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How needy is your dishwasher?

129 replies

Bakerposs · 22/05/2026 08:35

Mine seems to demand salt and rinse aid weekly?
I also have to regularly (like more than once a week) clean the arms and the filter.
It still regularly punishes me by not properly cleaning things but ‘burning’ on the mess so it then needs scrubbing. Or by not draining properly so I have to dig around in the water to get the filter etc.
we do scrape the plates etc before putting them in but dont rinse them. Is this where we’re going wrong?

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Whyherewego · 22/05/2026 09:48

Are you using an aggressive drying cycle? I do run regular maintenance washes but don't fill up salt and rinse aid more than every month or two
Unlike the poster above, I run eco washes all the time!

NamelessNancy · 22/05/2026 09:33

Ah, thanks @LattePatty I might need to reset the water hardness on mine. We are in a very soft water area but I'm pouring salt into the stupid thing morning, noon and night.

LattePatty · 22/05/2026 09:27

Ours is about 8 years old now. It’s a Miele but the most basic model they did at the time. I almost never clean the filter (although when I check it it’s always fine).

after experimenting with different brands I only use fairy dishwasher tablets as I find they are by far the best. Better than finish.

we are in a very hard water area and it Asks for salt every couple months. Asks for rinse aid about once a week now which is an increase in the past so I suspect there’s a leak now.

when you first get a dishwasher you need to set it for your local water hardness - your water company website will tell you the number to use.

scrape plates don’t rinse. The dishwasher will work out how dirty the contents are and if you rinse if disrupts that.

TheJuryIsOut · 22/05/2026 09:26

We don't get limescale in our area so we don't need salt but we do have to put rinse aid in quite regularly, if you don't the dishes really don't get clean properly. Still a million times better than having to wash everything up though

Fireside10 · 22/05/2026 09:24

I do salt and rinse aid top up every week/every two I'm in a hard water area and do find it need salt more than anything. I use a 'machine clean' setting with dishwasher cleaner every two weeks, if I miss it a little light flashes on and shames me for my filthyness! 😅

whereistheheatwave · 22/05/2026 09:21

Advice from my appliance repair guy. Never ever use eco mode, not enough water flushes the system, cleaning eventually is compromised, and problems are more likely. Also clean the filter after every use and the spray arms weekly. Run cleaning cycle with special product monthly. I follow his advice and our last dishwasher lasted about 16 years with minor repairs.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 22/05/2026 09:21

@Bakerposs What brand of dishwasher? Rinse first for best results and use decent tablets. Did you check quality of wash in reviews before you bought?

WhosThatGirI · 22/05/2026 09:19

mondaytosunday · 22/05/2026 08:38

Uh I don’t think I’ve ever put salt or rinse aid in. I do rinse everything before I put it in though.

Wrong!!! You don't need to rinse dishes first, that's called 'washing up'!! The DW tablet needs the residual food on the plate to work properly. And of course you need rinse aid and salt unless you have a soft water machine.

Twasasurprise · 22/05/2026 09:18

Unclog your pipes, it's probably the issue.

You are right to use rinse aid and salt, unless your water is very soft. About 1kg of salt each time should be right. Also check your settings for salt and rinse aid, according to water hardness. It should all be in the manual.

Also, yes, scraping but not rinsing is best. The detergent needs some dirt to work on and it saves water.

What brand is it? What type of cycle do you use?

Motomum23 · 22/05/2026 09:18

Salt about once a month and rinse aid once a fortnight.
Salt is really important- if you dont have Salt in the reservoir it basically just sits with bacteria filled water in the bottom of your machine which is a huge risk.
I clean the filter once a week too but im not a huge rinser of plates etc

NamelessNancy · 22/05/2026 09:12

Mine's like yours OP. Constantly demanding attention. It has a particular skill for recognising when I really don't have time for its crap too. Wanker.

Bakerposs · 22/05/2026 09:10

It’s only a few years old. The old one had its funny ways too-used to refuse if I put it on more than once in a row which was a pain for parties etc.

i think it might be that the pipes are clogged as the sink doesn’t always drain well either.

i wonder if the kitchen roll wiping is the way to go.

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Clefable · 22/05/2026 09:08

WildCountry · 22/05/2026 08:49

Mine is well over ten years old and I never put salt or rinse aid in it. I use all in one tablets and live in a soft water area though.

Same here!

Bingbangboo · 22/05/2026 09:07

I am puzzled by this thread. I've had a dishwasher 20 years and have never put salt or rinse aid in. I didn't realise it was a thing!

Nannyfannybanny · 22/05/2026 09:00

I have a very middle class friend,a lawyer. She said her dishwasher wasn't cleaning or emptying properly, asked when she last cleaned the filter, she said "what filter"?!! We use all in one tablet but occasionally fill salt and rinse aid. Plates wiped kitchen paper. Filter cleaned monthly, and dishwasher cI eaning pack,only use quick program. However a couple of times a year DH removes the base plate,cleans pipework. It's a small Hotpoint 10 years old.

CurlewKate · 22/05/2026 08:58

Not as needy as my bloody car, that’s for sure. My car has conniptions if it gets within 2 feet of a gate post. I’ve had less sensitive horses.

WildCountry · 22/05/2026 08:49

Mine is well over ten years old and I never put salt or rinse aid in it. I use all in one tablets and live in a soft water area though.

CrepuscularCritter · 22/05/2026 08:45

Should add that we scrape then rinse before putting anything in there. It sometimes needs a second go to finish off the lasagne dish, but otherwise it's done in one go.

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 22/05/2026 08:44

Do you fill the salt right up,you need to pretty much put the whole bag in?

pepinillo · 22/05/2026 08:43

Live in a hard water area and top up the salt every six months and the rinse aid monthly.

Not super careful with scraping the dishes so clean the filter fortnightly.

CrepuscularCritter · 22/05/2026 08:42

It has the occasional fit of temperament when it needs to be turned off at the wall. Once it has sung its chirpy heart out to alert us, it normally behaves afterwards. Yours sounds...needy... or perhaps just more complicated.

susiedaisy1912 · 22/05/2026 08:42

wrinklycactus · 22/05/2026 08:40

We probably do dishwasher maintenance about once every 6 months 😳 We should definitely do it more often but it seems to mostly clean reasonably well.

We don't put anything scummy in there that will clog it up, but no we don't rinse things before putting them in. (At that point it feels like you might as well just wash up by hand?)

Wouldn't expect it to clean any major stains though - pans or anything with sticky residue or built up, we wash by hand.

I'm interested in what is getting 'burnt on' because we probably wouldn't put anything in there where that was even possible really. The dishwasher just does plates, glasses, mugs, cutlery.

Don’t the lights or symbols come on when it needs rinse aid or salt?

Bakerposs · 22/05/2026 08:42

By burnt on I just mean like if there was a bit of sauce that doesn’t come off in the wash the heat seems to set it onto the plate so it’s harder to remove than it would have been to just rinse it

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HereIfYouNeedMe · 22/05/2026 08:41

How old is your dishwasher? Why is it not emptying?

INeedAnotherAlibi · 22/05/2026 08:40

I got a new one a couple of years ago and I feel like I’m forever topping up the salt! Also need to clean the filter frequently.