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To crowd source a list of ADHD friendly meals/recipes

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Nemorth · 20/05/2026 23:09

I’m popping this in AIBU for reach. People with ADHD often forget to eat and then when they need to eat they don’t have time to make food so often snack. Instant gratification food.

My DD jokes that we live in an “ingredients” house. When we go out and leave her at home (she’s plenty old enough to be left alone) we often plate up meals for her to make sure she eats.

She’s getting much better. Today she made herself a really pretty looking salad with chicken goujons, followed by apple and peanut butter for pudding.

I’d love to make a list of easy meals so that she can develop her skills with a view to her moving out for Uni in a couple of years.

She’ll make herself toast and baked beans. Or soup.

She’ll happily eat the same meal for days on end and then suddenly will have a sensory ick reaction to it and it will be months before she can eat it again.

The sensory ick thing can affect her making food too.

Meals should have a minimum number of steps, be easy to make and hopefully avoid ick moments. She eats little and often. Probably 5 or 6 small meals a day.

What say you Mumsnet? What meals should I include in her ADHD friendly recipe book?

Thank you.

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Nemorth · 20/05/2026 23:29

@MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBackI fully anticipate doing something similar in future. Or perhaps even those meal services that you’d normally associate with an older person needing!

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HedgehogsOnTheWall · 20/05/2026 23:29

I have ADHD. I have literally never forgotten to eat. OK sometimes dinner is coco pops or a ham sandwich but it's still food. Let your adult daughter figure this out for herself. She doesn't need a recipe book.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 20/05/2026 23:20

I recognise this struggle.

Individual frozen portions of batch cooked meals are the solution to those times for us. We send dd back to uni with a fully stocked freezer prior to her exams so that she doesn't have to think much about what she's going to eat or how to eat healthily.

Selkie33 · 20/05/2026 23:17

@Nemorth

these recipes may be of interest

SnowflakeSmasher86 · 20/05/2026 23:16

I was just going to say eat the same thing several days in a row. But you’ve already covered that one!

E.g. I’ll cook a bunch of chicken with peppers and onions in the oven, then add a few cubes to a curry sauce one day, then sprinkle some fajita seasoning on some and pan fry with salad and wraps the next etc. Saves me lots of food waste and makes life easier knowing half the chopping and cooking is already done.

Same with batch cooking bolognese or chilli, then freezing in single portions in freezer bags.

Tink3rbell30 · 20/05/2026 23:15

This is me. I live off the same basic things. Jacket potatoes, pasta, baguette and picky bits, packet rice, ready cooked chicken and broccoli. Too many things give me the ick or are too overcomplicated.

ItssssAMeMariooo92 · 20/05/2026 23:13

Oooo I'm following. Myself and my son are adhd and this is something i really struggle with