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The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others

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Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

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Crikeyalmighty · 10/05/2026 17:22

sleepwouldbenice · 10/05/2026 17:19

As someone who is politically quite central….

to be clear OP, you complain that all right wind reform voters are labelled as being the same then promptly label left wing voters as the same…. Right…..

Yep ! As I tried to say below we are not a homogenous bunch - I’m centrist left but have the odd right wing view - I wouldn’t for instance have lifted the 2 child cap.

just as everyone who is somewhat right wing isn’t a Brexiter or votes Reform

sleepwouldbenice · 10/05/2026 17:19

As someone who is politically quite central….

to be clear OP, you complain that all right wind reform voters are labelled as being the same then promptly label left wing voters as the same…. Right…..

Crikeyalmighty · 10/05/2026 17:07

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 15:02

I would describe myself as 'old labour' and certainly don't think unfettered immigration is a good thing (and, incidentally, isn't what's happening - net migration has fallen from close to a million to under 200k in the last couple of years).

Questions around how many people are in the country, where they come from, what skills they have etc. are really complicated, and cut across everything else - pensions, healthcare, economic growth etc. It's been done to death, but one key factor is that our low birth rate, combined with people living longer, is stressing state pensions, the NHS and a few other things.

'Importing' people so that that demographic makeup changes has worked in some ways but not others. I'm not daft enough to think that cultural integration is a non-issue, but some of the frothing about (particularly) Islam, under cover of 'legitimate concern', is old-school race hate straight out of the 1930s play book. How on earth has this become our main political football when there's so much else going on.

Couldn’t agree more .

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 17:07

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 15:39

eh? We can read your post. That is the 'context!' You havent been taken out of context at all.

Agreed 100%. 'The white working classes can safely be ignored'. We have the context and the sentiment. Thanks Bella.

'InstantlyBella · Today 11:02
The voters will naturally switch over to the Green Party, who are more sympathetic to the plight of minorities both here and overseas.
But ultimately, if you claim to be someone of the left, you need to put all Party politics aside and come together to invite as many people to this island as you can before 2028. Get everybody naturalised and start aggressively marketing policies that these people genuinely are concerned about. The white working class can safely be ignored, they are a diminishing demographic and this is their final act of defiance against what is good for them.
That is what needs to happen. Hopefully the left can see the bigger picture and come together to make the future we all want a certainty.
5MinuteArgument · Today 10:56
I think this is actually the thinking behind govts who have enabled mass immigration, from Blair onwards: import the next generations of voters.
Trouble is you get a reaction, which we are seeing now in the success of Reform and the loss of votes for Labour. Ironically even Tony Blair has come out and said we need to get a grip on our borders.
InstantlyBella · Today 10:05
If it was up to me, I would open the borders for the next few years leading up to the next national election and give citizenship to every single person who comes here. Make sure they drown out Reform's votership completely.
Then the right will never get anywhere in UK politics ever again.'

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Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 17:00

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:15

I'm accusing you of saying and doing nothing to refute that poster, which is true. You replied to me in a heart beat saying that she (i presume) is only one person and not representative of the left, so I pointed out that you weren't at all motivated to reply with refutation or condemnation. You had the time and opportunity to refute that person's posts if you found them abhorrent, as evidence by how quickly you responded to me. I simply pointed out which posts get you animated you and which ones seemingly don't.

Absolutely. Your point is accurate and well made.

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Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 16:59

HappyMamma2023 · 10/05/2026 16:11

A old friend from school has 3 close family members who are Labour councillors. At the weekend one of them received some aggro from Reform supporters when they were canvassing, which is uncalled for. She then posted on FB and the replies and comments suddenly became vicious with her FB friends stating Reform supporters should be deported and locked up in a cage like Trump. Now I'm not a Reform voter, but it was eye opening and sad to see these Labour supporter's replies. All sounded pompous and several suggested Reform supporters weren't as intelligent. You can't win a debate when you argue this way.

Yes. that's a clear real life example of the phenomenon. And it is repeated over and over.

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Gallowayan · 10/05/2026 16:38

Yawn

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:34

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 16:16

For the avoidance of doubt, Somerford, and unlike the PP, I don't give a monkeys what you think.

I hope I've made that clear.

Good for you, bye now.

ReginaPhalange1989 · 10/05/2026 16:32

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 14:35

You wrote:

we should really be angry at (billionaires)

Ok, go ahead. How does that help. As I asked. The billionaires are leaving, how much richer are you as a result?

If they all left, do you think you will be richer.

We should be angry at billionaires. No one person needs that much money.

Gallowayan · 10/05/2026 16:25

Zzz

PeopleLikeColdplayYouCantTrustPeopleJez · 10/05/2026 16:22

Well if the bloke from the Sex Pistols says this, he must be on to something. He is after all known to be a very intelligent , measured man.

EasternStandard · 10/05/2026 16:21

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 16:15

Same here. I'll be fine, I'm a few years of retirement, when I die, my kids will be loaded. A conservative government works fine for me personally. Reform, who knows.

My mum still lives on the estate I grew up on. I won't say exactly where but it's faintly notorious, and there have been riots on a few occasions that have made the news. There's a cliche that 90% of people who live there are decent, and it's the other 10% that ruin it, and from what I've seen that's true.

Anyway, throughout my long adult life, I've been able to see that things have got better for the decent, (mostly) hardworking, but disadvantaged people on that state when there's been a labour government, and things have gone to shit when the Tories have been in power. It's that more than anything else that informs my views - the government should seek to reduce the worst excesses of capitalism, we should pay more money for better public services, there should be a safety net for the poorest, and the best off (which includes me at this point) should bear a disproportionate share of the burden.

It's almost as if there right can't believe that people care about anyone other than themselves.

I think Labour will have some nearly retired / retired or well off but generally more don’t agree they’re doing well as a gov.

cardibach · 10/05/2026 16:20

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:15

I'm accusing you of saying and doing nothing to refute that poster, which is true. You replied to me in a heart beat saying that she (i presume) is only one person and not representative of the left, so I pointed out that you weren't at all motivated to reply with refutation or condemnation. You had the time and opportunity to refute that person's posts if you found them abhorrent, as evidence by how quickly you responded to me. I simply pointed out which posts get you animated you and which ones seemingly don't.

Ok. So you are just looking for offence. Fine.

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 16:16

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:15

I'm accusing you of saying and doing nothing to refute that poster, which is true. You replied to me in a heart beat saying that she (i presume) is only one person and not representative of the left, so I pointed out that you weren't at all motivated to reply with refutation or condemnation. You had the time and opportunity to refute that person's posts if you found them abhorrent, as evidence by how quickly you responded to me. I simply pointed out which posts get you animated you and which ones seemingly don't.

For the avoidance of doubt, Somerford, and unlike the PP, I don't give a monkeys what you think.

I hope I've made that clear.

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 16:15

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/05/2026 15:36

It's ironic to complain about nastiness from the left, given that you've started a whole thread that's inspired by nastiness yourself. But whatever.

I certainly wouldn't say I'm inconsolable. I'm frustrated but resigned.

It's sad to watch a country that you love take the wrong direction, and there is something rather pitiful about people who are already disadvantaged being manipulated into voting for people who are going to make their lives much worse. But increasingly, my sympathy is waning, and there is a growing part of me that thinks fuck them, let them have what they think they want and they can then stew in a cesspit of their own making. People ultimately get the governments that they deserve.

I am fortunate in that I have money and options, so I won't be too badly affected by the worst of it. I do feel incredibly sorry for those who don't want Reform and don't have the privileges that will enable them to weather the storm, but I am gradually starting to accept that there isn't actually much that I can do to help them at this point.

Same here. I'll be fine, I'm a few years of retirement, when I die, my kids will be loaded. A conservative government works fine for me personally. Reform, who knows.

My mum still lives on the estate I grew up on. I won't say exactly where but it's faintly notorious, and there have been riots on a few occasions that have made the news. There's a cliche that 90% of people who live there are decent, and it's the other 10% that ruin it, and from what I've seen that's true.

Anyway, throughout my long adult life, I've been able to see that things have got better for the decent, (mostly) hardworking, but disadvantaged people on that state when there's been a labour government, and things have gone to shit when the Tories have been in power. It's that more than anything else that informs my views - the government should seek to reduce the worst excesses of capitalism, we should pay more money for better public services, there should be a safety net for the poorest, and the best off (which includes me at this point) should bear a disproportionate share of the burden.

It's almost as if there right can't believe that people care about anyone other than themselves.

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:15

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:56

Not at all unless you are looking for offence. What are you accusing me of, exactly? Disdain for the working classes? Absolutely not. As I said, that poster was being dealt with effectively by another person. When I came on, you had just attacked everyone by saying we were all like that, so I was pointing out we weren’t. You got deleted for that attack, I see.

I'm accusing you of saying and doing nothing to refute that poster, which is true. You replied to me in a heart beat saying that she (i presume) is only one person and not representative of the left, so I pointed out that you weren't at all motivated to reply with refutation or condemnation. You had the time and opportunity to refute that person's posts if you found them abhorrent, as evidence by how quickly you responded to me. I simply pointed out which posts get you animated you and which ones seemingly don't.

Gallowayan · 10/05/2026 16:12

Yawn.

HappyMamma2023 · 10/05/2026 16:11

A old friend from school has 3 close family members who are Labour councillors. At the weekend one of them received some aggro from Reform supporters when they were canvassing, which is uncalled for. She then posted on FB and the replies and comments suddenly became vicious with her FB friends stating Reform supporters should be deported and locked up in a cage like Trump. Now I'm not a Reform voter, but it was eye opening and sad to see these Labour supporter's replies. All sounded pompous and several suggested Reform supporters weren't as intelligent. You can't win a debate when you argue this way.

summerchild82 · 10/05/2026 16:11

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:24

Ha ha - I see the utterly nasty side of the left has been awoken now. Poor things, it's been a tough old few days. They must be inconsolable behind closed doors.

You sound like you're only here to bait people - and that's a very unpleasant trait.

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:56

Somerford · 10/05/2026 15:43

I didn't say you were required to respond to every post, I just pointed out that you hadn't felt the need to reply to this particular poster's awful posts but you jumped on mine within minutes. As I said, interesting.

Not at all unless you are looking for offence. What are you accusing me of, exactly? Disdain for the working classes? Absolutely not. As I said, that poster was being dealt with effectively by another person. When I came on, you had just attacked everyone by saying we were all like that, so I was pointing out we weren’t. You got deleted for that attack, I see.

Dragonscaledaisy · 10/05/2026 15:54

People ultimately get the governments that they deserve.

Very true. We're certainly seeing this with the current Labour government.

Somerford · 10/05/2026 15:43

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:01

I’m not required to respond to every post. Another poster was in discussion with that poster and doing an excellent job at refuting her. I sent her thanks and agreement responses. But obviously I’m a horrible person because I chose not to weigh in myself. What was that about the left being self righteous and shaming people again?

I didn't say you were required to respond to every post, I just pointed out that you hadn't felt the need to reply to this particular poster's awful posts but you jumped on mine within minutes. As I said, interesting.

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 15:39

InstantlyBella · 10/05/2026 11:18

I just want to clarify by the way that when I stated that they could be safely ignored, I meant the anti-immigration and pro-patriotism aspect of the white working class. Not every person from that particular community. Don't take me out of context please.

eh? We can read your post. That is the 'context!' You havent been taken out of context at all.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/05/2026 15:36

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:24

Ha ha - I see the utterly nasty side of the left has been awoken now. Poor things, it's been a tough old few days. They must be inconsolable behind closed doors.

It's ironic to complain about nastiness from the left, given that you've started a whole thread that's inspired by nastiness yourself. But whatever.

I certainly wouldn't say I'm inconsolable. I'm frustrated but resigned.

It's sad to watch a country that you love take the wrong direction, and there is something rather pitiful about people who are already disadvantaged being manipulated into voting for people who are going to make their lives much worse. But increasingly, my sympathy is waning, and there is a growing part of me that thinks fuck them, let them have what they think they want and they can then stew in a cesspit of their own making. People ultimately get the governments that they deserve.

I am fortunate in that I have money and options, so I won't be too badly affected by the worst of it. I do feel incredibly sorry for those who don't want Reform and don't have the privileges that will enable them to weather the storm, but I am gradually starting to accept that there isn't actually much that I can do to help them at this point.

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:27

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:24

Ha ha - I see the utterly nasty side of the left has been awoken now. Poor things, it's been a tough old few days. They must be inconsolable behind closed doors.

You have been way, way more nasty than those (with one exception) on the left of this discussion. It’s odd. Why aren’t you happy? It’s not been tough for me. I’m a Plaid voter in Wales as it happens. We won. And as for the Labour losses, they weren’t a surprise and they don’t magically make the nasty racism and misogyny of several Reform candidates cool or good.