AIBU to stop therapy after learning my therapist’s husband is Reform?

The Manchester airport brothers seem to have done ok and, doubtless wouldn’t have been charged if it wasn’t for public opinion. A mob descended on the police station demanding they be released the day it happened. No arrests. I’d like to see a mob descend on the Southampton police station that employed the officers who ignored poor, dying, Henry Nowak’s pleas that he couldn’t breathe. There’s no question arrests and charges would follow pronto.

The Manchester two won’t even serve time for the attacks on the male officer as, after two trials the jury wouldn’t agree on a guilty verdict. Disgusting and the particular jurors that refused to do so should be ashamed.

Well they did in that case. Note, individual case. Except it's not is it. The UK police, governed by their left wing graduate hierarchy, cascaded down by left wing public servants decide that white lives are worth less. Boris Johnson did nothing to address this in power but I guess he had that awkward little thing called Covid to deal with. BLM protesting during Covid is one of the biggest entitled movements for somebody that wasn't even a British citizen. You can try and brush this away as much as you like. We are where we are because of appeasement. Legitimate racism remains a serious issue. Teaching kids in schools that white people cannot be victims of racism is widening a divide that some want to keep in tact. The brainwashing is being combated. All of this digresses from the OP who wants to take her consumerism to selective outlets.

This is rage and insanity.

Look at this:
In 2025 there were over 97000 incidents of rape recorded. In 2024 over 70k in 2023, around 70k. This is from the ONS (not the Daily Mail).

There's a full fact article that discusses it more:
fullfact.org/crime/what-do-we-know-about-ethnicity-people-involved-sexual-offences-against-children/

The majority of crimes committed are by white men, because the population is majority white. Not because one race is inherently more criminal.

It frustrates me to think that you feel that no one else is a victim of crime. You are foolish to think so. Not everyone is about "MEEEEE ", or however it is you express yourself.

"I'mhoppingmad" says a lot about you ...I'm fearful you're a bot....

The Manchester airport brothers seem to have done ok and, doubtless wouldn’t have been charged if it wasn’t for public opinion. A mob descended on the police station demanding they be released the day it happened. No arrests. I’d like to see a mob descend on the Southampton police station that employed the officers who ignored poor, dying, Henry Nowak’s pleas that he couldn’t breathe. There’s no question arrests and charges would follow pronto.

The Manchester two won’t even serve time for the attacks on the male officer as, after two trials the jury wouldn’t agree on a guilty verdict. Disgusting and the particular jurors that refused to do so should be ashamed.

I’d like to see a mob descend on the Southampton police station that employed the officers who ignored poor, dying, Henry Nowak’s pleas that he couldn’t breathe.

Nothing is stopping you from organising this.

You can stop seeing a therapist for any reason. It doesn't matter how unreasonable it is to other people. It's an intimate relationship and you have to have total confidence and trust in them. Now of course she is a professional and I am sure her husband's politics don't bring any bearing to her professional practice. But again it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks, you should do whatever makes you comfortable

I’d like to see a mob descend on the Southampton police station that employed the officers who ignored poor, dying, Henry Nowak’s pleas that he couldn’t breathe.

Nothing is stopping you from organising this.

The Manchester airport brothers seem to have done ok and, doubtless wouldn’t have been charged if it wasn’t for public opinion. A mob descended on the police station demanding they be released the day it happened. No arrests. I’d like to see a mob descend on the Southampton police station that employed the officers who ignored poor, dying, Henry Nowak’s pleas that he couldn’t breathe. There’s no question arrests and charges would follow pronto.

The Manchester two won’t even serve time for the attacks on the male officer as, after two trials the jury wouldn’t agree on a guilty verdict. Disgusting and the particular jurors that refused to do so should be ashamed.

They accepted the story of his assailant immediately and without question, purely because he was not white and henry was.

Do you have any evidence for this claim or is this just your assumption? I can assure you that people from ethnic minorities don’t usually get preferential treatment from the police - far from it, in fact.

Just in the last couple of years :

Brighton Beach (October 2025): Three asylum seekers were found guilty of raping a woman who had become separated from her friends.

Cardiff (October 2025): Fawaz Alsamaou, a 33-year-old asylum seeker from Syria, was sentenced to over three years for sexually assaulting and strangling a woman in the Cathays area.

Warwickshire (2024–2025): Two Afghan teenagers were jailed for the rape of a 15-year-old girl in Leamington Spa, and another Afghan national, Ahmad Mulakhil, pleaded guilty to raping a child in Nuneaton.

Falkirk, Scotland (October 2023): An Afghan national who entered the UK on a small boat was convicted of raping a 15-year-old girl in the town centre.

Belfast (October 2024): Mohammed Ibrahim Hassan, a Somali national with a pending asylum claim, was sentenced to six-and-a-half years for a 2019 rape.

Walsall (October 2024) Rhiannon Skye Whyte, a 27-year-old mother who worked at the Park Inn hotel in Walsall, which was being used to house asylum seekers. In January 2026, Deng Chol Majek, a Sudanese asylum seeker, was sentenced to life in prison with a minimum term of 29 years for her murder.

But hey, you and your daughters haven't been attacked, so none of the above happened. I'm alright JACK.

I can't imagine being so insensitive to the plight of other women, just because it didn't happen to MEEEE.

How disgusting to use the murder of Henry Nowak to score points. So concerned about him you can’t even be bothered to spell his name correctly. The police handcuffing him was wrong, and should be properly investigated. It has nothing to do with racism or the left.

Yes because doctors are going to poison you if you vote Reform.

Interesting choice of other service providers - doctor is the only one where possibly their political views could have an effect on the advice they give you.

Therapist isn’t like hairdresser, the OP needs to trust the judgement of what the therapist says- how could you trust the judgement of someone who chooses to marry a reform supporter just as they are standing for election? Nope, this isn’t being a bit more one side or the other, reform supporter when the OPs partner is an immigrant - how could you open up and share details of your own life with them ?

I do listen to tales about my hairdressers latest relationship drama and think “you are a walking disaster zone but cut my hair beautifully.” But then it doesn’t matter I wouldn’t take advice from her about anything other than how to keep my hair in good condition.

Who else's politics and views do you check before dealing with them?

Your doctor?
Dentist?
Hairdresser?
Accountant?
Bank staff?
Retail workers?
Pub landlord?
Restaurant chef?

Bonkers. Utterly bonkers

Afghanistan, Somalia and Sudan are culturally very different to the UK.

Lawful - we make our own law. Pass legislation saying the ECHR cannot overrule UK parliamentary legislation. Deny entry to those entering illegally.

They accepted the story of his assailant immediately and without question, purely because he was not white and henry was.

Do you have any evidence for this claim or is this just your assumption? I can assure you that people from ethnic minorities don’t usually get preferential treatment from the police - far from it, in fact.

How disgusting to write off a serious issue of violence, manipulating the Police and brain-washed police as "point scoring".

This attitude is why is why Reform / Restore are doing well., people are sick of it.

The officers who attended the scene handcuffed and restrained Henry, despite the fact he was bleeding from several wounds.

They accepted the story of his assailant immediately and without question, purely because he was not white and henry was.

The assailant knew to bring up racism, because then that trumps everything, even the facts. The Police stop investigating crime and go into "be seen to be tough on racism" mode.

This kind of behaviour from police and other public services needs to stop.

Which countries would you identify as having ‘a big cultural misalignment’?

And what lawful and practicable solution do you have to small boats that no government has thought of? ETA and what would you do about women and children on small boats?

What an odd post, are you malfunctioning?

You did spell his name wrong, I didn’t need to concentrate on it I simply pointed it out. You chose not to correct yourself.

You were the one that brought up racism.

You are thoroughly ignorant if you think self defence isn’t a well worn tactic in a murder trial. It’s the oldest trick in the book.

There is no merit in focusing on individual cases, they tell us nothing until we look for patterns. Which is how I know that blame the dead man is a common tactic, that this not the first time a defendant has claimed to have been racially abused first, and you think it’s a function of the Left.

You can stop immigration from certain countries where there is a big cultural misalignment. You don't have to allow mass boatloads of unchecked male migrants in.

How disgusting to write off a serious issue of violence, manipulating the Police and brain-washed police as "point scoring".

This attitude is why is why Reform / Restore are doing well., people are sick of it.

The officers who attended the scene handcuffed and restrained Henry, despite the fact he was bleeding from several wounds.

They accepted the story of his assailant immediately and without question, purely because he was not white and henry was.

The assailant knew to bring up racism, because then that trumps everything, even the facts. The Police stop investigating crime and go into "be seen to be tough on racism" mode.

This kind of behaviour from police and other public services needs to stop.

I’m not sure what you think the premise of my argument is.

So your solution is to stop all immigration? I mean that’s fine. But it has other consequences, and for more people.

How disgusting to write off a serious issue of violence, manipulating the Police and brain-washed police as "point scoring".

This attitude is why is why Reform / Restore are doing well., people are sick of it.

The officers who attended the scene handcuffed and restrained Henry, despite the fact he was bleeding from several wounds.

They accepted the story of his assailant immediately and without question, purely because he was not white and henry was.

The assailant knew to bring up racism, because then that trumps everything, even the facts. The Police stop investigating crime and go into "be seen to be tough on racism" mode.

This kind of behaviour from police and other public services needs to stop.

I reject the premise of your argument.

We have to deal with British born criminals and have to police our own, but that does not mean that we have to bring more in.