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Why does David Beckham need to be seen everywhere?

105 replies

JacknDiane · 19/05/2026 09:28

Like the Chelsea flower show, collaborating with Alan Titchmarsh ffs

He's just absolutely and utterly desperate for attention

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Heyheyitsanotherday · 19/05/2026 15:02

Because he’s fit 😆

IcedPurple · 19/05/2026 15:00

Lomonald · 19/05/2026 11:44

The David Rose or whatever it was called, I "urghed" when I saw his new face this morning, he would turn up to the opening of an envelope.

How many faces is it now? Are he and his wife in competition?

He's starting to look vaguely ferretlike in middle age.

MaCheCazzo · 19/05/2026 14:36

Exactly that @VanquishedColston

There are so many people in the public eye worthy of opprobrium. Long lines of them. And the OP and others are choosing David Beckham? I will never understand it. Nobody gives a shit if you like him or you don't but to get this exercised about him? Nope.

VanquishedColston · 19/05/2026 14:14

MaCheCazzo · 19/05/2026 09:32

He is free to do as he wishes. I'd rather look at him than some DoubleZ list pouty ultra-bronzed balayaged-to-death nobody who once went on a show.

Agree.

I don't think he's desperate for attention, I just think he's reach a stage in his life/fame where he's now being invited to be part of things that he's genuinely interested in (gardening, chickens etc) and so he takes part because he wants to.

Who's going to say no to being part of a team designing a charity garden with the King (even if we all know Frances did all the work really)?

rollitonio · 19/05/2026 13:46

I completely agree OP and it’s this sort of thing surely that has led to this schism with his son. Something just fundamentally missing or wrong in their lives I would say. Full disclosure I worked with both in the past on projects and they were nice people but utterly image obsessed.

BerryTwister · 19/05/2026 13:37

I assume he just likes to keep busy. He might be a billionaire, but he's only 51, so not ready to retire yet.

And he'll have been asked to come to all these events. He doesn't just turn up uninvited.

At least DB had an actual talent. Not like the vacuous "influencers" and Reality TV stars who pop up everywhere, despite having no skills beyond liking the sound of their own voices.

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 19/05/2026 13:29

Kitestring · 19/05/2026 09:47

He is the biggest pick me. Paid off for him though. Remember when Sophie EB wore a T-shirt with bored of the Beckhams on the front. That was a whole generation away, the ennui must be strong now, plus now we have the whole brood to contend with now. They have more staying power than athletes foot.

🤣

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/05/2026 13:19

RaraRachael · 19/05/2026 13:02

Yes I'm aware of that but how are the Beckhams a brand.
He was a footballer, she was a singer.

Brand Beckham is as old as them.

MontyDonsBlueSuit · 19/05/2026 13:11

I’m sick of seeing his over-botoxed face this week. He doesn’t seem to have had much to do with the garden other than requesting they include a beehive but he gets all the headlines and Frances who is actually talented and worked hard on it gets mentioned last behind him and Titchmarsh (who clearly saw how Beckham’s arse kissing the King worked and is angling for his own knighthood.)

The King’s Foundation seem to invite any old influencer to their events these days, they’re all over Instagram. I’m not sure how that does anything positive or useful but I suppose they’re trying to draw a younger crowd.

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 19/05/2026 13:07

Loads of celebs were at the Chelsea Flower Show yesterday, most of whom have nothing to do with gardening. 🤷‍♂️

CurlewKate · 19/05/2026 13:06

He’s got plenty of time and LOADS of money- he’s just doing whatever he likes. And why not?

RaraRachael · 19/05/2026 13:02

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/05/2026 12:42

The Beckhams have been around for 30 years 😂

Yes I'm aware of that but how are the Beckhams a brand.
He was a footballer, she was a singer.

HRTQueen · 19/05/2026 12:54

Brand Beckham

He and his family are a commodity that is central to his and Victoria's life

As his son informed us ...

AiAiAi · 19/05/2026 12:47

It's Sir David Beckham!

Please try and be courteous and use his proper title.

LeedsLoiner · 19/05/2026 12:46

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 19/05/2026 09:53

And with King Charles, too.
Desperate for attention/adulation, I suppose, but I for one am heartily sick of the sight of him.

But enough about the Royal Family, what about Beckham ?

ruffler45 · 19/05/2026 12:43

Isn't he paid very generoulsly to be an "Ambassador" for a lot of organisations?

Which I think means being in the right place at the right time to have his photograph taken with the right people for the right magazines/paparazzi/web pages.

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/05/2026 12:42

RaraRachael · 19/05/2026 12:14

What exactly is "Brand Beckham".
I'm old and from pre influencer days

The Beckhams have been around for 30 years 😂

Turnitoffnonagain · 19/05/2026 12:39

@Lomonald Lighten up. You're not the thread police.

HoskinsChoice · 19/05/2026 12:35

Whataflippincircus · 19/05/2026 09:34

Yes but why Beckham? What’s he got to do with gardening?

He's actually a very keen gardener. Grows his own veg. He's just getting involved in stuff that interests him whilst promoting a charity. What's wrong with that?

Lomonald · 19/05/2026 12:15

Turnitoffnonagain · 19/05/2026 12:12

He's into gardening and bee keeping apparently, and mates with the King.
I don't mind him. Preferable to the likes of the no talent reality TV lot.

I don't think he is "mates" with the King, he is involved with the King's trust that is like saying Ant and Dec are mates with the King because they are involved with the King's trust.

RaraRachael · 19/05/2026 12:14

What exactly is "Brand Beckham".
I'm old and from pre influencer days

Tollington · 19/05/2026 12:14

He has to stay in the public eye as he’s now a retired footballer. His sponsors wouldn’t want him if he hid out in the Cotswolds all the time

Tablesandchairs23 · 19/05/2026 12:13

Because the Beckham are publicity seeking knobs.

BatchCookBabe · 19/05/2026 12:12

Ablondiebutagoody · 19/05/2026 09:36

Stay off social media. I haven't seen him for donkeys years.

Same. I hardly see him really. He (and Victoria) were around WAY more 20-30 years ago. I got sick of seeing them then!

YABU @JacknDiane

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