To feel weird about being second woman on sex chair

Same

For me it's the thought of someone saying (or implying) that "This is my sex chair that I put women over to shag" that would be a turn off.

I think it is Amazon delivery responsible for these developments.

No way would my grandparents have loaded and unloaded a purchase of that doggy-style sofa into and out of their car after a visit to John Lewis.

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Id be mortified having the removal blokes in and seeing that!

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1. Slightly disappointed this isn’t about an actual sex swing type chair
2. Buy a black light
3. If it’s absorbable material (ie not vinyl/leather) and you can’t just get the antibac out and you’ve checked it with the black light and it makes you want to vomit then refuse to have it in the house and throw away/ don’t sit on it/don’t have sex on it* delete as applicable
4. Dont have sex on it, just so that it’s got its own, reinforced point. Especially if it’s his own home where you don’t live and have no say on it remaining.
5. Sorry, I like bullet points but it wasn’t all meant to be but seems mn does it auto and I quite like it 😄
6. Oh, and if it’s the same colour as the one in the pic then it’s not very nice anyway so just say it doesn’t suit the decor.
7. ETA, as I’ve now seen it is your house and not his (I wasn’t sure in that before) then I’d just concentrate on points 3 and 6 and chuck it!

The bed has sheets on it.

The sex chair is frankly ick. That one looks all velvety which is going to get covered in bodily fluids. Does it not have a peel off cover for washing? Because it should ...

Please stop saying "juices"!! 🤢😆

Ha ha the whole thing would put me off! Buying a sex chair, ick!!

I think for those of us at the more vanilla end of the spectrum, the existence of a sex chair is an indication that sex, and sexual adventure and sexual experimentation, is going to play a much more significant role in the relationship than we would want. I like sex, I think sex is very important in my marriage, I have sex reasonably often (a couple times a week), but it isn't like a shared hobby where we plan and buy equipment and push boundaries. I don't want to feel like I have to perform sex and the thought of having sex in a dedicated chair that looks as if it's made for doggy style would make me feel quite degraded. We (my DH and I) don't really have kinks (I mean, maybe he has, but they aren't part of our sex life). If someone wanted the kind of relationship in which their partner was aroused by the thought of bending over a sex chair then they want a different partner to me. And that's ok!

I agree, same with car seats, bean bags, etc. Lots of places where sex "may" have occurred with "spillages". Do people expect their new boyfriends to swap their cars when they meet, what about a second hand car that previous owners may have enjoyed some "fun" time in? One of my boyfriends had a huge bean bag (cloth covered) that we used for a bit of "fun" often and it never crossed my mind who had used it before me, likewise boyfriend's sofas, cars, etc.

Purple stick figure gets all the fun without much work.

Definitely best not to get these two mixed up. That's much more of a niche fetish. 😂

Bloody amazon keeps recommending this type of thing to me-which shows how wrong the algorithm can get things. A bloke wheeled that out and my vag would clamp up forever.

Its a bit ugly. See if they have new sex chairs in ikea. Seriously. Dont worry about it.

I think the issue is that it’s purely an item for sex. You wouldn’t, (plural you) use a sex toy he has used by a previous partner.

I would assume that it’s designed to not soak in further that the covers, and they would be removable for easy cleaning. Wouldn’t really make sense otherwise!!

I recently saw one that folded into a rectangle, with another cover to put around it so it looked like an ottoman. I thought it was a cool idea. 30 year old me would have loved the idea of using it for the positions. 40 year old me has fibromyalgia, so I see a way to help with pain to make it easier. Not as sexy but very helpful.

I certainly wouldn't try and have sex on top of a waterproof sheet?! That would be bizarre.

As PP says, he's probably fucked someone on every surface in his house.

Really?? 🫣

What else did he have in storage?
I didn't know there was furniture especially made for sex but then I dont have pampas grass outside my house.
Im so innocent!.

Those stick figures help but you still need a lot of imagination 😂. I bet the focus was still on him having a good time and less on the lady pleasure.

I voted YANBU because I would feel weird about it being used before with someone else as well. I think we all protect ourselves by not thinking too graphically about a current partner’s sexual
history, and this brings it very much to life. I wouldn’t mind about the item itself, just the use with a previous partner

It’s huge! Where does it go when the in-laws visit? These are my only sex chair thoughts…

The only thing that would bother me is to why he wants to keep it at your house - why? I have a dodgy knee so might be good for me!

Me too and as I currently have a bad back from excess gardening the laughing hurts. However maybe this chair could be just the thing for my back 😂.