Men... are u okay? What is the problem?

Men aren't more likely to commit suicide. They are more likely to choose methods with higher success rates (for want of a better term). Rates of suicidal ideation are much higher in women and 1.5 times more women than men attempt suicide.

(i haven't had to warn my sons about those dangerous girls, but I have had to warn them about other men who might attack them when they're out late at night).

So? The fact there was a male inventor 150 years ago doesn’t make men a great sex class does it?

I think some of the responses on here are incredible:

• I'm a woman and I piss in public
• I avoid women in train stations
• I don't carry my keys in my hand
• Why are the women allowing men to use their credit cards/text other women
• Women are more likely to kill their babies
• Let's all think of the poor boys!

Jesus Christ, the OP phrased it poorly (possibly) but there's no denying that men commit the majority of violent crimes, that men abuse and discriminate against women, that men denigrate and put women down, that men pay women less, and that misogyny, worklplace discrmination are very real and that the world is a far more dangerous place for our daughters than our sons. It doesn't make me a man hater to say this. And yes I do warn my daughters about all men. Because I can't tell (and neither can they) who is safe and who isn't.

Op you’re not wrong. I like individual men, and individual women are not necessarily better than individual men, but men as a whole are vile. I can’t think of a single metric which denotes a decent person (crime stats, single parent stats, domestic abuse stats, drinking/drug abuse stats, etc) where women don’t outperform men as better human beings.

I have a son who I love to bits, as well as a daughter, and of course I adore him and will cherish him as a unique individual. But that doesn’t take away the evidence of my eyes and ears.

The vast and overwhelming majority of seriously negative behaviours in society are committed by men. Having a nice dad or whatever doesn’t change that.

It’s also not lost on me that now they get called out for their shitty behaviour, and we don’t tolerate any old rubbish any more, the ‘manosphere’ has reared its ugly head to put us back in our places again.

You do realise why all those things were invented by men don't you?
I'll give you a hint - it's not because women aren't capable

I don't know. I've thought about this over and over. Men go on to commit horrific crimes and they have poor mental health and high suicide. There was an earlier thread here on child psychopaths. I think a lot of them were young boys. Who either end up hurting someone or themselves badly. So I find it hard to feel sympathy. My friends ex used to constantly threaten suicide and lie for no reason if she ever wanted to break up with him. Absolutely not okay. In today's time that's abuse. My best friend was also r*ped. The guy can't be found online anywhere. I imagine if he is and she raised a case He would end his life. :/ obviously not all men but I was shocked to see what even goes on in my boyfriends boys group chat. Racist derogatory jokes. I think a lot of their poor Mh is through their own despicable actions imho. Men really do need to be taught what's ok/isnt okay. As do girls too. I am just so glad I went to an all girls school.

I think the young boys will be fine.

I agree with you OP, men are redundant nowadays hence all the aggressive, sexist and violent behaviours. It's actually quite entertaining (or frightening and sad depending on your point of view), to look at gorgeous young men in their late teens / early twenties turn into ugly, hairy, bald things, all ravaged by testosterone ; men actually age terribly, they are mainly boring as hell and so obsessed with sex and being desired for who they are, it's pathetic. Of course women are capable of appalling deeds but men take the bucket. Oh and the so-called indispensable inventions that actually turn out to have been discovered or engineered by women, only to have them stolen away by men

Yes she did. Evidence shows she was the more evil of the two.

Eh? Are you saying it would be better if women couldn’t vote so there would be less people voting for liberal parties? Wow…

Stable?!?!

Men keep society STABLE?!

😆😆😆

Evidence from investigators and psychologists says that Rose West was not coerced and was an equal partner in these heinous crimes. She was also solely responsible for murdering her daughter as Fred was in prison. Evidence says that she was the more evil of the two.

I know this is completely besides the point but... who on earth takes their shoes and trousers off to piss behind a bush??? Surely you just squat as wide and low as possible, hold your knickers and bottoms forward out the way and hope for the best? If I took my bottom half clothing off every time I probably would have been arrested for indecent exposure by now as there's no way I'd be getting everything back on in time before a poor unsuspecting dog walker came around the corner!

Before I post this I should point out I am a man but: I do remember one occasion (quite a few years ago) when a female friend of mine very obviously went to the toilet in a phone box! In her defence it was after a night out and she was extremely drunk!

You are not wrong. It is not all men but is always man. My partner is a man, and he has his quirks but even he warns me about “some men” and calls them out on his shit related or not. The good men have no issue recognising and pointing at the shit men. And in my view this is their purpose and where the whole protection instinct kicks in - it is to protect us and our daughters from the bad man out there.

@LavenderSkiesxo it’s certainly giving male

Then missy you were made for each other.

As previously mentioned men invented basically everything you use, want, and rely on. So I suggest you do without every single thing in your life including procreation and then ask “of what use are men?” Other than keeping a stable and prosperous society and providing everything we all actually need throughout the entirety of history of course.

Men spend money as well you know. And yes, raising a child is work, but it isnt work that generates money?

Its a strawman argument

I worked with a woman who had three weeks off when she had her baby and that included a two week holiday in France. Not something I'd choose but it's possible. I hated going back after nine months but we aren't all the same.

Have you heard of the male genetic variance hypothesis?

I've got two men, both kind and gentle, thoughtful and generous. Both lovely! I don't know how I'd manage without a man, big and tall, strong and hardworking.. And 2 sons both lovely, (but I'm biased)!

@LeaderBee it’s hard to know where to begin with someone who clearly has such a limited parameter to their knowledge. The knowledge gap I fear would take hours to fix.

Have you considered that without women taking ‘time off’ as you call it, from paid work, that there would be no business, no trade… no… furthering of the human race?

Ps having a baby isn’t working less, it’s working more.

But there is no logical reason not to warn girls that the dangerous ones can also be women. That isn't saying women are worse or as bad but being realistic and saying if you wouldnt get into a car with a strange man why would you get in if it was a man and woman. If the point is to protect girls/women then give them all the information.