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AIBU to think using their voucher only on their share was rude?

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Dinnerdrama · 20/05/2026 12:35

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We were invited out to dinner with friends at the weekend.They planned to visit a particular restaurant and asked if we’d like to go along.
We had a nice enough meal, couple bottles of wine, liqueurs. All quite pleasant for a Friday night.
When the bill arrived one of our friends presented a voucher and asked for the bill to be halved and the voucher taken off theirs. The waiter seemed slightly bemused and repeated back the request. Our friend repeated and clarified they wanted the bill split and the voucher taken off their half.
I almost died of second hand mortification. Is this not CF of the highest order?! I wouldn’t dream of doing this when I invited people out. If I was that skint, I’d use the voucher as a couple and
not invite others along.
For the record, I have been out for a meal previously with them where I have had a voucher and I had the voucher taken off the whole bill and split the remainder.
Cannot believe the brass neck, it has put me off going out with them again. Massively embarrassed on their behalf, not sure why, they didn’t seem to be!!

OP posts:
Basketballhoop405392 · 20/05/2026 12:39

Depends was it a 20% off voucher then thats weird. If it was a £20 cash voucher then I can maybe understand. But if you've used a cash voucher before too then thats unfair.

Marmite27 · 20/05/2026 12:38

How is it any different to cash? I’d not have a problem with this.

Why did you want your friends to subsidise your meal using their voucher, that presumably someone has paid cash for at some point?

Meadowfinch · 20/05/2026 12:38

On the face of it, a reasonable thing to do, except that you've shared a voucher with them in the past.