We have 18 nights booked in California in July, me, husband and teen daughter. We decided together almost a year ago now that we wanted to do this instead of our usual beach holiday. It's all booked now and I am really looking forward to it. We've been before about 20 years ago and we loved it.
Husband has seemed pretty indifferent about it for the last few weeks and just not really talking about it. He's said tonight though that he's just not looking forward to it. I'm upset because it makes me sad not to be able to enjoy this with him. I also feel a bit angry as he's making me feel like I pushed it with him. It didn't feel like that when we were planning it but then sometimes I feel like we would never do anything if I didn't get the ball rolling. His reasons are that it won't be very relaxing ect. For context, we are not moving about too much, at least 4 nights in each place and not doing loads of theme park days.
It is anexpensive holiday and we have had to save hard but he's still had 5 nights away abroad with his friends. We can afford it.
Am I being unreasonable to feel sad/cross that he is sucking the enjoyment out if this? Should I be putting more effort into reassuring him/convincing him we will have fun? I just can't seem to do it ....