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To ask how many times you have seen anyone wearing a niqab (full face veil revealing eyes) or burqa (full face veil with mesh cover for eyes)?

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Jane379 · 20/05/2026 17:18

I've seen recent talk on UK Reddit about banning them, and I think we should, for several reasons, but I also think in some ways banning is easy but actually integrating people leading a very conservative Muslim lifestyle is much harder, and should be the main discussion.
European countries that have banned found not many women wore them. What about here? Some estimates say 1%-2% of Muslim women, but we don't really know.

I live in S London in an area with quite a few Muslims and have only seen about 10 niqab wearers in my life. Most in more central areas. I've never seen anyone wearing a burqa.

How typical is this?

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Isseywith2witchycats · 21/05/2026 17:45

Living near Bradford with a large Asian community not very many wear full burka a few wear the niqab mainly seems to be older ladies, hihab very common , Halifax Town I live in hijab yes others not so common

quantumbutterfly · 21/05/2026 17:38

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 17:18

That's true, but I have spoken about Haredi practices I disagree with on this thread.

This thread is about the UK. I disagree with fundamentalist evangelicals muscling in on US politics, and the Russian Orthodox church's stance on the war. All behaviour like that should be criticised.

I agree some women are not coerced, and freedom of religion is crucial. There have to be limits though. I'd support an infant circumcision ban in theory though in practice I think one right now would just drive it underground and better regulation is what's needed.

The communist government infiltrated the Russian church because they didn't want competition to their authority - how that manifests today may be in encouraging followers to support the country at war. Religion seems easy to weaponise.

https://www.fpri.org/article/2025/10/how-the-russian-orthodox-church-became-a-weapon-of-political-warfare/

InfoSecInTheCity · 21/05/2026 17:38

Moonmelodies · 21/05/2026 15:55

Driving must be tricky for someone whose vision is compromised by a burqa.

I wouldn’t think so, I’m blind in one eye and can see to drive perfectly well and hold a full driving licence. The additional of something that limits the vision less than tinted sunglasses would be unlikely to cause an issue.

quantumbutterfly · 21/05/2026 17:30

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 17:13

It's become noticeably more conservative in Muslim communities now and if you track the restrictions on women in places like Iran & Afghanistan in the same time frame, that change is concerning.
Incidentally, it was always the scuttlebutt that ( in many cultures) boys were treated differently ( better) to girls, I would hate to think we are regressing. I hear from some of my teacher friends that disrespect for women in authority is a concern

  • all of this. Re disrespecting female teachers, maybe there's crossover with Andrew Tate after his conversion to Islam?

Re burkinis being unsafe, I assume people are able to swim in them? I think Haredi Jewish women wear suits called shvimkleids which provide full coverage and these seem to be safe.

I assume a lot of women who want to swim may go to women only places for that reason as then they wouldn't need to cover so much.
The argument against burkini bans (which I disagree with) was partly that they would stop the most conservative Muslim women from learning to swim (fewer Muslim women in general know how to, I think). I think there is a similar case against niqab/burqa bans but I think we should have them if possible.

I wish there were more research on the responses of women who wore these in countries where they did ban.

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Every year people drown because they get out of their depth in clothes that become waterlogged, heavy & restrictive to movement. Pros & cons wrt to insulation & flotation potential but you could try the difference between swimming in loose clothing Vs a skin tight suit, especially for a weak swimmer.

JHound · 21/05/2026 17:28

pointythings · 21/05/2026 15:57

First purpose built mosque in the UK dates back to 1889. We get it, you hate and fear Islam. Perhaps you should get a job in the NHS; you would get to know many Muslims and perhaps realise they are not a homogeneous mass of identical people.

As for 'British values', is there any agreement on what those are?

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Perhaps you should get a job in the NHS; you would get to know many Muslims and perhaps realise they are not a homogeneous mass of identical people.

To me this is what islamophobia is and I wonder if people who just think every single muslim on the planet is the same has ever met, spoken to or has friendships with muslims.

quantumbutterfly · 21/05/2026 17:20

pointythings · 21/05/2026 17:05

I agree, but I intensely dislike the hypocrisy that calls out extremist Islam and has nothing at all to say about extreme Orthodox Judaism and the kind of Christianity that is currently so powerful in the US and Russia. All religions have their extremes.

And none of that takes away from the issue that you can't distinguish women who cover up to an extreme degree because of their own intrinsic beliefs and those who are coerced into it. Personally as a fairly hardcore atheist I don't get that kind of intense expression of faith, but I'm opposed to stifling anyone's freedom of religion.

There are boundaries though and we should agree them as a society. Animal & Human sacrifice for example might be an extreme expression of religious freedom.

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 17:18

pointythings · 21/05/2026 17:05

I agree, but I intensely dislike the hypocrisy that calls out extremist Islam and has nothing at all to say about extreme Orthodox Judaism and the kind of Christianity that is currently so powerful in the US and Russia. All religions have their extremes.

And none of that takes away from the issue that you can't distinguish women who cover up to an extreme degree because of their own intrinsic beliefs and those who are coerced into it. Personally as a fairly hardcore atheist I don't get that kind of intense expression of faith, but I'm opposed to stifling anyone's freedom of religion.

That's true, but I have spoken about Haredi practices I disagree with on this thread.

This thread is about the UK. I disagree with fundamentalist evangelicals muscling in on US politics, and the Russian Orthodox church's stance on the war. All behaviour like that should be criticised.

I agree some women are not coerced, and freedom of religion is crucial. There have to be limits though. I'd support an infant circumcision ban in theory though in practice I think one right now would just drive it underground and better regulation is what's needed.

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 17:13

quantumbutterfly · 21/05/2026 16:27

My area was mostly Sikh immigration in the midC20th and I noticed that the older ladies wore saris & salwar kameez daily but the next generations mostly wore 'western' clothes unless there was some occasion to dress up, same with all other ex-South Asian groups. None of my Muslim friends wore hijab.
It's become noticeably more conservative in Muslim communities now and if you track the restrictions on women in places like Iran & Afghanistan in the same time frame, that change is concerning.
Incidentally, it was always the scuttlebutt that ( in many cultures) boys were treated differently ( better) to girls, I would hate to think we are regressing. I hear from some of my teacher friends that disrespect for women in authority is a concern.

Btw burkinis look like a dangerous liability if you actually try to swim in them.

It's become noticeably more conservative in Muslim communities now and if you track the restrictions on women in places like Iran & Afghanistan in the same time frame, that change is concerning.
Incidentally, it was always the scuttlebutt that ( in many cultures) boys were treated differently ( better) to girls, I would hate to think we are regressing. I hear from some of my teacher friends that disrespect for women in authority is a concern

  • all of this. Re disrespecting female teachers, maybe there's crossover with Andrew Tate after his conversion to Islam?

Re burkinis being unsafe, I assume people are able to swim in them? I think Haredi Jewish women wear suits called shvimkleids which provide full coverage and these seem to be safe.

I assume a lot of women who want to swim may go to women only places for that reason as then they wouldn't need to cover so much.
The argument against burkini bans (which I disagree with) was partly that they would stop the most conservative Muslim women from learning to swim (fewer Muslim women in general know how to, I think). I think there is a similar case against niqab/burqa bans but I think we should have them if possible.

I wish there were more research on the responses of women who wore these in countries where they did ban.

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Conkersinautumn · 21/05/2026 17:13

I also live in the Midlands and have hijabi colleagues. It'd be a backward step to outright ban a dress choice.

pointythings · 21/05/2026 17:05

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 16:56

Interesting re your husband. Horrible he felt he had to move but I can fully understand why.

the very conservative, extremist, bellicose Saudi sect that only emerged in the late 19th century and has propagated all over the Muslim world because of oil money)

  • this is crucial. I've been reading up on the House of Saud & their pact with the Wahhabis recently & it's clearly caused so many problems.

I don't think women here wearing niqabs necessarily want to dominate anyone else but it's clearly a negative practice.

I agree, but I intensely dislike the hypocrisy that calls out extremist Islam and has nothing at all to say about extreme Orthodox Judaism and the kind of Christianity that is currently so powerful in the US and Russia. All religions have their extremes.

And none of that takes away from the issue that you can't distinguish women who cover up to an extreme degree because of their own intrinsic beliefs and those who are coerced into it. Personally as a fairly hardcore atheist I don't get that kind of intense expression of faith, but I'm opposed to stifling anyone's freedom of religion.

Æthelred · 21/05/2026 17:02

I grew up in an Arab country and one of my earliest memories of my adopted home town of Abu Dhabi (I turned 5 immediately on arrival in the country) was that the local women always removed their face coverings in the presence of young children. This was over 50 years ago.

We drove overland to the UAE and my late mother kept a journal of the trip which I have just transcribed and translated into Arabic. My mother's relief at crossing from eastern Turkey into pre-revolutionary Iran is palpable but when we get to Tehran, there are clues that she has no idea what's coming when we crossed the Persian Gulf - she is clearly surprised to see a few veiled women in Tehran, whereas she wouldn't have seen the veil in Turkey.

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 16:56

inkognitha · 21/05/2026 16:29

Sorry to blow your tiny mind again, but I live with one 😆

My DP is Turkish. Turkey is the only Muslim country who went through secularisation (= the law of the state, human rights, sex equality and personal emancipation supersede religion).

Despite being a Muslim country, you won't see niqabs in Turkey. Most people there live their religion like we live ours, like a faith, a personal spirituality, not a political or social system that aspires to domination.

But since Erdogan came to power and the influx of refugees from Syria and Afghanistan, there's more pressure coming from the religious side again. He chose to move to the UK for his teenage daughter because he didn't want for her to be pressured into dressing modestly, religious conservatism etc. He wants for her to be free to live as she pleases.

So when he sees all these Western people, mostly women, ignorant of their own history, oblivious to their privilege, and ignorant of Islam, ready to sell women's and his daughter's freedom because they think that Islam is the same as Wahhabism (the very conservative, extremist, bellicose Saudi sect that only emerged in the late 19th century and has propagated all over the Muslim world because of oil money), he thinks you're dangerous idiots.

The moment you have more than insults, factoids hastily googled, or some true skin in the game, please, do come and share.

Interesting re your husband. Horrible he felt he had to move but I can fully understand why.

the very conservative, extremist, bellicose Saudi sect that only emerged in the late 19th century and has propagated all over the Muslim world because of oil money)

  • this is crucial. I've been reading up on the House of Saud & their pact with the Wahhabis recently & it's clearly caused so many problems.

I don't think women here wearing niqabs necessarily want to dominate anyone else but it's clearly a negative practice.

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inkognitha · 21/05/2026 16:29

pointythings · 21/05/2026 15:57

First purpose built mosque in the UK dates back to 1889. We get it, you hate and fear Islam. Perhaps you should get a job in the NHS; you would get to know many Muslims and perhaps realise they are not a homogeneous mass of identical people.

As for 'British values', is there any agreement on what those are?

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Sorry to blow your tiny mind again, but I live with one 😆

My DP is Turkish. Turkey is the only Muslim country who went through secularisation (= the law of the state, human rights, sex equality and personal emancipation supersede religion).

Despite being a Muslim country, you won't see niqabs in Turkey. Most people there live their religion like we live ours, like a faith, a personal spirituality, not a political or social system that aspires to domination.

But since Erdogan came to power and the influx of refugees from Syria and Afghanistan, there's more pressure coming from the religious side again. He chose to move to the UK for his teenage daughter because he didn't want for her to be pressured into dressing modestly, religious conservatism etc. He wants for her to be free to live as she pleases.

So when he sees all these Western people, mostly women, ignorant of their own history, oblivious to their privilege, and ignorant of Islam, ready to sell women's and his daughter's freedom because they think that Islam is the same as Wahhabism (the very conservative, extremist, bellicose Saudi sect that only emerged in the late 19th century and has propagated all over the Muslim world because of oil money), he thinks you're dangerous idiots.

The moment you have more than insults, factoids hastily googled, or some true skin in the game, please, do come and share.

quantumbutterfly · 21/05/2026 16:27

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:49

This is interesting, worrying younger women are doing it more.

I don't think burkinis are an issue though I'd rather no woman feels pressure to cover up.

My area was mostly Sikh immigration in the midC20th and I noticed that the older ladies wore saris & salwar kameez daily but the next generations mostly wore 'western' clothes unless there was some occasion to dress up, same with all other ex-South Asian groups. None of my Muslim friends wore hijab.
It's become noticeably more conservative in Muslim communities now and if you track the restrictions on women in places like Iran & Afghanistan in the same time frame, that change is concerning.
Incidentally, it was always the scuttlebutt that ( in many cultures) boys were treated differently ( better) to girls, I would hate to think we are regressing. I hear from some of my teacher friends that disrespect for women in authority is a concern.

Btw burkinis look like a dangerous liability if you actually try to swim in them.

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:59

Something has occurred to me : Sikh men don't have to wear motorbike helmets, they have a religious exemption. If we tried to ban niqabs & burqas, could women who wear them argue similar?

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:57

Sartre · 21/05/2026 05:15

This isn’t true. The Quran only calls for “modest” clothing for both men and women, this literally means don’t walk around in hot pants and no shirt. For women it tends to be a case of wearing looser fitting clothing.

Also on the note of hijabs being “mandated” from puberty, the hijab is never mandated hence seeing plenty of Muslim women without them. It’s a choice. Some young girls choose to wear them because they want to copy mum or their sister.

As I said earlier in the thread, I was surprised to see young girls in a niqab last time I returned to Bradford where I grew up. I’ve never seen that before nor since.

This is interesting re men, I'll need to check.

Unfortunately I think the justification for niqabs comes from the Hadith not the Quran... Quran is believed by some to mandate covering hair but the verse is a bit vague and doesn't say it directly.

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pointythings · 21/05/2026 15:57

inkognitha · 21/05/2026 15:40

And Marco Polo went to live in Imperial China, that didn't make China a Western or Italian nation.

Are we talking continuous presence, structured, and large enough to be significative at a national scale?
Nope, we are not until the late end of the 20th century.

I am looking forward to your next assumption or erroneous fact, it's gonna be a doozy, I am sure. And please, help me out for this bingo card, I am almost there.

First purpose built mosque in the UK dates back to 1889. We get it, you hate and fear Islam. Perhaps you should get a job in the NHS; you would get to know many Muslims and perhaps realise they are not a homogeneous mass of identical people.

As for 'British values', is there any agreement on what those are?

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:55

Episode34 · 21/05/2026 04:22

I used to see a couple of women wearing burkas fairly regularly while living in Perth Australia about 15 odd years ago. I was in a very multicultural area. I am now in a regional WA town and its not common although there are plenty of women who wear hijabs.

It felt kind of sad because it is hard to interact with people when you can't see their face. I was a young mum and a bit lonely so would regularly chat to other mums at local shops or parks but when someone's face is covered you don't see a smile or any other cues to let you know if conversation is wanted. I felt like it must be very isolating.

This

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Moonmelodies · 21/05/2026 15:55

Driving must be tricky for someone whose vision is compromised by a burqa.

Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:55

pointythings · 21/05/2026 09:31

What is worse? All the major faiths oppress women in their extreme manifestations. The face coverings are no worse than raising women to accept male headship in fundamentalist Christianity, no worse than ultra orthodox Judaism refusing females divorce. The problem is men wielding faith as a tool of oppression. The focus on Islam is a convenient distraction.

We do have few fundamentalist Christians here. Haredi Jews are also a small minority though growing due to high birth rate.

Agree all religions oppress women when they get extreme.

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:53

Sartre · 21/05/2026 09:14

Many women opt to wear them and are not forced, nor feel oppressed. It makes them feel safer and more secure, away from the male gaze which I think most women can appreciate to be honest.

They also can and do eat perfectly fine, usually in a female only space or alone.

. It makes them feel safer and more secure, away from the male gaze which I think most women can appreciate to be honest.

  • I can understand that but it's so sad. Why should men intomidate women into covering their faces? We don't make men feel that way.

Re eating, that makes sense. I had an idea that Islam discourages eating in public though this may well be incorrect.

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:51

JHound · 21/05/2026 09:09

I see them all over - Oxford Street I assume it’s Arab tourists.

That's a point: many seen in London areas like this may not live here full time .

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:50

jetlag92 · 21/05/2026 06:52

I live near High Wycombe and many women wear them. It's designed to be a symbol of oppression, there is no way women wearing them can participate in society - they must remain hidden and reliant on men. Boys then see their mother's wearing them and think it's normal.
You can't even eat properly wearing one.

I absolutely hate what they stand for and think they should have no place in our society.

I think they don't necessarily stop women working, interacting etc outside but certainly make it harder. Re eating, that's a good point : how does that work?

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:49

ChevyCamaro · 21/05/2026 10:29

Increasingly often (North England)
I grew up in an area with loads of Muslims and never, ever saw a woman in a hijab, let alone a full Niquab. Older women ( grandmas) wore a headscarf over head and shoulders , often quite pretty ones.
Now, most girls are in hijab ( which often seems to be a fashion statement more than a modesty thing because they wear it with fake eyelashes)and I see Niquab probably a couple of times a week. I increasingly see burkinis at the swimming pool too.
It’s not a neutral item of clothing it’s a political statement and I don’t think we should normalise it in the uk. You cant participate in life with your face covered.
I worry though that if Niquab was banned those women would be forced to stay inside all the time.

This is interesting, worrying younger women are doing it more.

I don't think burkinis are an issue though I'd rather no woman feels pressure to cover up.

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Jane379 · 21/05/2026 15:47

Beachforever · 21/05/2026 14:36

Not yet anyway! But my point is that women do choose to wear these clothes. Just because we don’t understand it, that doesn’t mean it’s oppression.

But I was also replying to a lot of the PP who were saying that even the hijab is a form of oppression.

Yes, I did a thread about burqas on FWR under a different name a while back and linked an article which spoke about women in Pakistan sometimes wearing burqas willingly for reasons of competitive piety (ie to get more status among other women) or pressuring others in the family to do so. There are varied reasons and pressure doesn't only come from men.

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