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To ask what you’d cook for a vegan dinner party?

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Fueoe · 19/05/2026 12:29

Hosting a vegan dinner party for 6 people. One of them is allergic to all nuts.

I’m not a great cook and stressed. What should I make that seems impressive? Just a main and dessert

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derxa · 20/05/2026 11:24

thestudio · 20/05/2026 00:05

lol - you must know that Most dairy comes from hyper industrialised farms where the animals are treated utterly horrifically.

id honestly rather eat meat than dairy. At least it’s over for the animals once they’re slaughtered and they aren’t subjected to an endless living torture.

This isn’t true. Cruelly treated animals are not productive animals.

StationJack · 20/05/2026 11:12

I've been to a few 'gourmet' vegan restaurants where the food has been incredible - but barely any flippin protein!

So often it's a meat veg and two veg meal. Tasty but not satiating. A cauliflower steak is not protein.

thestudio · 20/05/2026 10:53

Daffodils88 · 20/05/2026 00:47

Love this - best suggestion so far!

You sound like a great cook. I am too <preens> but - and obviously this isn't an issue for the odd dinner party - the challenge for me isn't making delicious vegan food, it's making delicious vegan food with enough bloody protein to keep us all alive.

I've been to a few 'gourmet' vegan restaurants where the food has been incredible - but barely any flippin protein! I come away thinking 'it's actually not hard to make delicious and/or really fancy vegetable side dishes, but that doth not a meal maketh mate. It's just several fancy side dishes that came to £150.'

Same with Instagram content - sounds amazing, probably tastes amazing, will kill you in a year unless you're scarfing tofu by the handful off camera.

Since I went vegan a few years ago, I've definitely been cooking less 'Frenchy-European' food and more Japanese, Korean, Chinese, SE Asian and middle eastern food. Partly because I try and avoid the fake meat, cream, and generally very processed vegan 'substitutes', and that makes it hard to do classic french-derived stuff that I miss - especially for eg the very quick 'steak and some kind of reduction/cream sauce' stuff. I have recreated Pommes Dauph though which felt like a massive triumph - with a combo of miso, yeast extract, creamed cashews and vinegar to make the garlic-gruyere-cream ... my kitchen is like a laboratory.

TheLilacFinch · 20/05/2026 10:52

Most (if not all?) shop bought puff pastry is vegan, so I’d do puff pastry tarts, either individual ones or perhaps two large ones for people to choose from. You could make your own nut free pesto for them if you have time. Served with buttery new potatoes and a salad or spring greens.

Lots of options to choose from for pudding too. You could try a chocolate mousse made with tofu, chocolate tart, brownies, ginger cake?

StationJack · 20/05/2026 10:36

@Favouritefruits , That sounds dreadful to me. Mushroom risotto is not delicious and I don't like brownies.

@RationalIrrational , many on here don't. There are lots of different squashes that are tastier and less ubiquitous than the butternut squash, mushroom stroganoff depends on the mushrooms, risotto is just slop. Beetroot is ok but is overpowering.

It's so refreshing to see a menu that doesn't have them on it.

RationalIrrational · 20/05/2026 10:26

StationJack · 20/05/2026 09:44

@FullCrimp , Do you know why lots of vegetarians and vegans hate mushrooms?
Overexposure. If you go out to dinner and you're faced with a mushroom starter and a mushroom main, it can put you off them.
They have a definite taste and texture and can be slimy.

They are usually offered in the form of mushroom risotto, mushroom stroganoff or mushroom wellington, all of which are very mushroomy.

Beetroot, risotto, mushroom, butternut squash , or goat's cheese.
Look how many replies on here have suggested beetroot, risotto, mushrooms or butternut squash.

I am vegan and I love all those things!

It’s only for one evening. Hopefully the OP will find something easy to make, I’m sure her friends will appreciate the efforts.

Favouritefruits · 20/05/2026 10:24

Mushroom risotto for main as it’s so tasty and delicious and easy to adapt to vegan. A dark chocolate vegan brownie with a scoop of vegan ice cream.

Sharptonguedwoman · 20/05/2026 10:21

Fueoe · 19/05/2026 12:29

Hosting a vegan dinner party for 6 people. One of them is allergic to all nuts.

I’m not a great cook and stressed. What should I make that seems impressive? Just a main and dessert

Personally, I'm make a trip to M and S.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 20/05/2026 09:47

@ToomuchtimeagainJust out of interest, what are the wasps dissolved by?

StationJack · 20/05/2026 09:44

@FullCrimp , Do you know why lots of vegetarians and vegans hate mushrooms?
Overexposure. If you go out to dinner and you're faced with a mushroom starter and a mushroom main, it can put you off them.
They have a definite taste and texture and can be slimy.

They are usually offered in the form of mushroom risotto, mushroom stroganoff or mushroom wellington, all of which are very mushroomy.

Beetroot, risotto, mushroom, butternut squash , or goat's cheese.
Look how many replies on here have suggested beetroot, risotto, mushrooms or butternut squash.

Helliephant · 20/05/2026 09:15

Holdinguphalfthesky · 20/05/2026 07:51

I HRTFT but I think the reason that people turn to Asian or Mexican food is because those cuisines tend to be complete without dairy or meat. Most of the other suggestions have required either a meat substitute or a cream/butter substitute. A lot of the flavour and texture in European food comes from the meat or the addition of cream, butter etc because flavour is carried in oil; Thai and Indian food use plenty of oil but then the strong flavours of ginger, garlic, lime, and chilli carry through the whole dish.

Especially for someone who isn’t a confident cook, a good curry recipe is pretty straightforward, and there are also accessible recipes for sides- I’m thinking of Meera Sodha’s Brussels sprouts thoran (I use kale in mine or chard if my chard crop is going mad; this version uses cabbage) and her oven-baked onion bhajis which remove the need for a deep fryer. I do mine in a gas oven but I bet they’d be amazing in an air fryer. Those alongside a nice main like dal, and maybe some home made breads, and a few chutneys (bought- check label- or made) like lime pickle, brinjal chutney, a little salad of finely chopped tomatoes and shallot- would be delicious and look impressive as a spread.

@Fueoe I remember as well a Christmas dinner menu on here that someone listed who was making vegan West Asian food- it sounded lush. May be worth searching for.

Yes good point.
I'd say in Europe, the most vegan-friebdly cuisine is probably Italian.

Holdinguphalfthesky · 20/05/2026 07:51

I HRTFT but I think the reason that people turn to Asian or Mexican food is because those cuisines tend to be complete without dairy or meat. Most of the other suggestions have required either a meat substitute or a cream/butter substitute. A lot of the flavour and texture in European food comes from the meat or the addition of cream, butter etc because flavour is carried in oil; Thai and Indian food use plenty of oil but then the strong flavours of ginger, garlic, lime, and chilli carry through the whole dish.

Especially for someone who isn’t a confident cook, a good curry recipe is pretty straightforward, and there are also accessible recipes for sides- I’m thinking of Meera Sodha’s Brussels sprouts thoran (I use kale in mine or chard if my chard crop is going mad; this version uses cabbage) and her oven-baked onion bhajis which remove the need for a deep fryer. I do mine in a gas oven but I bet they’d be amazing in an air fryer. Those alongside a nice main like dal, and maybe some home made breads, and a few chutneys (bought- check label- or made) like lime pickle, brinjal chutney, a little salad of finely chopped tomatoes and shallot- would be delicious and look impressive as a spread.

@Fueoe I remember as well a Christmas dinner menu on here that someone listed who was making vegan West Asian food- it sounded lush. May be worth searching for.

Waitrose recipe: King Cabbage Thoran – Meera Sodha

https://meerasodha.com/recipes/king-cabbage-thoran/

poetryandwine · 20/05/2026 05:02

Toomuchtimeagain · 19/05/2026 23:26

Some vegans (me) are funny about figs because of the dissolved wasps.

So I was informec upthread, thank you.

Daffodils88 · 20/05/2026 00:47

notacooldad · 19/05/2026 13:07

Remember to check the alcohol is vegan.
I would
Welcome drink 🍸 French 75
Appetiser: Toasted sourdough topped with smashed sweet peas, fresh mint, lemon zest, and a drizzle of extra virgin olive oil.

Main: pan seared king oyster mushroom 'scallops ' served over a parsnip or pea purée, with charred asparagus spears and a saffron-infused white wine sauce

Dessert dark chocolate and avocado mousse decorated with broken white chocolate bits and raspberries.
All easy to make and the starter and dessert can be made in advance.

Love this - best suggestion so far!

fretaway · 20/05/2026 00:07

I made this the other week:
https://www.deliciousmagazine.co.uk/recipes/squash-spinach-and-chickpea-filo-pie/amp/

We’re not vegan but the dc have food allergies, it was a total winner and disappeared in a flash!

If you fancy a hot pudding you could make apple crumble using dairy free butter, or use rhubarb if you wanted it to be more in season. Hot custard made with Bird’s custard powder and oat milk, or plant based vanilla ice cream.

thestudio · 20/05/2026 00:05

Meadowfinch · 19/05/2026 13:04

I have a good repertoire of recipes but I can only think of two vegan recipes that I would choose to serve at a dinner party - a good veggie chilli made with a mix of cubed veg & beans served in a fresh tomato & chilli sauce, and home made wholegrain bread.

Or a mushroom risotto, using expensive dried oyster mushrooms and fresh garden parsley to add lots of extra flavour. Even then, I'd struggle to serve vegan parmesan 😩

I'll never understand people who choose not to eat real cheese/milk/yoghurt. But then I used to live on a dairy farm and I saw daily the love and care the farm manager showed his herd of prize winning Friesians.

lol - you must know that Most dairy comes from hyper industrialised farms where the animals are treated utterly horrifically.

id honestly rather eat meat than dairy. At least it’s over for the animals once they’re slaughtered and they aren’t subjected to an endless living torture.

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 20/05/2026 00:05

I'd probably do 3 or 4 Ottolenghi style salads, some nice bread/dips and booja book ice cream for dessert. Keep it casual.

I like roasted cauliflower with pomegranate almonds and tahini, date pitta and spinach salad, lentil or white bean salad, muhammara or romesco dips.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 20/05/2026 00:00

Helliephant · 19/05/2026 12:47

Stir-fry with fake meat because 9 times out of 10 all vegans get is chilli or curry on loop

@Helliephant , I would check that they eat fake meat before presenting it. I haven’t eaten meat for nearly 60 years and while I appreciate that recent vegans might appreciate something resembling what they’ve been used to I certainly wouldn’t. Fake meat turns my stomach. I’m made of beans and lentils. ☺️

Toomuchtimeagain · 19/05/2026 23:48

Easy vegan dinner party

Caramelized onion tart with ready made puff pastry, Hasselback potatoes done in Rosemary and olive oil with lots of crunchy salt, salad.

M&S ready made vegan brownie warmed up, Swedish Glace vanilla ice cream, selection of red fruits

To make the tart slowly cook down more thinly sliced onions than you ever thought possible in a little bit of oil. Very low heat for a few hours. Tip into a dish and cover with a layer of ready made puff pastry. Supermarket ones are usually vegan. Oven until pastry is cooked
Score through lots of salad potatoes with 3 - 4 cuts but don't go right through. Leave unpeeled. Coat in olive oil, rosemary, pepper and sea salt. Also in the oven and probably put them in first as they take a bit longer.
Big mixed salad with seeds and beans for a bit of protein (would usually do a walnut, fennel and orange salad).

Toomuchtimeagain · 19/05/2026 23:26

poetryandwine · 19/05/2026 12:53

Or just glorious figs for pudding if you can get them! Or chilled, thinly sliced oranges with Cointreau.

But fresh fruit has to be very good and very ripe to be suitable for a dinner party.

Some vegans (me) are funny about figs because of the dissolved wasps.

Dahliasgalore · 19/05/2026 23:22

Ok, thanks to this thread I just read all about the process of how some figs are pollinated by wasps 😳

Dahliasgalore · 19/05/2026 23:13

gerispringer · 19/05/2026 12:58

Mushroom wellington
rosemary roast potatoes
broccoli / carrots other veg
sherry and mushroom gravy

Second a roast dinner with mushroom wellington - makes it really special. Or mushroom and vegetable pie (add brown lentils to make it ‘meatier’) Pastry with vegan butter/spread is great.

Rice pudding with plant milk is really creamy tasting or apple and pear crumble and custard made with plant milks.

Screamingabdabz · 19/05/2026 23:07

Starter: bruschetta and anti pasti
Main: any nice pasta dish - lemon spaghetti upthread sounds nice. Garlic bread and salad.
Pud: vegan tiramisu