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To think that Tom Hardy is a misogynist?

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 15:39

He's been fired from Mobland for being hard to work with

Apparently he's been like this on other sets and seems to enjoy intimidating women, with Helen Mirren and Charlize Theron being named

I reckon he gives misogynist vibes and no longer find him sexy 😒😒

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/tom-hardy-enraged-co-star-37196479.amp

Tom Hardy 'enraged' co-star Helen Mirren on set leading to MobLand axing

New details about why Tom Hardy was reportedly sacked from Guy Ritchie's gangster series MobLand have emerged

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/tom-hardy-enraged-co-star-37196479.amp

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JLou08 · 26/05/2026 19:45

Outwiththenorm · 26/05/2026 16:20

Is he a method type actor? So if he’s an arse on a show he thinks he can / should be an arse in real life when not filming?

I've not watched the show, but the article said the character is charming, unlike how Tom acts behind the scenes. So he's not doing a good job of the method acting if all in the article is correct.

SmugglersHaunt · 26/05/2026 19:42

I’ve long suspected he’s a twat. He’s another ex public schoolboy masquerading as an East End hard nut like that other fool Guy Ritchie (son of a Lord), of which Julie Burchill famously said: ‘the only way he got that scar on his cheek was if he fell off his pony on to his silver spoon’

VeganSteakAndFries · 26/05/2026 19:34

MrsShawnHatosy · 26/05/2026 16:24

What, even Keanu Reeves?

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oi! Leave keanu out of it!!!

MauriceTheMussel · 26/05/2026 19:04

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 19:00

Babygirl was dull and weird sorry

That said, i only got about halfway through

The premise was very strong and then noone talked about it, and I saw why

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Agree - the trailer was better than the film

Blueblell · 26/05/2026 19:03

It sounds like he has pissed Dame Helen off and she probably has more friends. He sounds like a bit of a twat.

mummybearSW19 · 26/05/2026 19:03

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 26/05/2026 18:40

I’ve met him. Perfectly lovely man from what I have seen. Polite, interesting, thoughtful. Sorry guys.

I have met him too. I thought he was either Shy or rude…. Lovely missus tho.

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 19:00

Bigsteppingatones · 26/05/2026 18:55

Did you mean "Babygirl" or "Wuthering Heights" was dull & weird? The premise of "Babygirl" made me want to see it...

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Babygirl was dull and weird sorry

That said, i only got about halfway through

The premise was very strong and then noone talked about it, and I saw why

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Bigsteppingatones · 26/05/2026 18:55

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:46

The coverage of the new one just disappeared 😫 which is how you know it wasn't good

Same as Babygirl with Nicole Kidman

I sat watching it, twas dull and weird and not remotely sexy

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Did you mean "Babygirl" or "Wuthering Heights" was dull & weird? The premise of "Babygirl" made me want to see it...

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:50

Did you ever watch Call me by your name, @AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta - that peach eating scene scarred me for life

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Charlize43 · 26/05/2026 18:50

inickedthisname · 26/05/2026 16:54

I’ve always thought he’s secretly (or subconsciously) gay…

Didn't he once say he'd been a rent boy?

Although so many say they were when they are on the up, as it makes them appear 'edgy' and 'gender fluid' before they marry and have kids and then go on to leave their wives for someone their daughter's age.

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:47

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/05/2026 17:47

If it helps narrow it down then Timothee Chalamet gives me the ick, so I definitely wouldn't be fighting you for him 💀.

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😄😄😫 the ballet hater

He is a walking ick - even Kylie jenner cant make him cool

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:47

MissUnicorn · 26/05/2026 18:05

I have absolutely nothing to add, except to say @mumofoneAloneandwell, I snorted at every one of your gifs. 😂😂😂

😄 thank you girl

Cant Stop Alycia Debnam-Carey GIF by NETFLIX
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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:46

notatinydancer · 26/05/2026 18:15

No 2009. With his wife playing Cathy. Shocking. I’ve actually never seen a good Wuthering Heights.

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The coverage of the new one just disappeared 😫 which is how you know it wasn't good

Same as Babygirl with Nicole Kidman

I sat watching it, twas dull and weird and not remotely sexy

Season 6 Ugh GIF by Parks and Recreation
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Missohnoyoubetterdont · 26/05/2026 18:40

I’ve met him. Perfectly lovely man from what I have seen. Polite, interesting, thoughtful. Sorry guys.

LostTheButter · 26/05/2026 18:29

Grendel7 · 26/05/2026 18:28

Sorry,who is tom hardy? We are all hot its 30 degrees out there!

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Some misogynist actor bloke with bad teeth, as far as I can gather, thus far.

Grendel7 · 26/05/2026 18:28

LostTheButter · 26/05/2026 15:42

I don't really care. He's hot.

Sorry,who is tom hardy? We are all hot its 30 degrees out there!

notatinydancer · 26/05/2026 18:15

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:26

Was that the recent one? With margot Robbie?

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No 2009. With his wife playing Cathy. Shocking. I’ve actually never seen a good Wuthering Heights.

notatinydancer · 26/05/2026 18:11

ImInTheCooler · 26/05/2026 16:03

i don't care enough to know what he's done or why, but I would sit on that man's face in a heartbeat.

😂

LaurieFairyCake · 26/05/2026 18:08

Agree to the short man vibes

I wouldn’t touch him with yours

He’s an ugger, don’t fancy him at all

123teenagerfood · 26/05/2026 18:08

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 16:18

See he gives me gross short man syndrome vibes

Hes no john hamm

John Hamm, the guy done for horrific hazing! He is derranged.

MissUnicorn · 26/05/2026 18:05

I have absolutely nothing to add, except to say @mumofoneAloneandwell, I snorted at every one of your gifs. 😂😂😂

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/05/2026 17:47

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:17

I'm honestly gonna have to find someone new! 😄

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If it helps narrow it down then Timothee Chalamet gives me the ick, so I definitely wouldn't be fighting you for him 💀.

Smellofthegorse · 26/05/2026 17:45

I hope these stories about being disrespectful generally aren’t true or they are exaggerated. Tom Hardy plus dog or dogs I find incredibly attractive.

MarmiteMakesMeHappy · 26/05/2026 17:33

@mumofoneAloneandwellI am a woman. There were quite a few woman on set and nobody had any issues. We all ate and drank together several nights a week (he did choose to hang with crew often) so plenty of opportunity for bad behaviour to make an appearance, but honestly, nothing.

But as I said - a few years back so things could have changed.

Hilbobilbo · 26/05/2026 17:32

I thought he was privately educated but pretends to be a rough bloke. A friend saw him and his wife out having lunch, kids etc, said that he was doing absolutely nothing, letting the wife run around and make sure the kids were ok. He always strikes me as hard work so im surprised so many people go mad over him.

Jon Hamm, although im obsessed with Mad Men, really hurt someone badly in his youth. And also is an alcoholic. Again strikes me as a Peter Pan type, long term partner then splits after like 15 years and he gets with some young one who likes to party!