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If a team is found to be guilty of cheating they should be expelled from the competition

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WorldCup2026 · 17/05/2026 13:11

I’m talking about the Southampton FC spy being sent to a rival team 2 days before a knock out match.

they probably would have won the game without these tactics as their rivals weren’t good enough.

I feel they should not play in the final as it will ge a deterrent against cheating in the future, it’s sets ab example at all levels of football.

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Fasthearty · 22/05/2026 14:27

BarrellChested · 21/05/2026 08:42

I read that Josh Windass, the Wrexham player, thinks the whole playoff process should be re-run with the 7th placed team replacing Southampton.

And the 7th placed team is….. Wrexham!

Be a slight injustice on Hull who got to Wembley fair and square. Would obviously never happen.

I agree with this.

I think it’s the only fair way

the EFL report was pretty damning

Besafeeatcake · 22/05/2026 14:22

I think the part that I can't get over is that Southampton have done it multiple times and have actively, knowingly and willingly sought to get this data.

I have been to Southampton and security is pretty tight as it is with all Cat 1 Academies (training grounds). You have to go through a gate, be signed in, be on a list, have a reason to be there etc. Even when you visit as an opposing team you have to fill in spectator forms with full details including car registration. This is true for all of those clubs. If the first team is in your practically have to give a blood sample (no but you get what I'm saying).

What I am trying to say is that this was pre-mediated, calculated and took some serious thinking to pull off. More than one person, more than once.....

Because of this they deserve to be excluded and I hope their fans remember this.

murasaki · 21/05/2026 11:24

TheOtherBear · 21/05/2026 09:43

Who would have guessed that Wrexham would find a way to make it all about them 😂

Totally! He's mad. He was a short hop from suggesting they run the whole league again.

TheOtherBear · 21/05/2026 09:43

northernballer · 21/05/2026 08:08

I do feel a bit sorry for that intern though - I bet he was thrilled to get a job there and was just doing what he was told by his managers.

100% this. His picture and name is now headline media in the UK. It was a horrible thing for the manager to ask him to do.

TheOtherBear · 21/05/2026 09:43

BarrellChested · 21/05/2026 08:42

I read that Josh Windass, the Wrexham player, thinks the whole playoff process should be re-run with the 7th placed team replacing Southampton.

And the 7th placed team is….. Wrexham!

Be a slight injustice on Hull who got to Wembley fair and square. Would obviously never happen.

Who would have guessed that Wrexham would find a way to make it all about them 😂

TheOtherBear · 21/05/2026 09:42

housepaidoff · 21/05/2026 08:43

If they’d won the matches I’d agree.

It was a loss and two draws.

They should let Southampton play the play off.

Yeah, but a) I think it should be about the intent rather than the outcomes - just because they were bad at spying, or didn't learn a lot from a particular incident of spying, shouldn't mean the punishment is any less. Their intent was still to spy and cheat.

And b), I'm a bit suspicious of those two other games (Oxford and Ipswich) being the other spying incidents they're admitting to. Nice and convenient, isn't it, to admit to two occasions where the spying didn't work out for you? Makes the spying seem much more low-key and trivial.

Ultimately, Southampton finished 4th in the table and won 22 games in the season. It feels unlikely it was only those three games (where they didn't win) where they spied. And the manager has admitted he thought it was normal back in Germany, where he's from, and that he didn't know the rule applied here....

Other clubs in the Championship were approached too, if see if they wanted to give any files or evidence to the hearing, but we just haven't heard about them (yet).

Words · 21/05/2026 09:20

Aww it was a trainee? What a horrible thing to do. I really dislike football and mist other sports. . Money has corrupted everything.

housepaidoff · 21/05/2026 08:43

If they’d won the matches I’d agree.

It was a loss and two draws.

They should let Southampton play the play off.

BarrellChested · 21/05/2026 08:42

I read that Josh Windass, the Wrexham player, thinks the whole playoff process should be re-run with the 7th placed team replacing Southampton.

And the 7th placed team is….. Wrexham!

Be a slight injustice on Hull who got to Wembley fair and square. Would obviously never happen.

Swiftie1878 · 21/05/2026 08:29

randomchap · 19/05/2026 22:45

Southampton are appealing the decision tomorrow.

It's shit for their fans who bought tickets and hotel rooms for the final. It's shit for Hull who have been training to play one team and now getting another.

However I think it's great for the game. Sticking to the rules and showing backbone.

I only hope the Premier league will do the same for Man City and their 115 charges

Your last point is a key one. This is a healthy precedent for how Man City should/could be dealt with.

northernballer · 21/05/2026 08:08

Words · 21/05/2026 08:02

I think it’s hilarious. Skulking behind a tree with a mobile phone😂😂😂

I do feel a bit sorry for that intern though - I bet he was thrilled to get a job there and was just doing what he was told by his managers.

Words · 21/05/2026 08:02

I think it’s hilarious. Skulking behind a tree with a mobile phone😂😂😂

PollyBell · 21/05/2026 01:26

Fasthearty · 20/05/2026 21:51

Their appeal has been dismissed. Southampton are out

Now also complaining the punishement is too harsh, so they think people should be free to do whatever they want rules or not then carry on like children ''its not fair someone else did something why do we get punished more'' footballers are role models do wrong and get punished simple

Fasthearty · 20/05/2026 21:51

Their appeal has been dismissed. Southampton are out

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 19:53

murasaki · 20/05/2026 15:45

I quite like that idea. But I don't think the EFLcould enforce it, could they?

No, it would have to be a Soton decision / choice.

The appeal hearing is happening right now. I’d love to be a fly on the wall!

LlynTegid · 20/05/2026 15:47

Agree with being kicked out of the play offs, not sure the four point deduction is reasonable- it should be a larger amount perhaps suspended, or some restriction such as a transfer ban for a period.

murasaki · 20/05/2026 15:45

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 15:40

I saw a suggestion elsewhere that all season ticket fans at Soton should have them renewed next season for free.

That's not a bad idea, actually. It has some financial element, and also encourages fans to come back and cheer on the team, which would help with the issue of losing bums on seats.

I quite like that idea. But I don't think the EFLcould enforce it, could they?

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 15:40

murasaki · 20/05/2026 14:45

Yes, it's possible to think the right decision was made, and that the appeal should fail, but still to feel sorry for their fans who didn't create this situation.

I saw a suggestion elsewhere that all season ticket fans at Soton should have them renewed next season for free.

That's not a bad idea, actually. It has some financial element, and also encourages fans to come back and cheer on the team, which would help with the issue of losing bums on seats.

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 15:38

CaffeinatedSeagull · 20/05/2026 14:35

The club deserves to be kicked out of the play offs and have points deducted next season. The spying wasn’t a one off, it happened several times.

I do feel sorry for the fans though, they’re the ones that suffer most.

Yes, I think it's the multiple incidences of spying that have made the punishment so strong. It's systemic, rather than a one-off error of judgement.

murasaki · 20/05/2026 14:45

Yes, it's possible to think the right decision was made, and that the appeal should fail, but still to feel sorry for their fans who didn't create this situation.

CaffeinatedSeagull · 20/05/2026 14:35

The club deserves to be kicked out of the play offs and have points deducted next season. The spying wasn’t a one off, it happened several times.

I do feel sorry for the fans though, they’re the ones that suffer most.

murasaki · 20/05/2026 11:46

They'd expect to be at Wembley more than an hour before, so it'd be doable, if rushed. I wonder why they've suggested this, they never normally factor in return trains for Northern teams...

TheOtherBear · 20/05/2026 11:42

greysloane · 20/05/2026 07:50

What about Hull? They'll have been training to play Southampton and now they have three days to train against another team.
I completely agree with the FAs decision, however Hull are the only team in the playoffs that won their game.
I dorn see how the match isn't going to be moved to another day now when Southampton sold 37,000 tickets and Boro fans now have no time to buy their tickets and sort travel and accommodation.

Also, even the fans of Hull aren't being spared the disruption. I just saw this on the BBC - basically saying that if it's Boro, then the match will kick-off one hour earlier. How many Hull fans will have made plans and booked trains that now mean they might not be able to do that?

If a team is found to be guilty of cheating they should be expelled from the competition
noctilucentcloud · 20/05/2026 10:39

InOverMyHead84 · 19/05/2026 22:37

I'm a Southampton fan. I had a ticket and train booked for the final.

37,000 tickets had been sold by our fan base. We sold out.

I am furious at the powers that be at the club leaving so many families, children in this position. A dream day out ripped away from thousands of children because they knowingly broke the rules.

I am angry and feel betrayed. So much wasted effort; financial and emotion. We are apparently appealling the decision. Feels distasteful.

Edited

I'm a sports fan. Different team, different sport, but if my club did this to the fans (especially the kids) I'm not sure I could forgive them. It's treating them with so little respect, they owe a massive apology to their own fans (as well as the other teams involved and the league).

TheKittenswithMittens · 20/05/2026 09:59

The game has to be played by 31st May, and Wembley isn't available the following Saturday due to the Rugby League final. If they postpone the game, it will have to be played elsewhere.

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