a hard watch. I’m sure their families were supremely grateful.

SemperIdem · 27/05/2026 07:37

@Tigerbalmshark

That is very interesting to read. I’ve learned something there. I’ve wondered a little since this diving accident why there seems to be such a difference between climbers and divers and now I know.

Notmyreality · 27/05/2026 06:59

They do it to recover the bodies for burial to give family closure and also as part of the investigation into the cause of death to learn and to prevent reoccurrence. Despite your assertion in your OP no one knew exactly where they were or how or why they died. “The company clearly didn’t have the right equipment” is your ignorance talking and not true. No one is forced to go after them it’s voluntary.

followtheswallow · 27/05/2026 06:57

I don’t think anyone is suggesting we routinely just leave bodies. It’s only in cases where locating and moving the body would present such danger to others that this may be the most pragmatic choice. It’s awful for the families of course but broadly speaking I do agree with the OP.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 27/05/2026 06:52

i agree with you. A diver lost his life in the rescue mission.
Search and rescue shouldn’t have risked it.
Rescue missions that risk the lives of the crew should be exclusively used for live missions.
I would feel the same if it was me or my child down in the underwater cave.

SP2024 · 27/05/2026 06:48

There are some good points about working out what happened, I hadn’t really thought of it that way. Also good to know the community is so strong and helping each other. I still wonder who paid for their flights, equipment etc. ?

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MidnightMeltdown · 27/05/2026 00:24

It’s a bit like when there’s an aeroplane crash and investigators have to recover and examine what remains of the plane in order to establish what went wrong.

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