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DearDenimEagle · 14/05/2026 13:16

I was born in late 1954, and it did seem unfair that what was basically our contract with the government, to pay into the system x years and retire at age 60 was suddenly changed to 66. If I’d known I had an extra 6 years to work, earlier, I’d have done things differently in my life. I’d have stayed away from my second husband for a start as he wanted me to cut back for what was going to be my last couple of years, so I thought it didn’t matter as I was going to be retired anyway. By the time I found out, it was too late to reverse. Shame I never kept up with the news and stuff. I don’t know how much notice people had but it seemed very sudden to me when I did find out.
I accept the government did need to up the ages, but only thought about it after it happened , that it wasn’t unreasonable and a 2 years more would have seemed fairer. Ease the transition, not whack on 6 yrs at once.

I have limited knowledge of what the campaign did. I thought they lost because the judges decided it wasn’t related to NI, which , in my opinion is not true. The pension , even when I did get it is directly dependent on how many full years of NI you paid. I don’t get the full pension because I worked for my first husband and while he put wages for me through the books, I didn’t get paid…it was just to reduce his tax liability, it turned out, and he didn’t pay my stamp. I found out many years later. The govt doesn’t seem to have counted my Child Benefit years either, though I didn’t claim that for the first few years, or Maternity allowances as they were because I didn’t like the idea of taking benefits I didn’t need. I only started to claim when my eldest was at school, the second was 3 and our trawler sank, cutting off our income. Funny how you need to draw benefits to claim other money later. You’d think they’d appreciate you trying to be independent of handouts. Anyway, I understand why they didn’t like the result if it was for the reason I heard. But I think they’re wasting their time if they are going again. Judges will back the govt

itsnotagameshow · 14/05/2026 13:15

MikeRafone · 14/05/2026 13:05

apart from the fact these woman weren’t on equal wages or equal pension rights, so earns less, then should have to pay more for a private pension than their counterparts males / when they didn’t know the goal posts were going to change

yes of course eventually they’d have known - but putting money into a pension during your 20s is very different from putting money into a pension in your 50s

Yes plus often company policies dictated that women had to leave the workplace on marriage or pregnancy so their opportunities for earning in their lifetime (and paying into another pension scheme) were limited in that way too.

viques · 14/05/2026 13:11

In the fifties and sixties many women did not work outside the home,it was assumed, things being what they were in those days, that their husbands pension contributions to a state pension would cover their needs as they got older.

Many of those that were working, did not see their work as a career, but as pin money or handy additional family income, even women working in professional jobs like teaching, and I met a few, didn’t see their jobs as separate from their husbands income. To this end most married working women paid what was called the married womens stamp, which was a reduced form of national insurance and didn’t give equal pension rights, which was at the time understood and accepted as a reasonable, not realising that it left women in a very vulnerable position if they were divorced or widowed.

Unfortunately until the late sixties and seventies women didn’t push for equal pay, didn’t push for maternity rights, didn’t push for equal pension contributions in their own right as standard. (Thank heavens we woke up!) Add to the mix the women who did work , did pay full NI and had access to a workplace pension, but also took time out of the workplace for maternity and child care often for several years, whose pension contributions were greatly reduced as although they received credit for missing NI contributions, missed out on other pension benefits, ie employers contribution, and reduced years of contribution, the result of which were far reaching and not always explained so that they could be rectified.

The whole WASPI situation is imo the culmination of years of women being sold down the river when it comes to financial independence and fairness in the job market . Low pay, unequal pay, no job security re maternity rights, maternity pay and the right to return to work after maternity leave, the huge hole in many womens employment record for time taken off for child rearing, poor access to private or workplace pensions etc etc etc. The changes in retirement age were really the last straw. I think it is interesting that many of the comments on this thread talk about how the changes in retirement age are making the situation “ fairer for men”, without acknowledging that a) they don’t actually make it fairer for men since their situation hasn’t changed much, and b) womens working situation has not only been institutionally and deliberately unfair for the last 70 + years, IT STILL BLOODY IS . Womens earning capacity continually falls below that of men, women in are still unrepresented in higher managerial and corporate roles, despite legislation women of child bearing age still face both overt and covert discrimination in job applications , assumptions are made about womens role in dealing with unexpected child care issues and are often seen as the default parent to take responsibility and all the other ways that we still face discrimination in the workplace.

LoudTealHare · 14/05/2026 13:09

MikeRafone · 14/05/2026 06:12

If your retirement was moved 7 years, you’re not a waspi woman.

it was woman who had unequal pay, couldn’t have a right to maternity, didn’t have equal access to a work place pension - couldn’t have one if married or worked part time ( which many woman did work part time) this was the case through till changes in 1990s for the latter.

its not just a case of knowing but a case of being able to change the out come when legally you’d been prevented from doing so for many years previously

Edited

That’s the issue, women want equality but only when it suits them! Women have campaigned for decades for equal pay for equal work! But when something is changed and it doesn’t suit them
suddenly their victims! When the challenge was made on the different retirement ages, everyone knew it would only go one way!

HoppityBun · 14/05/2026 13:07

Monty36 · 14/05/2026 12:59

I think the grievance is that some women were given short notice and were unable to make up the loss of pension in the timescales.
Personally I think it would have been great from men to have retired at 60 as well. Not make women retire later. But obviously that sort of dream is too nice for people so never even an attempt for that to be possible would have been made.
The state pension is something you do work towards despite people saying you pay for your parents etc. You can ask for a quote to see how much you are likely to get. You are encouraged to pay to buy more years. It was always sold to people as something they pay into. For their pension.
You cannot change that message now much as some may try.
The state pension is a thing that has not always existed. Before it did begin people starved. Literally. It would be an indecent society that got rid of it.

What you get reflects the payments you’ve made. Those payments funded pensions at the time you paid. It’s important that people understand that they’ve not built up some fund that they’re entitled to, as though it were a private pension fund.

MikeRafone · 14/05/2026 13:05

JacknDiane · 14/05/2026 06:31

If these women were barred from having a workplace pension, couldn't they have taken out a private one?

apart from the fact these woman weren’t on equal wages or equal pension rights, so earns less, then should have to pay more for a private pension than their counterparts males / when they didn’t know the goal posts were going to change

yes of course eventually they’d have known - but putting money into a pension during your 20s is very different from putting money into a pension in your 50s

Monty36 · 14/05/2026 12:59

I think the grievance is that some women were given short notice and were unable to make up the loss of pension in the timescales.
Personally I think it would have been great from men to have retired at 60 as well. Not make women retire later. But obviously that sort of dream is too nice for people so never even an attempt for that to be possible would have been made.
The state pension is something you do work towards despite people saying you pay for your parents etc. You can ask for a quote to see how much you are likely to get. You are encouraged to pay to buy more years. It was always sold to people as something they pay into. For their pension.
You cannot change that message now much as some may try.
The state pension is a thing that has not always existed. Before it did begin people starved. Literally. It would be an indecent society that got rid of it.

Snorerephron · 14/05/2026 12:58

StarlightRobot · 14/05/2026 12:48

They are so so selfish. I would like to see them protest on behalf of young people who have been saddled with the debt created by their generation, saddled with crazy student debts and who have no hope of getting a mortgage, due to no fault of their own.

Agreed. Most of these people profited hugely from soaring house prices.

LoudTealHare · 14/05/2026 12:57

odddsoxs · 13/05/2026 22:04

Well, how would you feel if you'd had tens of thousands of pounds stolen from your expected government pension, AND being made to work and extra seven years into the bargain.
Don't forget, we waspis paid towards our government pension for the whole of our working life, and it was all many of us had to keep us through our retirement, as many of us didn't for whatever reason, or couldn't afford to pay into a private pension too

The reality was when there was a challenge on the different retirement ages for men and women, it may not have meant the retirement age for men going down. The reality was it went the wrong way. However, women have been fighting for equal rights for years until it wasn’t in their favour! We cant have it both ways, we either want equality or we don’t, we can’t cherry pick the bits we want!

Lifeomars · 14/05/2026 12:57

I'm in that age group and I knew, accepted it and got on with my life.

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2026 12:56

BananaPeels · 14/05/2026 12:29

but I still don’t make the connection being to be ‘owed’ anything. My mum is 10 years old than you and was always planning and looking at finances and working out how she was going to provide for the future. When she found out about the change in the 1990s she changed her plans accordingly. She is honestly baffled by the fact she would be owed anything. It was just one of those things. She doesn’t feel robbed just as when NI went up by a % a few years ago we all had to take on the chin even though we’re paying more than the generation before.

If your mum was born in 1948 she got her pension at 60 so she didn’t need to change anything. The changes didn’t affect her.

Mcdhotchoc · 14/05/2026 12:56

Indeed. My older SIL aligns with this. She is 14 years older than me.
My take is that she actually stopped working before 60, paid the extra years of NI and then took a post 2016 pension based on the new state pension rate.
I can't figure how she has missed out. I will get state pension at 67 if I live long enough and thank God I'm in a Lucky position to likely to be able to retire at 63 ish. I think the campaign is on a hiding to nothing to be honest

Walkyrie · 14/05/2026 12:56

StarlightRobot · 14/05/2026 12:48

They are so so selfish. I would like to see them protest on behalf of young people who have been saddled with the debt created by their generation, saddled with crazy student debts and who have no hope of getting a mortgage, due to no fault of their own.

It actually blows my mind that 1 average wage could buy a fairly nice 3 bedroom house in an average area, and sustain a 2 child family without being utterly skint 24/7

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2026 12:52

BoredZelda · 14/05/2026 12:14

Where did I defend it?

If you want your particular case addressed, take your ex employer to court. Better still, get a whole bunch of women and start a class action. The point is, you have a very good chance of winning now there is case law to support it. Compensation is being paid out. Were you a member of a union? Are you active in the WASPI campaign?

Or, more likely you won’t do anything other than moan about it on the Internet, stamp your feet about what you are entitled to and expect the government to cough up compensation which you would no doubt gladly accept.

I don’t have a particular case. It’s factually true that many women were paid less than men for similar work before the Equal Pay Act which logically wouldn’t have been needed if that were not the case.

Please show me where I’ve stamped my feet or expected compensation for anything. I’ll wait.

StarlightRobot · 14/05/2026 12:48

They are so so selfish. I would like to see them protest on behalf of young people who have been saddled with the debt created by their generation, saddled with crazy student debts and who have no hope of getting a mortgage, due to no fault of their own.

YouHaveAnArse · 14/05/2026 12:45

notateenietiny · 14/05/2026 11:21

Struggling to get their next iPhone before they start work at about 26? Some of us started working at 15 and 16 and weren't back patted through life but stood on our own two feet battling for equal pay and little things like being able to get a mortgage as a single woman. I once got turned down for a job because apparently I was likely to get pregnant because of my age. I'd love to see you Mumsnet tabbies squawking if that happened to you or your DC or whatever you call them.

How is this meant to garner sympathy for your cause?

danglethedingle · 14/05/2026 12:44

I'm actually in the age group that expected to retire at 60 (just)

I do not agree with WASPI aims at all. It was always unfair that women retired 5 years younger than men. Its obvious that as life expectancy goes up so should the state retirement age.

The country simply cannot afford for people to get a state pension pension at 65, and its not fair to expect the young people of today, many of whom cannot afford to buy their own house and are putting off having children, to pay for the early retirement of their parents generation.

My state retirement age is now 67, I'm a bit miffed, but I can see that this is fairer.

I can also see that I was in a privileged position of growing up in a time when plenty of good council housing existed, it was possible to live on one wage when my children were small, and when I went back to work I was able to contribute to a decent works pension.

I only wish these things were possible for all of my children's generation, not just a lucky few.

BoredZelda · 14/05/2026 12:43

Bunnyofhope · 14/05/2026 11:10

To the above couple of posters.... we don't expect or deserve to be vilified for something that was entirely beyond our control. I'm not saying that you personally hate the waspi campainers, but plenty seem to. And..the fact that younger people are skint is their battle to fight. Not mine quite honestly.
I didn't campaign for men to be paid less to bring about equality, but for women to get more. We're looking to raise people up, not bring people down to make things fair.
Don't go down the road of wanting less for others to even the playing field. Well, not if you are left leaning. Have you ever seen the money that is saved be used for the benefit of other disadvantaged groups?

You should be more concerned about young people being skint. It is your fight because they are paying your pension. It isn’t a separate pot of money, set aside that you paid in to, it is the longest running, biggest Ponzi scheme which is starting to fail.

And when those young people do fight, they are accused of being lazy and entitled so they can’t win.

Maybe you don’t have children or grandchildren so think you have no skin in the game, but when the economy fails, and young people are out of work or underpaid, it is as much your problem as it is theirs.

PropertyD · 14/05/2026 12:42

Hallamule · 14/05/2026 12:38

Nobody stole anything from you and having to work til 65 sounds pretty fucking good to me and those younger than me (which is most of the working population).

Quite agree. Often women were working part time and now expect to have a full pension.

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 14/05/2026 12:41

Peakyblinder18 · 14/05/2026 01:24

In this country it's shocking how many women, and men didn't know about the new pension legislation and were ill-prepared.
Just like many women or men didn't know about the equal rights legislation.
So for you younger and you "more aware" disbelievers in the waspi campaign, it'll be you one day.

Edited

Of course they knew, there's absolutely no way it got past anyone. It was everywhere and people were informed personally.

godmum56 · 14/05/2026 12:39

Freda69 · 14/05/2026 12:24

I’m a 1954 WASPI and I and all my friends knew exactly what was going to happen and when. Can’t say I liked it, but the women who say they weren’t notified are just embarrassing themselves by their ignorance.

have you read my post?

Hallamule · 14/05/2026 12:38

odddsoxs · 13/05/2026 22:04

Well, how would you feel if you'd had tens of thousands of pounds stolen from your expected government pension, AND being made to work and extra seven years into the bargain.
Don't forget, we waspis paid towards our government pension for the whole of our working life, and it was all many of us had to keep us through our retirement, as many of us didn't for whatever reason, or couldn't afford to pay into a private pension too

Nobody stole anything from you and having to work til 65 sounds pretty fucking good to me and those younger than me (which is most of the working population).

BoredZelda · 14/05/2026 12:35

time4anothername · 14/05/2026 12:24

Don't forget about the multiple endowment and pension selling scandals and company pension losses though. Many feared that paying into a pension was a high risk strategy. It is only over the past 20 or so years that the pensions industry has managed to build more trust. I think most today trust that their private or company pension contributions will not disappear but that was not the case for people with earlier working lives.
https://citywire.com/funds-insider/news/10-pensions-scandals-the-ghosts-of-past-present-and-future/a457227
https://www.theguardian.com/money/2009/jun/21/financial-advisers-scandals
https://www.nestinsight.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Pension-Reforms-in-the-UK-1997-to-2015.pdf

I remember those. It was at the very time I was buying a house, and started my pension. The 1995 act was all about more regulation. If people felt it was better to trust a government they didn’t know in 20 years time, than a regulated financial company, that’s a wild take.

godmum56 · 14/05/2026 12:35

Bunnyofhope · 14/05/2026 11:10

To the above couple of posters.... we don't expect or deserve to be vilified for something that was entirely beyond our control. I'm not saying that you personally hate the waspi campainers, but plenty seem to. And..the fact that younger people are skint is their battle to fight. Not mine quite honestly.
I didn't campaign for men to be paid less to bring about equality, but for women to get more. We're looking to raise people up, not bring people down to make things fair.
Don't go down the road of wanting less for others to even the playing field. Well, not if you are left leaning. Have you ever seen the money that is saved be used for the benefit of other disadvantaged groups?

This.

YouHaveAnArse · 14/05/2026 12:33

odddsoxs · 13/05/2026 22:04

Well, how would you feel if you'd had tens of thousands of pounds stolen from your expected government pension, AND being made to work and extra seven years into the bargain.
Don't forget, we waspis paid towards our government pension for the whole of our working life, and it was all many of us had to keep us through our retirement, as many of us didn't for whatever reason, or couldn't afford to pay into a private pension too

Well, my generation had this with the introduction of student loans, taking education from free to us leaving with thousands of pounds of debt at the start of our working lives. Money that previous generations could have put into a house deposit or similar.

I await my compensation.

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