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This is an average amount of clothing.

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Pamnn82 · 09/05/2026 21:22

29 dresses, mostly summer but that also includes, 8 occasion dresses (parties, weddings, funerals)
11 pairs of jeans.
19 trousers, half summer, half autumn/winter.
68 tops.
17 jumpers.
21 cardigans.
18 shorts.
7 coats.
2 denim jackets.
5 gym sets.
9 trainers.
8 sandals.
6 boots.
8 swimsuits.
4 swim coverups.

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Lilyhatesjaz · 17/05/2026 21:05

I have coloured hangers in my wardrobe that I use to divide my clothes into sections, and worn and unworn. I have put all my summer things in the wardrobe and as it gets warmer will wear them in turn, any I don't like anymore when I put them on go in the charity bag.

LaurieFairyCake · 17/05/2026 19:38

lol, I’ve got at least 100 silk shirts/tops

balabusta · 17/05/2026 14:36

Thanks to this post, I just had a count of mine and its very similar in numbers to yours op for the main items. I also have blazers/jackets for work but no denim jackets and different shoe set up - but still very similar.

It doesn't seem too excessive. Some of my clothes I've had for 30 years. I've also moved countries to very different climates over the years. I also travel for work to countries with very different expectations of what is appropriate for women to wear so i have some different items for those countries that i don't wear elsewhere

Plus had some phases of weight gain and weight loss. Nothing massive but there have been times where some of my clothes didnt fit or look good.

Plus I love mooching through charity shops for a bargain and bought stuff I dont need.

So, no, not excessive to me even if above average

Swissrailways · 11/05/2026 23:29

Elsvieta · 09/05/2026 22:08

No shoes that aren't trainers / sandals / boots?

Otherwise, yeah, that's bonkers.

That's all I have in footwear. No 'proper' shoes at all.

SinuousTendrils · 11/05/2026 23:12

Amateur. My lovely mum had 26 silk shirts alone. 250 skirts, almost 300 pairs of shoes!

HeyHoHenryHippy · 11/05/2026 23:11

MN's moaning they cannot afford x, y or z due to the 'cost of living' 😂

HeyHoHenryHippy · 11/05/2026 23:07

Kleptronic · 09/05/2026 21:26

68 tops?? Kinell

Landfill. Who needs that much.

HeyHoHenryHippy · 11/05/2026 23:07

UniquePinkSwan · 09/05/2026 21:24

You know it’s not average

Indeed it's not. It's a shopping habit.

PhaedraTwo · 11/05/2026 23:05

Pamnn82 · 11/05/2026 17:56

I have a friend who lives in dresses, with sandals in the summer and long woollen ones with knee high boots in the winter, she always looks amazing… It’s not a look I would suit though.

Most of my winter skirts and dresses are long midi or just above ankle length and winter coats are long so not sure why a pp was going on about there being a gap.

I try to wear all my clothes as regularly as I can. I wear something different every day and always change when I get home from work into a different dress or skirt, not pyjamas. At weekends if I'm going out in the evening I'll change from what I wore during the day.

MidnightMeltdown · 11/05/2026 18:08

Doesn’t sound wildly excessive to me. I probably have a similar amount. I definitely don’t have 29 dresses, probably fewer than 10, but I do have some skirts, which you don’t seem to have?

I think I also have fewer shorts, jeans, tops and trainers than you.

Pamnn82 · 11/05/2026 17:56

PandaKitty · 11/05/2026 16:03

I have too many clothes, I’m not sure how much I’ve got of everything and a lot doesn’t get worn but I do love clothes. I’ve been good this year as skint. Think I’ve maybe spent £300 since January, this includes new running trainers as old ones done. I think your amount probably is average or just slightly higher. I definitely think some people (not all) will under estimate the amount of clothes they have so they can look down on those who have a weakness for clothes and say they are frivolous. I agree that tights and a dress with long boots is very cosy…can’t say I see many people wearing long skirts/dresses any more though in the winter, not for a long time

I have a friend who lives in dresses, with sandals in the summer and long woollen ones with knee high boots in the winter, she always looks amazing… It’s not a look I would suit though.

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PandaKitty · 11/05/2026 17:51

timoteigirl · 11/05/2026 17:16

There is an article on I thought I didn’t shop much … until I counted my clothes | Shopping | The Guardian about this topic - look at the numbers there.

Just had a read. Very interesting. I was definitely buying clothes too to fill an insecurity then would feel ashamed. Now that I’ve dropped the shame and embraced the fact that I love clothes and I love shopping (fast fashion and sustainability issues aside) I actually buy less

PandaKitty · 11/05/2026 16:03

I have too many clothes, I’m not sure how much I’ve got of everything and a lot doesn’t get worn but I do love clothes. I’ve been good this year as skint. Think I’ve maybe spent £300 since January, this includes new running trainers as old ones done. I think your amount probably is average or just slightly higher. I definitely think some people (not all) will under estimate the amount of clothes they have so they can look down on those who have a weakness for clothes and say they are frivolous. I agree that tights and a dress with long boots is very cosy…can’t say I see many people wearing long skirts/dresses any more though in the winter, not for a long time

Gossipisgood · 11/05/2026 13:51

I* have way more than that but I'm aware that I'm a bit of a hoarder. I keep meaning to go through everything & get rid but can't bring myself to sort it all out because I know I'll regret letting things go.

louderthan · 11/05/2026 08:43

I have way more shoes and bags than you OP! Easily 20 pairs of trainers, probably more.
I’m also very impressed that you have managed to find 11 pairs of jeans that you like! I can’t find one…!

Rhaenys · 11/05/2026 08:36

This has intrigued me as to how many clothes I have. I think I have a regular amount of ‘normal’ clothes, but perhaps have too many novelty clothes. For example, I’ve got 4 Christmas jumpers, but only 1 regular jumper. I’ve also got a disproportionate amount of trainers compared to other shoes.

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 07:53

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 00:01

Primark sell them. I can't remember the brand I have - I'll have to check.

@Purplewarrior This is the brand I have: https://loveyourlegs.co.uk/products/warmlegs-fleece-lined-tights

Warmlegs Fleece Lined Tights

Thermal tights to keep you nice and warm throughout those cold winter days!

https://loveyourlegs.co.uk/products/warmlegs-fleece-lined-tights

Beastieboys · 11/05/2026 01:39

I have about that amount of clothes.......I'm trying really hard to down size but if it doesn't leave the house there and then it gets cycled back til next time 😖

Bransle · 11/05/2026 01:14

Pamnn82 · 09/05/2026 21:22

29 dresses, mostly summer but that also includes, 8 occasion dresses (parties, weddings, funerals)
11 pairs of jeans.
19 trousers, half summer, half autumn/winter.
68 tops.
17 jumpers.
21 cardigans.
18 shorts.
7 coats.
2 denim jackets.
5 gym sets.
9 trainers.
8 sandals.
6 boots.
8 swimsuits.
4 swim coverups.

omg. So, I have:

3 dresses for summer
0 pairs of jeans.
0 trousers, half summer, half autumn/winter.
5 tops (tunic tops to wear with leggings)
0 jumpers.
2 black cardigans.
0 shorts.
1 coat
0 denim jackets.
0 gym sets.
1 trainers.
0 sandals.
1 boots.
0 swimsuits.
0 swim coverups.

pius…

7 pairs of black leggings :)
1 pair of pretend crocs
10 black long/short sleeved tops to wear with leggings under my 5 tops.
3 pairs of pjs

I’m so rubbish at clothes shopping ;( I literally wear clothes till they wear out, and do 1 wash per week 🤣

Where do you all store so many clothes? My clothes fit in a chest of drawers, my built in wardrobe is storage for things like extra bedding, paperwork etc.

blueshoes · 11/05/2026 00:33

LeekFirst · 10/05/2026 22:55

I have two pairs of jeans, one pair of wide legged linen trousers, maybe about five or six summer dresses and one or two smart ones. I'm not sure how many tops and jumpers but they all fit in two drawers. I have quite a lot of gym/casual stuff (leggings, joggers, sweat shirts) which is most of what I wear day to day because I work mostly from home. I'd love to rationalise further and have everything in beautiful fabrics - that's my long term goal.

I wish I was as disciplined. My wardrobe cries out for a clear out but I cannot find the time :(

I also need to steel myself emotionally to give away my things as some of them I wore when I was a sweet young thing. I think I will have to photograph the items first before I can let go.

TheCompactPussycat · 11/05/2026 00:01

Purplewarrior · 10/05/2026 13:43

Well no, because there would be a draughty gap. Unless you’re talking about ankle length skirts? You seem to be taking this thread terribly personally and seriously!

I am very interested in these fur lined tights @TheCompactPussycat . Where do you get them from please?

Primark sell them. I can't remember the brand I have - I'll have to check.

lilkitten · 10/05/2026 22:57

I have one of most things (jeans, shorts, swimsuit), maybe 5 t-shirts, 2 cardigans, 2 dresses. I only buy it if I'm going to really wear it. Maybe it's my autism. With shoes I have one of each type (boots, trainers, flip-flops, heels).

LeekFirst · 10/05/2026 22:55

I have two pairs of jeans, one pair of wide legged linen trousers, maybe about five or six summer dresses and one or two smart ones. I'm not sure how many tops and jumpers but they all fit in two drawers. I have quite a lot of gym/casual stuff (leggings, joggers, sweat shirts) which is most of what I wear day to day because I work mostly from home. I'd love to rationalise further and have everything in beautiful fabrics - that's my long term goal.

SoManyTshirts · 10/05/2026 22:50

I have

26 dresses
27 ‘bottoms’ - jeans, skirts, shorts, leggings
14 coats and jackets
27 jumpers, cardigans and fleeces
50 tops, from vests and T shirts to fancy shirts and tunics.

Much less workout gear and footwear than OP, hiking gear included in the above.

It feels like a lot and I keep a spreadsheet to stop myself buying unnecessary duplicates. I’ve been the same dress size for many years but only a handful of items are more than 10 years old.

But … weddings to go to, I’m obliged to get more stuff. I chose this name for a reason.