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IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 20/05/2026 15:36

measuretwicecutonce · 19/05/2026 20:19

its dawned on me, the reason for all the panic is that they are realising that those who could be saving aren’t! Probably because they are working hard, paying shit loads of tax and thinking ‘we’ll live our lives whilst we’re young enough to enjoy it’. Oh and if we have nothing when we retire we’ll be the same as those that never worked/worked very little,

Not rewarding people for doing the right thing is/will come back to bite!

Yes this.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 20/05/2026 15:01

BoredZelda · 19/05/2026 20:05

We are (now) two higher wage earners with a disabled child. We have not always been that way, but have both been paying in to our pensions since we started working. I worked in hotel housekeeping before minimum wage was a thing. I was living away from home and supporting another family member. I had a little disposable income and could have gone out drinking with my mates once a week, instead I did it once a month and paid into my pension. The reason I did this is because I saw my parents, who raised 3 of us on one very low wage, were always able to pay a little into their pensions, and insurance policies they had for us. The guy would come to the door for the money and mum always had it. We’d hide from the bloke who came for the money out of the TV, we’d put up with it when there were no more 50ps for the electricity meter at the end of the week, but that guy always got his money. My parents were adamant that money was the priority and that has always stuck with me.

Not that any of this is relevant to my point, which is based on the statistics available. They make it clear the 45% of people who are not paying into a pension, cannot possibly be entirely made up of people who can’t afford to.

I see your point and I thank you for explaining that your financial choices stem from childhood.
I would describe it as a fear.
I am the same, priority of mortgage and bills so much so that I made every effort I could to pay the mortgage off early.
I do think though that attitudes have changed over the decades, and I blame government policy for the state the country is in. Especially Blair and Brown.

BorgQueen · 20/05/2026 14:24

The average size of a DC pension pot taken as cash in one go is under £50k, I don’t know of any figures that state whether it’s a person’s only pot.

Differentforgirls · 20/05/2026 13:56

NorthXNorthWest · 20/05/2026 13:39

But for the grace of carers, AND the State + tax payers. Actually.

She was the carer. I'm a tax payer - I have no problem having that grace. I'm retired btw and won't get my state pension for another 5 years. Still pay tax.

worriedaboutmyboytoday · 20/05/2026 13:48

On the third of people with DB pensions taking the full amount as soon as they can... Does this include people who had this type of pension for a few years in a particular job, so decide to take the few grand as cash rather than £1.27 a month for the rest of their life?

LoyalMember · 20/05/2026 13:46

Scottishmamaagain · 20/05/2026 13:34

It doesn’t surprise me. I started an apprenticeship in my early 20s with a big company, generous pension you contribute 5% and the company contributes 10%. I was in a group of 5 locally who started at the same time, I was the only one who didn’t opt out of the pension.

We will all be turning 30ish now and I wonder if they have started contributing, I imagine it’s much harder to start as well all have more responsibilities now became home owners/ started having kids etc.

I actually upped my contributions to 10% a couple of years ago, if we get a pay rise next year I will look to up it by that percentage again.

Oh, look, it's Dudley Do Right...😆

MidnightMeltdown · 20/05/2026 13:42

It’s interesting how many people take for granted that the state pension and welfare benefits will always be there. Chances are that they will be, but it’s not a certainty, particularly given the way that the UK economy is on a strong downward trajectory.

The state pension is only just over 100 years old. That’s no time at all from a historical perspective. Before that, people without savings were dependent on charity, family members, or worked until they dropped. In many countries today, that’s still the case. It’s not inconceivable that we could be heading back there. When the state pension was created, we had an empire and were one of the strongest economies in the world.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 20/05/2026 13:42

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:57

Why would you move into an expensive property in the first place though? Tbh some people just aren’t very clever.

Let me guess, with all your posts on here you are mortgage paid off and so very out of touch with the world that the younger generation are having to cope with.

NorthXNorthWest · 20/05/2026 13:39

Differentforgirls · 20/05/2026 13:35

I disagree. There but for the grace...

But for the grace of carers, AND the State + tax payers. Actually.

Differentforgirls · 20/05/2026 13:35

NorthXNorthWest · 20/05/2026 13:34

Pragmatic.

I disagree. There but for the grace...

Scottishmamaagain · 20/05/2026 13:34

It doesn’t surprise me. I started an apprenticeship in my early 20s with a big company, generous pension you contribute 5% and the company contributes 10%. I was in a group of 5 locally who started at the same time, I was the only one who didn’t opt out of the pension.

We will all be turning 30ish now and I wonder if they have started contributing, I imagine it’s much harder to start as well all have more responsibilities now became home owners/ started having kids etc.

I actually upped my contributions to 10% a couple of years ago, if we get a pay rise next year I will look to up it by that percentage again.

NorthXNorthWest · 20/05/2026 13:34

Differentforgirls · 20/05/2026 12:27

So heartless!

Pragmatic.

ILombardiallaPrimaCrociata · 20/05/2026 13:22

BorgQueen · 20/05/2026 12:42

Apparently a third of those with DC pensions take the whole amount as soon as they are able,while still working, probably paying 40% tax on a big chunk of it, that needs to be stopped, although the Goverment won’t mind all that nice extra ‘stupidity’ tax.
The problem with most people is that they want jam today and HM Govt aren’t helping by destroying trust.

I was planning on building an index linked Gilt ladder within my pension to start paying out in a decade but I’m not entirely convinced I’ll actually be paid back, even though they have never defaulted. That’s what lack of trust in your Government does.

A third??? Are you sure? Because this would be utterly insane. Are people really this dumb?

Thank you, @DrRylandGrace for explaining how investment returns and compounding works.

DrRylandGrace · 20/05/2026 13:15

ChocolateApples · 20/05/2026 12:21

How are you getting that sort of return? I can figure out your rough working.

8% per year growth with a hands-off, no financial knowledge required, global share price tracker is the historical average over decades. Factor in compound growth and inflation and contributing less than £50 per month results in a nominal sum at 68 (even if you work in a minimum wage job for your entire working life) of £1.5-1.7m, per my earlier post (including the tax relief and employer contribution - so this is making just the standard 5% employee contribution on minimum wage over working life) because of the compounding. In real-terms (adjusted for inflation) this is likely to result in a pension fund of £350k-400k in “today’s money” which buys a 68 year old an annuity of £25-27k per year index linked (so uprated for inflation over their lifetime).

Clearly a £200 per month contribution (4 times as much) would be expected to result in a pension fund 4 times this size by the time the person retires.

OneShyQuail · 20/05/2026 13:09

Wednesday505 · 20/05/2026 12:57

Most people live day to day, there's no way of funding a pension.

And apparently not save £100 a month for a holiday with your children but put it into your pension pot instead.

Some posters assumed ive saved £100 a month for decades for holidays amd blasted me for wanting to take my kids away. Nope, this is the first year I have been able to put money aside for a holiday.

But yeah, I wont take them on holiday, il put £100 into my pension pot for 12 months instead.

Like honestly wtf?!

Oh and the £25 a month i put into their birthday and christmas funds.....apparently £300 on a birthday/christmas (split) is too much money and that should go into my pension too?!

So no Christmas or birthdays for them?

I love rich people telling poor people how to spend their money 🙄

LoyalMember · 20/05/2026 12:58

Wednesday505 · 20/05/2026 12:57

Most people live day to day, there's no way of funding a pension.

👏

Wednesday505 · 20/05/2026 12:57

Most people live day to day, there's no way of funding a pension.

MidnightMeltdown · 20/05/2026 12:56

Dahliasgalore · 20/05/2026 11:32

I have worked hard since I was 17, including working FT while I was a lone parent. I was so skint that I could barely pay into a workplace pension (and occasionally a private pension that I have). I’m likely to have a pension pot of £60k if I’m lucky, through no fault of my own. My mum was an unpaid carer for my disabled sister - working harder than anyone I’ve ever met. Obviously reliant on state pension. What do you think people are supposed to do? Let their children go without food or clothes? We are one of the richest countries in the world - it’s how that wealth is distributed that’s the problem. Stop bashing the people at the bottom.

This is the problem. The UK is not an especially rich country, not anymore. We are around number 25 and falling fast. I read somewhere that Poland is expected to overtake us by the end of the decade. People will need to revise their expectations on what the welfare state can provide.

LoyalMember · 20/05/2026 12:56

Theyreeatingthedogs · 20/05/2026 12:48

It isn't. It's fabulous.

It is if you can afford it. Many can't.

Theyreeatingthedogs · 20/05/2026 12:48

Franjipanl8r · 19/05/2026 23:00

I plan on working until I’m dead. Retirement sounds very boring.

It isn't. It's fabulous.

BorgQueen · 20/05/2026 12:42

Apparently a third of those with DC pensions take the whole amount as soon as they are able,while still working, probably paying 40% tax on a big chunk of it, that needs to be stopped, although the Goverment won’t mind all that nice extra ‘stupidity’ tax.
The problem with most people is that they want jam today and HM Govt aren’t helping by destroying trust.

I was planning on building an index linked Gilt ladder within my pension to start paying out in a decade but I’m not entirely convinced I’ll actually be paid back, even though they have never defaulted. That’s what lack of trust in your Government does.

7in1Pond · 20/05/2026 12:29

Trust is a big issue tbh.

Completely agree, and it's an area where this government have been really weak. Allowing rumours to circulate about removal of the tax free amount, trying to tinker with how pensions are invested via mandatory investment in private assets, changes to the allowances...it's been an absolute disaster for investor confidence. It's clear that Labour sees pensions as being a potential cash cow, either through changing the tax rules or through attempting to drive growth (and hence tax receipts) by requiring particular kinds of investments. But this is the opposite of what's needed to encourage people to put money into their pensions.

If we want growth and investment then we need to stop behaving like a basket case economy, changing leaders every 5 minutes and creating barriers to trade. Trying to use people's pensions to plug the gap will just mean fewer people want to pay into a pension.

BorgQueen · 20/05/2026 12:27

DeftGoldHedgehog · 20/05/2026 12:00

And a lot of this problem was created by the end of final salary and defined benefit schemes for most people, people would pay into schemes more if they knew they would definitely get a good pension at the end, as boomers and silent generation did. Pensions in themselves now are something of a gamble, I mean you wouldn't lose all your money but it's hard to know how much you are going to end up with, the estimates can vary pretty wildly!

The only ways a pension would be worthless after 50 years of investing with tax relief on top is if the world as we know it ceases to exist, in which case a pension would be the least of your problems,
or if you invest stupidly. Anyone investing in a low cost Global tracker will have an average 8% growth per year over that half century. Of course it’s not linear and you get peaks and troughs but drip feeding in smooths it out and as long as you de-risk slowly over the decade before retirement, you would have a decent amount.
£125 a month, contributions increasing by 2.5% a year , would give £800,000 after 45 years at 8% growth, probably half of what you’d need for a 25 year retirement at current SP rate when adjusted for inflation.

Differentforgirls · 20/05/2026 12:27

NorthXNorthWest · 19/05/2026 22:32

Anyway, I figure I saved the taxpayer millions, yes millions of pounds so I won't feel too guilty when I claim my state pension

You haven't saved the state millions, she was your child and your responsibility. The state and, by default, tax payers are doing you a favour.

So heartless!

ChocolateApples · 20/05/2026 12:21

jumpingjohnny · 20/05/2026 08:47

Except the examples you've given are proving "don't want" rather than can't. 2.5k on a holiday is over £200 a month. That plus employer contribution would be an excellent pension, a quick calculation suggests between £1m - £5m depending on growth.

And your pay wouldn't even be £200 less pcm because it would be taken before tax.

And yes, holidays are a luxury, not an essential. Or at least something to cut back on, e.g. abroad every 2/3 years rather than every year. £300 per child for Christmas is insane! I bet most of it ends up in the bin.

How are you getting that sort of return? I can figure out your rough working.

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