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To ask how many times you have seen anyone wearing a niqab (full face veil revealing eyes) or burqa (full face veil with mesh cover for eyes)?

317 replies

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 17:18

I've seen recent talk on UK Reddit about banning them, and I think we should, for several reasons, but I also think in some ways banning is easy but actually integrating people leading a very conservative Muslim lifestyle is much harder, and should be the main discussion.
European countries that have banned found not many women wore them. What about here? Some estimates say 1%-2% of Muslim women, but we don't really know.

I live in S London in an area with quite a few Muslims and have only seen about 10 niqab wearers in my life. Most in more central areas. I've never seen anyone wearing a burqa.

How typical is this?

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Strangerthanfictions · 20/05/2026 20:56

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 17:25

Thanks, that's really sad. I feel like this is one of those issues where the answer can vary very drastically depending on area.

What's sad?

JHound · 20/05/2026 20:55

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 17:18

I've seen recent talk on UK Reddit about banning them, and I think we should, for several reasons, but I also think in some ways banning is easy but actually integrating people leading a very conservative Muslim lifestyle is much harder, and should be the main discussion.
European countries that have banned found not many women wore them. What about here? Some estimates say 1%-2% of Muslim women, but we don't really know.

I live in S London in an area with quite a few Muslims and have only seen about 10 niqab wearers in my life. Most in more central areas. I've never seen anyone wearing a burqa.

How typical is this?

Burkha - never
Niqab - frequently.

But I was raised in areas with lots of muslims and live in diverse areas. I don’t care what a woman chooses to wear though.

Oaktree99 · 20/05/2026 20:53

I've only seen them a few times. I don't think we should ban them, it seems really intrusive to legislate clothing in that way. Why do people support a ban? I'm not muslim but some days I could quite fancy wearing one myself, imagine all the time and money you could save on hair and makeup!

Scarlettpixie · 20/05/2026 20:21

Hardly at all and none in my town.

Pericombobulations · 20/05/2026 20:00

When I lived in Bradford, in the 90's it was daily.

Now live elsewhere very rarely.

Runningswanker · 20/05/2026 19:55

Shudacudawuda · 20/05/2026 19:49

At my work we are being encouraged to have photos on our Teams profiles and told we must always have our cameras on for online meetings. Its for security, to ensure we are talking to the person we think we are, but also most people find it quite disconcerting talking to a blank screen when you're supposed to be having a meeting.
Its pretty normal for humans to find facial expressions helpful in building a rapport with someone and when communicating. I would hate to be treated in a medical setting by someone whose face I can't see.

Not normal for a lot of autistic people. I actually find the removal of facial expressions takes the pressure off! Relying on verbal language is much easier for me. I appreciate it's not an intended benefit but please don't assume everyone is the same.

KeepingItAnonForThisOne · 20/05/2026 19:50

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 17:18

I've seen recent talk on UK Reddit about banning them, and I think we should, for several reasons, but I also think in some ways banning is easy but actually integrating people leading a very conservative Muslim lifestyle is much harder, and should be the main discussion.
European countries that have banned found not many women wore them. What about here? Some estimates say 1%-2% of Muslim women, but we don't really know.

I live in S London in an area with quite a few Muslims and have only seen about 10 niqab wearers in my life. Most in more central areas. I've never seen anyone wearing a burqa.

How typical is this?

Countless times in Tower Hamlets area of London

Shudacudawuda · 20/05/2026 19:49

LakieLady · 20/05/2026 18:32

A few weeks ago, I had blood taken by a phlebotomist who was wearing a niqab. She didn't seem to have had a problem getting a job and participating in society.

She asked if I could hear ok, and explained that she always asked so that she could remove it if a patient needed to lip read.

At my work we are being encouraged to have photos on our Teams profiles and told we must always have our cameras on for online meetings. Its for security, to ensure we are talking to the person we think we are, but also most people find it quite disconcerting talking to a blank screen when you're supposed to be having a meeting.
Its pretty normal for humans to find facial expressions helpful in building a rapport with someone and when communicating. I would hate to be treated in a medical setting by someone whose face I can't see.

Tigerbalmshark · 20/05/2026 19:30

Valeriekat · 20/05/2026 19:12

I live in Pakistan so maybe this isn’t really directed at me?

Maybe not, but I am actually quite interested in the answer! I’ve never met a Pakistani woman wearing anything more covered than a hijab or scarf, but most Pakistani women I have met have been doctors in the UK, so probably not representative.

CultOfTheAirFryer · 20/05/2026 19:18

Niqab most days. Burqa very rarely - only a handful of times ever. East London.

Hadenough32 · 20/05/2026 19:18

I live in Leicester..fill Muslim attire is the norm here. My kids are the only white British in their school of 600 kids. The school is majority Hindu but id say 30% Muslim..90% of those mums wear the niquab or burkha. So every morning I see these mums..absolutely never been an issue. Seen them lift their veils at kids parties so they can enjoy a coffee etc. When I first moved here I thought I'd struggle to connect with them but I don't. They're human just like the rest of us

MabelMoo23 · 20/05/2026 19:13

I don’t like them, but I wouldn’t suppprt banning them. It’s not for me to decide what women should wear!

Sartre · 20/05/2026 19:13

Brokentoes85 · 20/05/2026 19:10

Born and lived in Bradford till recently, never seen one.

Wow, me too! Did you never drive or walk around Great Horton or Manningham? To be honest, even the city centre. I went ice skating with DC last summer and saw a mum and 2 young children wearing them.

Valeriekat · 20/05/2026 19:12

I live in Pakistan so maybe this isn’t really directed at me?

Brokentoes85 · 20/05/2026 19:10

Born and lived in Bradford till recently, never seen one.

ToffeeCrabApple · 20/05/2026 19:06

Only rarely and primarily in a diverse city in the north where my employer has an office.

I have lots of professional female Muslim friends who don't cover their heads at all unless visiting religious spaces etc or mingling with more conservative Muslim friends.

DoreenDoors · 20/05/2026 19:06

InfoSecInTheCity · 20/05/2026 18:58

Everyone does have the right to express their opinion. What we don’t have is the right to is to enforce our opinion on others. Given that most of the posts are about how awful it is that women are forced to wear these items they would surely agree that enforcing a different dress code would also be wrong?

Are you as strongly opposed to Jewish orthodox women covering their hair and wearing modest clothing from ankle to neck, or orthodox Christian women covering their hair and wearing modest clothing from ankle to neck? Or is it just when the religious clothing is linked to Islam that it becomes a concern?

Its because visibility of one's face is hugely important in human groups. As I previously posted, I found the niqab very cumbersome in terms of clear communication when I lived in the Gulf. I have practical objections to it but dont want to ban it because banning clothing is an overreach. I couldnt care less about head coverings because they dont impact on communication.

Sartre · 20/05/2026 19:05

InfoSecInTheCity · 20/05/2026 18:58

Everyone does have the right to express their opinion. What we don’t have is the right to is to enforce our opinion on others. Given that most of the posts are about how awful it is that women are forced to wear these items they would surely agree that enforcing a different dress code would also be wrong?

Are you as strongly opposed to Jewish orthodox women covering their hair and wearing modest clothing from ankle to neck, or orthodox Christian women covering their hair and wearing modest clothing from ankle to neck? Or is it just when the religious clothing is linked to Islam that it becomes a concern?

I think the niqab is being brought into question more than hijab though. Hair coverage is totally normal and fine, see it every single day in Manchester but the niqab/burqa is a bit more extreme. As I said though, if the woman chooses this I don’t think it should be taken away. I don’t appreciate the state governing a woman’s body.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 20/05/2026 19:03

TheBookShelf · 20/05/2026 18:13

I too would like to see face coverings of any type (whether niquab, masks, etc) disallowed in public facing services roles, on access/disability//communication grounds. I have some hearing loss and face coverings muffle sound; if i can't see the person's face, of if their mouth is covered, I can't reliably understand what they are saying.

On the one occasion I was served by a lady wearing a niqab, as soon as I said I lipread, she took me into the pharmacy consulting room and removed it. There were other people present in there who would have been able to serve a male.

Still don't have a problem with women choosing to wear something despite all the posters that want to tell them what they can and cannot wear because they think it's not fair that they are allegedly told what they can and cannot wear.

Sartre · 20/05/2026 19:02

Lots. Used to teach in Huddersfield and also worked in Keighley for a spell so saw a few there. Grew up in Bradford so saw a fair few there too. Actually saw children wearing them when I went back to Bradford last summer which surprised me. I’ve never seen children wear them before this and tbh most don’t wear the hijab till puberty. I now work in Manchester and don’t see as many but occasionally do.

I don’t know if you get out into big diverse cities much if you almost never see them really! They are relatively uncommon I suppose. I don’t know how I feel about banning them. I know some women choose to wear them and feel safer like that, I don’t like removing a woman’s choice. Yes yes some are forced but some also choose and prefer to wear one… I recommend the TV series We Are Lady Parts as a positive representation of Muslim women.

Runningswanker · 20/05/2026 19:01

@InfoSecInTheCity I saw a man online who had posted a stance against women wearing the hijab, and people had trolled the comments with pictures of the Virgin Mary, it was wonderful.

InfoSecInTheCity · 20/05/2026 18:58

BlushingBrightly · 20/05/2026 18:39

If everyone has the right to wear what they want, surely everyone also has the right to express their views on what people wear? Freedom all round, surely

Everyone does have the right to express their opinion. What we don’t have is the right to is to enforce our opinion on others. Given that most of the posts are about how awful it is that women are forced to wear these items they would surely agree that enforcing a different dress code would also be wrong?

Are you as strongly opposed to Jewish orthodox women covering their hair and wearing modest clothing from ankle to neck, or orthodox Christian women covering their hair and wearing modest clothing from ankle to neck? Or is it just when the religious clothing is linked to Islam that it becomes a concern?

Runningswanker · 20/05/2026 18:58

The irony on Mumsnet is the anti islamic threads usually are pushing for the type of legislation/controls that would be more fitting of the countries that they are so fearful of. Controls on women's clothing, prisons as punishment not rehabilitation, the right for vigilante/eye for an eye justice etc. Some of the stuff spouted on here about how we should deal with asylum seekers or people in Burkhas would fit right in in UAE.

ThisCandidMintGoose · 20/05/2026 18:56

South London, see these women every day.

I strongly believe it should be banned, because same rules should apply to everyone. If we ban teens from wearing a baclava to enter school, same rule should apply to others.

More importantly, because they represent something that as a society we disagree with. We dont' make exception for cultural tattoos or piercing, and a whole lot of "cultural" customs.

Ineffable23 · 20/05/2026 18:55

CoatiCutie · 20/05/2026 18:43

I work in Cambridge too and regularly see them.

And while I was not commenting on a ban or not, I disagree that just because things are normal in another culture they shouldn't be banned here

When I go to view a church abroad I cover my shoulders if asked as that is their culture. I don't understand the view that people living here shouldn't adopt our culture

I reckon I semi-regularly see people wearing an abaya + hijab, occasionally see a niqab and I don't think I have ever seen a woman wearing a burka including eye covering. Niqab is certainly infrequently enough that I notice it every time I see it, but not surprising enough to remember every occasion, if that makes sense. (Another East Anglian.)