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Angela Raynor still doesnt get it.

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ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:08

I’ve just read Angela’s Raynor’s statement about why Labour did so badly and what they need to do to change….aibu to think SHE STILL DOESNT GET IT!! Nothing mentioned about welfare, nothing mentioned about immigration-these are 2 subjects most talked about as the reasons why people didn’t vote for Labour.
she might not like it-but id they want to stay in power, they MUST tackle these subjects and not just ignore them because they dint fit her narrative.

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Mangelwurzelfortea · 11/05/2026 09:45

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:25

Or listen to what the people of this country actually want? People do not (in general) want more illegal immigrants. They do not want their taxes going up at the same time as welfare spending going up whilst dealing with increased COL themselves.

Labour are not LISTENING.

Labour ARE listening. The problem is that the problem is unsolveable. We don't have enough money to go round and we have a massive, economically inactive population - not because of immigration, but because of retired people. They are by far the biggest drain on the welfare state. Ironically we need immigration because we don't have a large enough working population to support them. No party can square the circle of not enough money coming in via tax or any other means to support an increasingly non-working population.

Reform will not be able to tackle this any more than Labour or the Tories can. And they were the ones who started the 'small boats' in the first place thanks to their idiot leader Farage and the idiotic Brexit project.

OnionFishDiamond · 11/05/2026 09:45

For me it’s the welfare reform that I feel is unforgivable. There was talk of reforms and they backed off because of the labour backbenchers making a fuss.

Then they went the other way and lifted the cap on two child benefit for universal credit and I just felt that was unforgivable.

I am here working incredibly hard with one child in two minds as to whether I can afford another child. I probably won’t have another one. But if I was in receipt of universal credit I’d get more money….

I normally vote labour/lib dem depending which constituency I’ve been living in but recently I’ve felt very unsure of who to vote for.

Philgooglemail · 11/05/2026 09:43

The rose of reform is terrifying. The county I love is in the process of turning into a very nasty divided place. Influenced by such biased reporting like the Mail and GB News.

Read this article and worry.

Meanwhile. Written by someone called Claudia Karl:
🇩🇪 Speaking as a German.
I grew up in a country where every history lesson, every memorial, every awkward family dinner eventually circles back to the same uncomfortable question: how did ordinary, decent people let it happen? How did a respectable European democracy slide, in barely a decade, into something that ended with six million Jewish lives extinguished, millions of others murdered alongside them, and a continent in ruins?
The answers are never simple. But the rhetoric — the rhetoric was never subtle. And it is the rhetoric I want to talk about, because I have heard this song before. 🚩
A certain Austrian gentleman (you know the one) and his party told their country a very specific story. Listen now to what is coming out of Reform UK and Nigel Farage. Not the policies. Not the personalities. Just the language.
⸻

  1. "The country is broken. The country has lost itself."
Hitler, in his first radio address as Chancellor on 1 February 1933, told Germans they had been blinded by promises, had forgotten the highest values of their past, and — his exact words — that "the misery of our people is terrible". (Source: Facing History archive, Hitler's first radio address) Facing History Nigel Farage on Twitter, December 2022: "Britain is broken." In Blackpool, June 2024, he expanded: nothing works any more, the country is in cultural decline, "we've begun to forget who we are". (Source: ITN/Reuters reporting of Farage's Blackpool speech) Xonenewspage Same key. Different decade. ⸻
  1. "We are being invaded by foreigners."
Hitler, addressing the Reichstag in January 1939, declared "Germany to the Germans" and said the nation must prevent the settlement on its soil of a strange people. (Source: Yad Vashem, transcript of Hitler's Reichstag speech, 30 January 1939) Yad Vashem Reform UK, August 2025, Oxford Airport: Farage said Britain was undergoing "an invasion" and described asylum seekers as a national security threat. April 2026, Reform's own home affairs spokesman Zia Yusuf: a Reform government will "reverse the invasion of Britain". (Source: World Socialist Web Site reporting Farage's Oxford Airport speech; GB News on Reform's deportation plan) World Socialist Web SiteGB News Same key. Different decade. ⸻
  1. "The establishment has betrayed you."
Hitler, at his 1924 trial, called the surrender of 1918 "a stab in the back of the German nation" — Germany, he said, had not really lost; the army had been betrayed by Jews, leftists and the Weimar elites. This single myth, repeated and repeated, did more than perhaps any other to bring him to power. (Source: Alpha History, transcript of Hitler's 1924 trial speech) Alpha History Farage, August 2025, on the grooming gangs scandal: "The establishment has failed". The drumbeat is constant: ordinary Britons have been sold out by Westminster, by the courts, by the police, by an entire metropolitan class. (Source: Wikipedia, "Political positions of Nigel Farage") Wikipedia Same key. Different decade. ⸻
  1. "The country must awaken. We are taking it back."
Hitler at the Berlin Sportspalast, addressing the SA and SS: "Germany has now awakened". The nation, he told them, was the master of its own destiny again. (Source: USHMM Holocaust Encyclopedia film archive) Holocaust Encyclopedia Farage at the Reform conference, 2024 — his line which has since been painted across every Reform rally and bus: "Britain is broken... Britain needs reform". Take our country back. (Source: The Spectator's report on Farage's Reform conference speech) spectator Same key. Different decade. ⸻ I am not saying these men are the same. I am not saying Reform UK is the NSDAP. I am saying — and I cannot be quiet about this, because my country knows what comes next — the speeches are written in the same key. And we know how that key ends. 🇩🇪 Germans know it in our bones. We have spent eighty years apologising. Every schoolchild visits a camp. Every family, sooner or later, has the conversation. Every public building has a plaque. There is no statute of limitations on what our grandparents allowed, and there will not be one in eighty years' time either. So I have to ask, neighbour to neighbour: Have we really learned nothing? 😞 Do British voters truly want to spend the next eighty years apologising the way Germany has had to? Because that is the road. It always starts politely. It starts with "just asking questions" and "concerns about immigration" and a respectable suit and a friendly smile. It never announces itself with jackboots. By the time it does, it is too late. It is much, much easier to say no to this rhetoric now — while it still wears the suit and the smile — than to spend a lifetime explaining it to your grandchildren. 🇩🇪🇬🇧
ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 09:42

Comeinsideforacupoftea · 11/05/2026 09:40

Why is that so important to you? What objective evidence do you have that immigration is impacting significantly on your welfare and your finances? Why is this topic so hugely offensive to you when multimillion pound companies avoiding tax, for example, isn't? Why are people so hell bent on believing the racist and completely untrue retoric of scum like farage just because they want fewer immigrants? Why is he being allowed air time at all never mind being allowed anywhere near No.10? Why is a single person in the UK so desperate to vote him in when he's proven himself to be nothing but a weasly little liar. He got his way with brexit and nothing has changed for the better. Reform are leading some local councils and they've all either gone bust or the counsillors have left. Why does the country think that other political parties need to pander to this shit to get votes back? Is honest and democratic politics not important to anyone any more?

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why do people want controlled immigration? Are you serious?

Do you believe in totally open borders?

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Seniie · 11/05/2026 09:42

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 09:40

nope, not anymore. It is a left wing ideology now. No one on the right is suppressing opposition. Quite the opposite in fact.

Sorry but thats complete and utter bollocks.

The definition of fascism is a far right authoritarian regime. The US MAGA regime is arguably there. Reform is trying to follow in its footsteps.

ZoeyBartlett · 11/05/2026 09:41

Pinkpony8 · 11/05/2026 09:37

Something needs to change but I don't know whether removing Starmer will be worse - look who is waiting in the wings: Lammy / Rayner. Both of those even more divisive politicians.

They have lost their way and sadly u-turns, taxes and illegal immigration have turned voters against them. They don't seem to be able to read the mood of the country. Whilst the elections last week were local and should have been cast on local issues, I suspect many people voted Reform because they are so fed up and feel let down by the big 2 parties.

I have family in Crowborough where the army migrant camp is housing 600 men and where there was considerable fierce opposition by locals - fell on deaf ears and pushed through by the Home Office. There are local people now patrolling the streets so kids can get to school safely, you now do not walk certain routes, you certainly can't as a lone female walk your dog alone in the forest, and people can't sell their houses. That might sound dramatic to some, but until this is on your doorstep it is hard to understand how awful it is for local residents

Absolutely this. Pushing Starmer out will give free range to the far left and that is not what people want.

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 11/05/2026 09:40

I honestly think the cost of living and making issues harder for small and medium size businesses including farmers and pubs is one of key mistakes of Labour. I think if had been successful in the economy other problems would have fallen away for many.

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 09:40

Seniie · 11/05/2026 09:39

No - fascists are far right.

Reform are fascists.

nope, not anymore. It is a left wing ideology now. No one on the right is suppressing opposition. Quite the opposite in fact.

Comeinsideforacupoftea · 11/05/2026 09:40

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 09:18

I also don’t want an anti immigration party, but I do want immigration to be controlled and considered.

Why is that so important to you? What objective evidence do you have that immigration is impacting significantly on your welfare and your finances? Why is this topic so hugely offensive to you when multimillion pound companies avoiding tax, for example, isn't? Why are people so hell bent on believing the racist and completely untrue retoric of scum like farage just because they want fewer immigrants? Why is he being allowed air time at all never mind being allowed anywhere near No.10? Why is a single person in the UK so desperate to vote him in when he's proven himself to be nothing but a weasly little liar. He got his way with brexit and nothing has changed for the better. Reform are leading some local councils and they've all either gone bust or the counsillors have left. Why does the country think that other political parties need to pander to this shit to get votes back? Is honest and democratic politics not important to anyone any more?

Komints · 11/05/2026 09:39

Oh, and Labour doesn't need to out-Reform Reform.

Local election turnout in England was about 34%.
So Reform got roughly 30% of 34% of the eligible electorate - which is around 10-11% of all eligible voters.

About 89-90% of the people legally able to vote either chose somebody else or stayed home}

I've anecdotally heard Reform voters who've said 'I won't vote for them in a GE, but I wanted to send a message and this was a safer way to do it' - so a chunk of that 10-11% who voted Reform are probably easily gettable.

If Labour get their act together, ideally get Burnham in, or involved in a more meaningful way by Christmas, and implement visible, tangible change in people's lives, they can lead on a platform of patriotism, energy security, prosperity and security without having to do any Reform pandering.

Seniie · 11/05/2026 09:39

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 09:37

I find this odd. The left are the definition of fascists. Think and act how we tell you to and anyone who disagrees needs to be cancelled (or worse according to the placards at left wing demonstrations). Whether you agree or disagree with reform, they aren’t suggesting anyone gets cancelled or ostracised for not supporting them. They are simply making their case and you either like it or you don’t. That’s democracy not racism. I find the ANTIFA group the most ironic of all movements! Literally the opposite of what it says on the tin!

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No - fascists are far right.

Reform are fascists.

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 09:38

Firetreev · 11/05/2026 09:33

For every 10 voter Labour lose to Reform, they're losing 16 to the Greens.

Link?

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Twooclockrock · 11/05/2026 09:38

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:25

Or listen to what the people of this country actually want? People do not (in general) want more illegal immigrants. They do not want their taxes going up at the same time as welfare spending going up whilst dealing with increased COL themselves.

Labour are not LISTENING.

Sadly, no government is ever going to solve illegal immigration. Reform aren't going to wave a magic wand and it all stops. Its as or more profitable than the illegal drugs trade and no government has been able to stop that either.
I do think people think that reform will be able to just close the gates, but they are deluded.
Short of shooting the boats and drowning the people in them.. which obviosuly is not an option, then its going to continue.
We havent got enough prisons for our own criminals, let alone trying to build camps as a deterrent. And then what about women and children, should they be put into camps etc... its a global problem and almost an impossible one to solve.

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 09:37

Seniie · 11/05/2026 09:33

I hate Reform and think they are fascists. If Reform get in our country is going the way of the MAGA US fascist regime. It will be horrendous

However I do agree with you OP. Labour doesn't need to move further left it need to move further towards the centre. The proposed changes to welfare eg changing the rules around the winter fuel allowance and keeping the 2 child welfare cap were the right policies and would have helped them to persuade people they were acting in the interests of the country. They also need to be stronger on illegal immigration since the country clearly feels very strongly about illegal immigration.

Moving further left simply means they will lose more votes. The far left already vote left. The centrist left will switch their vote. Unfortunately I don't actually believe a labour government can ever be successful anyway since the hard left back benchers will never let moderate policies through.

Angela Raynor is awful and I'm struggling to understand why her voice is being listened to anyway after she was removed from her position due to her fraudulent misconduct.

I find this odd. The left are the definition of fascists. Think and act how we tell you to and anyone who disagrees needs to be cancelled (or worse according to the placards at left wing demonstrations). Whether you agree or disagree with reform, they aren’t suggesting anyone gets cancelled or ostracised for not supporting them. They are simply making their case and you either like it or you don’t. That’s democracy not racism. I find the ANTIFA group the most ironic of all movements! Literally the opposite of what it says on the tin!

Pinkpony8 · 11/05/2026 09:37

Something needs to change but I don't know whether removing Starmer will be worse - look who is waiting in the wings: Lammy / Rayner. Both of those even more divisive politicians.

They have lost their way and sadly u-turns, taxes and illegal immigration have turned voters against them. They don't seem to be able to read the mood of the country. Whilst the elections last week were local and should have been cast on local issues, I suspect many people voted Reform because they are so fed up and feel let down by the big 2 parties.

I have family in Crowborough where the army migrant camp is housing 600 men and where there was considerable fierce opposition by locals - fell on deaf ears and pushed through by the Home Office. There are local people now patrolling the streets so kids can get to school safely, you now do not walk certain routes, you certainly can't as a lone female walk your dog alone in the forest, and people can't sell their houses. That might sound dramatic to some, but until this is on your doorstep it is hard to understand how awful it is for local residents

askmenow · 11/05/2026 09:34

Bunnycat101 · 11/05/2026 09:21

I really don’t think this is really about immigration but cost of living and a terrible job market. I know so many people who have been going through restructures in middle management/exec roles. There seems to be very little confidence at that level which in turn means people that otherwise might be spending on services aren’t or are cutting back in some ways. The reforms re NI have then also really hit companies who hire a lot of people at or around minimum wage so the job market seems to be taking a hit all over. I think it’s really about a lack of confidence in public services and the economy. Reform has found a scapegoat for that.

Are you joking? Do you not see the daily boatloads of undocumented males arriving on our shores???? Are you happy to have them living in an HMO next to your child’s schools, wandering the streets freely?

How naive are people to not believe the risk of malicious governments sending these infiltrators deliberately to our shores to foment unrest. Like Russia and Iran for instance.
If I were them I’d do it to cause mayhem and instability on the streets and destabilise the country.

Every single illegal migrant needs to be deported back to France from whence they came.

Komints · 11/05/2026 09:34

Her statement was actually pretty good - it identified the main issues and named the frustration of people wanting to feel the effects of policy themselves. Competence is fine but without tangible evidence for normal working people it's always going to lose against rhetoric and slogans with simple fixes to complex problems.

If you want immigration to come down, take a look at the graph. Which direction do you see the numbers going?

And benefits - yes, pensions are a huge cost to the state, but the triple-lock is a political grenade so no party wants to touch it.

The biggest problems are around literacy and communication of this stuff. The average person is clueless as to the actual numbers, and the average politician is hopeless at communicating them effectively.

If immigration numbers are falling, that tells one story.

If small towns are quickly receiving large numbers of non-EU migrants, who are unskilled, unsupported, and culturally incompatible with their neighbours, that's a separate story. And it's one that drives a lot of people's voting intention, whether it's first-hand, or third-hand, or based on misinformation from a party with a slicker social media operation and no squeamishness about outright lying to get votes.

So yes - welfare should be discussed. Immigration should be discussed. But it's pointless if people don't 1) use tangible, evidence-based points and 2) listen to the other side and talk to each other like human beings.

Angela Raynor still doesnt get it.
Angela Raynor still doesnt get it.
Seniie · 11/05/2026 09:33

I hate Reform and think they are fascists. If Reform get in our country is going the way of the MAGA US fascist regime. It will be horrendous

However I do agree with you OP. Labour doesn't need to move further left it need to move further towards the centre. The proposed changes to welfare eg changing the rules around the winter fuel allowance and keeping the 2 child welfare cap were the right policies and would have helped them to persuade people they were acting in the interests of the country. They also need to be stronger on illegal immigration since the country clearly feels very strongly about illegal immigration.

Moving further left simply means they will lose more votes. The far left already vote left. The centrist left will switch their vote. Unfortunately I don't actually believe a labour government can ever be successful anyway since the hard left back benchers will never let moderate policies through.

Angela Raynor is awful and I'm struggling to understand why her voice is being listened to anyway after she was removed from her position due to her fraudulent misconduct.

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 09:33

JasmineTea11 · 11/05/2026 09:30

Sorry but you obviously do not know what socialism is. We live in a capitalist system.
Just because someone is left wing, and supports high regulation, high welfare, that is not socialism.
Please don't let us become like the US where anyone left of centre is 'socialist'. Just like anyone right of centre isn't a fascist.
We need to use words and concepts accurately.
No, I'm not a fan of Raynor's, BTW.

Well it’s not capitalist that for sure.

whilst it may not be socialism to the furthest extent, any redistribution of wealth is a socialist policy. We have a capiltalist economy with socialism policies within that. We wouldn’t have the NHS otherwise. It does work with the consent of the people. But the issue with welfare is it does t have the consent of the people in the format it is in now.

Littlecrake · 11/05/2026 09:33

Somersetbaker · 11/05/2026 09:14

It's rather ironic, all the people considering emigrating because of the number of immigrants, what do they think they will be in their new country? Oh I know "ex-pats". I hope they remember that before they voted for the grifting gurners policies they could have moved to any EU country without problem.

People emigrate because of tax and the economy and quality of life. Rarely do people emigrate because of immigrants, People may perceive, rightly or wrongly, that their home/host country has a terrible economy, high taxes, and a collapse of the previous “high trust society” lifestyle because of open borders, but that’s not quite the same thing. Lots of people are perfectly happy to life as an immigrant (or ex-pat - they are different things) or return to their home country or swap out the UK for a different host country if it means they aren’t taxed 40p in the pound plus 20% of practically everything they buy and then have to pay council tax, fuel duty, insurance tax, national insurance etc. on top yet still don’t get that burglary they reported investigated, still have to read about another social service, health service or probation service fuck-up due to underfunding (plus the general societal rot that leads to the pressure on those services) and then burst their tyre on a pothole and can’t afford the train fare to work.
The people emigrating are not necessarily the same “they” as the Brexiteers,
I’m a second gen immigrant- not an emigrant or a brexiteer, but I can totally see why so many people are choosing to take a chance abroad. I like it here but, fuck me, all these stories about migrant crime rates (and crappy light sentences because the poor lambs didn’t know rape is frowned upon followed by inability to deport), unemployment (particularly grad unemployment - particularly nurse/midwife/AHP employment) and the government saying it can’t reform welfare and parents can’t even be expected to give their own kids breakfast anymore is depressing as fuck.

Firetreev · 11/05/2026 09:33

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:19

Did you actually see the results of the local elections and read about why so many previous Labour voters rejected Labour?

why do you think Reform attracted so many new voters?

For every 10 voter Labour lose to Reform, they're losing 16 to the Greens.

TossACoinToYerWitcher · 11/05/2026 09:33

HappiestSleeping · 11/05/2026 09:26

No, it won't be (comparing apples with apples). As you say, the ONS have only recently started to look at who is leaving, so the data doesn't exist yet. It will be interesting to see once it starts to emerge.

The key for me is that the current government are processing faster, so backlogs will reduce and arrivals will be processed much more quickly.

If the arrivals by boat are processed rapidly and returned where necessary, that will likely be a discouraging factor to start the journey. That said, it isn't necessarily the individuals who are making informed decisions, they are just buying in to what is being sold to them by the gangs running things.

It isn't a quick fix situation as Reform will find out should they ever gain the chair. Most of the methods they have stated currently are either not possible or are against the law. It is very easy to say what would happen when one has no responsibility. I have a feeling a lot of newly elected councillors will be discovering this in the coming months.

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most of the methods they have stated currently are either not possible or are against the law

Then they will ignore the law - I think that’s what people are hoping. It’s the approach Trump has taken in America.

JasmineTea11 · 11/05/2026 09:30

MustTryHarderAndHarder · 11/05/2026 08:20

Until the labour party understands that socialism will never work, they have no chance.

Unfortunately they all believe in socialism so they will never give that up.

She just can't see that her workers reforms are a big part of the problem.

All they are concentrating on is the losses in Wales and they have not addressed the losses to Reform at all because they can't as they have no answer.

The also think that all the people who voted reform are idiots.

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Sorry but you obviously do not know what socialism is. We live in a capitalist system.
Just because someone is left wing, and supports high regulation, high welfare, that is not socialism.
Please don't let us become like the US where anyone left of centre is 'socialist'. Just like anyone right of centre isn't a fascist.
We need to use words and concepts accurately.
No, I'm not a fan of Raynor's, BTW.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 09:28

ilovesooty · 11/05/2026 08:34

That's nothing to do with your statement that I responded to. For the sake of clarity I was disputing your statement that people had no problems with legal immigration. There are plenty of people who want to see anyone who isn't white and English forced out.

There are plenty of people who want to see anyone who isn't white and English forced out.

That is an extreme view though and not remotely representative of the majority. There are many other extreme views that you can find espoused by ‘plenty of people’ like the Islamist view that we should all be forced to live under sharia law and be coerced into becoming Muslim for example.

It is not at all helpful for people to keep using the views of a tiny minority to discredit the majority.

The majority just want to feel that our borders are under control and that we can reject or deport criminals or immigrants that do not respect us or our country.

Pluto46 · 11/05/2026 09:28

Miranda65 · 11/05/2026 09:11

I am not a fan of Sir Keir as PM (although I think he's a decent man) but, honestly, the alternatives being suggested are terrifying. And Angela Rayner is the worst of the lot - if she becomes PM, then we'll become a laughing stock across the world.

Exactly - its inconceivable that she could end up as PM when far better educated people are expected to go through several rounds of interviews and a psychometric test just to land a bar job these days (thanks to Labour policies). The UK cannot afford ideological politics - every policy needs economic scrutiny and ongoing transparency.

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