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To be absolutely sick of hearing about the cost of living crisis

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Katypp · 22/05/2026 08:59

I surely can't be the only person sick to death of hearing about the cost of living crisis?
I am tired of reporters interviewing middle-class (usually) mothers inside paid activities such as soft play and hearing them moan about how they are struggling to make ends meet.
Have we completely lost the ability to cut our cloth according to our means or does 'struggling' now mean carrying on spending as usual then complaining when there's no money left?
There have never been as many massive new cars on the road, towns are full of hairdressers, nail bars, brow bars, tanning salons, soft play, play cafes, coffee shops, ice cream parlours, dog groomers, most of which didn't exist 25 years ago and are probably the recipients of the money of the families who say they can't keep up with spiralling costs.
Yes, some families will have been hard up before prices started to go up and will have nothing else to cut back on. They have my sympathy.
But i am utterly fed up of hearing how hard households ars being hit by the cost of living crisis when all that's needed is a few minor cutbacks which they don't want to make.

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ladyrinths · 22/05/2026 12:53

Now people in their 20s expect a level of luxuries that are beyond what the average 25yo could have afforded 50 years ago

My parents bought their first home in their 20s & it was a house not a flat in London on one salary. I definitely couldn’t do that at 25 with my boyfriend despite us both working & my dc won’t be able to do either.

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 12:52

TygerBread · 22/05/2026 11:31

What I think you are missing is…why are tv channels interviewing people who are claiming they can’t afford to heat their hot-tub or can’t afford horse-riding lessons? Think back to before the last GE, we had a Conservative government and at that point we were getting bombarded with news items about desperate pensions unable to put the heating on and scruffy looking people reliant on foodbanks. It’s all propoganda. Now we have a Labour government, and the cost of living situation is getting worse, yet the mainstream tv channels, because they are left-leaning (but pretend not to be) are not telling the real story. Instead they make they acknowledge the issue, but in a mocking way by intervening the ‘middle class mothers’, who effectively aren’t being squeezed much by this issue. They are trolling the public in support of Labour.

Take this announcement of free bus fares and discounted holiday activities. This isn’t to ‘help families’ as Rachel from Accounts is claiming, that’s not even her remit, she’s a finance person….its not her concern whether a kid has been to a theme park or not. What she’s actually doing is looking at the fact that the city centres, cinemas, theme parks etc are struggling and may not be able to either keep going or employ as many staff if they have a poor summer. She’s not trying to help families ‘save money’, she’s trying to encourage them to ‘spend money’. Labour are chasing their tails because they have been trying to deal with the cost of living rises by increasing the minimum wage above inflation, but that just causes basics such as food prices to raise as a result, so they are caught in a cycle of not knowing how to stop it getting worse.

As for the explosion in non-essentials, such as nail bars and deliveroo, we have a society that has slowly become accustomed to a higher standard of living. This is due to poor financial education and due to copying others. There will be people who genuinely believe they can’t afford to buy at the supermarket and will go to the foodbank because they have run out of cash, but will have spent money earlier than week on a take-away, had their nails done, paid their Netflix subscription etc.

Financial literacy and an understanding of what is a necessity and what is a luxury, plus personal responsibility for your own personal budget isn’t taught in schools, and often isn’t taught in families.

Add to that…British people generally don’t like doing dirty jobs in factories or farms. Go to any location in the Uk and stop 100 people and ask them what they do for work. How many are going to say they work in supermarket food or essential goods production? Not many…the majority want to work in non-essential jobs they enjoy (the nail bars) or they work in publicly funded services (with good pension plans and strong HR policies). Think of all the food you eat in a week, you might know people who work on a till at the supermarket…but how many people do you know who work on a farm or in a factory canning baked beans? While British people don’t want to work in producing essential goods….they will be reliant on other British people wanting to spend their money on non-essentials to prop up all those other industries.

Going back to the ‘middle class mothers’. They might have less money to spend on treats due to cost of living, but why did they expect to have so much to start with? Why do they expect their jobs, which involve siting on a comfortable office chair, attending meetings and writing emails, with flexible hours to fit around family life…to pay for a large house, tuition and private schools for the kids, a big new car for each parent, plenty of takeaways and treats, plus money left over to save up for holidays? All while some poor sod who works unsociable hours in a take-away on minimum wage, on their feet all the time with a back back, can’t get out of shared housing because they are on a zero hours contract, lives a no frills existence…serves them dinner. These middle class mothers have lost touch with the reality of what it means to have money worries and to struggle with not having enough money to have little treats or pleasures etc, and the media are just trolling that to make Labour appear that they have solved the worst of the issue.

Your post is drivel; just wanted to point out (if it's not been said already) that using the term " Rachel from Accounts" is misogynistic. Other than that, no point addressing any of the Daily Express word vom.

Malinia · 22/05/2026 12:51

Is that you Gemma?

Upstartled · 22/05/2026 12:51

Mangelwurzelfortea · 22/05/2026 12:47

That was my take too. It's the usual Boomer v Millennial/Gen Z thing. (No idea where Gen X, which I am, fits into this).

Gen X

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Pikachu150 · 22/05/2026 12:51

Passaggressfedup · 22/05/2026 12:47

When I was in my 20s, I worked a 42 hours job, which was the norm. I couldn't afford my own place, so shared. I couldn't afford a car either so walked most places or took the bus.

I did what many did, spent above my means for a whilst...so I took a weekend job for two years to repay my debts (in care). I then started to be more careful and accepted I couldn't afford much above essentials. That motivates me to focus on getting a promotion and applying for new roles paying more. After the children, I was back to being poor and having to watch every pound. Then my youngest stopped childcare as he started secondary and for the first time in life, I was able to properly save and afford luxuries. I was early 40s.

Now people in their 20s expect a level of luxuries that are beyond what the average 25yo could have afforded 50 years ago.

Speak for yourself. I could afford more luxuries in my 20s than in my 50s. I also bought a house in my late 20s and had a car.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 22/05/2026 12:50

Tryingtobenormal124 · 22/05/2026 09:40

Think everyone is fed up "hearing" about it. We all know its there. The news just picks on one thing and nothing else matters. It was Iran for several weeks. Epstien disappeared. Sky news this morning was back to ex prince Andrew headlining.

As for cost of living, its a travesty soft play or food bank hmm the choice is obvious. All you read on here is oh £80,000 salary how will I live! Well get real, most folk are £30,000 or under and live fine. Do a lot of people on here just make it up.

If you are on £80 000 with a mortgage, uni fees to pay back, child care costs and paying full council tax etc compared to someone on £30 000 who might have low council rent, benefits, and possibly council tax discount you would understand.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 22/05/2026 12:49

Mangelwurzelfortea · 22/05/2026 12:47

That was my take too. It's the usual Boomer v Millennial/Gen Z thing. (No idea where Gen X, which I am, fits into this).

We're, aptly perhaps, the "forgotten generation" 😆

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 22/05/2026 12:49

Couldyounot · 22/05/2026 10:39

I said, pretend you've got no money
She just laughed and said, you're so funny
I said, yeah
But I can't see anyone else smiling in here

Yer man Jarvis had a point there tbh. All I know is that my last payrise was wiped out several times over by increases in just about everything I pay for.

it has been my observation over 42 years of marriage and bringing up children that every time we have a pay rise and start thinking life should be getting a little easier that supermarket prices take a leap.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 22/05/2026 12:48

iamfedupwiththis · 22/05/2026 12:47

Just come back from a city break to Spain

Manchester airport packed
All bars in airport packed
Been in Manchester recently again packed
Food Hall m&s packed

Cost of living crisis

My arse

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No idea what a cistern of living is...but you do realise that Manchester Airport is not a microcosm for the whole of the UK? The people there are by definition people who can afford to go on holiday.

iamfedupwiththis · 22/05/2026 12:47

Just come back from a city break to Spain

Manchester airport packed
All bars in airport packed
Been in Manchester recently again packed
Food Hall m&s packed

Cost of living crisis

My arse

Mangelwurzelfortea · 22/05/2026 12:47

DavesGirl90 · 22/05/2026 12:43

Threads like these are just elderly vs young (for the most part - of course there are many elderly posters who have more imagination, empathy and wisdom than the OP, and younger posters who have none of these qualities).

When you realise that, it’s easier to just tune out the ridiculous posters who have no skin in the game and, honestly, no idea what life is actually like these days.

That was my take too. It's the usual Boomer v Millennial/Gen Z thing. (No idea where Gen X, which I am, fits into this).

Passaggressfedup · 22/05/2026 12:47

When I was in my 20s, I worked a 42 hours job, which was the norm. I couldn't afford my own place, so shared. I couldn't afford a car either so walked most places or took the bus.

I did what many did, spent above my means for a whilst...so I took a weekend job for two years to repay my debts (in care). I then started to be more careful and accepted I couldn't afford much above essentials. That motivates me to focus on getting a promotion and applying for new roles paying more. After the children, I was back to being poor and having to watch every pound. Then my youngest stopped childcare as he started secondary and for the first time in life, I was able to properly save and afford luxuries. I was early 40s.

Now people in their 20s expect a level of luxuries that are beyond what the average 25yo could have afforded 50 years ago.

Epidote · 22/05/2026 12:47

Danikm151 · 22/05/2026 09:02

People are struggling to maintain the standard of living they had before.
Yes there are some that are loaded anyway but if your one treat a week is a £5 soft play and you’re told to give that up then it’s frustrating.

Correct. They can interview me at McDonald's on the one time I go a month with my DD to buy her a happy meal. 5 quid a month I'm such a spender.

What do you think about the possible car buyers being ask about how much car prices have raise in the last years when they are looking for a new one OP?

MidnightMeltdown · 22/05/2026 12:46

I know what you mean. The ‘cost of living crisis’ has been going on for at least 5 years now. Probably longer. It’s not a ‘crisis’, it’s the new normal.

ScotchBonnet74 · 22/05/2026 12:46

TrufflePigs · 22/05/2026 12:37

does 'struggling' now mean carrying on spending as usual then complaining when there's no money left?

From what I can see it does.

And if there is really no money left, they 'stick it on the credit card'.

And this mentality is what has caused a lot of entitled behaviour.

Some people don't want to save up for things nowadays. They want everything instantly and feel that just because they work hard, they deserve it. What was once considered a treat or a luxury is now the expected norm.

I teach my kids that they have to choose between a and b. Even though I may be able to afford both, I want them to realise you can't just have everything you fancy there and then.

EarthSight · 22/05/2026 12:45

@Somethingbland If you ever look at 'Country Living', the difference between the people who are in that magazine and the rest of society (including the many people who also live in the countryside) is so stark.

So many people seem to exist in a soft bubble, whereby buying a substantial house with a big garden and decorating it in their late 20s or early 30s, or starting a basketry business, bakery, or goat's milk cosmetics company seems to be completely normal and just something one does when they've tired of the London rat race.

Meanwhile, here's me, an older Millennial having a led a frugal, sensible life all my life not being able to afford anywhere decent to buy.

ladyrinths · 22/05/2026 12:45

@DavesGirl90 there is so much resentment though, I don’t understand it. I want my dc & gc to have a good life with opportunity.

Pikachu150 · 22/05/2026 12:44

Soft play did exist 25 years ago and certainly not what I would call a luxury. It usually only cost a couple of pounds. In fact all those things existed 25 years ago. Were you living under a rock?

SqueakyFreesia · 22/05/2026 12:44

Sartre · 22/05/2026 12:42

This can be true. I don’t know how people afford Center Parcs or why anyone would even choose to go there when you get an all inclusive abroad for the same price or even cheaper actually. I looked at it once for us, obviously a family of 7 but still, it was just over 2k for 4 nights… But then they charge for all of the extras on top of that like bicycles and activities, and food isn’t included! Our AL in the Canaries was a similar amount last year.

Family of 4 and we are going to Italy for a week for less £ than 5 days in Center Parcs!

DavesGirl90 · 22/05/2026 12:43

Threads like these are just elderly vs young (for the most part - of course there are many elderly posters who have more imagination, empathy and wisdom than the OP, and younger posters who have none of these qualities).

When you realise that, it’s easier to just tune out the ridiculous posters who have no skin in the game and, honestly, no idea what life is actually like these days.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 22/05/2026 12:43

cupfinalchaos · 22/05/2026 12:27

Absolutely.. and perhaps you have to look at why that’s come about?

I can see how it's come about. What's your passive aggressive statement about though? You clearly have a specific thing in mind?

ladyrinths · 22/05/2026 12:43

@AMumWithWiFi My parents bought a holiday home in Europe because they felt that was far better value than UK holidays with 4 dc.

Sartre · 22/05/2026 12:42

AMumWithWiFi · 22/05/2026 12:36

It’s actually more expensive to go on holiday in the UK than abroad these days. I checked a campsite and it’s £200 per night for a yurt during school holidays. If that’s the case, I’d rather pay for a holiday in Spain. At least I know the weather will be nice and I don’t have to share a toilet with the whole campsite.

This can be true. I don’t know how people afford Center Parcs or why anyone would even choose to go there when you get an all inclusive abroad for the same price or even cheaper actually. I looked at it once for us, obviously a family of 7 but still, it was just over 2k for 4 nights… But then they charge for all of the extras on top of that like bicycles and activities, and food isn’t included! Our AL in the Canaries was a similar amount last year.

SqueakyFreesia · 22/05/2026 12:42

If the answer to this was never go out, cut your cloth accordingly and never take out any credit then we would still be struggling in a shrinking economy. And the prices would go up more to accommodate for lack of footfall. Places would close.

the reality is there is enough money to go around but the government are spending it in the wrong places

ladyrinths · 22/05/2026 12:41

Trains aren’t free for children in London, the tube is.