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AIBU to feel so weary of labour voters going on

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livingonstrawbs · 09/05/2026 15:01

I think if people in real life knew I was saying this, they would be shocked or maybe not.

Reform are not my politics but I'm honestly so fed up of labour voting friends lamenting the rise of reform and blaming it all the greens and declaring everyone voting reform to be racist, stupid, ignorant.

Reform absolutely have some racist nutters but I do not believe that councils that were labour for more than 50 years turned reform because everyone became a racist overnight or is ok about racism.

Even saying yesterday that the rise of reform was down to failure of lab/conservative to do do anything other than maintain the status quo for many working class communities, let alone others, and the media to properly question, inform and hold to account farage was met with a barrage of hostility and false accusations. one person genuinely thinks this is all down to zack polanski and that farage has been questioned as hard as he has. Really?!?!

I should say by the way that I am a person of colour, was on free school meals, ended up going to Oxbridge and doing professionally well even if it's not lucrative. that's fine - those are all my choices. I'm miles better off than many other people and I know that. But i'm still very connected to the community i grew up in and see how working class people of all races etc without the same chances are living in immense poverty and the grind that is going on for them. Meanwhile, my very affluent labour voting friends seem to repeat 'labour is the best of a bad bunch.' for who, i say?? maybe for you. but honestly, when life is continualy shit, people do vote for change and will vote for reform or greens.

i'm just sick of being patronised and told i'm stupid, ignorant etc etc.

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Friendlygingercat · 09/05/2026 16:43

Many of the people who voted Reform probably did so for tactical reasons, as did many people who voted Labour in the last GE.

dizzydizzydizzy · 09/05/2026 16:37

YABU. Farage is a dangerous man who blames all problems on outsiders - be it the EU or immigrants. It’s a comforting but all too simple and incorrect mesaage. Brexit has cost the economy £££££s and most of decline is due to decisions of past governments- eg low investment in infrastructure, education, and health, government housing policy ignoring the fact the population is growing, low productivity etc

Katypp · 09/05/2026 16:36

I have heard a narrative a couple of times on the radio that people voted Reform because Labour were bearing the brunt of 14 years of Tory rule and were fed up. In other words, blame the Tories and ignore the mess Labour have made themselves.

UniquePinkSwan · 09/05/2026 16:33

They are tiresome. Their way or the highway

Hallowedturf · 09/05/2026 16:32

Just hide their threads - don’t give them any O2.

Arrowthroughtheknee · 09/05/2026 16:28

I didn't vote Labour and I still think Reform voters are racist and ignorant.

eyeballer · 09/05/2026 16:27

I don’t think moaning about Reform voters is exclusive to labour voters 🤷🏻‍♀️

Boomer55 · 09/05/2026 16:25

We all vote for who we think we will serve us best. At the moment, there’s not much for Labour voters to get superior about.

Best just vote for who you prefer. 👍

Safarisagoody · 09/05/2026 16:23

It’s on here and the blame the tories mantra that makes me groan. Two child cap removed and the benefits bill through the roof, working people struggling to pay for it. It’s the tories fault, don’tcha know.

OneDearWasp · 09/05/2026 16:20

Just my experience so maybe not typical:

I have heard many times reform supporters being told that other people think they are stupid or racist. In fact I've heard this far far more than hearing anyone actually labelling them thus. As I say, just my experience.

Sorry you've had to put up with at divisive language if that's been your experience.

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