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What is wrong with me? Is anybody else like this?

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17caterpillars1mouse · 18/05/2026 14:49

Ok my AIBU is am i unreasonable to react like this? What is wrong with me?

Is anybody else like this?

In day to day life I wouldnt say i'm anymore emotional than the average person, but in certain situations I get this ridiculous over emotion that floods me and results in me starting to cry and have to bite my lip to try and stop myself making a scene. It feels incontrollable at times and I dont remember always being like this.

The situations -

weddings and funerals starting - maybe not as unusual but it happens even if i barely know the person / people

Any kind of show - theatre, cinema, gig, kids nativity, especially if there is singing and music but there doesnt have to be

Every year when the year 6s leave at my kids school, even if i dont know any of them. Also school sports day even when my kids aren't participating in the race.

I cant sing along to the radio in the car without getting choked up and starting to cry. It doesnt matter what the song is / is about

Watching a parade at the weekend, had to hold back the tears - no idea why

When ambulances drive past, not every time, but around 70% of the time.

I don't know what comes over me and why, just a complete flooding of emotion. Why am i like this? It can be very embarrassing

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CitizenZ · 18/05/2026 15:08

I am very much the same (although I have been to the Sistine Chapel, and I remained calm 😂)

It's the funerals of people I am not particularly close with that concern me the most. The close family are managing to contain themselves, and there's me sobbing like a fool. I can't relay a heart warming story to DH without setting myself off, and some films have me in a mess. It's embarrassing, but there's nothing I can seem to do to stop it, so I comfort myself in that I would rather be overly emotional than have no emotion at all.

Hello19834 · 18/05/2026 15:07

I get like this too..flood of strong emotion in certain situations. Seeing others cry always does it for me.
I've got worse with age (mid 40s now) although I was an emotional child. I bawled at The Little Match girl story in the late 80s as a 7 year old. Still think of childhood pets now and get a lump in my throat.

17caterpillars1mouse · 18/05/2026 15:07

It isnt even emotional events at times, like with films it wont be an emotional part of a film it is most often the start of a film and the end, when in the cinema.

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17caterpillars1mouse · 18/05/2026 15:05

I never really notice others in these kind of situations crying / exeperiencing emotional overwelm so it makes me think there is something wrong with me. I feel embarrassed by it, but as i said I struggle to control it

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17caterpillars1mouse · 18/05/2026 15:03

DollopOfFun · 18/05/2026 15:00

Yes I'm the same. Not quite screaming in the Sistine Chapel magnitude, but ridiculously emotional at all kinds of stupid shit. I get choked up just describing things to other people, and not heart wrenching true stories, just adverts or things I've browsed (usually only telling my husband, I avoid it with other people as I know I'll look like a wet fart).

Things like flash mobs, and standing ovations etc will do me in. Anything with lots of humans, just doing a human thing all at the same time. 😳

Edited

Yes these things get me too. Its making me start to dread certain places / situations

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DaisyChain505 · 18/05/2026 15:02

I could have written this myself. Everything in life makes me emotional. I’m quite a positive person and really appreciate everything I have in life and I think this just makes me see the beauty in everything in day to day life.

DollopOfFun · 18/05/2026 15:00

Yes I'm the same. Not quite screaming in the Sistine Chapel magnitude, but ridiculously emotional at all kinds of stupid shit. I get choked up just describing things to other people, and not heart wrenching true stories, just adverts or things I've browsed (usually only telling my husband, I avoid it with other people as I know I'll look like a wet fart).

Things like flash mobs, and standing ovations etc will do me in. Anything with lots of humans, just doing a human thing all at the same time. 😳

17caterpillars1mouse · 18/05/2026 14:59

GethsemaneHall · 18/05/2026 14:54

I can't answer unless I know if you have ever screamed in the Sistine Chapel?😉

Haha I've never been so who knows. I've never cried in church though unless at a wedding / funeral / nativity service.

I sound really dramatic but i'm honest not a dramatic person, pretty chill besides these emotional floodings

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Crazyfrog44 · 18/05/2026 14:58

How do you feel about the Sistine Chapel?

PashaMinaMio · 18/05/2026 14:58

I get triggered by small babies. I used to weep happy tears if new mum colleagues brought their tiny ones in to work.

I recently wept on holiday when I visited a place I’ve wanted to see for decades.

We have an unusual empathy gene or something.

Blanketyblank04 · 18/05/2026 14:57

Maybe the issue is you are holding back all the time - let it all out.

Summerhillsquare · 18/05/2026 14:57

Oestrogen! None of that affects me now I'm post menopause.

GethsemaneHall · 18/05/2026 14:54

I can't answer unless I know if you have ever screamed in the Sistine Chapel?😉

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