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Angela Raynor still doesnt get it.

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ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:08

I’ve just read Angela’s Raynor’s statement about why Labour did so badly and what they need to do to change….aibu to think SHE STILL DOESNT GET IT!! Nothing mentioned about welfare, nothing mentioned about immigration-these are 2 subjects most talked about as the reasons why people didn’t vote for Labour.
she might not like it-but id they want to stay in power, they MUST tackle these subjects and not just ignore them because they dint fit her narrative.

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Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 10:17

Littlecrake · 11/05/2026 10:15

I left the Labour Party 30 odd years ago, having been quite active. Mostly because it was always "you must support us, then after the revolution we'll be able to deliver feminism, gay rights, etc". Just too much idealism of big change rather than the pragmatism of continuous small improvements.

It was striking after the US election when journalists were interviewing voters and politicians just how many people were saying “I voted for Trump because if the economy” “I voted for Trump because food is too expensive” “I voted for Trump because we need more jobs” “I voted for Trump because he will reopen factories”. They didn’t love Trump, they were just skint and wanted more money in their pockets. Whereas on the Dem side it was more “We campaigned for LGBTQI+ rights and it’s a disaster that we weren’t listened to ” “They didn’t listen to our message on diversity” “Trump will not do anything to support trans kids” “I don’t understand why women/black people can vote for that man” but they didn’t offer anything useful like jobs and affordable food. When one person offers you bread and the other offers you what they think is roses then you take the bread. Even if it’s just a small chance that the bread will be delivered. Even if you want the roses, and lots of people don’t want those particular roses.
Reform link their “policies” to directly helping the British people. Particularly the working people. I personally think it’s mainly bollocks and we’d mostly be screwed if they did get in but still, the message is “a vote for us is a vote for yourself”. Labour policy is all about supporting someone else “a vote for us is for benefits claimants” “a vote for us means other people never have to make their own kids breakfast again” or “a vote for is is a vote for grooming gangs” “a vote for us means if you don’t work you are better off than any over privileged fat-cat upstart who is arrogant enough to try to run a small business”.

We need bread and roses! Also, people are now finding out that the bread offered by Trump is not bread at all - it’s just fake bread.

PropertyD · 11/05/2026 10:16

Then being intereviewed by Sky News and talked about 'nesting' with her ex (from 300 miles away).

She is a shameless liar. And some want her for PM??

MiaKulper · 11/05/2026 10:16

Why have you misspelt Angela Rayner's name?

Addocorlo · 11/05/2026 10:16

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 10:06

Taking extremely tiny soundbites from Hitler and trying to compare the evils of the Holocaust with Reform is pretty low.

The growing anti semitism in this country is coming from the left - why don’t you do their soundbites first?

We have the sound bites from hitler now what about these:

Allah’s Messenger said, “The Hour will not be established until you fight with the Jews, and the stone behind which a Jew will be hiding will say. ‘O Muslim! There is a Jew hiding behind me, so kill him.’”
(Sahih Bukhari 4:52:177; see also Sahih Bukhari 4:52:176; Sahih Muslim 41:6985)

Do not greet the Jews and the Christians before they greet you and when you meet any one of them on the roads force him to go to the narrowest part of it.
(Sahih Muslim 39:16, see also Sunan Abu Dawud 41:5186)[5]

On his death-bed Allah’s Messenger ( put a sheet over his-face and when he felt hot, he would remove it from his face. When in that state (of putting and removing the sheet) he said, “May Allah’s Curse be on the Jews and the Christians for they build places of worship at the graves of their prophets.” (By that) he intended to warn (the Muslim) from what they (i.e. Jews and Christians) had done. (Sahih Bukhari 4:56:660)[6]

No Muslim would die but Allah would admit in his stead a Jew or a Christian in Hell-Fire.
(Sahih Muslim 37:6666)[7]
There would come people amongst the Muslims on the Day of Resurrection with as heavy sins as a mountain, and Allah would forgive them and He would place in their stead the Jews and the Christians.
(Sahir Muslim 37:6668)[8

A group of Bani Isra’il (Jews) was lost. I do not know what happened to it, but I think (that it ‘underwent a process of metamorphosis) and assumed the shape of rats. Don’t you see when the milk of the camel is placed before them, these do not drink and when the milk of goat is placed before them, these do drink.” (Sahih Muslim 42:7135)[11]

Littlecrake · 11/05/2026 10:15

I left the Labour Party 30 odd years ago, having been quite active. Mostly because it was always "you must support us, then after the revolution we'll be able to deliver feminism, gay rights, etc". Just too much idealism of big change rather than the pragmatism of continuous small improvements.

It was striking after the US election when journalists were interviewing voters and politicians just how many people were saying “I voted for Trump because if the economy” “I voted for Trump because food is too expensive” “I voted for Trump because we need more jobs” “I voted for Trump because he will reopen factories”. They didn’t love Trump, they were just skint and wanted more money in their pockets. Whereas on the Dem side it was more “We campaigned for LGBTQI+ rights and it’s a disaster that we weren’t listened to ” “They didn’t listen to our message on diversity” “Trump will not do anything to support trans kids” “I don’t understand why women/black people can vote for that man” but they didn’t offer anything useful like jobs and affordable food. When one person offers you bread and the other offers you what they think is roses then you take the bread. Even if it’s just a small chance that the bread will be delivered. Even if you want the roses, and lots of people don’t want those particular roses.
Reform link their “policies” to directly helping the British people. Particularly the working people. I personally think it’s mainly bollocks and we’d mostly be screwed if they did get in but still, the message is “a vote for us is a vote for yourself”. Labour policy is all about supporting someone else “a vote for us is for benefits claimants” “a vote for us means other people never have to make their own kids breakfast again” or “a vote for is is a vote for grooming gangs” “a vote for us means if you don’t work you are better off than any over privileged fat-cat upstart who is arrogant enough to try to run a small business”.

PropertyD · 11/05/2026 10:14

askmenow · 11/05/2026 09:21

It’s still not resolved, HMRC is still awaiting a £40,000 repayment.

And that’s aside from fraudulently having overvalued the family home so she could draw down sufficient for the deposit in the £600,000 beachfront flat down south! From her son’s Trust Fund. How???
Those that have the means will find ways to circumvent the system. They’re all mired in corruption.

Absolutely. Up the workers. Pigs in the trough. She was bloody Housing Minister and claimed that she was advised incorrectly by some middle of nowhere solicitors. I suspect she knew she was on dodgy ground and thought she would wing it.

For me it wasnt the SD error it was the robbing of her disabled son's trust fund to pay for a property with her latest boyfriend who has been fired by the LP. You really couldnt make this up.

Flowersdie · 11/05/2026 10:14

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 09:54

be all the questions were so goading, of course illegal immigration has affected me adversely-directly and indirectly.

Indirectly by the costs associated (processing, caring for them etc which could be spent on nhs) and directly by being pickpocketed by an illegal.

This made me giggle. Did you demand to see the pickpockets legal papers to determine he was an illegal immigrant?

The point of pickpockets tends to be that they secretly pick your pocket not engage in discussion with you. Things that never happened.

Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 10:14

Echobelly · 11/05/2026 10:09

Minor point, but why does every thread started about her misspell her surname in the title?

I was just going to say the same! I think is partly a sneaky way to undermine her but also a way of saying they don’t care about her.

Flowersdie · 11/05/2026 10:12

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 10:06

And that my dear is why Reform will get in.

calling someone racist when they have given no indication of racism whatsoever is incredibly insulting (and in my case untrue).

and the fact I have never voted reform is irrelevant, because voting fir reform does not necessarily make someone racist.

Reform will get in because Labour will stay principled and not pander to racists? Potentially. So be it then. I’d rather that than a party abandoning their principles and flip flopping to say what some people want to hear.

It would be economically and socially devastating for the country if Reform ever took power (still very unlikely at this point) but I support democracy. It would just make me sad to see the UK sink so low. Maybe we are a country of racists now and I have to learn to live with that.

PropertyD · 11/05/2026 10:10

HappiestSleeping · 11/05/2026 08:20

The irony is that net migration is down 69% under this government.

Sadly, I think it could get to zero, and Farage would still be spouting "stop the boats".

Its down because the Tories changed the rules on bringing over dependants for people studying. People who didnt work, didnt contribute.

Echobelly · 11/05/2026 10:09

Minor point, but why does every thread started about her misspell her surname in the title?

Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 10:09

Komints · 11/05/2026 10:05

He wasn't 'supposed to remain impartial' - especially as a freelancer. That was a big part of the whole story, and the main reason he was reinstated. And it wasn't misconduct. Not even close.

Also the BBC is neither right or left wing, despite some spikiness in the distribution of how that presents. I know people there who can confirm, they try very hard as an organisation to be as impartial as possible, and there are many people who spend most of their role worrying about whether they're managing it. And they get huge amounts of stick from both sides.

Also the BBC is neither right or left wing. And they get huge amounts of stick from both sides.

Absolutely agree with this! The BBC don’t always get it right - far from it. But the fact that people of all political stripes constantly argue about the BBC being too far on the opposing side just shows that they’re pretty good at being impartial.

Komints · 11/05/2026 10:09

domenica1 · 11/05/2026 10:00

This rhetoric — Andy Burnham is a saviour who will solve all our problems — do you really think it’s realistic to think he can do this? What do you think he is going to be able to come up with when we have been spending beyond our means for years and now we are stuck servicing that debt as well as a ballooning bill for welfare.

There's two points to this.

The first is on implementation - he's been very successful as Manchester Mayor on many fronts (homelessness, Bee network, education, emissions) so he can point to stuff he's done, and his own political ideas (more devolution) and say 'look - I make things happen'

The second is on messaging. Keir is a good public servant with a good career and (I honestly believe this) good principles. But he's awful at the presentational bits of politics, and modern politics needs good communicators, so picking someone with a bit more charisma and comfort in talking to people would help Labour.

Havanananana · 11/05/2026 10:07

HappiestSleeping · 11/05/2026 08:20

The irony is that net migration is down 69% under this government.

Sadly, I think it could get to zero, and Farage would still be spouting "stop the boats".

The irony is that immigration reached a peak when Suella Bobblehead and Honest Bob Jenrick were the ministers in charge of immigration under the previous government.

And Farage's Brexit resulted in millions of hard-working Europeans being told to bugger off back where they came from, to be replaced by workers from Nigeria, India, Zimbabwe, Nepal and elsewhere - workers who have been exploited by visa-scammers, gangmasters and unscrupulous employers.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 10:06

Lilactimes · 11/05/2026 09:58

Thank you @Philgooglemail for this thorough post. This is why I am scared of Reform.

Taking extremely tiny soundbites from Hitler and trying to compare the evils of the Holocaust with Reform is pretty low.

The growing anti semitism in this country is coming from the left - why don’t you do their soundbites first?

SunnySaturdaySloth · 11/05/2026 10:06

Raynor is a fool
She wants a higher minimum wage.
Has she not got her head around the fact that 2 pubs a day are closing and unemployment is rising due to the increase in the minimum wage and higher NI?
Higher minimum wage= fewer jobs= higher unemployment.
Less tax able to fund benefits.

Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 10:06

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 09:55

Many people are also very aware of other methods like widespread visa and asylum fraud.

It’s about our government having a lack of control over who is entering or staying in our country.

It’s a combination of action of many things - the very visible small boat arrivals, combined with the knowledge that the ‘human rights’ lawyers will often successfully scupper the removal of even the most heinous criminals, the vast amounts being spent on all these new arrivals and the avoidable disruption and harm being caused to British people.

And obviously the regular reports of actual terrorists and criminal fugitives entering and a steady stream of rapes, gang rapes and murders by foreign nationals plus electoral fraud by people with anti Western views seeking to subvert our democracy. It all adds up.

Visa and asylum fraud is not widespread. My mother used to work in visa and asylum policy, and she is at pains to say how uncommon it is.

Yes, the small boat arrivals of people are very visible, but they are not very frequent. A lot of money is spent on accommodating asylum seekers, but most of that money goes to the accommodation providers and only a tiny portion to the asylum seekers themselves (£9.95 a week for those in full board accom or £49 a week for those not in full board accom).

Electoral fraud by ‘people with anti-Western views seeking to subvert our democracy’ is a constant threat, as shown by Russia’s increasing attempts to influence our elections, but it’s very well managed.

I’ve not yet seen any reports of terrorist or criminal fugitives entering the U.K. illegally. Most of them are removed successfully. I’ve not come across any evidence of lawyers successfully arguing for their right to stay in the U.K.

As for murders and raped committed by foreign nationals, these happen but they’re rare, and most of the time, the people committing them are here legally. I’ve never heard of a gang rape being committed in the U.K. by a foreign national. If you’re referring to gang rapes committed by grooming gangs, these are extremely rare, and the men committing them were British nationals.

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 10:06

Flowersdie · 11/05/2026 10:02

Good. I hope the Labour Party never listen to racists like you. They’re not Reform. They don’t just say what the racists want to hear. They were voted in on a set of principles and they’re acting on them. Good on them and good on Starmer.

And that my dear is why Reform will get in.

calling someone racist when they have given no indication of racism whatsoever is incredibly insulting (and in my case untrue).

and the fact I have never voted reform is irrelevant, because voting fir reform does not necessarily make someone racist.

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Comeinsideforacupoftea · 11/05/2026 10:06

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 09:54

be all the questions were so goading, of course illegal immigration has affected me adversely-directly and indirectly.

Indirectly by the costs associated (processing, caring for them etc which could be spent on nhs) and directly by being pickpocketed by an illegal.

I disagree that the questions were goading. They were asking you to consider the issue a bit more critically which clearly I overestimated your abilities to do. This thread is living proof that this country is going to distroy itself from within far faster than any illegal immigrants can destroy it.

Komints · 11/05/2026 10:05

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 11/05/2026 10:00

When Reform leadership demanded the BBC sack Gary Lineker for his pretty tame tweets about government policy, was that not 'suggesting anyone gets cancelled or ostracised'?

I know we have got so used to the huge left wing bias of the BBC that it seems quite normalised but have you remembered that as a (spectacularly well paid) employee of the BBC, Gary is supposed to remain impartial?

Calling for someone to be sacked for misconduct in their job is not calling for them to be cancelled or ostracised.

He wasn't 'supposed to remain impartial' - especially as a freelancer. That was a big part of the whole story, and the main reason he was reinstated. And it wasn't misconduct. Not even close.

Also the BBC is neither right or left wing, despite some spikiness in the distribution of how that presents. I know people there who can confirm, they try very hard as an organisation to be as impartial as possible, and there are many people who spend most of their role worrying about whether they're managing it. And they get huge amounts of stick from both sides.

SunnySaturdaySloth · 11/05/2026 10:04

OnceUponATimed · 11/05/2026 08:14

There is absolutely no way they should go more anti.Immigration. it will alienate many of their voters, and they will never hopefully be as anti immigration as the right wing parties.

it's about being anti immigration,.
It's about stopping illegal asylum seekers who are economic migrants.
There are now 200, 000 living here, illegally.

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 10:03

Thefastandthecurious5 · 11/05/2026 09:51

I actually disagree. To me, the two big issues are the cost of living and the NHS backlogs.

To you perhaps, but not to the majority who took their vote elsewhere.

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Flowersdie · 11/05/2026 10:02

ProudAmberTurtle · 11/05/2026 08:39

Starmer's response to the drubbing:

Appoint Harriet Harman to government and announce closer ties with the EU.

They are very much not listening!

Good. I hope the Labour Party never listen to racists like you. They’re not Reform. They don’t just say what the racists want to hear. They were voted in on a set of principles and they’re acting on them. Good on them and good on Starmer.

BananaPeels · 11/05/2026 10:02

Komints · 11/05/2026 09:54

When Reform leadership demanded the BBC sack Gary Lineker for his pretty tame tweets about government policy, was that not 'suggesting anyone gets cancelled or ostracised'?

On a more general note. Please look up fascism. Please look up socialism. You need to understand these terms if you're going to use them.

Again patronising people isn’t going to make them vote for people on the left. I do understand them. I studied it at university thanks . It’s why I know being right wing in the uk is not fascism and it is a term used to try to force people not to want to control migration, have strict law and order, have a strong military etc which is clearly what people do want as evidenced by these election results. That is just normal, bog standard, right of centre think. Nothing authoritarian about it at all. Lots of people also do not want a super liberal, anything goes society as can ben seen by the pushback on the transgender issue. This what the government don’t get. Most people are generally pretty (small c) conservative.

Dbank · 11/05/2026 10:01

ThisDandyWriter · 11/05/2026 08:19

Did you actually see the results of the local elections and read about why so many previous Labour voters rejected Labour?

why do you think Reform attracted so many new voters?

These two posts perfectly capture the Labour's dilemma, and their willingness to destroy the party and the country on the alter of "socialism at any cost"