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HornyHornersPinger · 26/05/2026 17:00

misscockerspaniel · 26/05/2026 13:51

The link to an online form asking the AG to review the boys' sentences was shared widely on MN. Many Mumsnetters completed and submitted the form within hours of the news breaking.

Yes exactly this. I did.

Locutus2000 · 26/05/2026 16:32

coulditbeme2323 · 26/05/2026 15:32

Every little helps

Yes, but titling your thread 'Well Done Mumsnet' kinda infers a greater contribution.

coulditbeme2323 · 26/05/2026 15:32

ThePaleDreamer · 26/05/2026 15:31

Why are you attribution this to MN?

Ive seen this all over the place, mainly facebook to be honest

Every little helps

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ThePaleDreamer · 26/05/2026 15:31

coulditbeme2323 · 26/05/2026 12:20

Well done MN.

Can't remember who posted the link to complain, but well done.

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-15848793/Sentences-teenage-boys-spared-jail-rape-schoolgirls-Court-Appeal.html

Why are you attribution this to MN?

Ive seen this all over the place, mainly facebook to be honest

JustaDream · 26/05/2026 15:31

Not sure MN has anything to do with it...

Ablondiebutagoody · 26/05/2026 15:29

Lahsania · 26/05/2026 14:42

How do these legal teams sleep easy at night?! It’s despicable to indulge in legal sophistry that undermines the fabric of a sane society.

Well it is a case of different rules for different people when it comes to sentences. The Government will set those guidelines.

Granted, the judge seems too lenient in this case but it is totally normal for those mitigating circumstances to lead to reduced sentences.

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 26/05/2026 14:59

But Judge Rowland told Southampton Crown Court that he was reluctant to 'criminalise' the teenagers, said they had low IQ and even praised their conduct during the trial.

What the absolute fuck.

they “criminalised” themselves when they chose to gang rape those 2 girls!

As for them having a low IQ? Is he claiming they were too stupid to know that rape is wrong and illegal?!

It’s also rather insulting to other people who happen to have a lower IQ than average… And did not rape multiple people!

Lahsania · 26/05/2026 14:42

Ablondiebutagoody · 26/05/2026 14:05

I wouldn't be too relieved atm. These boy's legal team have and will play all the get out of jail free cards to keep the sentences to a few months at most. Age, traveller, ADHD, anxiety, low IQ, cognitive impairment......

How do these legal teams sleep easy at night?! It’s despicable to indulge in legal sophistry that undermines the fabric of a sane society.

FinchiePink · 26/05/2026 14:10

misscockerspaniel · 26/05/2026 13:51

The link to an online form asking the AG to review the boys' sentences was shared widely on MN. Many Mumsnetters completed and submitted the form within hours of the news breaking.

At the risk of getting told off (again) for pointing out the inconvenient truth, it only takes one unduly lenient form to be submitted to trigger a review. It doesn't work the same way as a petition does.

The mass form-filling makes no difference in this case. The AG's review was secure the moment the first form went in.

Ablondiebutagoody · 26/05/2026 14:05

I wouldn't be too relieved atm. These boy's legal team have and will play all the get out of jail free cards to keep the sentences to a few months at most. Age, traveller, ADHD, anxiety, low IQ, cognitive impairment......

NotTheOrdinary · 26/05/2026 14:05

misscockerspaniel · 26/05/2026 13:51

The link to an online form asking the AG to review the boys' sentences was shared widely on MN. Many Mumsnetters completed and submitted the form within hours of the news breaking.

There was also a note on the link asking people not to use it unless they were related to the victims. Was that note ignored?

YoBetty · 26/05/2026 13:56

Justanothernamele · 26/05/2026 13:03

It’s absolutely correct should be referred.

The judge was following sentencing guidelines set ultimately by the government so they should also take some share of blame.

How long ago were those sentencing guidelines drawn up, one wonders. and not set by the government by the way, but by the independent Sentencing Council.

misscockerspaniel · 26/05/2026 13:51

Livlives · 26/05/2026 13:02

The outcome is good but I don’t think it’s got anything to do with Mumsnet. They’re too busy posting naked pics of teen girls in order to flog their new phone. Real issues that can’t make them a profit aren’t cared about

The link to an online form asking the AG to review the boys' sentences was shared widely on MN. Many Mumsnetters completed and submitted the form within hours of the news breaking.

Locutus2000 · 26/05/2026 13:42

SandwichSuperstar · 26/05/2026 13:09

This is what confused me and as I couldn't click the link, I thought I'd missed something specific that Mumsnet had done, that millions of others didn't.

There are some posters who seem to think posting a couple of petition links on a forum means they should be credited with the outcome. Bizarre.

MightyDandelionEsq · 26/05/2026 13:32

It’s getting to the point in this country where it feels like paedophilia and rape are almost being legalised based on the lack of serious sentencing.

Every time I hear a politician say they care about women and girls I despair. It’s become really unsafe for women and girls to go out without an escort in some areas especially at night or if drunk.

What the press around this case also fails to highlight is these were traveller boys who apparently were so low IQ (according to the judge) they couldn’t possibly be sentenced as they didn’t understand their crime, but they were high IQ enough to groom, plan and execute twice AND film
the ordeal. If they’re so low IQ then maybe they should be in a secure hospital. It’s looking like minorities are starting to get much softer sentences for these sorts of crimes and I take a real issue with that.

I despair.

C8H10N4O2 · 26/05/2026 13:19

There was a national outcry over these sentences already running before it appeared on MN. My MP had a bucket load of mails and call about it pretty much from the moment the sentencing was made public.

I’m wary of the “form” comments. On the face of it there are several cases where sexual assault and worse were under sentenced but we don’t know what evidence was presented and I don’t know the specific guidelines in place at the time of the offences.

I’m not sure how such crimes can ever come under the non violent offence guidelines (which was suggested to be cause of another low sentence).

Lahsania · 26/05/2026 13:10

coulditbeme2323 · 26/05/2026 12:57

I don't disagree, but it goes way deeper than the judge.

No doubt at all about it. Surely time to review the system and relinquish the fear of Penalty Fits The Crime.

SandwichSuperstar · 26/05/2026 13:09

HoskinsChoice · 26/05/2026 13:07

It isn't apart from by people on MN. It has been on every media outlet, every politician is talking about it. It's bugger all to do with MN!

This is what confused me and as I couldn't click the link, I thought I'd missed something specific that Mumsnet had done, that millions of others didn't.

HoskinsChoice · 26/05/2026 13:07

SandwichSuperstar · 26/05/2026 12:40

My phone is too hot to click the link but I was pleased to read this earlier.

Can I ask why it’s being attributed to MN?

It isn't apart from by people on MN. It has been on every media outlet, every politician is talking about it. It's bugger all to do with MN!

NotTheOrdinary · 26/05/2026 13:04

It's not down to MN though? I think the sentences would have been appealed against anyway without any MN involvement.

Locutus2000 · 26/05/2026 13:04

Livlives · 26/05/2026 13:02

The outcome is good but I don’t think it’s got anything to do with Mumsnet. They’re too busy posting naked pics of teen girls in order to flog their new phone. Real issues that can’t make them a profit aren’t cared about

I think the widespread media outcry, interventions from senior politicians including the PM and the actual victims may have influenced things more than mumsnet.

Justanothernamele · 26/05/2026 13:03

It’s absolutely correct should be referred.

The judge was following sentencing guidelines set ultimately by the government so they should also take some share of blame.

Livlives · 26/05/2026 13:02

The outcome is good but I don’t think it’s got anything to do with Mumsnet. They’re too busy posting naked pics of teen girls in order to flog their new phone. Real issues that can’t make them a profit aren’t cared about

Locutus2000 · 26/05/2026 13:02

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 12:59

Well apparently hes got form

He gave an unduly low sentence to an adult rapist due to him having good character or something

Well apparently he's got form

He certainly does.

Archive link (no paywall) https://archive.ph/H003n

Why did a judge spare teenage rapists from custody?

The community sentences handed down in the Fordingbridge case have provoked an outcry — Gisèle Pelicot says she is ‘deeply shocked’

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/crime/article/nicholas-rowland-teenagers-rape-case-sentences-ghsht2dr5?eafs_enabled=false

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 12:59

Lahsania · 26/05/2026 12:56

That judge is a deeply dubious character, I think he should step down, as unfit.

Well apparently hes got form

He gave an unduly low sentence to an adult rapist due to him having good character or something