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The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others

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Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

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Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 08:09

Bringemout · 09/05/2026 21:59

I vaguely remember seeing a tweet Zarah Sultana threw back at JK Rowling the other day. She basically went something along the lines of “why do you have a problem with a brown, socialist, muslim woman”. I thought it was really interesting, she didn’t say why she thought Rowling was wrong, she went straight to a list of identities to paint herself as a victim who has moral authority due to her victims status over Rowling.

In this world view JK Rowling should not challenge her because she’s oppressing someone who is already “oppressed” and that basically makes Rowling a Nazi.

See, I’m a brown woman and I think Sultana’s a bellend, I also don’t like being forced teamed with other brown people for causes that are antithetical to my own values yet this happens around discussions about brown and black people being right wing. People actually try to shame them with their own skin colour.

Any discussion around welfare degenerates into a “why don’t we just eat the poor” hysteria. Theres a lot of “you are doing this because you are just a terrible person”. I hear it most from the left tbh, it’s a lazy way of winning an argument just strawmanning people. Where that doesn’t work people try to use no debate or shut down speakers (saw so much of this happening to GC women). Theres a fragility at the heart of it, it communicates to those of us who don’t mind having someone disagree with us that they have no argument, was it Julie Burchill who coined the phrase “crybully”? Thats what a lot of left wing activism looks like now.

I think it’s an utter pity, ideas get better when they are challenged and tested, it makes the world function better. QT used to be so much better than it is now. Anyone who’s older than 40 can probably remember political debates on TV being authentic, useful and thoughtful, I miss those days.

Agree with every word.

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TeenLifeMum · 10/05/2026 08:05

HedgerowTales · 10/05/2026 02:52

I think what's embarrassing is how little you seem to understand the mood of the country. Mind you Mumsnet has always been sanctimonious lefty central, which does not represent the average person's views.

I’m in Somerset where the voted Lib Dem. That doesn’t mean I can’t sport political gaming and propaganda attempts when I see it to manipulate the “mood of the country”.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 08:01

Nat6999 · 09/05/2026 20:07

The Green Party are the new left, give it 10 years & they will be either in government or the official opposition. In Sheffield they got the biggest percentage of overall votes.

They won’t, they will eat themselves. There are too many tensions in their uneasy alliance of priorities.

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 07:34

Sartre · 10/05/2026 07:02

There are issues on the left mainly around free speech. I’ve found this irritating as an academic who very much believes in the university as an institution of precisely this - free expression and unrestrained exchange of knowledge. I heard Tommy Robinson was booked to speak at Oxford uni and thought, good, why not. I don’t think ‘controversial’ speakers should be banned from universities and I equally hate the notion of a person being attacked for having a different opinion e.g Kathleen Stock at Sussex.

I spoke at length to my students about this once after I mentioned Jordan Peterson and had two students basically lay into me. I asked if they had read his books, they hadn’t so I said they should do that first before attempting to argue. I read literature from all sides of the political spectrum, it’s part of being a critical thinker (as I told them).

I agree with this! I've been trying to get my kids to read Mein Kampf for years, and they just keep saying it's a load of incoherent racist drivel.

Young people nowadays! Give me strength!

Sartre · 10/05/2026 07:02

There are issues on the left mainly around free speech. I’ve found this irritating as an academic who very much believes in the university as an institution of precisely this - free expression and unrestrained exchange of knowledge. I heard Tommy Robinson was booked to speak at Oxford uni and thought, good, why not. I don’t think ‘controversial’ speakers should be banned from universities and I equally hate the notion of a person being attacked for having a different opinion e.g Kathleen Stock at Sussex.

I spoke at length to my students about this once after I mentioned Jordan Peterson and had two students basically lay into me. I asked if they had read his books, they hadn’t so I said they should do that first before attempting to argue. I read literature from all sides of the political spectrum, it’s part of being a critical thinker (as I told them).

HedgerowTales · 10/05/2026 02:52

TeenLifeMum · 09/05/2026 18:20

The efforts to sway political views on here are getting embarrassing. I wonder if there’s a mn team set up to target mums and this was their solution 🙄

I think what's embarrassing is how little you seem to understand the mood of the country. Mind you Mumsnet has always been sanctimonious lefty central, which does not represent the average person's views.

rainingsnoring · 10/05/2026 02:23

Who are you referring to as 'The Left' exactly @Northermcharn? You haven't made that clear. You've just thrown in a quote that is meant to be inflammatory.
Who are you referring to as the cool right who are putting a finger up at the establishment? Farage? Trump? They literally are the establishment and I struggle to describe either of them as 'cool', especially the one that is bombing the shit out of Iran, blockading Cubans, causing economic collapse and starvation, supporting Genocide in Gaza. Really, really not cool imo.

If what you actually mean is that Labour are no longer the part of the working class or working people and are essentially the same as the Tories, then I agree with you.

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 02:03

halfpastten · 10/05/2026 01:18

I agree OP. Have also been thinking about this. The naked contempt the left now have for the working class. The left is now - Labour, the professional lanyard class, and the Greens, urban 'progressives' (a medical condition you do not want to have). They are sneering while they punch down. I am not a reform voter, but I do not believe all those who've moved over to reform are idiots or bigots. They are mostly working class people who are sick of being ignored and insulted by student politicians who think they are their betters. They are sick of shallow identity politics and political correctness in place of practical measures. As for Johnny Rotten, he's always been astute, called out Savile years before anyone else, and was dropped from TV appearances as a result. A proper punk who does not care what anyone thinks and knows the establishment when he sees it.

What are your thoughts on their policies? Do you think that any of the rich elite of reform leadership care about working classes? Do you really believe that they are going to make the country any better? Nigel has been quite clear about an insurance based system replacing the NHS, their thoughts about disabled people and SEN children have been abundantly clear, do you trust them to actually improve workers rights when they talk of scrapping legislation designed to protect them?

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 01:58

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 00:43

I don’t refer to any specific legislation. Read again. You have misunderstood.

Then what are the right worried about if the legislation doesn't exist? It is also unlikely to ever exist as no political party is going to implement a policy that increases unemployment? Are they just whipping people into a frenzy over nothing then over imagined policy and legislation?

halfpastten · 10/05/2026 01:18

I agree OP. Have also been thinking about this. The naked contempt the left now have for the working class. The left is now - Labour, the professional lanyard class, and the Greens, urban 'progressives' (a medical condition you do not want to have). They are sneering while they punch down. I am not a reform voter, but I do not believe all those who've moved over to reform are idiots or bigots. They are mostly working class people who are sick of being ignored and insulted by student politicians who think they are their betters. They are sick of shallow identity politics and political correctness in place of practical measures. As for Johnny Rotten, he's always been astute, called out Savile years before anyone else, and was dropped from TV appearances as a result. A proper punk who does not care what anyone thinks and knows the establishment when he sees it.

OneTealShaker · 10/05/2026 00:43

Givemeachaitealatte · 09/05/2026 23:46

I am asking what the employment legislation the right is referring to? You said it, I'm just clarifying what it is. Is this some hypothetical legislation because I don't think anyone left or right would want to implement policy that leads to unemployment?

I don’t refer to any specific legislation. Read again. You have misunderstood.

mjf981 · 09/05/2026 23:53

Agrumpyknitter · 09/05/2026 19:45

Nigel Farage is part of the establishment and has always been so. It’s why he has so much media support. It’s beyond me why working class people think a privately educated former banker has their best interests at heart.

Look at Farage’s voting record he always votes against strengthening worker rights. He’s complained that the minimum wage is too high for youngsters. The cognitive dissonance from
the right is astounding.

It's Trumpism all over again. British people like to think they're far better and more intelligent than Americans but here we are, going down the exact same path.

Givemeachaitealatte · 09/05/2026 23:46

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 23:24

What legislation? I’m not sure what you are asking. What I wrote is clear to understand.

I am asking what the employment legislation the right is referring to? You said it, I'm just clarifying what it is. Is this some hypothetical legislation because I don't think anyone left or right would want to implement policy that leads to unemployment?

Plugg · 09/05/2026 23:39

SapphOhNo · 09/05/2026 23:21

Bore off and pay your VAT on your luxury education.

If it didnt give benefit people wouldn't pay for it.

The benefit is a calm, disruption free classroom which is rare as hens teeth here in Scotland. I know all about it being one of the many parents who’s child - after years of taking a beating daily while teachers watched on, powerless - just refused to attend any more. And who could blame them? But England has vowed to cut ECHPs and just chuck everyone in the same class in the name of inclusion too, so you’ll also soon find terrified kids being used as a punchbag regularly, and endless screeching meltdowns disrupting any for of learning and educational standards plunging rapidly too.

So when this happens to you too, a tip for you. Private schools are an oasis of calm and happiness in comparison. My child has thrived. Despite being 100% against the whole concept of private schooling like you, when the chips were down and we had no other option private schooling was our last resort and it saved us. Better get saving for that VAT!

You almost wonder if England are cutting ECHPs to force more kids back into private schools to undo the financial cost of educating those that left private?

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 23:24

Givemeachaitealatte · 09/05/2026 23:05

You said that the 'right are not unreasonable for insisting employment legislation that leads to higher unemployment is stupidity and what good is further legislation that leads to weaker economy and loss of jobs' - I'm just wondering what that legislation is? I'm just asking about what you said.

What legislation? I’m not sure what you are asking. What I wrote is clear to understand.

SapphOhNo · 09/05/2026 23:21

Plugg · 09/05/2026 22:45

Private schooling and ‘connections’ is such UTTER nonsense. You clearly know absolutely nothing about either how private sector recruitment works or how private schools operate. I’m cringing for you. What a cliche!

Bore off and pay your VAT on your luxury education.

If it didnt give benefit people wouldn't pay for it.

TheSmallAssassin · 09/05/2026 23:12

Someone please make this stop! Nobody is persuading anybody else to change sides, like this, it's just setting up division between people and making us all hate each other.

CurlewKate · 09/05/2026 23:07

Plugg · 09/05/2026 22:45

Private schooling and ‘connections’ is such UTTER nonsense. You clearly know absolutely nothing about either how private sector recruitment works or how private schools operate. I’m cringing for you. What a cliche!

There is a reason cliches are cliches!

Givemeachaitealatte · 09/05/2026 23:05

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 21:49

I don’t know. You’ll have to ask the person who said that employment rights lead to higher unemployment.

You said that the 'right are not unreasonable for insisting employment legislation that leads to higher unemployment is stupidity and what good is further legislation that leads to weaker economy and loss of jobs' - I'm just wondering what that legislation is? I'm just asking about what you said.

10namechangeslater · 09/05/2026 23:05

This thread is batshit

echt · 09/05/2026 23:03

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

It's what John Lydon thinks is all. Who gives a fuck? Also, if you haven't done anything shame worthy, you can't be shamed.

Plugg · 09/05/2026 22:48

Bringemout · 09/05/2026 21:59

I vaguely remember seeing a tweet Zarah Sultana threw back at JK Rowling the other day. She basically went something along the lines of “why do you have a problem with a brown, socialist, muslim woman”. I thought it was really interesting, she didn’t say why she thought Rowling was wrong, she went straight to a list of identities to paint herself as a victim who has moral authority due to her victims status over Rowling.

In this world view JK Rowling should not challenge her because she’s oppressing someone who is already “oppressed” and that basically makes Rowling a Nazi.

See, I’m a brown woman and I think Sultana’s a bellend, I also don’t like being forced teamed with other brown people for causes that are antithetical to my own values yet this happens around discussions about brown and black people being right wing. People actually try to shame them with their own skin colour.

Any discussion around welfare degenerates into a “why don’t we just eat the poor” hysteria. Theres a lot of “you are doing this because you are just a terrible person”. I hear it most from the left tbh, it’s a lazy way of winning an argument just strawmanning people. Where that doesn’t work people try to use no debate or shut down speakers (saw so much of this happening to GC women). Theres a fragility at the heart of it, it communicates to those of us who don’t mind having someone disagree with us that they have no argument, was it Julie Burchill who coined the phrase “crybully”? Thats what a lot of left wing activism looks like now.

I think it’s an utter pity, ideas get better when they are challenged and tested, it makes the world function better. QT used to be so much better than it is now. Anyone who’s older than 40 can probably remember political debates on TV being authentic, useful and thoughtful, I miss those days.

Hard agree with all of this! Who on earth decided that blokes in dresses and cheap wigs who want to be able to get into women’s single sex spaces - sports / jobs / awards etc are ‘the most vulnerable and marginalised of society’.

Plugg · 09/05/2026 22:45

SapphOhNo · 09/05/2026 19:41

I can’t see your face but I assume you typed that with a straight one.

Medical tourism is a rounding error compared to the damage done by austerity and understaffing. The NHS wasn’t broken by migrants, it was broken by political choices.

And we hear the same thing every single time workers get more rights minimum wage, sick pay, maternity leave, weekends. Apparently it’ll destroy the economy. Funny how it never does. Meanwhile parties like Reform openly talk about deregulation and rolling back employment protections, so let’s not pretend the modern right is passionately pro-worker.

As for private schools, nobody’s stopping people using them. But pretending they don’t massively boost access to elite jobs and connections is nonsense. That’s not “envy”, it’s just reality.

Private schooling and ‘connections’ is such UTTER nonsense. You clearly know absolutely nothing about either how private sector recruitment works or how private schools operate. I’m cringing for you. What a cliche!

HoppityBun · 09/05/2026 22:20

Bringemout · 09/05/2026 22:01

I wasn’t that person but I assume they would make the case that it makes employment more expensive for the employer so they hire less or much more carefully.

I’ve looked around and different papers seem to reflect the political stance of the writers. Though the civil service papers suggest the employees laws will benefit the economy.

There’s a Cambridge paper that suggests benefits, but I have no idea of the author’s political positions:

The report also uses the Labour Regulation Index to conduct econometric analysis of the relationship between labour law and the economy over the past 50 years in the UK. This indicates that the new Employment Rights Act is likely to have a small positive effect on employment, representing an increase of around 0.1% in the employment level.

In those areas where the Act breaks new ground for UK law, including zero hours contract laws, analysis indicates that the adoption of similar laws in other OECD countries in the recent past has led to productivity and employment improvements.

https://www.law.cam.ac.uk/press/news/2026/01/cambridge-researchers-coauthor-government-report-new-employment-rights-act

Cambridge researchers coauthor government report on new Employment Rights Act | Faculty of Law

Legal protection for UK workers will move closer to the OECD average, according to a new report coauthored by a team of Cambridge researchers, and published by the Department of Business and Trade. 'Assessing the legal and economic implications of the...

https://www.law.cam.ac.uk/press/news/2026/01/cambridge-researchers-coauthor-government-report-new-employment-rights-act

Bringemout · 09/05/2026 22:14

I do think btw you are seeing that same victimhood narrative in mens rights activists, incely right wing types as well. I think in the Uk it’s very much more a problem on the left, but I wouldn’t be surprised if we suddenly see right wing people do it more.

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