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To think sleeping in a campervan in a residential area is illegal?

58 replies

Watdidusay · 26/05/2026 14:19

A man is sleeping in a campervan parked on our road for the last 4 weeks or so. He goes into one of the houses on the road every once in a while. I have not spoken to the house. I have spoken to the parking officer but they say the van has a permit so there is nothing they can do.

I don't think this is legal to stay in a van long term but I'm not sure how I can prove that. How many nights is legal to stay in a van on the street before the council or police would get involved?

OP posts:
tarheelbaby · 26/05/2026 15:51

I know a few grandparents who took a lump sum at retirement specifically to buy a camper van for visiting their children/grandchildren. As per PPs, they park at their relatives' house, pop in to socialise and anything else and then retreat to their private, mobile room at night or any other time they fancy a bit of peace.

Thinkaboutotherthings · 26/05/2026 15:50

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TomatoSandwiches · 26/05/2026 15:50

How is this affecting you op?

Ethelspagetti · 26/05/2026 15:49

It’s not illegal, as long as the van is taxed he can do that.

Thinkaboutotherthings · 26/05/2026 15:47

Lots if people live off grid in cars, vans, boats.
Unless there are clear signs stating no overnight parking, then this person has done nothing wrong.

Perhaps he is a relative of your neighbour ?

Perhaps he is a visitor to your neighbour ?

We are all human

Harriet36 · 26/05/2026 15:46

We have a motor home parked on the driveway and we often use it as another bedroom for guests. What’s the problem?

Boomer55 · 26/05/2026 15:44

If they’re not causing a nuisance, our London council wouldn’t worry too much.

ruethewhirl · 26/05/2026 15:39

CieloElmers · 26/05/2026 14:23

If he isn’t bothering you or causing trouble leave him alone and mind your business.

Was just about to say the same thing.

Manchegomango · 26/05/2026 15:37

Get a job so you spend more time contributing to society and less time curtain twitching

abracadabra1980 · 26/05/2026 15:37

Cobrakainerd · 26/05/2026 14:27

Given the state of housing in this country, van life is becoming the only affordable option for many. Water is needed, so park up at friends when top ups are needed. Visiting is easy, socialising then back to van. If there are no restrictions on the residential roads and legally parked its not a police or council issue.

Agree 100%

amylou8 · 26/05/2026 15:33

How is he affecting you? I'm sure he's doing it out of necessity rather than choice. It must have been horrendous for him in the heat the last few days too. Unless he's doing something antisocial then you should probably mind your own business.

Uniaccomm · 26/05/2026 15:27

Where do you propose he stays instead? On a piece of cardboard under a bridge? Would you prefer that?

Honestly, what is the problem? Live and let live. I'm sure it's not his dream life, and it won't be long-term. Just let him get bs k on his feet rather than kick him while he's down by complaining.

Lightslit · 26/05/2026 15:26

gwrbakes · 26/05/2026 15:16

Crazy how the women always manage to house and clothe the children but there are ‘several’ men, known to you alone, that can’t even get themselves a flat - heroically living in campers to pay child support.

If you think that mothers getting state support, (and housing) is "crazy"....

McBottle · 26/05/2026 15:24

A friend lives in a van due to a huge rent increase. She and her family travel a bit but then base themselves at various relatives - the number of times they’ve been reported by petty minded individuals who have a problem with people forced into difficult situations is ridiculous, and despite several visits from police they’ve yet to be found doing anything wrong.

Wind your neck in and leave him alone fgs.

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 26/05/2026 15:21

gwrbakes · 26/05/2026 15:16

Crazy how the women always manage to house and clothe the children but there are ‘several’ men, known to you alone, that can’t even get themselves a flat - heroically living in campers to pay child support.

And?

Why do you think this isn't accurate?

Rent is expensive. Take CMS payments out of the average wage and there's not a lot left. The mother is almost always given primary custody so keeps the marital home.

This is a very common situation. Vans, friends floors, back home with parents.

MissMoneyFairy · 26/05/2026 15:21

Watdidusay · 26/05/2026 14:19

A man is sleeping in a campervan parked on our road for the last 4 weeks or so. He goes into one of the houses on the road every once in a while. I have not spoken to the house. I have spoken to the parking officer but they say the van has a permit so there is nothing they can do.

I don't think this is legal to stay in a van long term but I'm not sure how I can prove that. How many nights is legal to stay in a van on the street before the council or police would get involved?

Why do you care, is this affecting your life in any way?

RoseField1 · 26/05/2026 15:18

gwrbakes · 26/05/2026 15:16

Crazy how the women always manage to house and clothe the children but there are ‘several’ men, known to you alone, that can’t even get themselves a flat - heroically living in campers to pay child support.

Usually because if you're on a lower income you get universal credit when you have children living with you, and if needed you get assistance from the local housing department. Do you have any idea what it's like for single people on minimum wage jobs to find private rental properties in 2026?

gwrbakes · 26/05/2026 15:16

Thatsanotherfinemess1 · 26/05/2026 15:04

I know several single men who are living in campers on residential streets following marriage breakdowns and this is the only way they can afford to pay for their child support and live on minimum wage. As long as they are taxed, insured and moted and there are no parking restrictions it's legal. One uses the public toilets and showers at the leisure centre, another gets water from a nearby resident. I think this is pragmatic in the current economic climate. I also know a very senior council officer who spent last summer in a camper in a car park so they could rent out their house on air b n b and will do so again this year, I'm not quite so sympathetic (as th e sign says no overnight stays...)

Crazy how the women always manage to house and clothe the children but there are ‘several’ men, known to you alone, that can’t even get themselves a flat - heroically living in campers to pay child support.

Thatsanotherfinemess1 · 26/05/2026 15:04

I know several single men who are living in campers on residential streets following marriage breakdowns and this is the only way they can afford to pay for their child support and live on minimum wage. As long as they are taxed, insured and moted and there are no parking restrictions it's legal. One uses the public toilets and showers at the leisure centre, another gets water from a nearby resident. I think this is pragmatic in the current economic climate. I also know a very senior council officer who spent last summer in a camper in a car park so they could rent out their house on air b n b and will do so again this year, I'm not quite so sympathetic (as th e sign says no overnight stays...)

GasPanic · 26/05/2026 14:31

He's probably just a mate of a person who lives in a house who has asked to stay for a bit.

I'd probably just be thankful he wasn't dumping waste etc.

Ablondiebutagoody · 26/05/2026 14:29

Why are you spying on him? Creepy.

OttersOnAPlane · 26/05/2026 14:28

If he's parked on the street rather than a drive, and if your local council has a Traffic Regulation Order banning overnight stays on residential streets, he could be fined. But only if they have that in place.

There's no UK law banning it.

Leave the poor sod alone. The housing crisis is bad enough already.

Lightslit · 26/05/2026 14:27

No, not illegal if the vehicle is road legal and there's no other illegal activity.

BillieWiper · 26/05/2026 14:27

He's got a connection to one of the houses so I would accept it. At least if he was Ok. At least for now.

Is he actually causing any trouble? And do you know for certain he's sleeping in it every night?

Unless he was acting horrible or leaving loads of mess, damaging property, making noise etc I would probably leave him to it.

Cobrakainerd · 26/05/2026 14:27

Given the state of housing in this country, van life is becoming the only affordable option for many. Water is needed, so park up at friends when top ups are needed. Visiting is easy, socialising then back to van. If there are no restrictions on the residential roads and legally parked its not a police or council issue.