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Help! Have I been scammed

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amraa · 23/05/2026 14:23

I’ve had the YSL Loulou small handbag on my wish list for a long time! I found a seller online that has 100% positive feedbacks that are verified, I can see the past purchases that customers made and they are for other designer bags. So when I saw they have the Loulou, I sent them an offer, it was accepted and sent out the next day. The person even provided the receipt.

I was happy with the bag, however I was adamant to ensure it’s not a fake bc nothing is stopping someone having a genuine receipt but sending a fake bag with it or even forging a receipt. The bag itself to me looks very real, but I have only compared to what I can see online, the only thing that throws me off about the bag is the designer name inside the bag.

I’ll attach photos and if anyone can tell me what they think or if they have the same real bag, compare it to see it matches. The person seems so genuine, I’ve got til
monday to return the bag. I constantly keep going back and forth!

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Idontneedanotherhero · 25/05/2026 10:16

HoskinsChoice · 23/05/2026 14:55

Does it matter? If you like the bag, use it, if you don't, sell it. Surely you're not that shallow and naive that you'd buy something just for a label?

Of course it matters if she’s paid a fortune for it!

Joloman74 · 25/05/2026 07:38

Just return the bag and draw a line under it. You will always have that niggling doubt in your head! Just save up for a genuine bag no matter how long it takes because when you do eventually get one from a legit store you will be on cloud nine knowing it's the real thing and all your hard work saving has got you to your dream bag! You cannot beat that feeling of elation and achievement!

NoGarlic · 24/05/2026 20:21

TY78910 · 24/05/2026 19:48

That’s not the point is it… I’m sure OP paid a substantial amount of money for a second hand designer bag. It’s not something you just let go when the bag is probably worth a tenner on a market stall.

If these PPs aren't just being arsey for the sake of it (on MN? Surely not!!) they might be kind of people who look at Monet paintings and say their kid can paint something just as good!

Fair enough, they may genuinely prefer their own child's artwork to a dead Frenchman's. But there's a real difference between a 'nice picture' and a signed masterpiece. That difference is worth £ millions, even if some can't see why.

All designer bags are limited editions. That, alongside the quality and design details, is why they keep their value. They aren't just a 'nice bag', any more than a Monet's just a picture. If you don't get it, that's fine. Put prints on your walls and use an Asda handbag.

JohnTheRevelator · 24/05/2026 20:15

godmum56 · 23/05/2026 15:05

Two things. If its not genuine then I wouldn't want to pay a "real" price for it. The other thing is that owning fakes is illegal.

Owning fakes is not illegal if it's purely for your own use. Selling fakes and saying they are the real thing IS illegal.

orangesandwich · 24/05/2026 19:54

TY78910 · 24/05/2026 19:48

That’s not the point is it… I’m sure OP paid a substantial amount of money for a second hand designer bag. It’s not something you just let go when the bag is probably worth a tenner on a market stall.

Seriously - people are being really weird about this. It has nothing to do with being bloody shallow- if I buy something that's advertised as a certain designer and it cost a designer price, it's not "shallow" to want a refund. You have been lied to by the seller FFS.

You also have a legal right to a refund if you've been sold a fake/counterfeit so the law backs this principle up.

TY78910 · 24/05/2026 19:48

HoskinsChoice · 23/05/2026 14:55

Does it matter? If you like the bag, use it, if you don't, sell it. Surely you're not that shallow and naive that you'd buy something just for a label?

That’s not the point is it… I’m sure OP paid a substantial amount of money for a second hand designer bag. It’s not something you just let go when the bag is probably worth a tenner on a market stall.

NoGarlic · 24/05/2026 19:45

Mickey540 · 24/05/2026 19:23

@amraa does it have the serial number that’s the key.

Yes, all authentic Saint Laurent LouLou bags have serial numbers. These numbers serve as a unique identifier and are debossed or heat-stamped on a small, rectangular leather tag stitched into the bag's interior lining, usually near the zip pocket. 1, 2, 3]

If you've got a really good fake, it will have a serial number. You'd then have to go to an authenticator to find out if it's a valid code.

On the other hand, if you've got a Faux St Laurent bag of very good quality at less than YSL price, then enjoy it and don't ask questions!

TunnocksOrDeath · 24/05/2026 19:26

godmum56 · 23/05/2026 15:05

Two things. If its not genuine then I wouldn't want to pay a "real" price for it. The other thing is that owning fakes is illegal.

No it's not. It's illegal to sell/import/distribute them. The law intentionally does not criminalise people who've been duped by counterfeit goods.

Mickey540 · 24/05/2026 19:23

@amraa does it have the serial number that’s the key.

Yes, all authentic Saint Laurent LouLou bags have serial numbers. These numbers serve as a unique identifier and are debossed or heat-stamped on a small, rectangular leather tag stitched into the bag's interior lining, usually near the zip pocket. 1, 2, 3]

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RumPidgeon · 24/05/2026 19:14

Looks fake, I am sorry. As others said the print looks soft and a bit misaligned. My YSL has this:

Mine is an old bag but 100% genuine.

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SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 24/05/2026 19:08

Report the seller asap.

You have learned hard lesson.

Four shops in my city were raided by the Police just recently for importing, manufacturing and selling. Millions of pounds of high end designer goods

$his sort of thing is rife on line.

Allonthesametrain · 24/05/2026 18:08

HoskinsChoice · 23/05/2026 14:55

Does it matter? If you like the bag, use it, if you don't, sell it. Surely you're not that shallow and naive that you'd buy something just for a label?

Some people are and will only buy labels, even though the items are actually unattractive and over priced.

Feis123 · 24/05/2026 15:58

Oriunda · 23/05/2026 23:33

I have a Max Mara coat, bought for me in Rome by DH in 2002. It’s still in perfect condition. Actually a good investment, given how long it has lasted, and will continue to last.

Do you know what gets me? In all honesty, I have probably spent enough to buy at least one MaxMara coats since 2002 - buying lots of inferior coats from High Street at £160 a pop, but I never felt I was ready to spend a decent sum on a decent coat like you did. Still can't do it.... Understand it in my head, but can't.

Feis123 · 24/05/2026 15:52

TheGander · 24/05/2026 13:10

Just a thought. Maybe designer bags are themselves a big scam. A Made in Italy label does not necessarily mean Italian level craftsmanship. Some are made by Chinese migrants in sweatshop type operations sub contracted by YSL, Gucci etc www.rfi.fr/en/international-news/20251204-slew-of-top-brands-suspected-in-italy-sweatshop-probe

Thank you! What an interesting article!

geoger · 24/05/2026 15:24

OP I’m just glad that you can get your money back and your post serves as warning to others too. I’m not sure about buying secondhand designer items online but I think Vestaire is meant to be good. I’m sure someone will come along to verify this.
If you really love the bag then save up for it over the next few months. Go in person to buy it so you can see it and feel it for yourself - you may even change your mind about it.

Mildorado · 24/05/2026 15:04

Hassell · 24/05/2026 15:03

No read the response carefully

that is the retail price

Yes, that's what I understood

Hassell · 24/05/2026 15:03

Swampthing55 · 24/05/2026 14:32

Yes around 2thousand she replied on my post

No read the response carefully

that is the retail price

orangesandwich · 24/05/2026 14:41

HoskinsChoice · 24/05/2026 13:41

So don't buy fakes then? Of course fakes are lower quality, you get what you pay for. If it's cheaper than it should be, you know it's fake. And if you know it's fake, you know the quality won't be as good. It's not rocket science.

Yes I completely agree! Which is why I don’t buy them. I am merely suggesting why the bag OP has bought is not likely to be “decent quality” if it is fake.

People are literally saying it doesn’t matter if it’s fake or genuine and that’s the entire point 🤣

Swampthing55 · 24/05/2026 14:32

Mildorado · 24/05/2026 13:26

No

Yes around 2thousand she replied on my post

HoskinsChoice · 24/05/2026 13:41

orangesandwich · 24/05/2026 13:33

Why though? What is a 'genuine' bag? Surely if she likes it and it's decent quality

Thats the thing though- fakes are rarely made well made and thats the point!

You dont find fake designer bags made from buttery soft lambs leather with hand made stitching. They are mass produced and fall apart in a few weeks of use because they're cheap to make

So don't buy fakes then? Of course fakes are lower quality, you get what you pay for. If it's cheaper than it should be, you know it's fake. And if you know it's fake, you know the quality won't be as good. It's not rocket science.

orangesandwich · 24/05/2026 13:33

Why though? What is a 'genuine' bag? Surely if she likes it and it's decent quality

Thats the thing though- fakes are rarely made well made and thats the point!

You dont find fake designer bags made from buttery soft lambs leather with hand made stitching. They are mass produced and fall apart in a few weeks of use because they're cheap to make

Gypsywomanx · 24/05/2026 13:27

Try smelling it, fake bags have plastic gluey smell, also did it come with the packaging? Dustbags and box can be a big giveaway

Mildorado · 24/05/2026 13:26

WallaceinAnderland · 24/05/2026 13:16

Has OP even said how much she paid for it?

No

WallaceinAnderland · 24/05/2026 13:16

Has OP even said how much she paid for it?

TheGander · 24/05/2026 13:10

Just a thought. Maybe designer bags are themselves a big scam. A Made in Italy label does not necessarily mean Italian level craftsmanship. Some are made by Chinese migrants in sweatshop type operations sub contracted by YSL, Gucci etc www.rfi.fr/en/international-news/20251204-slew-of-top-brands-suspected-in-italy-sweatshop-probe