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AIBU to prefer first class for a long train journey?

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srapa · 13/05/2026 09:32

About once every few months I need to take the train from London down to Penzance. It’s a minimum 5 hour train, often 6 hours.

I work full time and long hours, usually 9am-9pm. This means it’s pretty much impossible to get down to Cornwall for a proper weekend without travelling very early before work or in the evening after work. I used go get the sleeper train but this has genuinely tripled in price in the last few years.

I usually need to work on the train or I would need to use annual leave for the time off. There simply is not enough space or privacy to use a laptop for work in standard class. First is just a bigger seat and some tea and coffee really, but it makes all the difference.

DP thinks I’m precious about disliking standard class on the train. I’m v happy with standard for 2 hours or so, but can’t do it for 5 hours.

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srapa · 13/05/2026 09:43

For a 5 hour journey, I would roughly pay £40 extra for first class, not much more. I would genuinely postpone a visit if I had to travel and work in standard.

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HoppityBun · 13/05/2026 09:41

I love train journeys and I would always travel first class if I could. Usually, I can’t. But if you book ahead, it’s usually cheaper.

Just3pounds · 13/05/2026 09:39

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Dontcallmescarface · 13/05/2026 09:37

We always go 1st class. It's quieter and more relaxed.

Ineffable23 · 13/05/2026 09:36

Have you come across seat frog? You can buy a second class ticket and bid for the first class ones, if you can't justify the cost of first. I definitely understand preferring first though!

MidnightPatrol · 13/05/2026 09:36

If you can get a reasonably priced ticket, it’s a worthwhile investment I think!

I do quite a bit of long distance train travel with kids and it is definitely worth it with them. More space, don’t have the corridor full of people standing, food and drink etc. Just all round more pleasant.

On my own I don’t mind standard class so much.

NuffSaidSam · 13/05/2026 09:35

I think everyone would prefer first class wouldn't they?

Whether you/DP can justify the cost or not is a different question.

MyThreeWords · 13/05/2026 09:35

You are certainly not unreasonable to prefer it. But omg the cost! I wouldn't be able to do this without some very special offer. But if you can afford it, go for it!

Peonies12 · 13/05/2026 09:34

I can't afford 1st class but if I could I'd be there every time! Your DP is being unreasonable unless there's some backstory like you're massively in debt

Slightyamusedandsilly · 13/05/2026 09:34

I prefer first class by a big margin. But mostly I can't justify the additional cost.

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