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Would you give me the replacement chips?

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Houseofdrums · 15/05/2026 18:22

Im with a group of mum friends at a food court. We all go off to different kiosks. Order our food. We find an available table.

I order from a Thai cuisine, a noodle dish and some chips for the little one.

I pick up the food, put toddler in highchair, put the chips infront of her. I’m about to take my first serving of noodles and baby kicks the chips all over the floor.

The chips cost £5. One of the mums says that it’s been less than 5 mins and they didn’t touch the chips, I should be able to ask for a replacement.

So I go to the kiosk, politely explain that I was just here and the baby annoyingly dropped all the chips. I show them the picture (we are sitting on the other end of the food court).

They say no. But I plead a little bit - I do have a soft voice so I’m being nice. Then they go on and on about how every mum will be asking for freebies. I should pay for another one. And I should go to another one of their stores who would provide me free chips.

Turns out she was also the manager.

I worked in waitressing many years ago, and honestly, we would have just given a portion of chips. Id be hesitant if it was the whole meal - but a couple of chips for a baby?

Was I being unreasonable?

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Missey85 · 15/05/2026 18:56

YABU it's not the stores fault your kid threw the chips on the floor! 😂

DoYouLikeYourNaneFred · 15/05/2026 18:56

Malinia · 15/05/2026 18:24

Yes yabu. It's not their fault your baby kicked the food over. You should buy another one.

That's a bit extreme!

Babies aren't cheap to buy!

Whaleandsnail6 · 15/05/2026 18:56

I don't understand why you think the food vendor should suck up the cost of you (or your baby) spilling the food.

By yours, and your friends way of thinking, anyone who just wanted a second portion within five minutes should get one for free, because its within 5 minutes??

Of course you should have paid for another portion if you wanted one!

HerbyWitch · 15/05/2026 18:53

19lottie82 · 15/05/2026 18:52

If I’m in a pub and spill my drink, I don’t expect another one for free.

The trick is to use a soft voice, apparently.

19lottie82 · 15/05/2026 18:52

If I’m in a pub and spill my drink, I don’t expect another one for free.

Itsahardknocklifeforus · 15/05/2026 18:52

I'm very surprised you had the nerve to ask for free food tbh. Weren't you embarrassed?

Teenagerantruns · 15/05/2026 18:51

I work in a restaurant l would have given you some chips. Honestly we bin loads of chips every service they are pre cooked and we csman only hold them for so long.

Bluebubblepig · 15/05/2026 18:50

I mean it’d be great customer service if they did but I don’t think they should have to. Surely you should have just put the chips further away so it didn’t happen.

maybethisway · 15/05/2026 18:50

My toddler knocked over his baby chino and they gave us another one without me even asking. The chips cost very little so they could have given them to you at a discount. To be honest though, I’d have just picked them up off the floor and given them to my child anyway.

nam3c4ang3 · 15/05/2026 18:49

what the fuck op don’t be so ridiculous. Free chips because your kids knocked them over? Ffs. Entitled much?

WaitingForSomeone · 15/05/2026 18:49

Bloody hell the entitlement.
If I knocked my drink on the floor I wouldn't expect a replacement drink, Yabu.
They are a business not a charity.

PennySweeet · 15/05/2026 18:49

You didn’t ask them for ‘a couple of chips for the baby’ though?

You asked them to replace the whole £5 portion.

TicklishReader · 15/05/2026 18:49

YABU to give your baby chips. ShockHmmConfused

I'm joking.

YABU to expect free chips no matter how soft your voice is.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 15/05/2026 18:48

XenoBitch · 15/05/2026 18:48

Did they also kick the plate to the floor too, and break it?

Food courts like this don’t serve on plates!

InterestingDuck · 15/05/2026 18:48

RaspberryFeet · 15/05/2026 18:46

I don’t want to sound all Mumsnetty but my toddler would have been furious if I was having ‘Thai cuisine’ and she was given some chips. Even five English pounds chips.

I have to say that reads like an entry for the 'Peak Mumsnet' award 😂

inmyhair · 15/05/2026 18:48

Honestly, I think your "friend" was probably setting you up. She's probably secretly sniggering about it.

Free chip coz they're less than 5 minutes old!😂

XenoBitch · 15/05/2026 18:48

Did they also kick the plate to the floor too, and break it?

tiramisugelato · 15/05/2026 18:47

Are you delusional? Why would you get free chips? 😂

Nearly50omg · 15/05/2026 18:47

Why is a baby eating chips??!! Do they have Coca Cola in their bottle too?!

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RaspberryFeet · 15/05/2026 18:46

I don’t want to sound all Mumsnetty but my toddler would have been furious if I was having ‘Thai cuisine’ and she was given some chips. Even five English pounds chips.

AlwaysTheRenegade · 15/05/2026 18:46

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 15/05/2026 18:43

I’m not one of those portion people either and I’m the same. One standard portion is too much (and I eat a LOT)!

I think as it was a food kiosk it would be a smaller portion than chip shop chips.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 15/05/2026 18:46

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 15/05/2026 18:43

Sorry but YABU

Its not their fault your baby / child knocked over the chips.

You say you went to have your first serving of noodles - so basically you were eating your own food and not paying attention to the baby?

Perhaps better to keep your eyes on them til they’ve finished or at least mostly finished eating when that young - or give them their food bit by bit so they can’t knock it all over.

What a weird way to twist it. Her post doesn’t suggest she wasn’t paying attention to her toddler at all. Toddlers move quick!

CatsandSun · 15/05/2026 18:45

If I’d been working I would have probably just given you the chips but I wouldn’t expect it.

AuContrairePubicHair · 15/05/2026 18:44

That's why you don't put the whole portion of anything in front of a baby/toddler, tbf. I'm assuming a very young toddler as you use both toddler and baby to refer to them! In which case I'd have just given them 2 or 3 chips (that I'd cooled down a bit first) at a time. Apart from anything else that saves them all from getting mangled then left, so you get the leftovers 😁