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AIBU to consider reporting a possibly false school catchment address?

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Annoymo · 17/05/2026 11:27

I just found out a boy in DS’s class is going to a certain school that I know has an extremely strict catchment policy. I have a feeling they gave the in-laws address as the in-laws live near the catchment. We actually live close to this school than this boy so I’m really surprised they got a place. There is no SEN or sibling reason they got priority.

Morally I feel this is really bad of them but then I’m thinking why get involved. What would you do? How would you even report this?

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WydeStrype · 17/05/2026 21:58

Nottopanic · 17/05/2026 19:39

The number of people saying to mind your own business is shocking. No wonder society is a mess.

Don't be ridiculous.

You only have to look back to covid times to realise there are scores of people ready to inform on their neighbours.

MilkyLeonard · 17/05/2026 20:34

As usual MN gets stuck in a particular word “feeling”!

Of course people got “stuck on it” - it was all the information you have! It only takes a bit of common sense.

DriveVerySlowlyPastNumber23IWantThemToSeeMyHat · 17/05/2026 20:17

Twinkylightsg · 17/05/2026 19:46

I don't know.

I don't agree with it but at the same time I wouldn't report it. Because it isn't the parents that will suffer, it's the kids who have made friends and settled.

Because of the parents.

allgoodbabybaby · 17/05/2026 19:48

Absolutely none of your business

Twinkylightsg · 17/05/2026 19:46

I don't know.

I don't agree with it but at the same time I wouldn't report it. Because it isn't the parents that will suffer, it's the kids who have made friends and settled.

Farawaytreemagic · 17/05/2026 19:44

Nottopanic · 17/05/2026 19:39

The number of people saying to mind your own business is shocking. No wonder society is a mess.

You have no idea of the circumstances here. The allocation criteria is strict, this child could have medical or social reasons why he trumps @Annoymo child.

Nottopanic · 17/05/2026 19:39

The number of people saying to mind your own business is shocking. No wonder society is a mess.

cramptramp · 17/05/2026 19:38

Endoadnowarrior · 17/05/2026 19:19

Most schools with strict catchment requirements require evidence of residence, not just the parents saying they live there, but real evidence that the child actually does. We had to provide council tax bill AND an official document with our child's name on it to show they lived their e.g. bank statement, doctors letter.
Did you not have to do similar when you applied?

Also, you dont know the facts or history of the child, maybe they are ex forces, or a looked after/previously looked after child, or there is some other valid reason they have been given a place outside of catchment.

So yeah, id suggest you mind your own business tbh.

You have no idea the lengths some parents go to to provide fraudulent evidence for school places. Councils do make checks but are very grateful for members of the public who provide them with information re parents who might be lying, and taking a school place from a child who should have it.

cramptramp · 17/05/2026 19:33

Assuming this is for a September start, definitely report it to your local school admissions dept. You can do it anonymously. You can email or ring them and you don’t have to give your name. They will investigate but won’t tell you the outcome, or if the place has been correctly given. There are reasons other than SEN or siblings that children get school places from out of catchment. Doing this is absolutely the right thing to do, but doesn’t mean your child will get the place.

SardinesOnButteredToast · 17/05/2026 19:24

ThankYouNigel · 17/05/2026 11:43

Then they wanted that place more. Most parents will do anything for their child.

Do you know what, I do a lot for my child. I teach them about integrity and morals, and how we treat other people in the world. Lying and fraud are not the inheritance I choose to pass on to them.

Endoadnowarrior · 17/05/2026 19:19

Annoymo · 17/05/2026 11:27

I just found out a boy in DS’s class is going to a certain school that I know has an extremely strict catchment policy. I have a feeling they gave the in-laws address as the in-laws live near the catchment. We actually live close to this school than this boy so I’m really surprised they got a place. There is no SEN or sibling reason they got priority.

Morally I feel this is really bad of them but then I’m thinking why get involved. What would you do? How would you even report this?

Most schools with strict catchment requirements require evidence of residence, not just the parents saying they live there, but real evidence that the child actually does. We had to provide council tax bill AND an official document with our child's name on it to show they lived their e.g. bank statement, doctors letter.
Did you not have to do similar when you applied?

Also, you dont know the facts or history of the child, maybe they are ex forces, or a looked after/previously looked after child, or there is some other valid reason they have been given a place outside of catchment.

So yeah, id suggest you mind your own business tbh.

ukgone2pot · 17/05/2026 18:57

JC - mind your own and get a hobby whilst at it..

SunnyRedSnail · 17/05/2026 18:55

Annoymo · 17/05/2026 11:27

I just found out a boy in DS’s class is going to a certain school that I know has an extremely strict catchment policy. I have a feeling they gave the in-laws address as the in-laws live near the catchment. We actually live close to this school than this boy so I’m really surprised they got a place. There is no SEN or sibling reason they got priority.

Morally I feel this is really bad of them but then I’m thinking why get involved. What would you do? How would you even report this?

Of course you report it!

The best way would be to write to the school, and say that your son was very disappointed he didn't get a place, and you would like to be on the waiting list should a place come available. I'd then politely say that you are a little confused as to how places are allocated, as you only live 5 minutes walk from the school, a child a few doors down got a place, yet a place has also been given to <child's name> who lives in <next borough name>, so not sure why your DS didn't get a place when he lives closer.

Do double check the school's admission criteria though to make sure that the boy didn't get in on other grounds. The council page will list the criteria and show all the places that were offered as this data is published. I teach at a school where staff children get priority, so perhaps this is the case and his mum is a teacher or TA or works in the canteen??

Pikachu150 · 17/05/2026 18:38

nothingcangowrongnow · 17/05/2026 18:23

Also, he could previously have been in care which gives priority. This isn’t your problem

That's true. They may have been adopted.

AgnesMcDoo · 17/05/2026 18:36

its easy to see why police states continue to exist - so many people so keen to ‘report’ on others.

Flannelfeet · 17/05/2026 18:27

You have no idea of the circumstances, I would mind my own business on this.

JustaDream · 17/05/2026 18:24

I would mind my own business.

fashionqueen0123 · 17/05/2026 18:23

Bloodorangekangaroo · 17/05/2026 12:43

Report this yes. If all comes out the child has a rightful place then all is well. If not a child in the local area could have been given that place. My daughter has to travel out of area for school in September after a lost appeal. Some of her friends are out of area and were given a place at our local school. The local school is classed as a really good school with top results. It’s well known for parents to do anything to get their child in. I know a school mum gave grandmas address to get him in because she told me. I can’t prove he doesn’t live there but I have reported her.

This is so weird to me. The council will know where she lives from council tax records! How did they not realise

nothingcangowrongnow · 17/05/2026 18:23

Also, he could previously have been in care which gives priority. This isn’t your problem

nothingcangowrongnow · 17/05/2026 18:22

Does the school have aptitude tests for sport, music or Drama? Why don’t you ask the parents on what grounds they got a place before reporting something you don’t know for certain

Tryagain26 · 17/05/2026 18:22

You don't know the facts though there may be a legitimate reason he was offered the place. In my area adopted children have priority, perhaps he was adopted or met some other criteria.
If you feel strongly about it you can contact your LA but be prepared for nothing to happen.

CeciliaMars · 17/05/2026 18:22

I probably would report TBH.

MimiSunshine · 17/05/2026 18:20

Report them. If there’s no issue and it was gained due to factors you’re unaware of then there won’t be any problem will there?!

id set up a different email address to do it though.

fashionqueen0123 · 17/05/2026 18:19

ThankYouNigel · 17/05/2026 11:53

Rents them out, but she would move in temporarily if need be and say she was on a break from her husband. So zero anyone can do about it. She has secured her son a spot in an excellent school and I admire her as a mother wanting the best for him and paying through the roof for it herself.

Haven’t they checked her council tax address?! It’s done all automatically here.
If you rent to get into a school your application can also be denied if they find out you own a second house which you haven’t sold yet.

wobblychristmastree · 17/05/2026 18:16

KilkennyCats · 17/05/2026 15:40

I didn’t say it to make you laugh 🤷🏻‍♀️
It’s not particularly amusing, but it’s certainly true.

this definitely happens where we live. Really annoying because they get the place and then immediately resume residence in their city 30-40mins away (and the bus has to put on buses for those kids) leaving the local kids who’ve always been here without a local school.

also means year 5 class numbers increase every term with only 1 teacher to manage it