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I'm fed up with everyone tiptoeing around Brexit having been rubbish

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paddleboardingmum · 18/05/2026 19:23

We can all see how it hasn't stopped immigration, we don't have the more money for the NHS that was promised, and everyone is worse off. I'm sure even many who voted for it - who were conned at the time- also can see it was rubbish. Isn't it time for people to stop pretending it was a good idea. That doesn't mean we need to rejoin right now or blame anybody, but I think it's time to just face facts and stop trying to pretend it was a good idea.

OP posts:
WildEnergySupplier · 19/05/2026 07:57

Thepeopleversuswork · 19/05/2026 07:51

This guy is a Reform propagandist. I’ll take the opinion of the vast consensus of economists over his views.

I'm just telling you what people who support Brexit say.

I did ask AI if those numbers are correct and it said yes.

RosieHosie · 19/05/2026 07:54

Firetreev · 19/05/2026 07:48

God only knows. Only around 30% of people still think that it was a good idea. 70% of the electorate realise that it has been a disaster in every way.

30% of people is still a lot of people

TheGreatDownandOut · 19/05/2026 07:54

ThePM · 19/05/2026 07:04

No I’m sorry that’s absolute bollocks.

Voters have a duty to inform themselves of their decisions and to take responsibility for it. It’s a slippery slope from they can’t be trusted on the Brexit vote, so why would they be trusted with any vote at all.

People who voted for Brexit and who now regret it should be looking their own foolishness in the eye, not trying to shift the blame onto David Cameron/Nigel Farage/ anyone else.

The anti-intellectualism behind that comment is staggering.
Brexit is a folly built on Hubris, and every disappointed voter needs to understand why they personally were willingly blind and deaf to the downsides which they were told about.

In an ideal world I would completely agree with you.
In fact, when the referendum was first announced I was certain I was going to vote leave. But did a ton of research, watched a lot of debates, asked other people their opinions, weighed it all up and ended up voting remain.
The problem is, we don’t live in an ideal world. People often don’t make the effort to inform themselves. That’s all very well and good in a GE where nothing is permanent, but not for something like Brexit.

Thepeopleversuswork · 19/05/2026 07:51

WildEnergySupplier · 19/05/2026 07:41

Many say it hasn't weakened our economy because the EU's economy has been so poor.

They'll say stuff like the UK's growth has been double that of Germany's for the last decade:

https://x.com/statsjamie/status/2056459211421417574

This guy is a Reform propagandist. I’ll take the opinion of the vast consensus of economists over his views.

AImportantMermaid · 19/05/2026 07:48

You’re not wrong. It has been an utter shitshow. Absolutely wrecked the nation just so the billionaires could save a few quid - and getting the poorest to vote for it. What a scam.

Firetreev · 19/05/2026 07:48

38thparallel · 19/05/2026 07:44

They're all terrified of offending the small number of clowns who still think it was a good idea
@Firetreev

If the numbers are so small why are politicians terrified of offending them?

God only knows. Only around 30% of people still think that it was a good idea. 70% of the electorate realise that it has been a disaster in every way.

Surgeonsattheedgeoflife · 19/05/2026 07:46

You’re right, op. It’s like we voted to cut our own arms off and now it’s considered quite a bold stance to suggest that cutting our own arms off has failed to produce the expected benefits, rather than anyone saying the truth, which is that it is and always was an irrational act of self harm that could
only ever have led to a bad outcome.

38thparallel · 19/05/2026 07:44

They're all terrified of offending the small number of clowns who still think it was a good idea
@Firetreev

If the numbers are so small why are politicians terrified of offending them?

Corianda · 19/05/2026 07:43

I’m not sure the EU is great - they can’t decide anything as every member must agree - so Ukraine never got the millions of Russian money due until Orbam was voted out and they still have Russian gas.
is there a joined up rule on immigration- no
They Pharma etc companies are having to manufacture in the USA -which will change profits
havethey ever agreed on fishing
Our currency is backed by the Bank of England - the Euro is backed by no one.
i would suggest being wary
Plus it’s unlikely we would get as generous conditions as last time -we are poorer why would they be generous also we might have a very right wing PM
We need to fix the U.K., growth, immigration - THEN look at EU

WildEnergySupplier · 19/05/2026 07:41

Thepeopleversuswork · 19/05/2026 07:40

So people who voted for it know it was a terrible idea and has fatally weakened our economy but they don’t regret it because it gave them an opportunity to stick two fingers up at the people who told them it was going to happen?

And its all OK and we can continue to stick our fingers in our ears and carry on as long as no one is being patronised? Jesus wept.

I agree OP. The fact we ate still indulging this denial is deeply disturbing. I don’t know what it says about us that we can’t acknowledge that we have fucked up.

Many say it hasn't weakened our economy because the EU's economy has been so poor.

They'll say stuff like the UK's growth has been double that of Germany's for the last decade:

https://x.com/statsjamie/status/2056459211421417574

Jamie Jenkins (@statsjamie) on X

🚨 Starmer says Brexit made Britain poorer. But the GDP data tells a more awkward story. Since the Brexit vote: UK real GDP: +12.1% Germany real GDP: +6.0% Britain is not booming. Nobody serious should pretend it is. But Europe’s supposed economic...

https://x.com/statsjamie/status/2056459211421417574

ThePM · 19/05/2026 07:40

deadpantrashcan · 19/05/2026 07:13

Great. Hope she’s happier now?

How could she be happier when she is driven by such ridiculous nihilism?

Thepeopleversuswork · 19/05/2026 07:40

WildEnergySupplier · 18/05/2026 19:38

I recently spoke to a working class Brexit voter who has no regrets.

She said it wasn't really about leaving the EU. It was about sending a message to an establishment that despises people like her.

She also said the EU is a totally corrupt organisation that is obsessed with things like diversity quotas, and she hates that.

So people who voted for it know it was a terrible idea and has fatally weakened our economy but they don’t regret it because it gave them an opportunity to stick two fingers up at the people who told them it was going to happen?

And its all OK and we can continue to stick our fingers in our ears and carry on as long as no one is being patronised? Jesus wept.

I agree OP. The fact we ate still indulging this denial is deeply disturbing. I don’t know what it says about us that we can’t acknowledge that we have fucked up.

CurlewKate · 19/05/2026 07:34

TheGreatDownandOut · 18/05/2026 19:34

I blame Cameron. Why put such an important decision to a public vote when people can be so easily manipulated.

Because apparently that’s what people wanted. I think he underestimated the influence and money Farage brought to the “debate”.

Gealach · 19/05/2026 07:31

previouslyknownas · 18/05/2026 23:29

To be perfectly honest I agree with her
Spain has given 500k illegal imigrants a “temporary” visa

no doubt that this will eventually be moved into permanent status and if we were in the EU that’s possibly something the UK would have to do as well

I mean enter a country illegally
hang around for a while and get rewarded with a temporary visa - madness

Whatever about the rights and wrongs of this approach. Why would the UK have to do what Spain did?

It’s not EU policy it’s solely a Spanish one.

Firetreev · 19/05/2026 07:31

paddleboardingmum · 18/05/2026 19:29

On the news and TV politicians etc @missmollygreen

I agree. They're all terrified of offending the small number of clowns who still think it was a good idea. Why are we being held hostage by the opinions of idiots? They voted for this mess and they should be made to own it. Instead we have politicians worried about upsetting then.

GaIadriel · 19/05/2026 07:29

Tiptoeing? 🤣

It's the most whinged about topic on here alongside Reform. I think your post applies more to Labour.

keepswimming38 · 19/05/2026 07:27

I think people have been shouting it for years but just given up because we got called remoaners . In the end we just thought ‘ fuck it feeling the pain is going to be the only thing that wakes you up to it you morons’!

OneTealShaker · 19/05/2026 07:24

WirralWool · 19/05/2026 06:40

Well nobody is allowed to say “We’re up shit creek thanks to the idiots who voted for it - the ones who labelled the resulting shitshow as ‘Project Fear’, when it was actually ’Project Bleeding Obvious’ to anyone who had put more than 20 second’s thought into it.

“Ooh, you can’t blame the Leave voters, we were conned. It wasn’t our fault. Blaming us isn’t helpful!”

They were conned by a slimy chancer who might as well have had “CONMAN” written across his forehead. It is their fault, and I’m fed up of having to tiptoe round them.

Wha do you mean ‘nobody is allowed to say’? Thats just not true, so stop making things up. You are allowed to say it.

On a rational note, and not a hysterical one, being against Brexit is reasonably logical position to have. Calling voters stupid? Well, how’s that working out for you so far?

deadpantrashcan · 19/05/2026 07:17

previouslyknownas · 18/05/2026 23:29

To be perfectly honest I agree with her
Spain has given 500k illegal imigrants a “temporary” visa

no doubt that this will eventually be moved into permanent status and if we were in the EU that’s possibly something the UK would have to do as well

I mean enter a country illegally
hang around for a while and get rewarded with a temporary visa - madness

lol because everyone is currently so delighted with how immigration is handled in the UK?

deadpantrashcan · 19/05/2026 07:15

Chicklette · 18/05/2026 23:35

Eh, come to Scotland. No one is tiptoeing around it, and about 98% of us knew it was a stupid,shit, devastating policy to vote for.

Yup, but as always, we get fucked anyway.

Berlinlover · 19/05/2026 07:14

I don’t believe anyone who voted for Brexit should be allowed to apply for an Irish/EU passport although I’m aware that there is no way of implementing this.

deadpantrashcan · 19/05/2026 07:13

WildEnergySupplier · 18/05/2026 19:38

I recently spoke to a working class Brexit voter who has no regrets.

She said it wasn't really about leaving the EU. It was about sending a message to an establishment that despises people like her.

She also said the EU is a totally corrupt organisation that is obsessed with things like diversity quotas, and she hates that.

Great. Hope she’s happier now?

frenchnoodle · 19/05/2026 07:12

AmberSpy · 18/05/2026 19:30

I wish there was some way to hold the politicians who shamelessly pushed it to advance their careers to account (Gove, Johnson, Patel etc). It was utterly clear that Johnson didn't actually support it or expect it to happen, it was just his way of ousting Cameron. Utterly cretinous behaviour which we're all paying the price for.

Boris Johnson's face, after months of rallying up the masses, when the country actually voted to withdraw was certainly something.

It just highlighted almost perfectly how little seriousness they all had with what they were doing didn't it. None of them took the fact it could happen as any type of serious threat, hence Boris rally up the masses and Cameron's half hearted attempt at EU "negotiations" then Bamb, consequences to your actions.

Perplexed20 · 19/05/2026 07:10

Nihongo · 18/05/2026 19:28

I think it’s more a sense that what’s done is done and to try and make the best of it.

I’m not sure anyone truly believes it was a spectacular success.

Why?

Lisanne55 · 19/05/2026 07:10

I agree. Brexit is the one thing that isn't properly talked about. We could do with the ways in which it has negatively affected us being openly discussed. I don't know that trying to rejoin would be a good idea at this moment - perhaps if it was discussed, I'd have more idea.
If we hadn’t left we would still have all the boats but we would be £9 billion pounds down (net) or £15 billion gross a year.The boats only started coming post-Brexit (2019?). They come now because we can no longer send them back now we're not in the EU.