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Unable to open windows as people back of me smoking cannabis. Selfish *****

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Aerom · 23/05/2026 09:35

During hot weather, I open my windows before the sun hits it.

Came back from shopping and the direction of the windows I was planning to open, people in the garden on the other side of the wall are smoking cannabis. Oh great! I don’t want to have the smell of that vile stuff wafting in my home. I’m sure the varieties used now are more pungent. As my ex smoked it and the smell didn’t affect me

Live in a first floor flat

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neilyoungismyhero · 24/05/2026 15:45

CieloElmers · 23/05/2026 11:24

Because people in “non scummy” areas never smoke weed 🙄

I live in a very.nice area and my neighbours smoke weed in their gardens.

Thechaseison71 · 24/05/2026 15:09

MrsChuckBass · 24/05/2026 14:34

Just wondering if this could be medical marijuana on a prescription?

Does the source change the smell?

MrsChuckBass · 24/05/2026 14:34

Just wondering if this could be medical marijuana on a prescription?

Nospringchix · 23/05/2026 22:23

smallgreenandsplitthreeways · 23/05/2026 12:45

So your friend is happily and illegally growing their own plants, drying it and then smoking it? Because if they are not growing their own, where are they getting it from?

? Medical cannabis clinic. It's been legal from private clinics in the UK since 2018.
Strictly speaking it should be vaporised though.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 23/05/2026 21:31

TwilightSkies · 23/05/2026 21:23

You should have a wee smoke yourself OP. It’d help you chill out.

Honestly op, you sound dull babe x

TwilightSkies · 23/05/2026 21:23

You should have a wee smoke yourself OP. It’d help you chill out.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 23/05/2026 21:18

Yabu, join them xx

Smoke Weed GIF
Superhansrantowindsor · 23/05/2026 21:17

It absolutely reeks. And anyone who uses weed is complicit in the abuse of minors through county lines.

PeopleWatching17 · 23/05/2026 21:07

youalright · 23/05/2026 09:46

So many people on this site seem to have such a strong sense of smell. Their outside how much is the smell really going to drift.

Loads. My neighbours smoke weed. The smell fills my bedroom and makes me heave. I couldn’t care less that they smoke, just that it stinks.

CieloElmers · 23/05/2026 20:57

Nopenott0day · 23/05/2026 19:01

No they do blow, which doesn't have a smell which wafts into the neighborhood

Maybe the OP can suggest her neighbours do that instead then

Nopenott0day · 23/05/2026 19:01

CieloElmers · 23/05/2026 11:28

That was my point, silly of her to think its just in “scummy areas” Like Sebastian and Arabella from Knightsbridge don’t get high.

edited as posted before finished.

Edited

No they do blow, which doesn't have a smell which wafts into the neighborhood

worldshottestmom · 23/05/2026 18:57

Has he got any numbers? Lmk

Gatekeeper · 23/05/2026 17:48

Meadowfinch · 23/05/2026 11:58

You're kidding. The smell is really pungent and a vile stench..

I agree...smells like cow slurry to me. Not a nice smell after all

OttersOnAPlane · 23/05/2026 17:20

I'd rather smell weed than tobacco. I think it smells rather nice.

I don't smoke either, but I'd far rather smell the odd spliff than a fag

DoubleDoubleDown · 23/05/2026 17:11

I think it's inevitable weed will eventually be legal in UK, so you've just gotta get used to it. Yesterday I was waiting for the bus and a really well dressed lady,. Was smoking a weed pipe. No one batted an eyelid and a thought to myself if this was UK someone would post on Mumsnet about itSmile. People smoke weed, that's life!

LeftBoobGoneRogue · 23/05/2026 16:43

youalright · 23/05/2026 09:46

So many people on this site seem to have such a strong sense of smell. Their outside how much is the smell really going to drift.

Have you not smelt it when you’re just walking down the street? We’ve even smelt it driving along the motorway.
It is very pungent and often you can smell it from a long way off.

Thechaseison71 · 23/05/2026 16:25

Badbadbunny · 23/05/2026 15:40

So presumably they grow their own then??

Yes so people's assumptions about money laundering, drug running and modern slavery aren't automatic.

Hopeful2go · 23/05/2026 16:14

SapphireSteel28 · 23/05/2026 13:58

I have a ridiculously acute sense of smell-I am continually saying, “I can smell weed!” Or “Has someone farted?”

I don’t say it, I just think it.

Someone complaining on a local FB group was told that what they were smelling might not actually be weed. There’s a particular shrub that gives off a weedy-like pong when the sun hits it (apparently).

I beg to differ.

HoldItAllTogether · 23/05/2026 15:47

yanbu
it smells rank and it’s such a strong pungent smell. It’s different to how it smelt a few decades ago and I really don’t think that my sence of smell has changed.
Maybe the smell of a compost heap or big pile of manure would mask the smell and dissuade them from sitting there. Tbh I think I’d prefer the smell of manure to that vomit smell of weed.

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/05/2026 15:40

MissyB1 · 23/05/2026 15:37

I highly doubt it’s the same stuff you were smoking back then, you’d probably have a hell of a shock if you tried the stuff they are smoking now.

I've tried it every now and then and it hits me like a sledge hammer. Very good value. Like you would get it Amsterdam back in the day.

Badbadbunny · 23/05/2026 15:40

Thechaseison71 · 23/05/2026 12:18

Hmm I have a friend who smokes it regularly but doesn't contribute to any of the things you are going on about. .

So presumably they grow their own then??

MissyB1 · 23/05/2026 15:37

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/05/2026 15:32

My good old days. When I was in my prime and not a middle aged parent with responsibilities. I might get back on it when I retire 🤤

I highly doubt it’s the same stuff you were smoking back then, you’d probably have a hell of a shock if you tried the stuff they are smoking now.

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/05/2026 15:32

Hotupnorth · 23/05/2026 14:22

Which good old days would those be then 🙄

My good old days. When I was in my prime and not a middle aged parent with responsibilities. I might get back on it when I retire 🤤

MissyB1 · 23/05/2026 15:22

beeautifullif3 · 23/05/2026 13:40

Gosh all this drama over a plant 🤣🤣

Oh yes because it’s exactly the same situation as someone putting a geranium in their patio pot 🙄🙄

OP, I feel for you, the stink of weed makes me gag, it’s revolting.

Thechaseison71 · 23/05/2026 14:40

smallgreenandsplitthreeways · 23/05/2026 12:45

So your friend is happily and illegally growing their own plants, drying it and then smoking it? Because if they are not growing their own, where are they getting it from?

Yes they grow their own.

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