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Am I the only person on MN who loves the summer?

191 replies

NotTheOrdinary · 22/05/2026 22:33

All I see is posters moaning about summer and loving the winter.

I love the light nights. I love not wearing boots and coats and scarves. Bring the summer on!

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TheChosenTwo · 23/05/2026 06:29

I love it too op, I adore feeling the sun on my skin and the bright days.
I do actually enjoy all the seasons it’s just the proportions of how much we get of all of them seems skewed.
We don’t get enough sun compared to grey days imo.
this ‘heatwave’ is surely just the absence of clouds and cold wind, why is it so bloody hard for them to line up more often?!
Anyway I’m just about to go for a swim in the lake, and it’s a lot more pleasant when it’s like this than it is in the colder months 😂

gurnseygurl · 23/05/2026 03:49

I love everything about it except the actual heat! The longer days, the plants, the golden evenings- all of it is wonderful, though my intolerance of the temperature makes it hard to actually get out and enjoy it.

The slightly cooler evenings after a long hot days when things are finally tolerable, though? Nothing beats it.

SquirrelGG · 23/05/2026 01:51

Attackedbysavagebees · 23/05/2026 00:50

I hate the hot weather with a passion. Really unpleasant when mucking out stables, working in the garden or even going walking.
Those who enjoy it must just be lounging around doing nothing active.
Roll on the cool autumn days

Nope, I go out for a long walk every day, and in summer I'm always out and about several times a day. I find being outside on a dull cold day horrible and have to force myself to go out - on a warm day you can't keep me inside.

SquirrelGG · 23/05/2026 01:49

No, you most certainly aren't alone. Where I live we are heading towards winter and I am counting down the days until summer returns. I love summer and autumn (we have lovely warm autumns here).

Summer life is so much easier than winter, I'm sick of wearing layers.

IVFbabyanyday · 23/05/2026 01:11

@Attackedbysavagebees

Those who enjoy it must just be lounging around doing nothing active.

Nope. In fact last summer I was working a physical outdoor job.

I guess people really are different, and the heat-lovers and cold-lovers will remain forever baffled by one another!

IVFbabyanyday · 23/05/2026 01:07

WetBedder · 23/05/2026 00:37

I would rather have damp cold than damp, sweaty heat.

We can’t acclimatise because of climate change and climbing record temperatures each year. Otherwise we already would have.

I meant acclimatising as individuals, in the short term sense. I always found when going abroad somewhere hotter, for example, that it took a few days to get used to it (haven't been abroad for a few years now). But avoiding aircon where possible seemed to make me acclimatise better.

Attackedbysavagebees · 23/05/2026 00:50

I hate the hot weather with a passion. Really unpleasant when mucking out stables, working in the garden or even going walking.
Those who enjoy it must just be lounging around doing nothing active.
Roll on the cool autumn days

ilovesooty · 23/05/2026 00:46

NotTheOrdinary · 22/05/2026 23:52

I give it until July before the romantic Autumn lovers are banging on about snuggly jumpers, log burners, candles, heated throws and kicking the leaves on woodland walks.

July? There was a thread like that a couple of days ago.

MrSchubertWhiskers · 23/05/2026 00:41

I love summer!
But meds make me heat intolerant so the frequent heatwaves we get now mean that I miss out on too much of it.

ilovesooty · 23/05/2026 00:41

NotTheOrdinary · 22/05/2026 23:28

My cat is so happy in the summer. He comes alive again. He's an old boy but he lives for the summer.

My older cat has been sunbathing happily. I think the younger one must be a secret mumsnetter. He came in three times to tell me it was Too Hot.

WetBedder · 23/05/2026 00:37

IVFbabyanyday · 23/05/2026 00:30

The humidity also means cold weather is a really horrible damp cold, rather than dry and crisp. Basically all temps feel more extreme.

We don't need AC - better to adapt to the heat. Perhaps the issue is it's too unreliable to have time to acclimatise!

Also not sure about insulation - surely it works both ways and keeps the heat out? I really noticed this staying in a friend's new build - it was cool inside but much warmer outside.

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I would rather have damp cold than damp, sweaty heat.

We can’t acclimatise because of climate change and climbing record temperatures each year. Otherwise we already would have.

IVFbabyanyday · 23/05/2026 00:30

WetBedder · 23/05/2026 00:22

I think you are forgetting that the UK is very humid - water carries heat, which affects the way we feel heat and how our bodies regulate. We also don’t have AC in our homes as a standard, they are designed to keep warmth in. People get heatstroke very easily in these temperatures.

The humidity also means cold weather is a really horrible damp cold, rather than dry and crisp. Basically all temps feel more extreme.

We don't need AC - better to adapt to the heat. Perhaps the issue is it's too unreliable to have time to acclimatise!

Also not sure about insulation - surely it works both ways and keeps the heat out? I really noticed this staying in a friend's new build - it was cool inside but much warmer outside.

WetBedder · 23/05/2026 00:22

dannyufcfan · 22/05/2026 23:38

It happens every year like clockwork. It's us brits, we're pathetic, with the 'heat'.

Lord knows how we would cope if we ever had a true hot summer like a lot of the world has to deal with every year.

Shit weather for 80% of the year, non stop rain.

Yet, as soon as it touches 25 for a few days, the whiners are out in force on how they can't cope.

Give me a break.

Buy a fan, stop moaning and enjoy the rare nice days we get.

*I appreciate some people have medical conditions that are affected by the heat. These people are allowed to moan.

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I think you are forgetting that the UK is very humid - water carries heat, which affects the way we feel heat and how our bodies regulate. We also don’t have AC in our homes as a standard, they are designed to keep warmth in. People get heatstroke very easily in these temperatures.

G1ngerbread · 23/05/2026 00:17

I like aspects of it but overall prefer autumn. I don’t like being hot, I don’t like sweating, and I don’t like it being light so late.

Wauwinet · 23/05/2026 00:14

IVFbabyanyday · 22/05/2026 23:08

I'd be up for having 9 months of summer, with 1 month each of the other seasons - provided winter definitely includes snow at Christmas! The change makes us appreciate summer more, and autumn and spring are beautiful.

People who bang on about "snuggly and cosy" as reasons for enjoying winter really annoy me - summer is clearly better because it's warm and cosy everywhere then! You don't need to hide inside and pay for heating!

I'm also currently about to give birth any day (hence high irritability levels 😆) and everyone thinks I should be struggling in the heat but I'm loving it!

This is pretty much what California is. Warm and lovely and sunny from February-ish to November. I did a year-long programme there and immediately understood why it is so expensive and desirable!

IVFbabyanyday · 23/05/2026 00:06

NotTheOrdinary · 22/05/2026 23:52

I give it until July before the romantic Autumn lovers are banging on about snuggly jumpers, log burners, candles, heated throws and kicking the leaves on woodland walks.

I wonder why they find artificial heat so much more preferable?

Runnersandtoms · 23/05/2026 00:04

I love the sun. Love swimming in the sea. Eating outside, being able to ride my bike everywhere without getting rained on or frozen. Lovely flowers and fruit in the garden. Nice walks in nature with blossom and flowers. Butterflies and dragonflies and bumblebees (could live without the wasps and mosquitoes tho). I get a bit cross whenever I have to spend a sunny day indoors.

Imanexcellentdrivercharliebabbit · 22/05/2026 23:53

Having lived in the Canary Islands for 3 years, and then on the Peninsula in Andalusia 4/5 more when the kids were little in the early 2000’s; bizarrely-lovely as it was - I missed the seasons so much.
Back in uk since 2007- love the changing seasons however random they are and wouldn’t change the weather for the world x

Egglington · 22/05/2026 23:53

I forgot sun kissed skin. I am yet to meet a person who doesn’t compliment someone when they have sun kissed glow. You just feel better. (Unless you are untannable like my BF but she still loves sunshine).

NotTheOrdinary · 22/05/2026 23:52

I give it until July before the romantic Autumn lovers are banging on about snuggly jumpers, log burners, candles, heated throws and kicking the leaves on woodland walks.

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DrCoconut · 22/05/2026 23:51

This is the actual most wonderful time of the year. Getting lighter every evening still, warmer weather, getting the nice clothes out. And no socks! I literally feel more grounded the less I have on my feet and love the sense of freedom and not being all bundled up that summer brings.

Egglington · 22/05/2026 23:49

Sunshine
Vitamin D
Solar Energy
Longer days to do lovely things
Warmer sea/rivers to swim in
Fresh & dry laundry on the line in no time
Beer gardens
Gorgeous flowers & greenery
Blue skies
Outdoor cooking
Eating outside
Happy, smiley people
Long evening sunset walks

why on earth would you not want any of that?

Imanexcellentdrivercharliebabbit · 22/05/2026 23:48

ChristPleaseJustStop · 22/05/2026 23:15

I think the problem MN has is that summer is for everyone, so the oiks are out in their council house gardens scoffing their Greggs and slurping their Fosters in their vests while shouting at their kids over the Bluetooth boombox they stole from B&M.

If "we" were all left in peace to sit in our lovely gardens with our lovely family in our lovely towns and didn't have to interact with the poors, I'm sure things would be different.

lol me and my family are loud oiks who grasp every minute of sunshine to socialise play music and get all the kids and grandkids together to run wild so I feel ‘your’ pain (wink)!!
xx

aWeeCornishPastie · 22/05/2026 23:44

Its my favourite season too

basoon · 22/05/2026 23:43

Love love love the summer. Bring on the sun I say.