Mid-late 40’s, primary aged Dd, amazing but challenging at times, part time job and take on 80% of everything else (that’s another story)
Parents have come to visit, they’re in their 70’s and i’m exhausted.
Most days have involved getting Dd to school, dropping them somewhere, working for a few hours, meeting them for lunch and long walk, picking Dd up or taking to clubs and making dinner, bedtime etc.
Similar thing today and now Ddad has suggested we go out tonight too, to a shopping centre and dinner out or to a restaurant
I feel so tired and really don’t want to, but will because they want to as I feel bad we haven’t been out for meals in the evening, only coffees and lunches
In my normal, everyday life I have more down time and time at home, I don’t go out every day for long walks, cafes, restaurants and driving etc and have a day off after drop off where I stay home, do some chores and work, then just chill and watch tv. I really need this in my usual routine
Aibu to not really want to when they want to go out places in the evening too
How can they be this more active in their 70’s than I am in my 40’s? Or am I just a bit more boring than the average person-I love my home and relaxing!