DP has an Apple watch and phone and has always done these even in our early dating days. We can be mid conversation and a notification will come on his phone or his watch and he’ll focus entirely on that and start reading it.
we were having a bit of a make or break conversation at dinner the other night and while I was talking he just picked up his phone and started reading a message.
I paused and waited for him to finish and he had a go at me as he can ‘concentrate on more than one thing at the same time’
I just find it so bad mannered but AIBU?
these are not urgent notifications by the way just like group chat nonsense or whatever