I wear big comfy pants. I’d like to understand why people wear uncomfortable looking underwear

I don’t wear pants for sex, so that can’t be the reason.

People can wank over anything there is people wanking over grief and loss do we stop talking? Fuck the perverts.

Maybe they don't care? It doesn't really bother me.

More for the weirdo wank bank…

Why are people happily telling the OP what they wear? Even if it is in good faith, anyone can read this.

My daughters wear thongs and I don’t get it. Tiny scratchy things. my Sloggi Romance briefs dwarf them on the rack! But they swear they are comfortable.
Is it like high heels? People who don’t wear them don’t get it. I have an aunt who wears heels every day, even for shopping trips and swears they are comfortable. I think she just doesn’t like the idea of herself in comfortable shoes.
I like a bit of cotton between me and my trouser gusset.

I’ve never found thongs comfortable as I can feel the fabric between my bum cheeks, and they rub. I used to be very slender so it wasn’t a weight issue, maybe just a bum shape issue ! I think big pants can look really glam or sexy, that isn’t solely the preserve of thongs and tiny pants, you can get beautiful big pants ! I wear mid rise or big-ish pants all the time since having children as lower ones sit in my c-section scar which I hate the feel of. So they have to come nicely above the scar now.

I don’t wear massive pants but I’m not a fan of lace or anything thong like. I prefer a mini or bikini style brief. Comfortable and don’t stick up your bum but without too much excess material. I don’t like to feel like have a wedgy all day long.

I used to find bras and jeans really uncomfortable. Then I lost a lot of weight and find they’re now comfortable. I think it’s about things digging in a lot of the time and if you’re much smaller clothing tends to have a lot more room in areas where clothing isnt exactly sized up to scale (bum, thighs, crotch/hips aren’t the same dimension in comparison to length on a woman who is size 8 vs size 12 or 14 for example. But manufacturers take the size 8 and just make it wider in the same proportions).

Thongs I’ve never found uncomfortable. I can’t particularly feel them when I wear them. They just sit there they don’t rub.

Outside of MN, it IS acceptable for many people to wear shoes in the house and to clean their floors.

But if no one wears shoes in the house, the carpets don’t get very dirty

They don’t need to be deep cleaned every month just a vacuum is fine weekly or daily in my case

You all know that you are providing plenty of material (no pun intended) for someone’s wank bank, right?

I’m 43 with a fat arse (fat everything really) and will only wear thongs anything else just feels uncomfortable and sits weirdly under clothes.

I most definitely don’t wear them for men I wear them because I like them and find them far more comfortable.
I can quite honestly say I don’t give other people’s underwear choice a second thought 🤷🏻‍♀️

Exactly.... Grown women should know how to keep their vulva clean and not contaminate there knickers so much that they need a public health warning 😆Gross

I love my big knickers smooths out my big belly 😆

Having seen someone with the same username post similar comments on another thread I’m starting to think there’s an ulterior motive to some of these threads/comments, and for that reason I’m out 👋🏼

It sems like a lot of people on MN have very poor hygiene. I'm also thinking about the people who can't be bothered to clean their carpets regularly but walk all over them without shoes and think that's acceptable.

Because if you get good ones that fit you right, they don’t go right up the crevice, They sort of go in, but with no pressure. And because they’re designed to go there for some of us, we just don’t feel them

for some of us big pants end up giving us a wedgie and so it’s a great big ward of fabric up our arse crack and obviously that’s really uncomfortable And we feel the need to pick it out

I've always found them very comfortable. I also wear lacy underwear and it's not itchy or uncomfortable.

I have a weird bum shape. ‘Big’ pants ride up, and I’m forever pulling out the wedgy. Thongs are the only style I find confirtable wear. Hth.

I find big pants need to fit really well to not be uncomfortable. I find they are often weirdly uncomfortable in the crease between my thighs and my body at the front and sometimes give me a wedgie.

thongs are designed to be in the crevice so they are thin and I don’t really feel them. Or high cut pants when I’m wearing something that doesn’t show my knickers can be good. But big pants no

I think relative comfort/discomfort is a lot to do with body shape. I definitely found all sorts of things comfortable when I was younger, and that was a lot to do with the fact that I was slim with no lumps and bumps- things fitted me in the same way they fit a mannequin in a shop because my body type was what they were designed for. Now I'm much older and a different shape post babies, so even though I'm the same dress size things will dig in and ride up in ways they never used to.

Amazing how exercised some people seem to be about other people's underwear.

I am very slim and wear hi legs and occasionally thong. I don’t find either uncomfortable.

I assume it's because they like wearing them. Maybe they don't feel uncomfortable. Perhaps they like the way they make the clothes look.

I also find bras quite comfortable. Perhaps there is a correlation with people on Mumsnet saying I could never be a size 10/12 and 34C/D bra and telling me to get a smaller back size and larger cup size. As when I try bras on like that they are certainly uncomfortable!

I only wear thongs. Big knickers are really uncomfortable on me. They end up in my bum crack which means loads of fabric up there instead of the small amount of material on a thong.