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AIBU to feel disheartened by earning into the higher tax band?

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Chocolateapot · 10/05/2026 22:19

I have finally after many many years of studying progressed in my career to just slightly above the 40% tax threshold. Unfortunately I’ve realised this now means any additional income I earn is now taxed at 40%, student loan 9% and 2% national insurance, essentially giving a marginal tax rate of 51%.

Not sure why I bothered tbh

OP posts:
MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 09:21

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 09:11

I can elaborate but, as I've already explained, I'm choosing not to. It's not difficult to understand.

😂 ok

Zov · 11/05/2026 09:20

Yeah, my 2 adult DC felt like this when they hit the higher tax bracket 2-3 years ago (they are both around 30 y.o.) But it didn't take long for their salary to go up and up with bonuses and promotions and so on... They're glad they took the promotions/higher income now, because they're near to 6-figures now (not London,) and are doing well.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 11/05/2026 09:15

Put the amount you are over the 20% bracket into your pension.

changedmynameagainforthis · 11/05/2026 09:13

I recently went over the 40% threshold. It doesn’t massively bother me. I’m still making more money. I accept I have to pay taxes for the benefit of society.

OneTealShaker · 11/05/2026 09:12

luckylavender · 11/05/2026 08:49

Such nonsense. Look at what came before. It wasn't socialism that started this.

It was exactly socialism that started this.

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 09:11

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 09:00

Right so higher earners have lots of ways they can grow their cash tax free, but you can’t actually elaborate on what those are.

I can elaborate but, as I've already explained, I'm choosing not to. It's not difficult to understand.

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 09:10

southcoastsammy · 11/05/2026 09:01

Ok - except the OP was living on less
on a lower salary. So just put in pension contributions to match that, save the tax, live off the same money as before and OP is still better off because that pension money can be accessed later.
or if someone REALLY resents paying the higher rate of tax on the extra money earned then drop down on salary or hours.
As a highest rate tax payer do I want my tax money going on healthy working age people who aren’t arsed working? No. But do I want U.K. children to have food, education, healthcare, decent housing. - yes. Do I want transport systems, nice public spaces, playgrounds, leisure centres, the NHS, my DParents to get their state pensions, public services - yes. Do I think we need a military? Yes.
We don’t get to choose where the money goes exactly but I do know that not all of my tax money goes to ‘scroungers’…
And OP is paying tax on EXTRA money earned. Seems they’re MOST pissed off at paying money they BORROWED and somehow that’s suddenly a ‘tax’.

But OP isn’t complaining about paying tax at all - she’s complaining about now paying a 51% rate on any additional pound earned.

More than half of any additional earnings is taken through PAYE.

That is very significant in terms of the motivation to do more work - earn £1000 extra on the basic rate you take home £720. Earn an extra £1000 in OP’s situation and you take home £490.

And that’s ignoring all the additional cost to employer, employers NI etc.

As for ‘but she was living on less’. She might have aspirations to buy a home, have a child etc. It is typically expected as you go through your career you earn more money to support a better lifestyle eg having a house and kids. This expectation everyone should be simperingly grateful to be earning beyond the minimum wage is bizarre.

Butterme · 11/05/2026 09:04

Seymour5 · 11/05/2026 08:49

Don’t forget free school meals; free adult dentistry and prescriptions; no travel to work costs; access to many discounted children’s clubs (our leisure centre advertises them); no need for smart work clothes; Cold Weather payments. Plus as a SAHM shopping around can save on food costs etc. I’m long retired, worked since my DC were small, but as an ex housing worker, and a volunteer for a charity, I’ve met many women who could have worked but preferred the option not to - reason given - because they had children. Some were also being supported by the children's father/s.

The real hardship comes later, when they no longer have dependent children, and are on much reduced benefits, often in a property that is too big, and their housing benefit is reduced due to the what is known as ‘bedroom tax’. Hard to start at forty or older with no work history.

Please stop making this into a benefits bashing thread.

You have no idea how poor the other half of the country live.

When I was on benefits as a single parent I had to choose between eating myself or having hot water.
I had a mattress on the floor as my bed and seating area for years and no TV or anything.

There are children having no clean clothes, going hungry and not being able to eat breakfast, yet you’re moaning about their parents getting £10 a week free school meals so they don’t starve and can concentrate in class.
And these are the people that you are suggesting are better off than receiving £3k+ a month on a £50k salary.

Teddleshon1 · 11/05/2026 09:02

Well don’t Chocolate for working hard and doing well. I don’t blame you at all for feeling hacked off with it all.

southcoastsammy · 11/05/2026 09:01

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 08:25

The thing is, people actually need the money to live on.

Housing costs are very high. Childcare costs are very high.

These frozen thresholds and the solution being to put more and more into pensions, means people’s incomes effectively have an upper limit and for some reason many think that’s fine… ignoring inflation…!

Ok - except the OP was living on less
on a lower salary. So just put in pension contributions to match that, save the tax, live off the same money as before and OP is still better off because that pension money can be accessed later.
or if someone REALLY resents paying the higher rate of tax on the extra money earned then drop down on salary or hours.
As a highest rate tax payer do I want my tax money going on healthy working age people who aren’t arsed working? No. But do I want U.K. children to have food, education, healthcare, decent housing. - yes. Do I want transport systems, nice public spaces, playgrounds, leisure centres, the NHS, my DParents to get their state pensions, public services - yes. Do I think we need a military? Yes.
We don’t get to choose where the money goes exactly but I do know that not all of my tax money goes to ‘scroungers’…
And OP is paying tax on EXTRA money earned. Seems they’re MOST pissed off at paying money they BORROWED and somehow that’s suddenly a ‘tax’.

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 09:00

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 08:55

There are others.

No, many people can work this out without needing a financial advisor. Seems the PP isn't one of them though.

Right so higher earners have lots of ways they can grow their cash tax free, but you can’t actually elaborate on what those are.

Ablaize · 11/05/2026 08:58

Chocolateapot · 11/05/2026 07:37

I think this is what I’m going to do. It’s not worth that extra day of stress. And this is another reason why the NHS waiting lists are so long…

I’ve done the same. It’s worth it!

And dp who is extremely skilled and works in private company earning over £100k has “bought” holiday through his company’s holiday purchase scheme so he gets an extra three weeks off work this year.

The result? We are two HIGHLY productive individuals now contributing less to the economy because it’s not worth our while. Why stress out for 55 hours a week like we use to?

My company btw hasn’t given a cost of living of payrise to anyone since 2021 and announced same again this year.

Oh and I work in the finance team where I have the pleasure of seeing the colossal bonuses that our executives earn.

The problem is capitalism is failing us, and we are all arguing amongst ourselves over the scrap at the bottom.

Socialism is definitely not at work.

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 08:55

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 08:52

The only other tax free vehicle is premium bonds.

You don’t need a financial advisor for this kind of advice at this level.

There are others.

No, many people can work this out without needing a financial advisor. Seems the PP isn't one of them though.

Scottishhens · 11/05/2026 08:54

HelmholtzWatson · 11/05/2026 07:53

I frame this differently. I'm fairly marginally in the 40% tax band, and anticipate that in the medium- to long-term I'll go significantly deeper.

However, I won't view this as earning more money. I'll view it as earning more time off. We can buy holiday, so I'll keep my money below the threshold by doing this. Once I earn enough that a 4-day week will earn me around the threshold, I'll move down to 4 days. I'll do the same if I earn enough that a 3-day week will do the same.

Once you earn around £3k a month, an extra £500 or even £1000 can't buy as much happiness as the time doing things other than work will.

All this points towards a shift in tax brackets so there is less of a cliff edge so perhaps 20 going to 25pc at £40k, 27pc at £45k....

Choccyp1g · 11/05/2026 08:54

Chocolateapot · 10/05/2026 22:19

I have finally after many many years of studying progressed in my career to just slightly above the 40% tax threshold. Unfortunately I’ve realised this now means any additional income I earn is now taxed at 40%, student loan 9% and 2% national insurance, essentially giving a marginal tax rate of 51%.

Not sure why I bothered tbh

Because you get to keep the other 49%

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 08:52

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 08:51

There are other tax-free vehicles she can use. I won't elaborate since I'm not in the business of giving free financial advice. A good financial advisor can help her.

The only other tax free vehicle is premium bonds.

You don’t need a financial advisor for this kind of advice at this level.

Scottishhens · 11/05/2026 08:52

notthatoldchestnut · 10/05/2026 22:43

Pay more into your pension. Yes you won’t see it til you retire, but it’s better in your pocket than the tax man’s

Yes this, make voluntary contributions to your pension to keep it below the threshold, the gov gives you the tax back in to your pension. Also keeps you below the child benefit threshold and you get a large tax free allowance for savings interest (1000 instead of 500 I think)

HayfeverComethAndThatRightSoon · 11/05/2026 08:52

luckylavender · 11/05/2026 08:49

Such nonsense. Look at what came before. It wasn't socialism that started this.

Quite. School meals (or milk?) were introduced when the Boer War showed that most British men of fighting age were malnourished and unable to fight. They wouldnt have been fighting for their freedom, they would have been fighting for the rich men of Britain.
As today, the rich men made the state pay to fix their problem, so they could get richer.

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 08:51

Lingostar · 11/05/2026 08:46

Really sorry if I’m being dim about this - but does this mean that if your take home gross salary is, for example, 99k - you will actually take home LESS than if you earn 101k?

And if you lose the 12k personal allowance, what gross salary do you need to be on to make that up? 112k?

You lose £1 of personal allowance for every £2 of earnings between £100-125k.

The childcare is the killer as it’s removed at a cliff edge. My childcare is worth ~£2k a month of tax free childcare and free hours (the actual bill is more than double that…).

So if I earn a penny over £100k I lose ~£25k net. To earn that back, I need to earn ~£155k.

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 08:51

MidnightPatrol · 11/05/2026 08:39

Can you elaborate on why she is wrong?

There is no tax free savings for income >£125k and so this will be taxed at 45%.

Yes you can use an ISA - but given the pp is trying to buy a house, they may have more cash than that.

There are other tax-free vehicles she can use. I won't elaborate since I'm not in the business of giving free financial advice. A good financial advisor can help her.

GiaGia16 · 11/05/2026 08:51

IsawwhatIsaw · 11/05/2026 08:46

My DS has told me several people he knows have dropped a day or two a week to reduce tax. He says he can see public services and infrastructure are under huge strain. He pays for a private dentist and has seen a GP privately. He’s fortunate to be able to do that.
Labour have few options, our debt is now trillions, we hardly make anything here anymore. We need a serious discussion about welfare spending and supporting business

“We need a serious discussion about welfare spending and supporting business”

That ship appears to have sailed under Labour.

PrimeSeason · 11/05/2026 08:51

Just wait until you earn £100k and lose your personal allowance… and take home LESS than before!

orangegato · 11/05/2026 08:50

Thank socialism for that x

Nottodaty · 11/05/2026 08:49

As others I’m happy to shoulder the tax burden , but I feel that how that money is spent doesn’t feel right.

I want a disabled person to have the right support and financial help needed.

What does upset me is when I see a person choosing to working part time with top ups from UC, then judging others having to go to FT nursery saying they must be a awful mother….those parents working FT pays into the system that pays your UC.

That feels quite shit to be honest, and I’m seeing more of those high income people reducing hours and retiring a little earlier. Which impacts the money going into the welfare system.

We have to all pay our taxes fairly (billionaires as well) but we can’t keep pointing and asking one group, it’s a pyramid system and it’s creaking badly.

Seymour5 · 11/05/2026 08:49

Don’t forget free school meals; free adult dentistry and prescriptions; no travel to work costs; access to many discounted children’s clubs (our leisure centre advertises them); no need for smart work clothes; Cold Weather payments. Plus as a SAHM shopping around can save on food costs etc. I’m long retired, worked since my DC were small, but as an ex housing worker, and a volunteer for a charity, I’ve met many women who could have worked but preferred the option not to - reason given - because they had children. Some were also being supported by the children's father/s.

The real hardship comes later, when they no longer have dependent children, and are on much reduced benefits, often in a property that is too big, and their housing benefit is reduced due to the what is known as ‘bedroom tax’. Hard to start at forty or older with no work history.