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To ask how many times you have seen anyone wearing a niqab (full face veil revealing eyes) or burqa (full face veil with mesh cover for eyes)?

317 replies

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 17:18

I've seen recent talk on UK Reddit about banning them, and I think we should, for several reasons, but I also think in some ways banning is easy but actually integrating people leading a very conservative Muslim lifestyle is much harder, and should be the main discussion.
European countries that have banned found not many women wore them. What about here? Some estimates say 1%-2% of Muslim women, but we don't really know.

I live in S London in an area with quite a few Muslims and have only seen about 10 niqab wearers in my life. Most in more central areas. I've never seen anyone wearing a burqa.

How typical is this?

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 21/05/2026 09:37

I don’t recall the exact number but it would be higher than 10.
It makes me feel uncomfortable although it is not my body or face, would it help the women by banning them? Is it their choice? If the answer was yes then I would 💯 support the ban, alongside all face coverings unless required for cyclists or workers.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 21/05/2026 09:35

DoreenDoors · 20/05/2026 17:44

Where I used to live in the Middle East, niqabis were working in front-facing government roles, serving the public and it was absolutely awful as a foreigner trying to communicate. I was also working as a teacher and several of the mums wore a niqab and honestly I came to know them by their designer handbags and many times felt like i could have been handing the kids over to anyone.

many times felt like i could have been handing the kids over to anyone

That’s because you could well have been handing the kids over to anyone!

I sympathise with women in Islamist countries where they are treated as subhumans, and not allowed to show their face in public.

But in a free country, no one should cover their face except for medical reasons. It’s unfriendly, it enables fraud (as above), it disadvantages anyone with hearing or communication difficulties, and it reinforces the toxic myth that women have to hide their faces because men can’t control themselves. That’s medieval bullshit that we do not need.

BeMoreBear · 21/05/2026 09:33

South Wales. Niqab, all the time. Burka, rarely. I don't agree with banning what people wear except for security and public decency reasons (don't ask me how to define that). But, I don't agree with women fully covering up for religious reasons, if men are not also required to do so.

Having said all that, it's not my life or my religion (don't have one) so aside from the public decency and security side of things, I don't feel have a right to decide for someone else.

pointythings · 21/05/2026 09:31

Sausagenbacon · 21/05/2026 09:16

1 or 2 a week in Bristol.
What is worse, prepubescent girls wearing a hijab-type head covering as part of school uniform.
While their husbands, father, brothers all wear western clothing.
I would ban it.

What is worse? All the major faiths oppress women in their extreme manifestations. The face coverings are no worse than raising women to accept male headship in fundamentalist Christianity, no worse than ultra orthodox Judaism refusing females divorce. The problem is men wielding faith as a tool of oppression. The focus on Islam is a convenient distraction.

Sausagenbacon · 21/05/2026 09:16

1 or 2 a week in Bristol.
What is worse, prepubescent girls wearing a hijab-type head covering as part of school uniform.
While their husbands, father, brothers all wear western clothing.
I would ban it.

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:14

jetlag92 · 21/05/2026 06:52

I live near High Wycombe and many women wear them. It's designed to be a symbol of oppression, there is no way women wearing them can participate in society - they must remain hidden and reliant on men. Boys then see their mother's wearing them and think it's normal.
You can't even eat properly wearing one.

I absolutely hate what they stand for and think they should have no place in our society.

Many women opt to wear them and are not forced, nor feel oppressed. It makes them feel safer and more secure, away from the male gaze which I think most women can appreciate to be honest.

They also can and do eat perfectly fine, usually in a female only space or alone.

JHound · 21/05/2026 09:09

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 22:44

Yes, Oxford Street is also one of the main places I've seen them.

I see them all over - Oxford Street I assume it’s Arab tourists.

quantumbutterfly · 21/05/2026 08:18

TheBookShelf · 20/05/2026 18:13

I too would like to see face coverings of any type (whether niquab, masks, etc) disallowed in public facing services roles, on access/disability//communication grounds. I have some hearing loss and face coverings muffle sound; if i can't see the person's face, of if their mouth is covered, I can't reliably understand what they are saying.

It's very isolating isn't it? I was so relieved when face masks came off, I could read lips and expressions again. I had to guard my own a bit more though😶. As for the discomfort of having face covered during activity or hot weather...airgasm anyone?

I do also agree with pp about the misogyny of face covering. It inhibits integration into wider society. But that seems to be the idea.

BillieWiper · 21/05/2026 07:23

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 23:05

That makes sense if you live in heavily Muslim areas.
BTW, the skullcaps observant Jewish men wear are kippahs : though fewer are wearing them right now due to anti Semitism rising..

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Ahh thank you for reminding me the name. Yeah I'm also near a Jewish area so see a lot of kippahs too.

jetlag92 · 21/05/2026 06:52

I live near High Wycombe and many women wear them. It's designed to be a symbol of oppression, there is no way women wearing them can participate in society - they must remain hidden and reliant on men. Boys then see their mother's wearing them and think it's normal.
You can't even eat properly wearing one.

I absolutely hate what they stand for and think they should have no place in our society.

NoGarlic · 21/05/2026 06:47

user1471497170 · 21/05/2026 06:35

If they were banned I would worry that some of these women would remain indoors and become isolated from society. I am thinking that some may feel pressure from husbands and families to wear them.

This is the sort of thing that has be researched and considered before passing laws. You and I can't realistically assess the balance of interests.

Should our legal system pander to the illegal actions of abusive men? Probably not.

What groups may benefit from a ban, and how? I can think of deaf people who lip-read. There will be other considerations that I haven't thought of, and then the relative balance has to be assessed.

user1471497170 · 21/05/2026 06:35

If they were banned I would worry that some of these women would remain indoors and become isolated from society. I am thinking that some may feel pressure from husbands and families to wear them.

Sartre · 21/05/2026 05:15

Jane379 · 20/05/2026 23:54

Good point re men. Muslim men have dress requirements too which it seems many ignore.

This isn’t true. The Quran only calls for “modest” clothing for both men and women, this literally means don’t walk around in hot pants and no shirt. For women it tends to be a case of wearing looser fitting clothing.

Also on the note of hijabs being “mandated” from puberty, the hijab is never mandated hence seeing plenty of Muslim women without them. It’s a choice. Some young girls choose to wear them because they want to copy mum or their sister.

As I said earlier in the thread, I was surprised to see young girls in a niqab last time I returned to Bradford where I grew up. I’ve never seen that before nor since.

NotMeAtAll · 21/05/2026 04:49

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 03:00

May I ask why you wear a mask? For health reasons? Or something else? I understand if you'd rather not give more info.

Health, but it's my right to wear it for any reason I choose.

Episode34 · 21/05/2026 04:22

I used to see a couple of women wearing burkas fairly regularly while living in Perth Australia about 15 odd years ago. I was in a very multicultural area. I am now in a regional WA town and its not common although there are plenty of women who wear hijabs.

It felt kind of sad because it is hard to interact with people when you can't see their face. I was a young mum and a bit lonely so would regularly chat to other mums at local shops or parks but when someone's face is covered you don't see a smile or any other cues to let you know if conversation is wanted. I felt like it must be very isolating.

HelenaWaiting · 21/05/2026 03:02

Have a word with Nige. I'm pretty sure he'll be happy to impose a ban if Reform ever gain power. And we shall have the government, and the society, that we deserve.

Zanatdy · 21/05/2026 03:01

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 02:57

Interesting : I imagine maybe they feel happier showing faces at kids' parties or similar as there's less likely to be unrelated men there?

I’d imagine anywhere without men, they will lift it. I have a muslim colleague who doesn’t wear her headscarf when it’s just women on the call.

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 03:00

NotMeAtAll · 21/05/2026 01:37

I sometimes wear a mask when I go out. If it's sunny I might have sunglasses too. Should that be banned too, or is it only muslims whose clothes you want to control?

May I ask why you wear a mask? For health reasons? Or something else? I understand if you'd rather not give more info.

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Zanatdy · 21/05/2026 03:00

I live in Surrey, and work in Croydon. I’d say i’ve seen a fair few over the years, but not loads no.

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 02:59

AlexaStopAlexaNo · 21/05/2026 02:28

There is not a woman alive who would choose to wear this if they really had a choice and were completely free form any repercussions of making it.

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I don't think that. People on here say that about selling sex, surrogacy, other stuff. I don't think any of those are good but people vary enormously and there will always be some who do choose for whatever reason.

Imo whether it should be banned is a separate question.

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 02:57

Hadenough32 · 20/05/2026 19:18

I live in Leicester..fill Muslim attire is the norm here. My kids are the only white British in their school of 600 kids. The school is majority Hindu but id say 30% Muslim..90% of those mums wear the niquab or burkha. So every morning I see these mums..absolutely never been an issue. Seen them lift their veils at kids parties so they can enjoy a coffee etc. When I first moved here I thought I'd struggle to connect with them but I don't. They're human just like the rest of us

Interesting : I imagine maybe they feel happier showing faces at kids' parties or similar as there's less likely to be unrelated men there?

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AlexaStopAlexaNo · 21/05/2026 02:28

There is not a woman alive who would choose to wear this if they really had a choice and were completely free form any repercussions of making it.

NotMeAtAll · 21/05/2026 01:37

I sometimes wear a mask when I go out. If it's sunny I might have sunglasses too. Should that be banned too, or is it only muslims whose clothes you want to control?

OonaStubbs · 21/05/2026 01:05

Very rarely, never in my hometown, a few times in Sheffield, mainly in the areas where a lot of Muslim people live like Sharrow or Attercliffe. I don't think I've ever seen anyone with the full face covering in Sheffield city centre or Meadowhall, it might not even be allowed in Meadowhall.

Beachforever · 21/05/2026 01:01

I dislike niqabs & burqas for several reasons but exaggerating the situation isn't helpful.

You baffle me OP. By your own admission, you’ve only seen someone wearing a Niqab at most 10 times in your life. And never seen someone wearing a Burqa. So why the dislike and the endless posts about them being banned as you want to see their facial expressions??

This is just racism.

A government telling a woman what she cannot wear is just as bad as a government telling us what we must wear.

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