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So sick of mouth ulcers

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giddykipper3 · 17/05/2026 16:15

I get one maybe once a month or every other month. Sometimes mild, sometimes severe like the one I’ve got now. It’s not just the localised pain it’s the headache, fatigue and raised glands - my body is clearly fighting it and that takes its toll. I’ve tried everything - only use sensodyne toothpaste, use anti bac mouthwash, all the topical treatments you can buy. I had a full blood count done 6 months ago for something else and they all came back normal.

My dentist referred me to the hospital last year and they were very dismissive. Basically just said some people are susceptible to them and I should work on my stress levels 🙄

When I don’t have one I kind of forget how bad they are. But then I get a nasty one like I have on my inside cheek at the moment and I feel rotten for a week and think I can’t carry on with this. It’s been happening on/off for years.

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AzureLurker · 17/05/2026 16:59

I used to get major apthous ulcers, easily get to a cm across and last for several weeks at a time. Horrendous pain that no-one can understand these are not regular ulcers. You used to be able to get a steroid ointment from your dentist but they stopped making it. Only thing that worked for me until I found out I had dairy, yeast and benzoates allergies and gave all that up. Only used to be able to use McLeans toothpaste but can use some colgate versions nowadays due to the benzoates. I only get the odd one now from trauma like you say but not always. I could add a picture but nobody wants to see that! You can buy Orabase ointment online and crush up a tiny bit of steroid pill if you have any lying around, but I didn't say that.

Ineffable23 · 17/05/2026 16:46

The SLS in some toothpastes can give people mouth ulcers. Might be worth chucking a multivitamin into the mix as well. It is really annoying though, I used to sometimes get 10-15 at a time during my worst phases. I took to painting them directly with medicated mouthwash on the end of a cotton bud.

SausageMonkey2 · 17/05/2026 16:45

Another vote for coeliac testing!

FernFaery · 17/05/2026 16:44

I was literally just sat thinking how much I I hate being prone to mouth ulcers when I saw this thread. Every single time I break the skin in my mouth, no matter how slightly, I get a huge and very painful mouth ulcer. I’ve had this ever since I was a child. I’ve had bloods done, been tested for coeliac and IBD, nothing has ever come up. It’s so frustrating, I hate them

Carriemac · 17/05/2026 16:42

Have they checked for
Coeliac ?

PinkCatCushion · 17/05/2026 16:42

They are awful. You have my sympathy OP. Get some bonjela on them as soon as you possibly can when they still in their early phase.
I see you are already using Sensodyne (many other toothpastes trigger ulcers for me).
i’m assuming you’ve been checked for Coeliac disease?

https://www.coeliac.org.uk/about-coeliac-disease/symptoms/

TalulahJP · 17/05/2026 16:41

giddykipper3 · 17/05/2026 16:38

It’s not iron or ferritin, I have been tested for that. I’m starting to think it is just one of those things. Possibly related to my cycle too. It’s bloody miserable.

folate or b12 deficiency?

RainbowIfinity · 17/05/2026 16:40

At the first hint of a mouth ulcer, I take two Lysine tablets and within hours it has gone.
I buy mine from Amazon, but be warned the tablets are big! Nothing is as effective for me, I swear by them.
Also good for stopping cold sores, if caught early enough.

giddykipper3 · 17/05/2026 16:38

It’s not iron or ferritin, I have been tested for that. I’m starting to think it is just one of those things. Possibly related to my cycle too. It’s bloody miserable.

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TrashPanda · 17/05/2026 16:34

I used to get them terribly, like 15 at a time, and they would take 10+ days to go away. They always seemed to come and go in time with my menstrual cycle too. Turned out my folate levels were very low and I was given tablets. Now I only get one very occasionally and usually when I've managed to bite the inside of my cheek or banged my lip against my teeth.

cobalt123 · 17/05/2026 16:30

Maybe you could get the gp to swab the ulcer when it’s bad in case it’s a kind of herpes that keeps coming back. (There’s quite a number of types of herpes I understand). They could send the swab off for testing.

TalulahJP · 17/05/2026 16:27

when’s the last time you had bloods done? It sounds like you are really run down.

if you get bloods taken, something easily treatable could be picked up and sorted, like iron or folate or somwthimg. i’d defo look into it.

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