When we got together, my H and I bought a doer upper house. Took us two years. When it was almost done we moved in. Our large garden had piles of left-over materials strewn all over - piles of bricks, concrete, stacks of roof tiles, bags of sand, lengths of pipes, you get the idea.
It was left like this for 2-3 years. I did as much as I could myself to tidy up as he wouldn't help.
Long story short, we moved house and I stupidly agreed to buy another doer upper, stipulating that he had to get rid of any surplus.
The work was finished around 3-4 months ago. Guess what? It has happened again- surplus building materials all over the garden and no sign of it being moved😡
We are 12 years older than the last time and I do a bit of tidying away every day, but I'm worn out and sick to death of living like this.
I want to give him a choice - get it sorted or I am leaving.
AIBU?