To feel weird about being second woman on sex chair

I don't even understand how that chair is supposed to make sex possible, let alone easier. Is he supposed to try to cram his knees onto that tiny sliver of space either side of her legs? Squat above her, with legs akimbo? It looks like a hindrance rather than a help. I don't get it!

Also, yes, it's gross to use the sex furniture he used with his ex. After all, would you let him use the dildo he used on his ex on you, if he sterilised it well? If not, then don't use the weird sex furniture that hasn't been sterilised, and has been marinating for years.

I was hoping someone would post this. I didn’t want to take the chance given I was sitting in an auditorium and didn’t want the people behind me to see it.

OP, I voted YNBU because you dont have to do, or use anything you're not comfortable with.

Please......I'm dying here....... 😂😂😂

If it came with an iPad holder I might be tempted…I could watch Yellowstone whilst he was ‘busy’ (and would definitely not be fantasising that Rip was riding me like a stallion 🤣).

Otherwise I’d take it to the dump.

Also…the overuse of the word ‘juices’ has seriously tickled me…can’t stop laughing every time I read it 😂😂

I‘m old!

The fact he owns a sex chair would be enough of a turn off for me

I'd get him to sell it online and then if YOU want a sex chair in YOUR house to use with him, you guys can look to buy a new one.

it doesn't matter if you're unreasonable or not. it's sex. don't do or be bullied into doing it anywhere or any how you don't want to.

do you want to do it a lot in this position? don't answer that here, but I'd consider his level of expectations and why he's only getting it out now

Well I am clearly very pure-minded as my guess would have been an upholstered sledge.

Ladies sitting primly with their hands in muffs ... so to speak.

Please tell me this is a wind up and you are having a poke at the thread the other day.

But the vast majority of those are protected against by the customary use of pants when sitting on furniture.

If I knew your and your OH drove about in your car in the nude, I probably would be asking someone else for a lift - though admittedly at that point the upholstery might not be the biggest concern looming in my mind ...

Good lord OP, raise your bar.
I would clamp shut at even seeing such a thing.
Total turn off.

I dunno........in the last diagram purple doesn't seem to be getting any action at all.....not even a good view.

Perhaps just having a catnap in preparation for the next round ?

🤣

Yes. I’d not be keen. Juices or no juices.

I’m not a user, but I recently saw an advertisement for one. I have fibromyalgia, have constant pain. I physically can’t be in one position for long, I mean both sex and normal life. My hips and lower back are definitely the ones that suffer during sex. Something like this would definitely help me.

Making me laugh. Remembering a date a few years ago who bought a foam thing to try out alongside a veritable ‘tool kit.’ I kept sliding down it and giggling too much which put him off and I’m quite certain it was the wedge that never came between us in the end 😂

What ever happened to a bottle of wine and a negligée?

Agreed. Major turn off 🤮

Yes. And it is also the same profile as a scrabble tile rack. So get a couple of long lines of them and play giant scrabble.

Can any sex chair users explain to me why you can't just get on your knees on a bed, or bend over a regular chair or the arm of the sofa? I suppose it can get a tad uncomfortable after a while. But how many hours are people actually spending being railed from behind that they need a piece of equipment that takes up that much space in their house?

Many sofas and car seats are also cloth and don't have removable covers for washing.

I'd only be grossed out with either if there were obvious stains on it, regardless of what the stains were, whether sex related, or more normally just drinks or food, or even sick/urine/poo etc. You never know what previous people have done unless you buy new.

I’d never heard of one until this week

Well I’ve heard it all now. 😳

I think I’d be quite bored with the restriction of positions 😄