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amraa · 23/05/2026 14:23

I’ve had the YSL Loulou small handbag on my wish list for a long time! I found a seller online that has 100% positive feedbacks that are verified, I can see the past purchases that customers made and they are for other designer bags. So when I saw they have the Loulou, I sent them an offer, it was accepted and sent out the next day. The person even provided the receipt.

I was happy with the bag, however I was adamant to ensure it’s not a fake bc nothing is stopping someone having a genuine receipt but sending a fake bag with it or even forging a receipt. The bag itself to me looks very real, but I have only compared to what I can see online, the only thing that throws me off about the bag is the designer name inside the bag.

I’ll attach photos and if anyone can tell me what they think or if they have the same real bag, compare it to see it matches. The person seems so genuine, I’ve got til
monday to return the bag. I constantly keep going back and forth!

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HoskinsChoice · 24/05/2026 12:25

Girlwithavibe · 24/05/2026 09:40

I think the hole point of the ops post is ......
She would like to buy a designer bag at a reasonable price ! It's nice to have a treat but if she has paid alot of money which she indicates she has then no id be feeling scammed as well and it would definitely make me.not.like the bag !
Would anyone want to pay 100 pounds for a Tesco bag when U know u can get one for 60 p ect that's how op.feels she has been scammed ! There is nothing wrong in wanting something nice for yourself
And while she could accept a cheap bag why should the seller profit ops hard earned money I hate scammers !!!
Goodluck op I hope u get your money back x

But you can't buy a real designer bag at a 'reasonable price'. That's life. Designer products are expensive because they're designer. So either buy through a legitimate route and accept you're going to pay designer prices or just buy a cheaper bag. If you buy a brand for less than it retails at normally, it's either fake, faulty or used. It's that simple.

HoskinsChoice · 24/05/2026 12:21

Booboobagins · 23/05/2026 18:40

Surely you're not naive enough to think that paying £000's for fakes is OK?!

If you have genuinely been scammed then of course it's not. And by 'genuinely scammed' I mean you've bought direct from the brand or via a legitimate, authorised seller but still ended up with a fake, then that's not OK. But if you buy a 'brand' online, you know it's fake so its up to the buyer to decide whether they want to spend £000s.

Girlwithavibe · 24/05/2026 09:40

I think the hole point of the ops post is ......
She would like to buy a designer bag at a reasonable price ! It's nice to have a treat but if she has paid alot of money which she indicates she has then no id be feeling scammed as well and it would definitely make me.not.like the bag !
Would anyone want to pay 100 pounds for a Tesco bag when U know u can get one for 60 p ect that's how op.feels she has been scammed ! There is nothing wrong in wanting something nice for yourself
And while she could accept a cheap bag why should the seller profit ops hard earned money I hate scammers !!!
Goodluck op I hope u get your money back x

Feis123 · 24/05/2026 09:39

WallaceinAnderland · 24/05/2026 02:06

And if it is authentic then you're happy with it.

It's not the bag per se, it's the label.

At this moment in time, with your Schrodinger's bag, are you happy with it or not?

If it's genuine Yay, I love it, hurrah!

If it's not, Oh no, I don't want this.

It's got nothing to do with what it looks like or the quality, it's only the label. That's all I'm saying.

It is a very interesting point - like in one famous auction house one painting was returned because post sale, some authenticators doubted the authorship because the copy, as they said, was painted better, than the original. The painting was returned just because of that, because it was not by that author. Very strange, but true, that sometimes it is the name that is the point.

IAMFLUFF · 24/05/2026 08:07

Hassell · 24/05/2026 06:49

Even if by some miracle you get confirmation this is authentic, surely the bag is ruined for you because a bit tatty and you can see from this thread that most people will think you’re carrying around a knock off

Agree. If you want genuine go to a genuine retailer and pay the correct price

Hassell · 24/05/2026 06:49

Even if by some miracle you get confirmation this is authentic, surely the bag is ruined for you because a bit tatty and you can see from this thread that most people will think you’re carrying around a knock off

Hassell · 24/05/2026 06:47

WallaceinAnderland · 23/05/2026 22:53

No, I get why people want brand items, that's a given. And I know that people are happy to pay a lot of money for a label, again, totally normal.

What I think is odd that OP has an item, let's call it Schrodinger's handbag at this stage, in which the only criteria affecting whether she likes it or not is the label.

She can't tell. The quality is good. If it is genuine she will be thrilled. If it's not, she doesn't want it. Therefore, she doesn't want the actual item, the only thing she wants is the label. And that's what I find odd about this particular purchase.

Because she presumably paid much more because of the label.

So she could have got a bag she liked, non branded, for much cheaper.

I can’t see why you are struggling to much with this concept @WallaceinAnderland !

Amba1998 · 24/05/2026 06:01

That’s a fake

but if you can’t tell and you paid £80 for it then who cares

if you’ve paid almost full price I’d return.

if you want legit, you need to go to an actual shop like Harvey Nichols

if you can’t afford the real deal then either don’t get one or keep the fake but don’t think anyone is going to sell you a genuine one for cheap

whattheysay · 24/05/2026 05:56

WallaceinAnderland · 24/05/2026 02:06

And if it is authentic then you're happy with it.

It's not the bag per se, it's the label.

At this moment in time, with your Schrodinger's bag, are you happy with it or not?

If it's genuine Yay, I love it, hurrah!

If it's not, Oh no, I don't want this.

It's got nothing to do with what it looks like or the quality, it's only the label. That's all I'm saying.

Of course it’s the label that’s the whole (only) point of these bags.
Let’s say the op paid £1000 for it, which would be quite a good price for a practically new real bag, then obviously she doesn’t want it to be fake and worth 50 quid.
If she’d have pad £50 then she’d be over the moon at the bag. I don’t buy designer bags but even I would have been annoyed at that.

We all (most) buy branded trainers, we like the style so we choose that particular one and we pay what they sell for. If I get a fake pair worth £20 then I want my money back. I may love the trainers but every time I looked at them I would know I’d been ripped off.

I think it also depends on the level of ripped offness. If she’d have paid £150 then the pill isn’t as bitter and she’d maybe keep the bag, but £1500 then no

WallaceinAnderland · 24/05/2026 02:06

amraa · 24/05/2026 00:17

@WallaceinAnderlandi paid a lot of money for the bag I have, if it’s not authentic then I’ve paid a hell of a lot of money for something that I could buy at 5% of what I paid and even less. If I knowingly buy a cheaper bag/replica and I’m happy with it that’s a totally different matter. In my case I was sold an item on false pretences.

And if it is authentic then you're happy with it.

It's not the bag per se, it's the label.

At this moment in time, with your Schrodinger's bag, are you happy with it or not?

If it's genuine Yay, I love it, hurrah!

If it's not, Oh no, I don't want this.

It's got nothing to do with what it looks like or the quality, it's only the label. That's all I'm saying.

amraa · 24/05/2026 00:41

@Swampthing55i thought it is going through the authentication programme, I was looking at so many and didn’t realise this one wasn’t. So when my offer was accepted, it automatically took the payment from my saved details. Buyer doesn’t pay for the authentication, I got it from eBay, not Vinted.

Anyway when the bag arrived the next day, I called eBay to ask why it didn’t go through the authentication process, I was told any designer listed at £700+ automatically gets put through the authentication process but my seller somehow was able to avoid this, I won’t say how as I don’t want to give scammers ideas! After that call they put restrictions on the sellers account but this was then lifted few days later. They still have lots of designer items that aren’t going via the authentication route. The seller obviously denied trying to find ways to avoid it, I gave them the option of me sending the bag to eBay to authenticate but they said they’d like the bag back.
I didn’t pay a little amount, the bag retails for over 2k, receipt shows bag was bought at £1900 which is correct as that was the price before the increase; I don’t want to say the exact figure but it was listed as a bag lightly used once, so you can imagine what I might’ve paid.

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amraa · 24/05/2026 00:17

@WallaceinAnderlandi paid a lot of money for the bag I have, if it’s not authentic then I’ve paid a hell of a lot of money for something that I could buy at 5% of what I paid and even less. If I knowingly buy a cheaper bag/replica and I’m happy with it that’s a totally different matter. In my case I was sold an item on false pretences.

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Oriunda · 23/05/2026 23:33

Feis123 · 23/05/2026 18:25

How about quality? Some designer brands are of superb quality.

I can't find anything remotely as nice as a pair of charity-shop bought Bally of Switzerland loafers - unworn - they were priced at £120 - I bought when I googled the brand and honestly, if I had the money, I would buy these designer loafers again and again. A friend has a Globetrotter suitcase, I can't afford it, but would love to buy one if I had the money - but carryon only, for the quality and weightlessness. Proper Scottish cashmere (don't give a shit what brand) is always branded - can't compare with modern M&S cashmere, etc. And again, a dream coat of my friend with the suitcase - MaxMara, she has been wearing it for 20 years and it is like new. My other friends has a real Crombie coat - same thing - looks and feels amazing. I can't afford these purchases, but golly, if I could!

I have a Max Mara coat, bought for me in Rome by DH in 2002. It’s still in perfect condition. Actually a good investment, given how long it has lasted, and will continue to last.

WallaceinAnderland · 23/05/2026 22:53

Remindmeofthebabee · 23/05/2026 20:55

YOU think is odd.

The luxury fashion industry is worth in the hundred billions so you are quite clearly in the minority. It definitely isn’t aimed at teenagers either.

There’s no need to be nasty, if designer isn’t for you then this clearly isn’t the thread for you.

Of course she wants the label, she’s purchased it thinking it was that brand so has obviously paid for it thinking it was YSL. If I paid £30 for a pair of second hand Levi jeans I would be very happy as I’d know the quality would be good, I wouldn’t be happy if I found out they were primark. It’s the same thing.

No, I get why people want brand items, that's a given. And I know that people are happy to pay a lot of money for a label, again, totally normal.

What I think is odd that OP has an item, let's call it Schrodinger's handbag at this stage, in which the only criteria affecting whether she likes it or not is the label.

She can't tell. The quality is good. If it is genuine she will be thrilled. If it's not, she doesn't want it. Therefore, she doesn't want the actual item, the only thing she wants is the label. And that's what I find odd about this particular purchase.

Mildorado · 23/05/2026 22:31

amraa · 23/05/2026 22:29

@CaveyWaveythe squiggle says made in Italy, it’s actually not that clear in real life either, quite hard to see, spacing between the words seem far too close.
I did call Ysl, the lady said they don’t authenticate bags.

I’ve packaged the bag up and will return it on Monday.

How much did you pay for it? I'm guessing it's just a private seller, not through a website?

amraa · 23/05/2026 22:29

@CaveyWaveythe squiggle says made in Italy, it’s actually not that clear in real life either, quite hard to see, spacing between the words seem far too close.
I did call Ysl, the lady said they don’t authenticate bags.

I’ve packaged the bag up and will return it on Monday.

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user593 · 23/05/2026 22:05

@Girlwithavibe The little fixings on the YSL logo are standard on the bags. I’m terrible at judging counterfeits but the little fixings don’t indicate a fake to me. My bag has them too.

Girlwithavibe · 23/05/2026 22:00

Just seen updated pics I think deffo.counterfit because the Hardwear YSL on the front has little round bits look like fixings mine doesn't have these hope u get your money back x 💕

amraa · 23/05/2026 21:14

@Andepeda oh I did AI told me it’s real 😂 then I purposely inserted a picture of a fake ysl I found on google that looks very fake but AI said that’s real too! 😅

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TheLilacFinch · 23/05/2026 21:13

There are various authenticators online, I would use one of them to confirm for peace of mind. There are also designer bag Facebook groups with very knowledgeable members, you could try asking in some of them too.

beautyqueeen · 23/05/2026 21:05

@amraa if you have any doubts juts send it back, it will ruin your enjoyment of the bag every time you use it you’ll be thinking is it a fake.

For what it’s worth there are some amazing fakes out there so don’t feel silly about being fooled, someone at work had a LV neverfull from some Chinese site and it was identical to the untrained eye to my real one! It also came with dust bag, box LV ribbon, card of authenticity and recipt! She paid about £70 I paid nearly £1.5K!

amraa · 23/05/2026 20:57

Few more pics

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Remindmeofthebabee · 23/05/2026 20:55

WallaceinAnderland · 23/05/2026 16:23

Yes, I know teens love a brand but OP is clearly not buying something because she loves it, she's only wants it for the label which I think is odd for an adult.

I get that some people love and are prepared to spend on labels because they like the look of the product, but that's different to what OP is experiencing as she does like the look of it but doesn't want it without the label.

YOU think is odd.

The luxury fashion industry is worth in the hundred billions so you are quite clearly in the minority. It definitely isn’t aimed at teenagers either.

There’s no need to be nasty, if designer isn’t for you then this clearly isn’t the thread for you.

Of course she wants the label, she’s purchased it thinking it was that brand so has obviously paid for it thinking it was YSL. If I paid £30 for a pair of second hand Levi jeans I would be very happy as I’d know the quality would be good, I wouldn’t be happy if I found out they were primark. It’s the same thing.

amraa · 23/05/2026 20:54

@Girlwithavibe@beautyqueeen Thank you, so I can see the font on yours are much thicker, on mine it’s much thinner. Under the designer it says made in Italy.
it has the serial number inside the pocket and inside the pouch but it’s so hard to read it, I was just about able to see the numbers, but that doesn’t prove it’s real as counterfeiters are clever! It looks like a very good dupe, read online there’s superior versions of fakes, in real life it’s hard to see the small details, they can be seen when photographed.

thank you to everyone that’s responded, haven’t had a chance to read them all but so far it seems like I was right to have my suspicions. I’ve added a few more pictures.

unfortunately I don’t live close to a selfridges or Harvey Nichols, the receipt is actually Harvey Nichols.

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WallaceinAnderland · 23/05/2026 19:10

Feis123 · 23/05/2026 18:25

How about quality? Some designer brands are of superb quality.

I can't find anything remotely as nice as a pair of charity-shop bought Bally of Switzerland loafers - unworn - they were priced at £120 - I bought when I googled the brand and honestly, if I had the money, I would buy these designer loafers again and again. A friend has a Globetrotter suitcase, I can't afford it, but would love to buy one if I had the money - but carryon only, for the quality and weightlessness. Proper Scottish cashmere (don't give a shit what brand) is always branded - can't compare with modern M&S cashmere, etc. And again, a dream coat of my friend with the suitcase - MaxMara, she has been wearing it for 20 years and it is like new. My other friends has a real Crombie coat - same thing - looks and feels amazing. I can't afford these purchases, but golly, if I could!

Yes but OP doesn't have a problem with the quality. She can't tell if it's real or not, so the quality must be good enough for it to be genuine.

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