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Pretty Woman Moment

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JuliaRobHurts · 11/05/2026 10:48

DH and I were at a homebuilding and renovation show yesterday as we're in the middle of an extension project. Specifically we 're on the hunt for a new front door and while looking around one of the vendors we had a "pretty women" moment.

We had a look at the various products on show before trying to get the attention of one of the representatives who appeared to be avoiding our gaze. Eventually she approached and I said 'hi, we're interested in bespoke front doors and quite like this one on show'.

Without asking our budget or any of our requirements she went into a spiel about how the doors were very expensive, how they were imported from Lithuania and the import charge was also expensive, all the while wincing as she was saying it. She then said we might be better off with a more mass manufactured door. I was absolutely stunned at her condescending tone. She hadn't asked a single question about what we were looking for.

I was so close to confronting her about her approach, but held back. DH calmly told her her sales pitch needs some work and we walked away, but I was fuming. We were both dressed smart/casually so the only thing I can think is she guaged our age (late thirties) and made an assumption we couldn't afford it (even though we can).

WWYD in that situation? I'm half inclined to email the company and provide feedback on our experience but I also don't know if it's worth the energy.

Would love to hear if anyone that's had a similar experience but DID confront the rude person as I'm still annoyed I didn't give her a piece of my mind.

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LeaderBee · 11/05/2026 11:05

takealettermsjones · 11/05/2026 11:04

It's a classic scene in the film Pretty Woman.

I guess I am just not pretty enough to have ever experienced this.

takealettermsjones · 11/05/2026 11:04

LeaderBee · 11/05/2026 11:03

I'm confused, what's this got to do with being pretty?

It's a classic scene in the film Pretty Woman.

takealettermsjones · 11/05/2026 11:03

I've had similar when trying to buy a car, as I'd arrived in a sweatshirt and jeans, driving an admittedly pretty knackered little runaround. I got one word answers, almost grunts - until DH turned up, straight from work in his much nicer car and full suit. Suddenly they were fawning all over us. We left!

TeaPot496 · 11/05/2026 11:03

It could be that.. Or it could be that she hates her job and that product is a particular pain in the ass and their customers have complained loads about it.

LeaderBee · 11/05/2026 11:03

I'm confused, what's this got to do with being pretty?

TheGardenPond · 11/05/2026 11:02

This happened to me in an upmarket wool and knitting supplies shop. I was browsing the wool and asked how much a ball of wool was. The shopkeeper said “Ohhhh I am terribly sorry, that one is £16.95 a ball, it’s pure merino. Maybe you could try garden centres or B&M for affordable acrylics.” We left the shop, my friends and I were appalled. My friend said “you just got pretty-womaned!”

A few weeks later the same friend told me she had taken her kids into the shop and let them run around as revenge. Ha ha!

Lookingdownthebarrell · 11/05/2026 11:02

They probably have this one sales person and therefore don’t make many sales and hence no customer reviews 😂

JuliaRobHurts · 11/05/2026 10:59

Thanks. I've searched them online and there's very little reviews or feedback (11 google reviews and zero on trustpilot). So they're either fairly new or new to sales in the UK. I wouldv'e thought impression at these events were everything, expecially when you're selling a high end product to customers and you don't have a well established reputation.

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BlondeFool · 11/05/2026 10:55

Definitely email the company. That is absolutely outrageous.

LadyLadidah · 11/05/2026 10:51

Yes email the company. As a sales manager id be furious about this!

Glitterballofdreams · 11/05/2026 10:49

How rude! I’d send an email of complaint

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