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If a team is found to be guilty of cheating they should be expelled from the competition

62 replies

WorldCup2026 · 17/05/2026 13:11

I’m talking about the Southampton FC spy being sent to a rival team 2 days before a knock out match.

they probably would have won the game without these tactics as their rivals weren’t good enough.

I feel they should not play in the final as it will ge a deterrent against cheating in the future, it’s sets ab example at all levels of football.

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Fasthearty · 20/05/2026 09:51

Plus, sponsors aren’t going to be rushing to renew any contracts are they? Who would want to be associated with this!

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 09:02

TheFutureIs · 20/05/2026 08:24

Can’t say I’m too sympathetic for the fans either. The number who took binoculars and ghillie suits to the Boro game. As for Harwood-Bellis, think he’s probably regretting his celebration

Totally agree that the fans who did that were being dickish. Not in the spirit of the game at all. The vast majority are probably just normal and nice people who are horrified by this, though, surely.

I agree with @ScaredButUnavoidable that they've been let down horrendously. It will take a long time to build that trust and relationship back up.

TheFutureIs · 20/05/2026 08:24

Can’t say I’m too sympathetic for the fans either. The number who took binoculars and ghillie suits to the Boro game. As for Harwood-Bellis, think he’s probably regretting his celebration

WorldCup2026 · 20/05/2026 08:11

Boomer55 · 20/05/2026 07:45

They have been kicked out of the play-offs.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c392pmk9lx9t

Yes, I saw yesterdays news. Didn’t expect it but it was the correct decision. Sad for the majority of the Southampton fans who have been let down

but some of the fans behaved horribly online after the second leg

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ScaredButUnavoidable · 20/05/2026 08:01

I think the right decision was made and I can’t see it being overturned on appeal.

My sympathies lie with the Southampton fans though - it will be heartbreaking for them to have such a huge event taken away from them. I don’t think the Team were considering the impact their actions might have on their fans when they broke the rules and started spying on the rivals.

I don’t know how the practicalities of it all will work out with the match being so close and having to refund the Southampton fans whilst simultaneously selling tickets to the Middlesborough fans - it sounds like a logistical nightmare.

We are fans of a Championship League team in this house and we were happy for Middlesbrough last night once the decision was made, but like I said, genuinely sympathetic towards the Southampton fans because it’s really crap for them. I hope the football team and management are sincerely and publicly apologetic to their fans in some way in the next few days.

greysloane · 20/05/2026 07:50

What about Hull? They'll have been training to play Southampton and now they have three days to train against another team.
I completely agree with the FAs decision, however Hull are the only team in the playoffs that won their game.
I dorn see how the match isn't going to be moved to another day now when Southampton sold 37,000 tickets and Boro fans now have no time to buy their tickets and sort travel and accommodation.

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 07:46

BarrellChested · 19/05/2026 22:39

It’s dreadful for the fans and the club should reimburse everyone. I suspect they won’t, beyond the tickets.

Agreed. I don’t think they’ll agree to any train ticket or accommodation reimbursement; just the match ticket. (And in their defence, they won’t know what’s a genuine claim and what’s not).

But hey, appeal is today. Amazing that the whole thing could still be changed!

Boomer55 · 20/05/2026 07:45

WorldCup2026 · 17/05/2026 13:11

I’m talking about the Southampton FC spy being sent to a rival team 2 days before a knock out match.

they probably would have won the game without these tactics as their rivals weren’t good enough.

I feel they should not play in the final as it will ge a deterrent against cheating in the future, it’s sets ab example at all levels of football.

They have been kicked out of the play-offs.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c392pmk9lx9t

Reaction as Southampton set to appeal play-off expulsion

Saints have been thrown out of the play-offs after admitting they spied on three clubs during the Championship season.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c392pmk9lx9t

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 07:44

GoodkneeBadKnee · 19/05/2026 23:44

Umm....

Yep! Very happy to have been wrong in this scenario! 😁

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 07:43

BarrellChested · 19/05/2026 22:30

Whoops.

Not really. I just shared an opinion, and I’m now very happy to be wrong.

GoodkneeBadKnee · 19/05/2026 23:44

TheOtherBear · 17/05/2026 21:19

You’re not wrong, but it won’t happen. The main values / behaviours of the EFL are cowardice and corruption.

I thought they were going to dock Soton a few points (up to 6-7ish, which means the top six wouldn’t have included other teams), and either apply it from August if they fail to win promotion, or recommend the Premier League apply it if they do win promotion - and then of course the PL wouldn’t apply it and say it’s nothing to do with them, and thus there would be a ‘punishment’, but life would keep moving on.

But I hear the manager is going to take the fall instead, and get a long term ban. I guess if he was the one who set this up then the owners have pushed him to fall on his sword and sacrifice himself so the club and fans don’t get punished. And the EFL would probably love this as they’d feel like there has been sufficient punishment without them having to make a bold decision.

Problem is…. it’s a solution that gives no redress for Boro (or indeed, any other teams Soton might have done this too….).

Boro should take it into civil court and get a big pay-out from Soton. There’s precedent for that so I can’t see it being a problem. Expect Soton to take a number of years to pay it though…..

(And we’ll all skirt over the fact that the club escaped proper punishment…..)

Edited

Umm....

Fasthearty · 19/05/2026 23:38

InOverMyHead84 · 19/05/2026 22:37

I'm a Southampton fan. I had a ticket and train booked for the final.

37,000 tickets had been sold by our fan base. We sold out.

I am furious at the powers that be at the club leaving so many families, children in this position. A dream day out ripped away from thousands of children because they knowingly broke the rules.

I am angry and feel betrayed. So much wasted effort; financial and emotion. We are apparently appealling the decision. Feels distasteful.

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I feel for fans like you who in good faith have bought tickets and made arrangements. They shouldn’t have allowed tickets to be sold knowing that it was going to a panel decision, and I believe the correct decision was made.

Whoever made the decision to cheat has let you all down

Fasthearty · 19/05/2026 23:35

TheOtherBear · 19/05/2026 22:28

So, are Boro fans now buying tickets and making plans for Saturday? Or holding off until after Wednesday and Soton’s appeal….?

Not sure, haven’t spoken to anyone who plans to get a ticket yet. It’s all very short notice

randomchap · 19/05/2026 22:45

Southampton are appealing the decision tomorrow.

It's shit for their fans who bought tickets and hotel rooms for the final. It's shit for Hull who have been training to play one team and now getting another.

However I think it's great for the game. Sticking to the rules and showing backbone.

I only hope the Premier league will do the same for Man City and their 115 charges

BarrellChested · 19/05/2026 22:39

InOverMyHead84 · 19/05/2026 22:37

I'm a Southampton fan. I had a ticket and train booked for the final.

37,000 tickets had been sold by our fan base. We sold out.

I am furious at the powers that be at the club leaving so many families, children in this position. A dream day out ripped away from thousands of children because they knowingly broke the rules.

I am angry and feel betrayed. So much wasted effort; financial and emotion. We are apparently appealling the decision. Feels distasteful.

Edited

It’s dreadful for the fans and the club should reimburse everyone. I suspect they won’t, beyond the tickets.

ilovesooty · 19/05/2026 22:39

I feel sorry for Hull. None of this is their fault and how are they supposed to prepare properly when they aren't even sure who they'll be playing?

InOverMyHead84 · 19/05/2026 22:37

I'm a Southampton fan. I had a ticket and train booked for the final.

37,000 tickets had been sold by our fan base. We sold out.

I am furious at the powers that be at the club leaving so many families, children in this position. A dream day out ripped away from thousands of children because they knowingly broke the rules.

I am angry and feel betrayed. So much wasted effort; financial and emotion. We are apparently appealling the decision. Feels distasteful.

BarrellChested · 19/05/2026 22:30

TheOtherBear · 17/05/2026 21:19

You’re not wrong, but it won’t happen. The main values / behaviours of the EFL are cowardice and corruption.

I thought they were going to dock Soton a few points (up to 6-7ish, which means the top six wouldn’t have included other teams), and either apply it from August if they fail to win promotion, or recommend the Premier League apply it if they do win promotion - and then of course the PL wouldn’t apply it and say it’s nothing to do with them, and thus there would be a ‘punishment’, but life would keep moving on.

But I hear the manager is going to take the fall instead, and get a long term ban. I guess if he was the one who set this up then the owners have pushed him to fall on his sword and sacrifice himself so the club and fans don’t get punished. And the EFL would probably love this as they’d feel like there has been sufficient punishment without them having to make a bold decision.

Problem is…. it’s a solution that gives no redress for Boro (or indeed, any other teams Soton might have done this too….).

Boro should take it into civil court and get a big pay-out from Soton. There’s precedent for that so I can’t see it being a problem. Expect Soton to take a number of years to pay it though…..

(And we’ll all skirt over the fact that the club escaped proper punishment…..)

Edited

Whoops.

TheOtherBear · 19/05/2026 22:28

Fasthearty · 19/05/2026 22:10

I am shocked but pleased!

I’m from Middlesbrough so it’s all anyone has been talking about for the last few days.

So, are Boro fans now buying tickets and making plans for Saturday? Or holding off until after Wednesday and Soton’s appeal….?

WorldCup2026 · 19/05/2026 22:14

I am shocked I didn’t think it would happen!

right decision

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Leeds2 · 19/05/2026 22:12

Wonder how Taylor Harwood Bellis feels? The Southampton player who mocked Boro's Luke Ayling for his speech impediment during the second leg (was in referee's report, but Ayling said he didn't want it taking any further despite having been extremely annoyed at the time), and who was making mocking binocular gestures at one of the other Boro players later. What goes around comes around.

Fasthearty · 19/05/2026 22:10

I am shocked but pleased!

I’m from Middlesbrough so it’s all anyone has been talking about for the last few days.

TheOtherBear · 19/05/2026 22:03

busyd4y · 19/05/2026 20:17

That didn't age well 😂

To be fair, I’m very glad it did happen! Just never thought they’d have the balls. It’s absolutely the right decision.

busyd4y · 19/05/2026 20:17

TheOtherBear · 17/05/2026 21:19

You’re not wrong, but it won’t happen. The main values / behaviours of the EFL are cowardice and corruption.

I thought they were going to dock Soton a few points (up to 6-7ish, which means the top six wouldn’t have included other teams), and either apply it from August if they fail to win promotion, or recommend the Premier League apply it if they do win promotion - and then of course the PL wouldn’t apply it and say it’s nothing to do with them, and thus there would be a ‘punishment’, but life would keep moving on.

But I hear the manager is going to take the fall instead, and get a long term ban. I guess if he was the one who set this up then the owners have pushed him to fall on his sword and sacrifice himself so the club and fans don’t get punished. And the EFL would probably love this as they’d feel like there has been sufficient punishment without them having to make a bold decision.

Problem is…. it’s a solution that gives no redress for Boro (or indeed, any other teams Soton might have done this too….).

Boro should take it into civil court and get a big pay-out from Soton. There’s precedent for that so I can’t see it being a problem. Expect Soton to take a number of years to pay it though…..

(And we’ll all skirt over the fact that the club escaped proper punishment…..)

Edited

That didn't age well 😂

SpidersAreShitheads · 19/05/2026 20:13

I think kicking them out is the right decision and I hope it’s not turned over on appeal tomorrow.

Promotion would hand them around £200 million so a fine is pretty meaningless. The penalty has to be harsh to stop this happening. Clubs might well feel a fine and points deduction would be worth the risk - getting kicked out would be a good deterrent so it’s really the only option.

Gutted for Southampton fans but they should be turning their anger at their club. I’ve seen lots of them angry with Boro but I think that’s unfair. Southampton have admitted to multiple incidences of spying and I bet there’s more. The club have really let their fans down.

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