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AIBU To celebrate the government finally releasing guidance on keeping single sex spaces single sex? Even if it is more than a year after the Supreme Court judgement

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 07:56

Nobody is banned from toilets, changing rooms or indeed anywhere else, but males must use the male facilities and females use the female facilities. Where possible gender neutral facilities may be provided AS WELL, but not instead of.

There will be a huge amount of disinformation about this rolling around today, but nobody is banned from anything, other than intruding upon the opposite sex.

"The updated guidance is expected to make clear that employers and service providers should provide single-sex lavatories, changing rooms and washing facilities on the basis of biological sex, after the Supreme Court judgment in April last year that held the legal ­definition of “woman” in the Equality Act referred to biological sex."

https://www.thetimes.com/article/b0750d21-426a-45d5-8cee-9578e33c6d9c?shareToken=a2e55a09e70500c14807d8eb1713db03

Single-sex space guide to be published after year-long delay

Equality watchdog’s code instructs facilities to operate based on biological sex, putting an end to confusion for bosses but causing a headache for Labour

https://www.thetimes.com/article/b0750d21-426a-45d5-8cee-9578e33c6d9c?shareToken=a2e55a09e70500c14807d8eb1713db03

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BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 21/05/2026 10:19

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 10:14

There is going to be an awful lot of ignoring this

well, FAFO. Have at it, fellas.

VexedofVirginiaWater · 21/05/2026 10:19

Taztoy · 21/05/2026 10:03

Why are crimes against women so often compared to crimes of property?

Edited

Yeah, you're right - I was searching for a quick comparison and fell into the trap.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 21/05/2026 10:17

5foot5 · 21/05/2026 10:08

Oh heck. So is this one of those situations where potentially some git could scupper it even being reached by deliberately talking on and time wasting on a previous item.

Highly possible. And, Bridget covers her ass at the same time because she can truthfully say "I laid the guidance before Parliament. Not my problem that they didn't get around to it ."

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 10:16

DurinsBane · 21/05/2026 10:14

Because people on MN want to say that most trans identifying men are sex offenders. It doesn’t work so well when the teenage girls wanting to be boys gets mentioned

60% of trans identifying males in the UK prison population - are in for a sex crime of some sort.

20% of regular males in the UK prison population - are in for a sex crime of some sort.

Weird.

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DurinsBane · 21/05/2026 10:14

WaryCrow · 21/05/2026 08:14

All this because of a few men in dresses. It wasn’t the overwhelming numbers of women wanting to be men because being female is shit that caused the issue or attracted any attention.

Where’s all the media stories asking why so many young women wanted to opt out of being female in Britain?

Because people on MN want to say that most trans identifying men are sex offenders. It doesn’t work so well when the teenage girls wanting to be boys gets mentioned

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 10:14

There is going to be an awful lot of ignoring this

AIBU To celebrate the government finally releasing guidance on keeping single sex spaces single sex? Even if it is more than a year after the Supreme Court judgement
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borntobequiet · 21/05/2026 10:11

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:49

Yeah but if you wanted to be pedantic about this there’s nothing preventing a man from entering female only loos and doing that.

Apart from the fact that those cubicles aren’t fully enclosed - you can see what’s happening inside, to a certain extent - and people come and go in the main area.
@keeptoiletssafe has plenty of information on the additional dangers of fully enclosed designs.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 10:09

5foot5 · 21/05/2026 10:08

Oh heck. So is this one of those situations where potentially some git could scupper it even being reached by deliberately talking on and time wasting on a previous item.

Filibustering? Nah The Speaker will just shut them down

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MassiveWordSalad · 21/05/2026 10:09

About fucking time.

I’m picturing Bridget Phillipson in the House of Commons this afternoon with a wheelie suitcase, passport in hand, cab waiting outside to jet away from the ensuing tantrums.

5foot5 · 21/05/2026 10:08

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 08:07

Scheduled for the 15th thing of the day in the House of Commons apparently - there is always the chance something mental happens and pushes it off the list I suppose, but it IS scheduled (currently!!)

Oh heck. So is this one of those situations where potentially some git could scupper it even being reached by deliberately talking on and time wasting on a previous item.

Bunnyofhope · 21/05/2026 10:04

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:49

Yeah but if you wanted to be pedantic about this there’s nothing preventing a man from entering female only loos and doing that.

Well not really, as other women would be coming in and out.

fantam · 21/05/2026 10:03

BridgetJonesV2 · 21/05/2026 09:59

It's actually quite frightening that a very vocal tiny minority have had this impact in the first place. #bekind can fuck right off into the past, I'm utterly sick of all this conversation. A man wearing a dress and lipstick is still a biological male and it's time that transgenderism is addressed as either the mental illness or fetish that it actually is.

Bravo to that post, so well put!

Taztoy · 21/05/2026 10:03

VexedofVirginiaWater · 21/05/2026 10:00

No need to make it easier for them though is there? Burglars can always break into your house, but you should still lock the door.

Why are crimes against women so often compared to crimes of property?

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 21/05/2026 10:01

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:49

Yeah but if you wanted to be pedantic about this there’s nothing preventing a man from entering female only loos and doing that.

They're designed to avoid that. Reasonable chance of another woman in another cubicle. Also I forgot to mention voyeurism. Most women's toilets are are designed with double doors and no eyeline. And harder to walk in and leave a camera in single sex provision.

I don't have the source to hand but there really are more sexual offences in unisex provision.

VexedofVirginiaWater · 21/05/2026 10:00

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:49

Yeah but if you wanted to be pedantic about this there’s nothing preventing a man from entering female only loos and doing that.

No need to make it easier for them though is there? Burglars can always break into your house, but you should still lock the door.

BridgetJonesV2 · 21/05/2026 09:59

It's actually quite frightening that a very vocal tiny minority have had this impact in the first place. #bekind can fuck right off into the past, I'm utterly sick of all this conversation. A man wearing a dress and lipstick is still a biological male and it's time that transgenderism is addressed as either the mental illness or fetish that it actually is.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 09:55

Ihateslugs · 21/05/2026 09:44

i wonder if there is now some guidance about membership of all women groups like the Women’s Institute who have changed their membership rules this year so only those assigned female at birth can join. It has caused a lot of upset and quite a number of members have not rejoined (19 out of a membership of 46 at one of my WIs).

As far as I understand, National Federation have always said they had to make these changes because the Supreme Court ruling forced them to comply with their charitable status and they did not have the funds to fight a legal battle.

Thats a battle they could not win however much money they have.

They can set up a new charity called the institute which allows males and females in. but they can never have an organisation that allows actual females, and men in dresses, but not men in trousers.

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GreenHay · 21/05/2026 09:55

How dare we think about celebrating won’t someone think of the poor menz,

now, where’s the champagne…

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 09:54

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:49

Yeah but if you wanted to be pedantic about this there’s nothing preventing a man from entering female only loos and doing that.

Nobody said a female only sign was a forcefield that repels men

BUT it does make it FAR easier to spot transgressors right?

Because the only males in there, are the ones BREAKING the rules.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/05/2026 09:53

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:34

Tried to find a pic to explain what I meant but obviously people don’t generally take photos of loos so struggled. At Manchester Met they have cubicles in some of the buildings with the sink and Sanpro and loo all in one self contained cubicle- does that make sense? So you don’t wash your hands next to anyone else, you go into a little private cubicle with floor to ceiling door. There’s no door to enter the area with the cubicles either, it’s open plan so no more opportunity to be sexually assaulted than in any other area of the uni.

That design makes it far far more likely sexual assault can happen because its a completely enclosed, sound proofed room.

And, you are far more likely to die in them as people pass out, collapse and nobody sees them for 8 hours.

They are a huge retrograde step.

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Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:49

borntobequiet · 21/05/2026 09:39

There’s no door to enter the area with the cubicles either, it’s open plan so no more opportunity to be sexually assaulted than in any other area of the uni.

More than any other area where you can be quickly be shoved into a small, enclosed space and the door locked, you mean.

Yeah but if you wanted to be pedantic about this there’s nothing preventing a man from entering female only loos and doing that.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/05/2026 09:48

Ihateslugs · 21/05/2026 09:44

i wonder if there is now some guidance about membership of all women groups like the Women’s Institute who have changed their membership rules this year so only those assigned female at birth can join. It has caused a lot of upset and quite a number of members have not rejoined (19 out of a membership of 46 at one of my WIs).

As far as I understand, National Federation have always said they had to make these changes because the Supreme Court ruling forced them to comply with their charitable status and they did not have the funds to fight a legal battle.

the media say it’s in the guidelines - no obligation to be single sex but when you are it needs to be on the basis of biological sex. Whether “single gender” organisations are ever permitted is a bit of a grey area as it would depend on bog standard men bringing a case when excluded or women challenging on the basis of discrimination that they couldn’t have a female only group. Ones which have it in their charity articles won’t suddenly be allowed to admit men without changing them.

Ihateslugs · 21/05/2026 09:44

i wonder if there is now some guidance about membership of all women groups like the Women’s Institute who have changed their membership rules this year so only those assigned female at birth can join. It has caused a lot of upset and quite a number of members have not rejoined (19 out of a membership of 46 at one of my WIs).

As far as I understand, National Federation have always said they had to make these changes because the Supreme Court ruling forced them to comply with their charitable status and they did not have the funds to fight a legal battle.

borntobequiet · 21/05/2026 09:39

There’s no door to enter the area with the cubicles either, it’s open plan so no more opportunity to be sexually assaulted than in any other area of the uni.

More than any other area where you can be quickly be shoved into a small, enclosed space and the door locked, you mean.

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:37

FarriersGirl · 21/05/2026 09:28

Its always the women that are expected to budge up, never the men. Unisex toilets might sound like a good idea but are pretty awful IME as men piss all over the place and don't think to wipe up. A few of these in addition, as an alternative to proper single sex loos would help those who do or not cannot use the space designated for their biological sex.

I’ve been in some really grim women’s loos in my time too to be fair… The self contained ones I mentioned are generally always immaculate but then it’s in one of the best buildings at Man Met and it’s cleaned constantly.