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FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 10:34

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What is this obsession with kids! People who work pay into their pensions along with their employers, I don't understand your argument about children! I actually up my payments to pay more in! Children don't buy the pensions of people who work.

You want society to improve well they need to get all the workshy off benefits and stop offering disability money for every little thing! There's too many kids today being labelled as having this, that and other and conditioned to think they shouldn't work when they grow up. The future is bleak if the system doesn't tighten up.

ThreadGuardDog · 21/05/2026 10:19

Petlover9 · 20/05/2026 22:00

You are right; besides people in "ordinary" jobs still pay NI and tax. A proportion of NI should be ring fenced for pensions . Think how many billions HS2 is costing and that came from taxpayers ! A hundred billion pounds would pay a lot of state pensions for a long time.

So are you suggesting that state pension should be funded from general taxation, because at the moment it comes from NI ? HS2 funding is coming from general taxation. Not disagreeing with you by the way, just clarifying.

ThreadGuardDog · 21/05/2026 10:13

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You absolutely are talking about my situation Your sweeping generalisation read ‘nobody can have a happy life on state pension’ and went on to talk about people rotting in their houses because they’re not working.

And if I’m bored shitless what are you ? What brings you to MN at this time of the morning ?

GiaGia16 · 21/05/2026 10:10

FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 09:40

The reality is that these days you have to think long and hard about the future, people that choose a life on benefits (and many do when they could work) need to understand they won't have a great deal of money when they retire, people choosing to be stay at home mothers won't have much pension. People who have more kids than they can afford and scrimp on pension payments will have less money to live on in later life. People who don't bother building a career and earning potential will not have as much money to live on when they are older. You have to think and plan.

Many people just live for now I think, there is no planning for times when benefits stop.

ThreadGuardDog · 21/05/2026 10:09

Allonthesametrain · 20/05/2026 19:52

Pension credit is a transfer from UC and it is true that you could theoretically be on UC your whole life and it's transferred to pension credit.

Of course many who work get UC but the view some work a certain amount of hours to meet the pay requirement to be able to get UC on top is seen as calculated.

My point is that UC and pension credit are two separate benefits. You don’t automatically transition to pension credit from UC. You have to apply for it, and it’s calculated on household income. There are different rates of PC, and many people’s income changes on retirement with private pensions kicking in etc. It’s not automatic.

LoyalMember · 21/05/2026 10:09

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LuckyHazelFox · 21/05/2026 10:08

Brahumbug · 19/05/2026 17:19

That's why workplace pensions need to be compulsory with no opting out.

No, that's why the current government need to start building growth so people can afford to pay in. Your suggestion is Oppressive.

whirlyhead · 21/05/2026 10:07

My partner paid into a pension for years then his pension company went bust (serious fraud squad got involved with that but 8 years later still no progress.) So, for him, paying into a pension didn't help at all and now he invests in crypto instead.

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 10:06

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Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 10:04

FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 10:01

You are warped if you think people love working until they die! You seem to forget that workplace pensions are on top of state pensions. Like you said if you make the right decisions you don't have to be miserable! My partner and I work and have workplace pensions, our mortgage will soon be paid off and when we are ready,. we'll likely sell up and move overseas where most places are a hell of a lot cheaper to live.

Don't give me the rubbish about people's kids paying, i paid into my pensions not your kids. Many of us are choosing not to even have kids these days so you can't use the kid excuse.

If you pay into your pension, then we aren’t talking about you are we?
I don’t care whether people enjoy working I don’t enjoy working, I doubt very many people do. The difference being whenever I’ve had a couple of months off due to unemployment for various reasons I’ve been told that I need to get out there and scrub floors.

Who exactly does that not apply to then ?

ThreadGuardDog · 21/05/2026 10:04

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:41

People always worked until they died. It gave them some sort of purpose and enjoyment and company. Too many people are sat rotting in their houses. The money doesn’t really come into it. They are just existing.
Nobody can have a happy life on a state pension.
We aren’t talking about people who’s been on the dole their whole lives. The people that will pay the price are the ones that had every opportunity to save and decided not to and they should suffer. Why should our children pay for them to have a better lives than the kids are going to be able to build for themselves?

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I’m having a happy life on state pension thanks. Worked until retirement and was ready to stop work, having balanced disability with full time work for so long. Sweeping generalisations don’t work. None of my retired friends and colleagues are ‘sat rotting in their houses’. Some have part time jobs, some have absorbing hobbies and some do voluntary work.

Oh, and I was lucky enough to be able to save for retirement, as well as having a small private pension. Some people don’t have that opportunity. I’ve come across very few people who haven’t saved if they are able to- sometimes it’s circumstances dictating finances. Why should people be penalised for that ? And today’s kids are paying for our pensions, just as I did for others when I was working. You seem to have forgotten that.

FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 10:01

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:41

People always worked until they died. It gave them some sort of purpose and enjoyment and company. Too many people are sat rotting in their houses. The money doesn’t really come into it. They are just existing.
Nobody can have a happy life on a state pension.
We aren’t talking about people who’s been on the dole their whole lives. The people that will pay the price are the ones that had every opportunity to save and decided not to and they should suffer. Why should our children pay for them to have a better lives than the kids are going to be able to build for themselves?

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You are warped if you think people love working until they die! You seem to forget that workplace pensions are on top of state pensions. Like you said if you make the right decisions you don't have to be miserable! My partner and I work and have workplace pensions, our mortgage will soon be paid off and when we are ready,. we'll likely sell up and move overseas where most places are a hell of a lot cheaper to live.

Don't give me the rubbish about people's kids paying, i paid into my pensions not your kids. Many of us are choosing not to even have kids these days so you can't use the kid excuse.

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:58

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Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:51

LoyalMember · 21/05/2026 09:46

I don't know where to start with this or even how to react properly to it. I'm just speechless. It's as if people are just biological tools and machinery to you.

Resources are going to become more and more scarce. Survivor of the fittest is upon us.

LoyalMember · 21/05/2026 09:46

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:41

People always worked until they died. It gave them some sort of purpose and enjoyment and company. Too many people are sat rotting in their houses. The money doesn’t really come into it. They are just existing.
Nobody can have a happy life on a state pension.
We aren’t talking about people who’s been on the dole their whole lives. The people that will pay the price are the ones that had every opportunity to save and decided not to and they should suffer. Why should our children pay for them to have a better lives than the kids are going to be able to build for themselves?

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I don't know where to start with this or even how to react properly to it. I'm just speechless. It's as if people are just biological tools and machinery to you.

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:43

FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 09:40

The reality is that these days you have to think long and hard about the future, people that choose a life on benefits (and many do when they could work) need to understand they won't have a great deal of money when they retire, people choosing to be stay at home mothers won't have much pension. People who have more kids than they can afford and scrimp on pension payments will have less money to live on in later life. People who don't bother building a career and earning potential will not have as much money to live on when they are older. You have to think and plan.

You spectacularly missed the point that actually there will be £100 a week better off when they become a pensioner than they are currently on the dole. Becoming a pensioner is an upgrade for some people.
£100 a week is a 33% uplift. Plus the job Centre stopped bothering them.

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:41

FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 09:32

What the hell are you talking about? You think everybody should work until they fall down dead? Jesus that's hateful! Some people will not be able to keep doing the jobs that they do! They might not be able to drive to a job after a certain age! We should get rid of stay at home mothers because they won't have much of a pension and according to you they should be forced to carry out low or unskilled work until they drop dead to make up for it.
It's messed in the head that you want people to be banned from retiring no matter how much they would suffer unless they can meet financial requirements?

People always worked until they died. It gave them some sort of purpose and enjoyment and company. Too many people are sat rotting in their houses. The money doesn’t really come into it. They are just existing.
Nobody can have a happy life on a state pension.
We aren’t talking about people who’s been on the dole their whole lives. The people that will pay the price are the ones that had every opportunity to save and decided not to and they should suffer. Why should our children pay for them to have a better lives than the kids are going to be able to build for themselves?

FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 09:40

The reality is that these days you have to think long and hard about the future, people that choose a life on benefits (and many do when they could work) need to understand they won't have a great deal of money when they retire, people choosing to be stay at home mothers won't have much pension. People who have more kids than they can afford and scrimp on pension payments will have less money to live on in later life. People who don't bother building a career and earning potential will not have as much money to live on when they are older. You have to think and plan.

FlyingCatGirl · 21/05/2026 09:32

Apprentice26 · 19/05/2026 17:45

Why do they get to retire? They have to keep working. It’s that simple.
In whatever capacity they can manage, topped up by universal credits if necessary but they need to be subjected to the same conditions as single mums are back to work after 12 months of giving birth

What the hell are you talking about? You think everybody should work until they fall down dead? Jesus that's hateful! Some people will not be able to keep doing the jobs that they do! They might not be able to drive to a job after a certain age! We should get rid of stay at home mothers because they won't have much of a pension and according to you they should be forced to carry out low or unskilled work until they drop dead to make up for it.
It's messed in the head that you want people to be banned from retiring no matter how much they would suffer unless they can meet financial requirements?

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 21/05/2026 09:09

Blondiebeachbabe · 21/05/2026 08:20

I don't understand why the Government keep stock of what NI you've paid (to decide whether you have contributed enough to get the State Pension), when if you haven't, you get the same amount in Pension Credit anyway.

Why spend ££££ on whatever computer system is keeping the tally? Why bother? Someone who has paid all their stamps - a full 35 years - gets a meagre £3 a week more than someone who has never worked a day in their lives.

Putting it like that what exactly is the point of the keeping tally of NI contributions as you say for this purpose.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 21/05/2026 09:07

aLFIESMA · 21/05/2026 07:55

I think that possibly people have seen that pension credit (which tops up someone with lower than full state pension) takes you to £3 less than full state pension.
This then brings in a raft of other entitlements - council tax discount being one. I dare say you would indeed be better off without full state pension. So, unless you are able to do a decent private pension also, it seems almost better to not even have full qualifying years for SP?

This is very true.

Apprentice26 · 21/05/2026 09:07

Blondiebeachbabe · 21/05/2026 08:20

I don't understand why the Government keep stock of what NI you've paid (to decide whether you have contributed enough to get the State Pension), when if you haven't, you get the same amount in Pension Credit anyway.

Why spend ££££ on whatever computer system is keeping the tally? Why bother? Someone who has paid all their stamps - a full 35 years - gets a meagre £3 a week more than someone who has never worked a day in their lives.

I honestly don’t understand how people manage to miss out on full pension stamps. I’ve lived abroad. I’ve spent a long time only receiving the child benefit contribution of stamps and I’m still a good three years clear of the minimum requirements with 17 years to go you’ve actually got work really quite hard to not get enough stamps

GiaGia16 · 21/05/2026 08:41

aLFIESMA · 21/05/2026 07:55

I think that possibly people have seen that pension credit (which tops up someone with lower than full state pension) takes you to £3 less than full state pension.
This then brings in a raft of other entitlements - council tax discount being one. I dare say you would indeed be better off without full state pension. So, unless you are able to do a decent private pension also, it seems almost better to not even have full qualifying years for SP?

Crazy isn’t it.

NorthXNorthWest · 21/05/2026 08:24

Papyrophile · 21/05/2026 08:20

Unfortunately for the Exchequer, the maths geniuses on benefits are making exactly this calculation, and reaching the same conclusion.

Love to see how Rachel Reeves could spin this into "making work pay"...