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Another baby has died in a hot car (Spain)

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comoatoupeira · 21/05/2026 12:39

Another child has died in a horrific way after being accidentally left in a hot car.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/may/21/girl-dies-car-extreme-heat-spain

again, it was the father, distracted by work, who forgot to drop her off at nursery. I honesty don’t think this is a man/woman thing I think it is a work thing. In every one of this abominable stories it is someone being distracted by a work situation and they forget they haven’t dropped off the child. The article explains really well why it happens and how we need to make safeguards because we can’t rely on ourselves at all times.

distraction kills! Much more than malevolent intent.

AIBU to think that every single parent needs to read this article to realise it can happen to anyone and sometimes extreme stress and the power of habit can overcome us and cause the worst to happen
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/magazine/fatal-distraction-forgetting-a-child-in-thebackseat-of-a-car-is-a-horrifying-mistake-is-it-a-crime/2014/06/16/8ae0fe3a-f580-11e3-a3a5-42be35962a52_story.html

BE WARNED it is the most upsetting piece of writing I have ever read.

Girl, two, dies after being left in car as extreme heat sweeps Spain

Authorities in Galicia declare two days of mourning after toddler died during exceptionally high May temperatures

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/may/21/girl-dies-car-extreme-heat-spain

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comoatoupeira · 21/05/2026 12:44

Yes. You put your bag on the back seat. Or your phone if you can.

god it is just sick.

something really interesting in that article is also about the design of urban spaces: work places with huge car parks, like they have in the US, where no one is going to walk past a child screaming to death in a car.
The car as an invention has meant we have designed spaces where humans can become trapped and nobody walks by.

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Amba1998 · 21/05/2026 12:41

Horrific

I read on her last year when there was another unfortunate story to put things in the back footwell next to the car seat like your bag / laptop / keys / phone so you have to physically turn around to the baby / open the back door to get your things out and be reminded of the child there

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