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Concerns over neighbours lifestyle choices.

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HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 01:17

So my neighbours teenage son has been smoking doobies in the garden with his parents consent. His father is a policeman and actually a firearms officer. I'm concerned that he may be using Ur at least getting high from the passive smoking. I want to report him to his superiors but DH is adamantly against it and says I'm being dramatic. Really between a rock and a hard place. AIBU if I report him?

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nixon1976 · 17/05/2026 01:35

You want to report your neighbour because his SON is smoking doobies? Why? I don't get it

JuliettaCaeser · 17/05/2026 01:35

Have you reported a crime recently?’ Unless a murderer is literally chopping off your head they are not interested..

Evaka · 17/05/2026 01:34

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 01:24

Doubt you be laughing if you had this decision to make.

There's no decision to make, other than to extract your beak. You're being bonkers.

Evaka · 17/05/2026 01:33

Assuming you're serious, yes you're being dramatic and massively unreasonable.

professionalcommentreader · 17/05/2026 01:29

Goodness not heard the term Doobie for about 30 years.

Danikm151 · 17/05/2026 01:28

You’re being dramatic.

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 01:24

PennySweeet · 17/05/2026 01:21

Lol

Doubt you be laughing if you had this decision to make.

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PennySweeet · 17/05/2026 01:21

Lol

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 01:19

mumofoneAloneandwell · 17/05/2026 01:18

😄😄😄

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Really helpful. Thanks for your considered response.

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 17/05/2026 01:18

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