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To think there must be something wrong with me because I absolutely can not tolerate the UK heatwaves - anyone else?

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Saywhatnowhey · 22/05/2026 09:47

I am 53 and in perimenopause so that is not helping at all but I have always been like this.

As soon as summer hits and these heatwaves come out of nowhere I feel dreadful. I have never been able to tolerate either cold or hot weather at all, even when I was younger. As a child I preferred winter over summer so I could cover and layer up.

Where I live in the UK it is often the most hot and humid weather during the summer months and it makes me feel so physically unwell. I have some existing health issues but none that are related to temperature intolerance so no idea why I get like this. It's only 9.30am and I have already had to sit down with my neck fan on. Just hanging out a few loads of washing and tidying up the kitchen has left my heart racing, my stomach churning (I do have IBS which gets worse in the summer) and I feel so nauseous (I always feel so sick in the heat). Other than pace and fan myself there doesn't seem to be a lot I can do to dampen down the ill feeling I get.

No one else I know is like this, everyone adores this heat and really looks forward to it, some saying the hotter the better but I just want to lay on my bed and lay with the fan on all day, I feel so lightheaded and weird.

I have mentioned this numerous times to my GP but my blood levels return ok so they don't have any suggestions.

Is it normal to feel so unwell during the summer months? Does anyone else get this?

I freeze during the winter, like to the bone frozen but I would rather take that over the summer because at least I can carry my trusty hot water bottle around with me and layer up. The sticky, humid UK summers make me want to rip my skin off. It really annoys me because I love warmth and sunshine - I could happily reside in September and October for the rest of my days, I am at my most comfortable in Autumn.

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JohnTheRevelator · 10/07/2026 20:22

I'm like you in that I can't tolerate heatwaves. As soon as the temperature starts creeping over 28 degrees,I'm done. But like you I spend most of the winter feeling frozen! My DD said that I felt the cold more because I'd lost a substantial amount of weight over the last couple of years (7 and a half stone). So you'd think that being the case,I'd tolerate the heat better? We all know that being very overweight is not a good companion for a heatwave. Nope. Not a bit of it. If anything,I feel the heat even more now!

ButlerianJihadNow · 21/06/2026 07:51

Heat is way worse. 125,000 heat-related deaths a year in Europe.

Dinggirl · 21/06/2026 07:19

Row23 · 22/05/2026 10:18

Our houses just aren’t built for hot weather. Hot countries have lovely air conditioning and our houses are designed to be keeping heat in for the winter.
I have friends from South Africa who have moved here and said they struggle with the heat here. 28 degrees here is a different kind of heat than 28 degrees in South Africa. Not really sure why.
I do not enjoy the heat either. Especially as I’m very pale and burn so easily so I can’t really ‘enjoy’ being outside. The night is the worst - cannot stand being hot when trying to sleep!

Same, I work with people from all over the world and most of them moan about the heat here more than I do 😆

Auburngal · 21/06/2026 07:03

Not looking forward to the 31-32c days. Two of those days are in my a/c office. Plus my car has it. It’s my chest that will struggle

It’s those days where it’s forecast to be 28/29c with thunderstorms. You can’t go out. Too hot to wear a waterproof. Can’t use a brolly just in case you get lightening.

My asthma has got worse since having Covid in March 2020 and July 2022. I was able to cope with the UK heatwaves before this.

I wonder if other posters had this problem too since getting Covid

AmateurDad · 19/06/2026 23:11

Saywhatnowhey · 22/05/2026 09:47

I am 53 and in perimenopause so that is not helping at all but I have always been like this.

As soon as summer hits and these heatwaves come out of nowhere I feel dreadful. I have never been able to tolerate either cold or hot weather at all, even when I was younger. As a child I preferred winter over summer so I could cover and layer up.

Where I live in the UK it is often the most hot and humid weather during the summer months and it makes me feel so physically unwell. I have some existing health issues but none that are related to temperature intolerance so no idea why I get like this. It's only 9.30am and I have already had to sit down with my neck fan on. Just hanging out a few loads of washing and tidying up the kitchen has left my heart racing, my stomach churning (I do have IBS which gets worse in the summer) and I feel so nauseous (I always feel so sick in the heat). Other than pace and fan myself there doesn't seem to be a lot I can do to dampen down the ill feeling I get.

No one else I know is like this, everyone adores this heat and really looks forward to it, some saying the hotter the better but I just want to lay on my bed and lay with the fan on all day, I feel so lightheaded and weird.

I have mentioned this numerous times to my GP but my blood levels return ok so they don't have any suggestions.

Is it normal to feel so unwell during the summer months? Does anyone else get this?

I freeze during the winter, like to the bone frozen but I would rather take that over the summer because at least I can carry my trusty hot water bottle around with me and layer up. The sticky, humid UK summers make me want to rip my skin off. It really annoys me because I love warmth and sunshine - I could happily reside in September and October for the rest of my days, I am at my most comfortable in Autumn.

Agree totally. Autumn is king.

Tshirtking · 01/06/2026 07:49

It's raining, thank the lord. With my condition I can finally get back to normal.

balabusta · 01/06/2026 04:11

The problem in the UK is that nothing is built for the heat, you get no relief. Houses aren't air conditioned and trap heat, buses and the tube aren't air conditioned, many stores and schools get ridiculously hot.
It's not THAT hot in the UK, certainly not hotter than many places around the world in normal times. But in a country that isn't used ot these temperatures, certainly not in previous decades/centuries when a lot of the infrastructure was built, the heatwaves hit different.

DustyMaiden · 01/06/2026 00:01

I detest the heat. I don’t sweat I just turn beetroot. I’m moving to Yorkshire got to be cooler than Essex.

Watercooler · 31/05/2026 21:59

Something weird happened this week. I was able to tolerate the heat! For the first time in my life. I am putting it down to starting HRT 3 weeks ago. My body no longer prickled and I've been able to walk around without the fear of sweat.

Loulou4022 · 30/05/2026 20:51

I think it may be because we get no time to acclimatise, we go from 15 deg to 30 in the space of a week! I spent Monday and Tuesday hiding in the coolest room in the house with a fan, cool towel and at one point ice packs on my groin to try and cool down! It’s then too hot to sleep properly so you feel even worse through lack of sleep!

JohnTheRevelator · 30/05/2026 17:23

Macinae · 25/05/2026 18:44

I can't stand hot weather like this. I'm uncomfortable, the dog's uncomfortable and I'm constantly panicked about keeping her cool. Last week the daily average was 14 degrees and now it's shot up to 32 degrees. There's no chance to acclimatise. There's always people who say "enjoy it while it lasts it'll be gone soon" but IMO there's nothing to enjoy about it being this hot. 24 degrees, I understand the sentiment, but above 30 is stifling.

Totally agree. I worry so much about my poor cat in heat of 30 degrees plus. A couple of days ago (the hottest day so far at 35 degrees) she had heat exhaustion. Thankfully I managed to cool her down with damp towels and keeping a fan on her but it was so worrying. As for people who say 'Enjoy it while it lasts',what is there to enjoy?! I am quite happy with 24 degrees,but I just can't cope with it when it starts creeping up to the thirties.

Verv · 29/05/2026 13:58

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1BUm7zWWgS/

made me smile on the subject.

Magpie50 · 26/05/2026 03:27

Tbh I don't think you need any underlying health conditions to be miserable in this heat..it pretty much affects everybody.
Even healthy people can get heat stroke, dehydration, joint pain, electrolyte imbalances, low blood pressure. Your body basically has to work twice as hard to keep you functioning!

I don't have any big health issues but I still find this heat makes me feel totally wiped out, not to mention my knees are aching like crazy.
Give me a nice crisp, sunny autumn day instead, please!😀

HelenaWaiting · 26/05/2026 00:52

Saywhatnowhey · 25/05/2026 17:19

Sadly that really doesn't help with me at all. My husband is sitting out in the garden, in the shade. I went to join him and within minutes I was feeling awful but I stuck it out, popped in my hypnotherapy download to relax and after 20 mins I felt so sick, pressure in my head, my skin was itching and and weirdly the heat exacerbates my functional dyspepsia so I've now got a nice bout of burning indigestion. Just 5 minutes on the sofa, in front of my fan and I feel so much better.

I really don't believe this is psychological, I've never been able to tolerate the heat when everyone around me seems to be able to happily adjust.

No, I absolutely wasn't suggesting you go out in it. Stay indoors and move as little as possible. Sorry if I misled you.

Saywhatnowhey · 25/05/2026 19:34

Macinae · 25/05/2026 18:44

I can't stand hot weather like this. I'm uncomfortable, the dog's uncomfortable and I'm constantly panicked about keeping her cool. Last week the daily average was 14 degrees and now it's shot up to 32 degrees. There's no chance to acclimatise. There's always people who say "enjoy it while it lasts it'll be gone soon" but IMO there's nothing to enjoy about it being this hot. 24 degrees, I understand the sentiment, but above 30 is stifling.

My dog has really struggled today too, I have been encouraging him to lay on the kitchen tiles where it's a bit cooler but the silly sod keeps laying out in the full sun panting for dear life. It's getting a bit cooler so will walk him around 9pm.

I'm with you, there is very little to enjoy about this kind of hellish heat, apart from the laundry drying quickly, that is the only positive in my eyes because it makes me feel so unwell, if it didn't then maybe I could enjoy it.

It's forecast for 32 again tomorrow, not sure how I am going to get through that, today's heat has really set off my IBS and I have been so bloated and in pain. Wednesday is down to 21....I can not wait.

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Macinae · 25/05/2026 18:44

I can't stand hot weather like this. I'm uncomfortable, the dog's uncomfortable and I'm constantly panicked about keeping her cool. Last week the daily average was 14 degrees and now it's shot up to 32 degrees. There's no chance to acclimatise. There's always people who say "enjoy it while it lasts it'll be gone soon" but IMO there's nothing to enjoy about it being this hot. 24 degrees, I understand the sentiment, but above 30 is stifling.

Saywhatnowhey · 25/05/2026 17:19

HelenaWaiting · 25/05/2026 15:20

I think it's just your perception. Poll after poll suggests that the majority of British people do not enjoy very hot weather. Fortunately, in the UK, we tend to get some respite after a few days.

I can only relate my own experience, if it helps. I have MS, asthma, eczema and hay fever. I do not cope well with very hot days. I find it helps to drink lots of water - sipping every few minutes rather than gulping it down when thirsty; loose, linen or cotton clothing; and trying to move as little as possible. Don't cook - especially don't put the oven on. The family can survive on salads, sandwiches and fruit for a few days. Lastly, try to avoid telling yourself that you're too hot. It really does make a difference.

Sadly that really doesn't help with me at all. My husband is sitting out in the garden, in the shade. I went to join him and within minutes I was feeling awful but I stuck it out, popped in my hypnotherapy download to relax and after 20 mins I felt so sick, pressure in my head, my skin was itching and and weirdly the heat exacerbates my functional dyspepsia so I've now got a nice bout of burning indigestion. Just 5 minutes on the sofa, in front of my fan and I feel so much better.

I really don't believe this is psychological, I've never been able to tolerate the heat when everyone around me seems to be able to happily adjust.

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TightlyLacedCorset · 25/05/2026 16:54

I can't stand them. I love the brighter days and more light, but the heat kills me.

I have thyroid problems, asthma and two other autoimmune illnesses. Yesterday I went for a walk with my relatives in the park and then felt ill all night and today. I currently have the curtains closed.

I get heat stroke easily. I have needed to go A&E a couple times.

My neighbours are living it up in the garden. I just want it to stop and dusk to come!

JohnTheRevelator · 25/05/2026 16:49

You are not alone. I am really struggling with this heat. In West London where I live it is 34 degrees at the moment,a good 10 degrees more than what I'm comfortable with. I am 62 so can't blame it on being menopausal. I am having problems with my mobility at the moment due to severe osteoarthritis in one of my hips and the heat certainly isn't helping. Also not helped by nearly everyone else raving about it and enjoying it. I get made to feel embarrassed about not liking it. I really can't see what there is to enjoy about being sticky and sweaty. I've lost 7 stone in recent years and pre-weight loss I thought it was due to being overweight. But I still feel the heat. And I get sick of the media with their predictable headlines,always containing the words 'sizzling' 'basking' and 'enjoying'. To my mind, seeing those words in one sentence is not good news.
Oddly,since losing the weight,I've noticed I feel the cold much more in the winter. I thought at first this was a good sign and that I would be able to tolerate the heat better,but no. Absolutely no difference at all. I'm just hoping that this summer doesn't turn out like last summer with 4 two week heatwaves between the beginning of June and the middle of August.

Auburngal · 25/05/2026 16:05

JenniferBooth · 25/05/2026 15:56

Oh i had my first lot of Covid during that July heatwave. It was hell.

I felt worse than the first time with Covid. That was just days before the first lockdown and i didn’t know I had it until July 2020. People forget that many places didn’t have test centres nearby. Then it was 85 miles round trip.

Back to July 22. When got a temperature in hot weather it feels like 6c more

JenniferBooth · 25/05/2026 15:56

Auburngal · 25/05/2026 15:50

I have been to Orlando as a kid/teen. Even back in the early 90s, 99.5% of buildings were air conditioned. Even the hire car had it.

They build things to incorporate the weather.

UK buildings, especially houses are built to keep heat in.

@JenniferBooth I had my second bout of Covid in the mid July heatwave. It was awful

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Oh i had my first lot of Covid during that July heatwave. It was hell.

yoshigizzit · 25/05/2026 15:56

Sunshinetime199 · 25/05/2026 15:32

I can only go on a lifetime of holidays in the Med, the heat definately feels different to me. England is stifling whereas we happily explored places well in excess of 30 degrees last Summer.

But I do think aswell alot is to do with how the country is geared up for it. AC, pools everywhere, tiles floors, things close in the hottest part of the day. It would be ridiculous to do that (at the moment in the uk) as July and August is rarely ever really hot here. If we had 3 months of this every year, we probably would invest in things to make Summer nicer. That’s why im understanding to those who cant handle it.

I think as well you need to consider what you’re doing on holiday vs when you’re at home. When you’re at home you’re working, running errands, doing chores etc, the heat can be a nuisance if not managed via AC etc. On holiday you may be lounging by a pool, strolling down the the street window shopping, even if you’re doing something more active like a theme park or site seeing you’re usually interspersing that with leisurely meals and basically doing something fun you’re choosing to do…I think it changes our tolerance levels.

I agree with the poster talking about a “different type of heat” that’s ridiculous, but how we manage it in this country in terms of our infrastructure and what we’re doing in it when living our daily lives is what differentiates how we experience the heat to elsewhere.

user1471604184 · 25/05/2026 15:55

I honestly think it’s the hypermobility- something like 80% of people with hypermobility syndrome/hEDS have autonomic nervous system dysfunction. It results in difficulty with temperature control, amongst loads of other things. I am being driven mad by the heat and like you I have always struggled and have hypermobility syndrome/hEDS

Auburngal · 25/05/2026 15:50

GasPanic · 25/05/2026 15:18

There isn't really much difference.

A quick scan :

London 30C , 35-40%
Rome 30C 30%
Lisbon 28C 40%
Nice 28C 43%

Dubai has temperature at the moment of 33C and 61%
Hong Kong 30C and 90%
Orlando 39C and 70%
Cairo 31C and 30%.

So people going on about the "different kind of heat" are largely talking rubbish IMO.

The heat in places like Hong Kong and Dubai is a different kind of heat for sure, because it is accompanied by much higher humidity than we have here.

Of the major tourist destinations Vegas has a very low humidity, but most tourist areas are not miles from the coast.

I have been to Orlando as a kid/teen. Even back in the early 90s, 99.5% of buildings were air conditioned. Even the hire car had it.

They build things to incorporate the weather.

UK buildings, especially houses are built to keep heat in.

@JenniferBooth I had my second bout of Covid in the mid July heatwave. It was awful

JenniferBooth · 25/05/2026 15:37

Sunshinetime199 · 25/05/2026 15:32

I can only go on a lifetime of holidays in the Med, the heat definately feels different to me. England is stifling whereas we happily explored places well in excess of 30 degrees last Summer.

But I do think aswell alot is to do with how the country is geared up for it. AC, pools everywhere, tiles floors, things close in the hottest part of the day. It would be ridiculous to do that (at the moment in the uk) as July and August is rarely ever really hot here. If we had 3 months of this every year, we probably would invest in things to make Summer nicer. That’s why im understanding to those who cant handle it.

During the summer of 2022, the UK experienced five distinct heatwave periods ranging from 3 to 16 days in length, which culminated in a historic national temperature record of (40.3^{\circ }\text{C}). 1, 2]
According to the UK Health Security Agency, the five heatwave episodes included:
Episode 1: 4 days (June 16 to June 19)
Episode 2: 16 days (July 10 to July 25), which included the most intense 2-day period of Level 4 extreme heat (July 18 and July 19)
Episode 3: 7 days (July 30 to August 5)
Episode 4: 10 days (August 8 to August 17)
Episode 5: 3 days (August 23 to August 25)
The UK experienced four distinct, relatively short-lived heatwaves during the summer of 2025, each lasting between 5 to 6 days. While these events were brief, they occurred throughout the season and resulted in the warmest overall UK summer on record. 1, 2, 3]
Breakdown of the 2025 heatwave events:
Heatwave 1 (Third week of June): Officially declared in mid-June, lasting about five days in central and eastern England before breaking with thunderstorms.
Heatwave 2 (Late June - Early July): This event lasted about six days for parts of Yorkshire and the Humber and five days in the East. A longer, more intense spell of this heatwave affected London and southern areas, peaking at 34.7°C between June 23 and July 2.
Heatwave 3 & 4 (July and August): Additional, intermittent heatwaves occurred during these months, pushing the overall summer average for the UK to a record-breaking 16.1°C. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5]

What is a heatwave?

Find out more about heatwaves and what to do when they occur.

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